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30-35,
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writes:Hello!ok i'm in a bit of a situation, and it's starting to really upset and confuse me.i met a guy, and have been with him 8 months. he's pretty much perfect to me, well mostly. he treats me well. everything was going well, but i started going out a bit more with all my friends and met this guy (as just a friend), he's in my friendship group. anyway as i got to know him more, i realised how much alike he is with me therefore realing how different my boyfriend is.i saw this guy a lot as he was in my friendship group, and he told me he liked me, i liked him but obviously i had a boyfriend so left it.now after 6 ish months of liking me, he still does, and now i'm kind of torn between them both.i've gone on a break with my boyfriend so i can think about it. thing is this guy knows i like him and so i'm scared if i know get back with my boyfriend it looks like i'm messing him about.i haven't even kissed this guy, so it's not like i'm leading him on, we genually have a connection.so do i finish my boyfriend? we have an amazing perfect relationship, but no fun and we never go anywhere together, so should i leave him and start seeing this other guy?my boyfriend would never hurt me, and his parents like me mine like his, everything is right, and this other guy is fun and outgoing and just like me.what do i do?:( xxxxx
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 Well you could try to fix your "amazing perfect relationship"... its very easy to go out places together and have more fun. Break up with him if you want, but keep in mind that things won't be perfect with this new guy either... and the problems that you have with him in a relationship may not be as easy to fix as simply going out more and having fun.
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