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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My clitoris is bigger than other parts. Is this normal?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys this is abit embarrasing hence annon, but is it natural for my clitoris to be larger than the other parts of my private parts? Is it bad and do men find it unattractive?... (35 words)

How do I tell Him I still like/love him? A poem? Text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have liked this guy and I have known him since I was in 2nd grade. His parents are close to my entire family so we see each other on weekends.Every since I can remember I have always liked him on and off for 7 years. He is a very sweet and a nice guy, he is perfect for me. ... (261 words)

Am I gay? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I don't know why but for some reasson I was just thinking and I thought I was gay. I'm 13 and I masterbate over normal porn and lesbian I've seen my friends penises before and I have never got hard or boner and I've kissed a girl who I like before and I have never got a crush ... (170 words)

I want her to realize what she has done! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! My gf and I have been in a relationship for almost 2 yrs now. We're both 21 and love each other a lot and have a very good understanding and completely trust each other blindly. We have been having a long distance relationship since the past 5 months now. She... (582 words)

Is there a way you can tell if you are pregnant or not without a pregnancy test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm only 15 years old and my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We've always done sexual stuff but never had sex. We finally had sex but it was only for like 5 minutes or even shorter maybe. and it hurt like hell so he didn't even get it all the way in. and i was ... (163 words)

How do I live with my best friend when I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, Im aaron and Im 19. I live in an apartment with my best friend dereck, we've been friends basically from birth. We're really close so we're really open with each other. I'm gay, and he knows that. And he claims he's straight. But the thing is I've told him that I had ... (218 words)

My boyfriend likes to make me jealous to make himself feel better

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22-years-old and I'm in a relatively new relationship with a guy. We are going on 4 months together, and we've already said "I love you" to each other and I really feel like it's true. My question is about his possesiveness. The other day I went to a night club with my ... (1210 words)

I'm getting threatened because I think I'm not good enough. Is it just paranoia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im having trouble with my boyfriend I love him a lot, and he says he loves me back, and we've been going out for 9 months now, so i feel like i can trust him, but recently we've got a bit distant and i dont see him as much. He's a twin and My best friend is in most of his clas... (151 words)

Is it terrible to stop liking someone because they are fat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Right, I like this girl but shes a bit fat. She's got a great personality and we get on great and she's a good laugh. I'm afraid to ask her out in case I will soon stop liking her because she's big and I don't want to hurt her feelings. I kinda find her attractive and I'm not ... (116 words)

Its been six months, why can't I forget about my much older teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell for one of my teachers last year. I was 18 and he was a 52 year old man who had never been married and had no children (I know that he lives with a woman, but he doesn't marry her because he doesn't believe in marriage). I had no "father issues" or anything like that. I ... (168 words)

If you're a virgin, can you have sex 2 or 3 times in the same day?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, is it possible too loose your virginity but have sex another 2 or 3 times in the same night? Its what my partner wants just want to know if it's safes thanks x... (34 words)

I love her but she keeps going in and out of my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi every 1 ... i neeeeedd heeeelp in late 2005 (5) years ago i received a love note from the hottest girl in my school, i was 13 she apparently had a crush on me and wanted me as her boyfriend of course i accepted, (AND THATS WHEN I HAD MY FIRST LOVE) we loved each other so... (563 words)

I'm sick and sad and can't get over my biology teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys, please help. I can't get over my biology teacher. He's left last year, but I really actually can't get over him and it's really annoying me. Like, I think about him everyday, and I really miss him. I know it sounds stupid but it's kinda making me sad and sick. I have... (71 words)

Caught him staring but he didn't look away! What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Been infatuated with this one guy in the year above me. WE used to have a little 'thing' going on( for like 2 years and a half) but he ended all this last season.Ever since , I have been trying to move on and focus on school and stuff but he keeps interrupting! Scenario: I ... (280 words)

Manager at my new job is causing trouble. How can I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupids. Recently I've just got hired at a local walmart, and Ive been there about a month. Ive gotten really sick with the stomach flu and have called in today a day i know i wasnt working they called telling me Im a no show, I really want to keep this job but one of t... (217 words)

Can we go out without having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well im still a virgin but i wanna have sex just not no and there's this guy who i like n he likes me but if i go out with him does it mean we have to have sex?im rly afraid 2 :( n most ppl say his like a player sumwhat of a man whore plus his friend tolled me he wanted me n ... (84 words)

He makes my hormones race. Do I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this guy. I met him at a summer camp thing...We became friends. Two people at the camp hinted that we looked like a couple/should go out. After the camp finished...We kept contact. Via text. One day I was getting exam results and he texted me good luck with "x" at the e... (157 words)

