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writes:Ok, i dont really know how to start this off so im just gonna jump in. me and my boyfriend have been going out for amost a year now. and in that year hes been to jail 10 times. I love him to death. but now he just got out the other day and introduced me to a friend of his who i like and he likes me. now since my boyfriend got out, hes caused too much drama and i told him it was over. but now his friend likes me and my sort of ex boyfriend wants me back. I want a break so i can try things out with the new guy but i feel like its messed up if i do. Then again my current sort of ex has really been getting his shit together and really doesnt want to lose me. what do i do??
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Uhm, what about changing your circle of friends ?- I guarantee you that there are plenty of cool , sexy guys out there, who neither have an arm -long criminal record nor associate with ex-cons.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 October 2010):
Neither. If you can't choose between two people, then neither person is right for you. And, to be honest, I wouldn't trust a guy who's been to jail 10 times. Ans since birds of a feather flock together, I wouldn't trust his friend either. And you can't go on a break to try things with another guy hoping to come back if it doesn't work out. That's not right.
Be single.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Don't date either of them!!!
Good on your sort of ex for actually trying to sort himself out, don't ruin it for him now by getting with his mate. It's so hard to watch the person you love be with somebody else...
I'm sure this 'friend' is nice, but you barely know him. maybe if you had a friend who could join you, and the 4 of you could go out as friends, but don't go jumping into any relationships just yet, everyone is confused, tensions will be running high, just stay single for a while...causes less problems and arguements that way...
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reader, turkishsabre  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 "I love him to death" you said this..but i think you dont..
so dont fool yourself and us as a person who devoted her life to him..if your brain mix that much this means you dont really love him that much..so sit down just think will it go on or not..if you dont want your bf.. give some time at least 6 months then start a new relationship for not to be stay in a situation of jealousy and this is a little bit respect to an ended relationship otherwise you seem to be like a primat that wants everything at the sametime..think about it..
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