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writes:please help to my friend.My friend is a student with me. He had sex with the wife of his house mate and she is now pregnant. My friend is aftraid and still a teenager. He doesnt know what to do, should he tell his housemate's wife to have an abortion?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah Malaysia have to many races. Indian, Chinese, melayu and original Borneo races. If Melayu people cheat on their husband, may be they will go to court. But for other races, government dont care accept muslim religion. Even 100% mistake with malaysian women, government will blame the foreign people. In malaysian police system is not good at all. Here human rights are not realy nice bro.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Still a teenager? Is he underage? Maybe she will be up for statutory rape? If not then all he can do is demand a DNA test. I see you are writing from Malaysia. This is not a country whose laws look favourbly on women who cheat on their husbands. If I were him I would remind her of this.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 No a very bright student sleeping with his housemate's wife. Anyways, he can't make her get a divorce, her body her decision. In order to protect himself, I suggest he demand a paternity test to see if the child is actually his. If not then, no harm done..except for an affair but hopefully with this scare he'll learn his lesson. Now, if the child is his, then it's up to her what is to be done. She'll have to tell her husband eventually, your friend will be forced to pay child support. Or she may have an abortion or give the child up for adoption if her husband is threatening to leave her. Possibly, he could leave her or vice versa then your friend and her can be parents. So many options, possibilities..I suggest you stay out of this mess.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 October 2010):
 He needs to discuss this with her. It's not your business, it's not our business, it's between him and her. They should discuss the option of abortion to see if that's the best option for them, or if something else is the best option. She's already cheated on her husband, and they both didn't use protection. So now the choice is up to them how they want to continue.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 October 2010):
First of all, he needs to be sure it's hers. That means a DNA test. After that, he cant' do anything. He has to do what she wants, because only she can have the abortion. He has to sit there and wait.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 October 2010):
 How does he know it's his for sure?
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 abortion is not how he will get out of the situation.things between them wil never be the same again.what if the woman wants the baby.he should sit down with this woman and discuss what they will do..
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