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writes:I met this guy on a chat room and after 2 months of talking I found out that he was different to other guys on it. I added him on msn as I do to some other people. It was quite a shock when everyone else who I added on the chat room to msn wanted me to do rude stuff on cam. This boy was different yes I went on cam but he just wanted to get to know me make me feel beautiful. Slowly as the months past I did come to fall for him we talk every day and are always sat on cam to each other. He's also got my mobile number so we really can talk whenever we want. He means the world to me and I really want to meet him. My best mate (guy) has said that he will come with me just to make sure he is ok and totally safe. Do you think I should meet him or not? He makes me feel special and I really don't know what to do. Should I meet him and should I tell my parents about him?
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Well first things first - how old is he? Does he live nearby or a long way away?
Its good that your friend is coming with you - as long as he is not a lot older than you and your friend is coming along (and will stay for the whole duration) then I think it will be fine to meet him.
But you MUST tell your parents - that is crucial. They need to know you are safe, and where you are. Meeting people off the internet can be very dangerous so you need to let them know where you will be, what time you are meeting and what time you will be home.
It is better to tell you parents and be safe, than take a risk and get hurt.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, turkishsabre  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 you must tell your parents and take their advice..sometimes the people who you talk can differ when you face them in real life so before such a thing you must at least let your family know your relationships because they are the most close beings in the world for you..you musnt ignore them with your decisions.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 If you are going to meet him, I do suggest you tell your parents and let them come along with you. If he seems the alright sort, they can let you two have time to get to know each other face to face. Just to be safe.
I hope that helps.
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