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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I want to try having a sexual experience with a woman, but i'm not sure how to go about it. I have been bi-curious for a while now, but i have only ever been involved with men, although, i am a virgin, and i haven't dated many guys, and the guys i have dated have treated me badly sometimes. I guess having sex with a woman could help improve my confidence and it would be something new. I do find women attractive, so i guess i could give it a go. Any advice ?.
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reader, soconfusedhelp  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 i think just starting out with having sex with some girl you dont know is a BAD IDEA. i know what you mean, but i think that you should find someone that wouldnt mind talking and getting to know you better before the sex. why dont you talk to a friend that you trust or maybe even a friend that IS a lesbian/bisexual. im not telling you to go have sex with them, but they may be able to tell you what its like being with a women. i know sex is great, but i dont think thats all you should be looking for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): Whatever happens, don't give up on guys. We aren't all arseholes.
You either have been unlucky, or you just don't know how to tell a decent guy apart from a snake-oil salesman.
Flynn 24
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 you need to take courage and approach another female your'e attracted to.
do this before you date anymore men. i too suspect your'e gay.
it may be why the guys were treating you so bad.
i hope you can find another your'e comfortable with. good luck
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 My gf and I had a threesome with another girl for her to explore that side. We actually asked a few people that we new and surprisingly although most said no they weren't weirded out by it and one did end up doing it with us. You would be the best judge of which friends to ask and I personally think that its best to do it with someone who you can talk to after rather than being a stranger.
Hope this helps and you find someone who you want to experience it with.
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