A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I had a FWB for months, but it was certainly more than sex. He lives abroad so we do not see each other that often. He started to say that the sex bit confused him and he was not able to see things straight. But he also said he finally understood he wants to spend time with me.I got very confused and i am assuming this arrangement is over. But yesterday he texted me and something in these texts seems weird to me. Maybe i am reading everything wrong and he is just acting as a friend. He is really caring saying things like you are my little genius, calling me baby, and saying he cares very much about me, asking me to tell him about my things ... I certainly not behaving this way with my friends but .. who knows ? What is all this about ? I am so confused !!!Thanks.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 I think the relationship has moved on from a purely sexual fling for him. He sounds as if he is looking for a proper relationship with you. If you really want to know, forget texts and emails...call him or get on a plane and see him. If you don't want a full-on relationship with him then it is time to call it quits on the friendship.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Just ask him and then you will know the truth.
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