Why does sex still always hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I do it with my boyfriend I hurt and bleed. There's always enough foreplay that I am well-lubricated, but it always hurts. Any ideas?... (26 words)

I don't want him to know I like him but I want a kiss!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this guy i like is from Arazonia. He comes up to visit his brother that lives with me, he's a year older than me, and well, i think he's cute. He's coming up next month for two weeks. I want something good to happpen between us like a kiss of some sort, but I also ... (70 words)

He uses me because he knows I like him. Is that abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Would you class this as abuse? A guy who only seems to talk to you when he wants sex. Who pretends he cares and likes you then once you've had sex he says you have to leave early in the morning because he's busy. You text him and he ignores it then a few weeks later he s... (109 words)

He's the one I want to marry even though I am young

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sixteen years old, and I want to marry my boyfriend someday. I'm not sure why, and we are very young, but someday, I'd like to. I've been dating him a year, and he's been my best friend for three years. He is my best friend, and I am in love with him. It's like... I m... (149 words)

Help me... I really don't understand this guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im sorry if this is long i just really need help and my friends just do not understand. Me and my crush got together over the summer. He Walked down my house and asked me to be his girl friend. I told him that it probably wouldnt work because my parents are over protect... (381 words)

Stopping and starting the pill

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have stopped seeing my boyfriend and not looking to start another relationship anytime soon, if I stop taking the pill can I then go back on it again after weeks/months/years to protect myself again??... (35 words)

Girlfriend won't stop texting this guy, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I know I've been asking a lot of questions, but definitely this is something I MUST ask. My girlfriend keeps texting behind my back or in front of me while we go out. However, when I ask her to let me see who she's texting she'll never show it to me. Always hides it ... (354 words)

We love each other one minute but are mean to each other the next minute!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs. i love him so much, but i dont know what to do. 4 months into our relationship he left me to get back with his ex, it literally broke my heart. he realised he made a mistake and we got back together. ever since then iv never been ... (384 words)

How much added protection does the pulling out method provide?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How much added protection does pulling out really provide? I went on the pill so we didn't have to bother with condoms anymore, but he insists on pulling out on top of that. Does that really help? It seems so unecessary to me. It's not very romantic having him ejaculate all ... (60 words)

How can I just go with the flow with dating and not obsess over everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been single for nearly three years after a healthy, long-term relationship. I've been told I am very attractive and I have been fortunate enough to meet quite a few men in these three years who have been interested in me but nothing ever seems to develop with them. I ha... (354 words)

What do I do with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive been goin out with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now. I know it's not long compared to other relationships, but its the longest relationship ive been in. Im good friends with some of his friends, so i would be afraid if i dumped him i wud lose their friendships. When ... (173 words)

What should I do if I sit next to the girl I like in school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have to sit next to my crush in school because of a sitting plan. I've never talked to her before, and I think she likes me. I want to show her that I like her through my body language. I don't want to say "Hi" because that would be too obvious. By the way she is shy, and ... (88 words)

We are living together but we are not together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

- hi recently me and my partener of 18 months and which i have a 10 month old child too have gone on a break. the reason behind this i dont know but we have a counciling session tomorrow to try and help our relationship be rebuilt, however. after the birth of our son, she... (223 words)

Why won't my husband watch porn with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I have been with my husband for years,married 7 mons. ago. We have a great relationship except this 1 thing...He has always liked porn,mostly "barely legal"teen girls(or so they say)and I guess im at a loss cause I have said hey!why dont we watch things together? It ... (186 words)

Why does he keep asking me out and then cancelling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is more of a rant than anything else. But I'm just so confused and a bit pissed off to be honest. I met this guy online (mistake number 1) and we talked for months before meeting for the first time. The first meet went fine, it was over coffee and we just talked. When we ... (197 words)

Why do I attract the kind of men that I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I have never had a relationship with someone that I met IRL walking down the street, via a friend, etc. Every guy that I have dated, I have met online or through a dating service. I believed that this was because I am morbidly obese, and a lot of guys aren't into that. ... (536 words)

Do most people have sex on their wedding night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hey everyone.. Well, I've never asked a question on this site before so please bear with me. I'm getting married in about 3 weeks and I just happen to still be a virgin. Even though my fiance and I have talked about our honeymoon, I've really just been focusing on the ... (175 words)

I feel abused by this woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I work with my ex girlfriend. We went out and things were find but she didnt want anyone to know about the relationship at work and even lied to people that we were only friends not lovers. we went on holiday together and all the things that you do in a relationship yet she ... (339 words)

