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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 2 yrs now. When we first met the sex was hot and heavy and I couldn't keep him off me. Then, 6 months later I found out I was pregnant. He already had 2 boys and didn't want any more kids so at first he was not very happy to say the least. While I was pregnant, we still had sex quite a bit right up until the night before I went in to be induced. To make a long story short, the sex died a little after our daughter was born but not that much. He wasn't working so my daughter and I moved in with my parents and he just went wherever until he found a job on a ranch where his pay is living in a camper on the ranch rent free. Sex was okay but now that our daughter is older we have to wait until she is fast asleep. We only go see him on the weekends. I look forward to it and can't wait to jump his bones but he always has an exuse like he's too tired or doesn't feel good or pretty much whatever he can think of. I'm getting sick of it. He says he wants me and there's no one else but I've never felt so unattractive and unwanted in my life. What is his deal?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (22 October 2010):
 Hard to say. I would venture it's due to stress. It could also be because he doesn't want sex to be the only thing in your relationship. You need to talk to him and tell him how it's making you feel. Sometimes life gets in the way and it can make us forget about what our partner's needs are.
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