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writes: How can a man get over thier ex in a month and meet someone right after and claim to be in love with that person?I had been with my ex for 5 1/2 years and now I am 8 1/2 mos pregnant. He left me, a month ago, and then met someone I knew right after. They had only been dating for a month, and they claim they are getting married. But yet he claims he still loves me and he will be there for the baby, but I have so much hatred for him right now. How could he do this to me after 5 1/2 years I been with him? How can men move on so fast?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 October 2010):
Realistically, he probably isn't over her. It's most likely that she's a rebound and within a few years he'll have ended it with her too. Men don't really move on that fast. What we do is transfer feelings from one person to another. The feelings then run out, and we move on again. This other woman is most likely a rebound.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): Chances are he was unsatisfied with things before he ended it and during the last short time he was with you, he got closure because he could see it ending but never said anything.
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