He says I'm not what he wants. should I wait for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so im madly in love with my ex who has made it clear as day he doesnt want anything to do with me. we were together for three years and we both just let life get in the way of our relationship. he recently left to the marines. before he left he told me he loved me and ... (157 words)

What's the cutest/sexiest name you like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - this really isn't a question for help more of just an opinion that people might have. and is for both girls and guys. what is the cutest or sexiest name you like. For me its Natalie that name drives me crazy lol. What is your preferred body type like height and such.... (225 words)

How can I tell him I can't do this anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - How do you tell someone that you can't be friends with them anymore? A guy friend and me ended up sleeping together a few months back. It was a big mistake and he has a girlfriend that he's been with for about a year or so. Ever since it happened i can't get it out of m... (227 words)

Its the opportunity of a life time for him, but I just cant be happy for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - May seem far-fetched, but i do not have any reason to lie on here...I just need some honest, non-biased advice.. My boyfriend and I have been extremely happy together for a year and a half. We know that this is it, we have found who we want to be with forever. Our Fa... (484 words)

What do I do if another girl is in love with my guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What do I do if another girl is in love with my boyfriend? They first became friends through class, but I know she likes him and he knows it too. He said he has no feelings for her and only sees her in class, but she texts him constantly and I am incredibly uncomfortable with ... (62 words)

She likes it, she likes it not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age - Do women like their anus touched? ... (8 words)

Isn't freedom supposed to be fun?!??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I recently broke up with girlfriend of 6 months(I'm bi). The breakup had to happen (towards the end I felt as lonely with her as I did alone), but my gf and I used to spend a lot of time together and now I don't know what to do with that time. Lately I've been feeling ... (134 words)

Husband blames me for everything that goes wrong!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together 6 years and only married a few months. I used to work before the birthof our son(who is almost 2), and we both decided that i woudnt return to work until he was old enough for pre-school. My husband has become increasingly verbally abusive, ... (146 words)

Scared to be cheated on in the future

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys ...um im an 20 year old male, I have never date..but my mind is killing me each day i woke up with the tought of imagining me being in a position that i get cheated on ? i really dont know what to do because its driving me insane ....each time i think about it ..my ... (108 words)

I just want to find someone new and move on! Help me please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. About a year ago now, my ex boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me.He didn't give much info as to why, except that he just didn't feel the same way about me anymore. I was left heartbroken and confused as to how I felt about him. He mucked me around a lot afterward ... (206 words)

I lied, am I worth taking back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this boy for a while (a year) and it was long distance since he moved with his family, I lied to him about not being able to send him pictures because I gained about 4 pounds and even though it doesn't sound like a lot I didn't want him to not find me attractive, ... (147 words)

He moved out, but he still contacts me! What does this all mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I lived my bf for 1 1/2 years. Last weekend he told me he found a place and needed to do things on his own and moved out. Since then he text me everyday. Says things like we aren't like we used to be. This past Friday he wanted to hang out and we did. We acted the same way ... (89 words)

She doesn't like to hear "I love you" Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl friend doesn't like to hear me say i love her,why?... (12 words)

I regret that I texted all of his friends about our breakup!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i sent a text to all of his friends of what he did to me in our break up and now i regret it do i tell him im sorry or do i just leave it alone...... (37 words)

Why does her past bug me so much!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I have posted a few items now and I am sure a number of you will recognise which ones when I write on.... this is another post to see if I can tap into your wisdom again. My girlfriend and I get ever closer and also ever closer to having our baby, due Jan 2011. S... (261 words)

Coming out later in life. Who has experience with a changing sexual interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age - What I want to ask are there other people like me. Or: are there any people who solved this problem and find a good solution for them self? Also why is my sexual interest changed? Hi, I got a problem with relationships and sexuality. Sexual i'm attracted to men. W... (574 words)

Every time I see him I like him more but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm a freshman in college and there is this guy that I met who lives down the hall from me. I spend a lot of time in his and his roommate's room and they are both juniors. Every time I hang out in there, I start to like him a little more than I did before. We flirt a lot ... (147 words)

If I'm the perfect girlfriend then why did he break up with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is eating me up inside...My boyfriend of 1 month broke up with me on thursday and his reasons were very unclear, here is some of what he said: I feel like im not being a good boyfriend to you, you have done nothing wrong and you have been the "perfect girlfriend" to ... (164 words)

