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writes: ill start off by saying that im 16, and im a girl. im also a virgin, but not by choice. if it was up to me, id be having sex all the time. with girls and guys. im bisexual. i go to school online, so im always at home on the computer, and my parents work from 5 am till 7 at night. i get done with my school work in about an hour. so i have all that time to do what i want. usually i get naked and lay on my bed and bring up some lesbain porn on my laptop. its like i cant stop! even writing this is making me want to do it! i was looking through my moms drawers when she was gone one day and found a vibrator and porn! i sometimes go into my parents room and masturbate with that stuff! even when im in the shower! i use the showerhead to orgasm! ive tried using one of them adult friend finder websites to find a girl that could come over when my parents leave but those sites are too complicated. is this normal?! i dont want to stop and im not going to but i feel kind of akward!
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reader, r_a_w_r1645 +, writes (14 November 2010):
honestly, i think its normal. im 15 and am a virgin but want sex. i masturbate a lot too, even when my family is home. but i do it secretly of course. and using your showerhead is fine too cuz i used to do it also. your fine (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): I have a very high sex drive like yourself. I usally masterbate multiple times per day.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 October 2010):
Masturbation is totally normal, but all the time probably isn't. Especially when it's become so habitual that you've been digging through other people's stuff for your next "fix." Also, careful about using porn, the stuff can be addictive if you get used to it. If you honestly can't stop masturbating, as in it's extremely uncomfortable to not do it several times a day, there's a problem. Also those sites to meet other people for sex can be dangerous, especially at your age. There are some real creeps out there.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (22 October 2010):
At 16 your hormones are at their peak...enjoy it while you can once the hormones fold up shop it's over and you'll be living in memory-ville so go-baby-go!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): Wellllllll.....Okay so your home alone...All the time? I get your homeschooled, so am i.What a drag, right? I've never been in this position, no pun intended but id assume itd be normal lol.
So you enjoy it, theres nothing wrong with that. Although, if your home alone all the time it could gues be that your mind and body just says to because there isnt anything better to do. Which is totally understandable in my eyes, i get left alone sometimes and i just clean and i mean CLEAN, like "bleach everything i can" kinda clean. Some will sit and play a video game, sleep, or do stuff on the cpu. You and some other people out there,on the other hand like to masterbate.
Like id said theres nothing wrong with that.
xoxo Take care sweetie!
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reader, uncledarren +, writes (22 October 2010):
when it comes to masturbating i personaly don't think that you should feel akward because it is a natural part of life, it is health and well you just have a high sex drive.
in regards to the online dating i durgest that you get out there and meet real people. online dating can be dangerous and with you only been 16 i wouldn't say it is a great idea but what is a good idea is going out and having friends. living your life will be the best way of meeting somebody safely and untill then just enjoy carry on as normal
hope this advice helps and good luck
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