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female
age
36-40,
*unkissed10
writes:I have been in a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years he is 24 and I am 21. I love him more than anything, and I know he is the one, and the same goes for him. However..he has been 11 hours away from me since I have started dental school. Which I started in August,and I was just fine, I was all excited to start school(I am done in 4 months)and we were doing great with everything I talk and text with him everyday and I am planning on getting a computer with a webcam so we can skype. I try too visit as much as I can. I actually saw him last week, and it was amazing, and I was sooooo happy, but now I am back in school miserable. Thinking I am going crazy because I miss him terribly. I am a happy person and I want to live a great life but I have ocd, and anxiety and man when it hits the fan it is not fun but I can live with that because usually I can control it and know that what I have is nothing compared to other ppl!! I just want to be able to see this as a time for me to get to know myself, and focus in school, but how do i do that when missing him is on my mind ??????? Someone please tell me I am normal, and this sad depression phase will get better. I get to see him in 3 weeks for his sisters wedding for a few days, and then I have to come back home..then I will see him around christmas/new years for about a week and a 1/2 and then school will be almost over and I am planning on moving where he is, but my parents live where I am, and oh gosh i dont want to live that far away from them, but I love my boyfriend and we talk about getting married, and how he cant wait to call me his wife and have a family. So what the heck is wrong with me ?!?!??!?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): This is normal actually.
I'm in a long distance relationship myself, for about two years and I only see my bf like at least once a year T_T. I don't feel like you do at times, but at one time I did. I was so lonely and misable and crap that relates to it and its not even funny. But I got over it in time. I guess it's a phrase, that we all get pass.
I was in it for like two weeks.
Sorry for not being much help through, the best way to deal with this is keep your mind busy, but that does not take away the problem at hand.
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