I'm trying to support my b/f but he doesn't want me to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - what is wrong with my boyfriend? Ok i been with my boyfriend for one year and a few months he is a truck driver im 30 and he is 34 he lost his job the other day and he acts likes he hates me he has been drinking very heavily he stayed out two days he doesnt want to be home with ... (128 words)

After six weeks of no contact my ex has sent me an email

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex boyfriend has emailed me saying he gets scared with relationships and stuff and that he has applied to work abroad for 18 months. He told me how much he would earn and come back with. He also told me he had had his mobile phone stolen. He said I was a fantastic woman ... (183 words)

With so much heartache in my life how can I learn to love freely and trust again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess the reason i am writing this is because i have nowhere else to turn too. Its a bit detailed, so sorry about the length. I am a complete Freudian case. My father passed away 2 years ago near my birthday. My mother recently was diagnosed with a brain tumor My aun... (773 words)

What kinds of topics should be taboo between married friends of opposite sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted a question yesterday and I guess I shouldve said that my husband's female friend wants to get a boob job and asked my husband his opinion. She comes to him to discuss problems in her relationship and get advice. They both make sure they both have one same class at ... (142 words)

Did he find out I like him and get creeped out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, so basically there's this guy at school who I have a crush on, and I'm not sure if he likes me back. Throughout the years he's never really seemed to have an interest in me, until the beginning of this school year, where he came up to me to talk to me, and he somehow ... (238 words)

I'm a neglected wife and my neighbor wants to see and touch me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am married women and my husband works in a different country and visits home only once in 3 years. Apparently I have a neighbour who is wel knwn to our family too keeps visiting our house and once over the dinner table he saw me braless over the thin gown and complimented ... (94 words)

He treats me more like a guy friend than his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Recently i feel so sad and empty all the time. My boyfriend doesnt treat me right. He treat me more like his close guy friend rather than his girlfriend. He likes to compare me with his crush. Saying shes better than me and i suck. The reason hes not so sweet to me was i su... (133 words)

Boyfriend watches gay porn on a regular basis!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that my boyfriend of 5 years watches gay porn on a regular basis. He has always watched a lot of porn, but about 1 year ago I noticed gay porn and gay dating sites in his search history. He used to say that it was all pop ups from the other porn sites that he ... (201 words)

Is she just flirting or does she want more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - helo pls help me. if a female (who already has a boyfriend) is inviting me by different signs like twinkling eye, bringing her ass close to me how i will ask her whether she welcoming me for sex, or i m wrong?... (44 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want to settle down with me but all my friends are doing it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been going out for 2 years, which is pretty much the same or more than all of my friends have been going out with theirs. They are all starting to move in together and thinking bout houses and the future and I'd like to do this too. But my bf refuses to live ... (113 words)

How can I prove that I am not cheating on my husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband is accusing me of cheating on him witch i haven't. any friend that comes over to our house or from work he always telling me that i cheating on him with our close friends. when i go to work i call him 2 to 3 time in an hour beside the text messages.trying to ... (99 words)

Is it possible that a man who has a girlfriend is actually destined to be with you instead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this man by a chance meeting. I noticed him sitting on a bench reading and scribbling notes in his novel. Normally, I would have walked by-- I am not one to initiate any conversation especially since my husband passed away. But for some reason I was drawn to this ... (338 words)

My boyfriend has been secretly keeping in touch with his ex

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I found my boyfriend still in contact with his ex...feel betrayed. How do I get over my jealousy? I have been with boyfriend since Dec last year. When we got together he told me that he split with his ex 6 months before and she left the country in August. I made it clear to... (378 words)

After many months I still can't get over my ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I still cant get over my ex !! :( It's been so many months now..and I still end up thinking about him all the time. I dont know what to do :( :( :(... (35 words)

Is it possible to be with someone for a year and not have feelings for them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hello i need some advice is it possible to be in a relationship with someone for a year without having any feelings for you? My g/f and i was together for a year. She moved in with me and everything was fine then she left me but she told friends she was just there for a pl... (124 words)

How do I inspire my girlfriend to trust me after having been hurt in her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well recently I started dating this girl. At the moment I treat her like she's the only thin that matters but some how she seems not to take it and rejects it like she dosnt want to get hurt again. She was with her ex for a while and I'm just finding out they "did it" and bla ... (186 words)

I lied to my boyfriend about where I was and my boyfriend seems different

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i lied to my boyfriend yesterday dat i went to d market to get some jewelry. i actually went to a boutique to get a wrist. wn i got home he was alredy der waiting for me,he became furious cos i wasnt with d beads i said i went to get,i have explained to him yet he is still ... (87 words)

My ex-wife left me for another man. Should I take her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - should i take her back .what a beautiful baby we have seven years ,but she wakes up one day.who? my wife. she tells me am a poor man .ok. Go ,she leaves only for me to find out there was another man they now have a kid. but she is in truoble i love her so much wat do i do?... (62 words)

I feel like my boyfriend's dirty little secret

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hoping someone can shed some light on the relationship situation i am in. I have been seeing this guy for 15mths now and although when the mood takes him he will say he loves me, i have never felt so unloved and insecure in my life. I am 35 and he is 47. He has met all my f... (439 words)

Is it normal for a boyfriend to want to wait to have sex?

