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30-35,
*gmitch
writes:I've been having so much trouble with this guy I work with. A couple of months ago he said to me (while drunk) that he loved me and wanted a relationship with me. For three weeks after that night he never spoke to me, until I found out he has a boyfriend. He said to me he's liked me for ages but he thought I didn't like him so he moved on and met this other guy.It crushed me because I loved this guy so much. The three weeks after where he never spoke drove me crazy. I couldn't stop crying. I thought there was something unbelieveable wrong with me. It really messed me up.Since then I've told him how I feel and he says that I will always be the top of his priority as friends.I've been trying to move on and this week I've been so good. I went on a date with a really nice guy and everything. But I found out that this guy still has feelings for me. He said to a good friend of mine that he doesn't know what to do, he's got a boyfriend but has feelings for me.I love this guy to absalute pieces. He is perfect for me. I've gone through so much pain in the last 2 months because I couldn't be with him. I can never seem to have a chance to speak to him about it.This guy I went on a date with, he's lovely but I don't think of him the same way as this other guy.I've never felt this way about anybody before. It just feels so powerful and when I'm near him, I just feel amazing.I need so speak to him, but I don't know what to say, I don't know what to do. I love him, thats all I know.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (22 October 2010):
 this guy may tell you he wants a relationship and may not- take him aside and ask him what his intentions are. you seem to think that he has to talk to you. but you can talk to him and say you have a big problem and you need a chat.
take control and be direct with him, if you dont it will never happen...
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