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writes:My husband and I have been fighting a lot lately, I feel like it is over. He wont even look at me, I cook dinner as normal and he wont sit down with my son and I. He leaves as soon as i get home and doesnt talk to me all day or night. I will not back down this time, I am being civil but I will not be a fool. What should I do? I actually want him to leave but dont have the heart to tell him. We have MAJOR issues, but we always just brush it under the rug and move on with our lives. I am fed up living that way and unless things drstically improve... i want out. We havnt talked to for days now.... what can i do. Every time I initiate a conversation it escalates and here we go again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): I do love my husband, I have asked for councelling and he will not go with me. Hes only happy again when i go to him, but i am not doing that anymore. This fight is his fault and I am sick of my feelings being overlooked for his happiness. I love him so much, but i dont think we are good for eachother. we are toxic. we fight more than we love and our fights are nasty. but when we are getting along and everything is good. It really is good and it makes me think that we can be good and loving but he has issues with me that he cannot get over. Same thing for 6 years.... is it time to call it quits? I never wanted a divorice but im not happy any more. At least overall i am not happy. There are times when i am very happy with him. but not overall... I just cant tell myself thats the resolution...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Well you need to ask yourself do you love him? And are you willing to make this marriage work?
If you dont then simply ask him to leave that you cant live this way any longer and its not fair on your soon having to witness his two parents not talking it will effect him more than you would think.
But if you do then sit him down and ask him does he want this marriage to work and that you have run out of patience and things need to change. Ask him to go to marriage councilling with you but it will only work if the both of you are completely honest with each other and are willing to make the effort to put things right.
Good Luck.
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