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writes:HI, my wife and i been seperated for 4 months now. We had our ups and downs but i still lover her and we have a son together. She submitted the divorce and havent pay for it yet but she met her old boyfriend after 4 weeks when she kicked me out and now she wants to get back together with me. Should i take her back and how do i know if she wont see him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): No. She is just using you as her backup plan.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 October 2010):
I've got this sneaking suspicion she's a woman who thought the grass was greener, and now it's not worked out, she's coming back just because it didn't work out, and not because she actually loves you. Personally, I wouldn't take her back. She kicked you out, was having sex with an ex boyfriend, then when that didn't work out came back. That just says to me she loved her ex and not you. If you do want her back, before you take her back you've got insist on counselling. But to be honest, I wouldn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): No. Absolutely not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): Sounds like her ex boyfriend didn't work out like she planned. It sucks you are forever tied to this woman with the child. Or else I would say kick her to the curb. Don't let her walk all over you. Make her pay for what she did. Then, it's your call. But tell her if you ever get a hint the ex or any other man is in the picture you are leaving. For good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): I vote NO, and told my EX the same thing- you made your bed, now lie in it. I'm in a MUCH better place now, with a wonderful wife, great home, and security. Zero Drama and no cheating... life is good.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 Before you take her back tell you that you both need to attend couples counselling .... make it a condition, you both need to work out why she saw him in the first place, and what you can BOTH do to ensure it doesnt happen again.
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