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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: We have been out this relationship for some yrs. He cheated but apologized i he was with his new girl but continued to tell me how much he missed me But we still talk but in the mean time he leaves her and goes with someone else. but still continues to tell me he loves me and etc.It has been 2 yrs. since we have brokn up. over 1 1/2 since we started back talking.I havent given up but idk if i should cause it makes me look stupid and foolish b/c he feeds me one line shows the whole facbook world differnt. And tells her differnt. Its so hard b/c i dont want anyone else. and he is the father of my child . :( Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, wish87 +, writes (21 October 2010):
im going through some what of the same thing..my sons father and i have been going in circles for years now..we had our son when we were pretty young..i was 18 he was 24..im 23 now and hes 29...i knw how u feel and my baby dad did the same yours is doing..jus go on with your life..i did..i never really dated other men in that time but i didnt sit around a wait for him either..if he loves u he will come back..my sons father is now wanting to come back and be with me..i think most men have the urge to go out and explore the world b4 they commit to one woman..its a man thing..i believe my sons father had to go out into the world to realise that he belonged home..they dnt want to settle until they are sure of what they want..i dnt knw the intentions of this guy..but i think u should be straight up and ask him..if he cant give u what u need now then u need to move on..as i said if he loves u he will come back to u..dnt sit around and wait for him..show him that u can and will have a life whether hes in it or not
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