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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think my gf does not like me..... To start the story off we met through friends. By giving us each others number. We then hit it off we txt all the time and every night chat on phone for average 2hours (once 7hours) via this voda sim. We live in different cities, but seen eachother before, and were very confident it will work out and we are attracted. So we decided to meet and spend whole day together. I travelled to her. It went off reli well and we were very happy. We kissed and was very intimate. Both claiming we are gf and bf. and i asked, if you do not like me, then just say or to save embarrasement, then text me, she sed nooo, i do like you a lot and we hugged. Ever since that day, she hardly txts, and I txt and sumtimes get ignored, and we dnt chat on fone anymore cuz she "claims" she lost voda sim and cnt get free mins. To talk again all she needs to do is buy new sim for 79p. But it seems that she dnt like me nemore, and has gone off me. She claims she is busy, wen I confronted her and sed are we drifting? and this was after 5 days of not talking. Its been 2weeks since her awkwardness. Havent called in 9days and didnt txt either till 2days ago. I have to make the effort to text but at nyt she ignores the text, so i get 70% chance of reply. i dnt call nemore, cuz i dnt wna be needy, or too wanting. plus the last time i rang, she was on abt how some guy is chatting her up and how he compliments her, and how 4 boys chat her up, this is not sumthin u tell ur bf. I think sumthing is up. plus on msn i think she has blocked me, but cnt say for sure. She too busy to txt/call/meet??? I dnt believe dat. Wat is up with her and how can I fix this problem? btw i dnt want to seem to needy, i have already confronted her, and got busy reply. i need another way to make sure. how can you kno if she reli loves me?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 I'm sorry to say this but I think this girl has dropped you and hasn't had the courtesy to let you know. She's obviously avoiding you and barring a major family crisis or emergency surgery or something like that, she is doing her very best to avoid you.
I think the best thing to do would be to talk to your mutual friends and tell them how much you enjoyed meeting her in person and that you want for things to continue.
But don't hold out too much hope on this. I'm sorry, but she just may not have liked you enough when she met you in person and doesn't know how to break it off with you. It's terribly rude and really rather sad but some people have social problems and don't know how to handle awkward or difficult situations.
I would stop trying to reach her right now after sending one last text telling her that you have taken this as a break up. Give her one last chance to respond and then sadly, I think you're going to have to get over her.
Best wishes.
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