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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating a wonderful woman for 2.5yrs, I broke up with her because the relationship was in limbo. 3 days passed, I missed her and knew I loved her and want to be with her. 3 months later I convinced her to get back with me.2 months later I'm questioning a couple of things, the biggest I'm struggling with(and always have) is I'm a pretty natural thin guy,to gain i have to workout/since i've been back with her i want to gain weight to feel more comfortable with her. She is the opposite, she is thick and a little overweight(approx 20-25lbs or so) she works out randomly, it not that important to her. Its more important to me. Ultimatley I'm uncomfortable with our physical differences, any thoughts on what I should do? I've thought of marrying her, and I thought of leaving her. It's a battle going on in my mind and heart, if I don't focus on that difference it's all good, if i do it's a different story. Thanks!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 October 2010):
 If this drove you apart once, it will likely do it again. Sadly it is just a matter of time.
You shouldn't have to convince yourself to be with the person you're with. If you find yourself in the situation where you're doing that, then maybe this isn't the relationship for you.
It's natural to miss someone after a relationship ends, but that doesn't mean you should get back together.
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