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21 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for a year and i am 16 in the uk he is recently turned 24. i love him etc.I think that this bit is great i asked him if he was ready or if he wanted to have sex /do the deed what ever ..and he said that he didnt want to do it yet he wanted to... (117 words)

Should I chalk it up to a vulnerable night of drinking?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Two weeks me and my GF broke up. I recently ran into her, and we went out for drinks. NExt thing I know, we hooked up later that night. Even though we have broken up, she still came by and we had an awesome night. So what am I to think now, moving forward? Is she tellin... (115 words)

How do I stop getting so clingy around girls?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been two weeks after a 6 week relationship.We agreed to still be friends and it was a possibility we'd get back together. But the past two weeks I've started being extremely clingy and have text her loads. Including texts like 'i miss you'. I feel like Ive destroyed any ... (101 words)

Penis isn't as erect as before, is too much masturbation the problem?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi people ... let me introduce me first ... im 20 and im masturbating from 14 i suppose ...... and in recent days i started masturbating too much ..... and only now i noticed that my penis erection is not as strong as it was before ...... if i stop masturbation for some period ... (84 words)

How long were you in a relationship as a teen before losing virginity?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, and i have a lovely boyfriend. he treats me right and im really happy, but it's only been a month. i want to know if you lost your virginity at my age, how long were you in a relationship for?... (46 words)

Who should hold whose hand first?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and my bf is 15. On the first date I was very shy, and I know he was nevrous. After we went home, he sms-ed me said he wanted to hold my hand but he thinks I may slap him. On the next date should I let him hold my hand or should I hold his hand first?... (60 words)

Condoms in the cupboard

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21 November 2010 (F)

age - Found condoms in boyfriends cupboard...expired 2009. He said used with wife in 2004 then forgot about them. Ive Been with him since 2005 Does that make sense? ... (28 words)

He's leading up to sex and I"m a virgin!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been seeing this guy for almost 2 months, im 21- he is my first relationship (but we're not exclusive/official etc) im going to talk to him about going slow with the physical stuff as im not ready to go below the belt, and feel like he may be expecting it soon (he got my b... (89 words)

Maybe I'm not in the right frame of mind to go out with him?

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21 November 2010 (?) age 51-59 - My daughter's boyfriend's uncle is trying to take me out, I am interested, but maybe I am not in the right frame of mind but is this wrong?...something just doesnt sit right with me on this one....aunts and uncles I need your help..!... (43 words)

Break up has left me unable to move on

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am despairing of ever finding that special relationship. My last relationship ended at Christmas last year. I hadn't realised at the time that he was breaking up with me as he asked me what I thought about things so I presumed that he was trying to work at the relations... (440 words)

What does sexually active mean?

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21 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - the question says it all really what does it mean to be sexually active... (14 words)

I'm having panic attacks due to my phobia of sickness

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a massive phobia of being sick. So bad that I regually have panic attacks. I currently have a throat infection and keep thinking that if I cough too hard I will throw up. I haven't been sick in over two years, and that was due to being drunk too much haha. However, I ... (123 words)

I know he's not shy so why does he stare but not talk to me?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy in my class for 3 years now. It's not until this year I started to notice that he stares at me. Even my friend realizes this to and she only knows I like him because she kept asking me and I kept saying no and my facial expression showed it all. Well in class ... (467 words)

Why is this sensation?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When you feel that sensation like you have to pee right before you cumm, do actually pee or will it just be the cumm??... (24 words)

Communication is not great between us, how can I improve things?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months, things have gone at a pretty slow pace which is ok with me as I came out a 4 yr relationship and got with him 3 months later. We have not been without our issues, not major ones but small niggly things which kind of irritate... (152 words)

She's pregnant and its like talking to a stranger!

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - one night about 6months ago i was out with friends and i saw this gorgeous tall brunette and i fell for her big time. we had a great night together my friend hooked up with her friend. and we all had a party afterwords. we had a great night and i also thought there was a good ... (1083 words)

Should I take this job or look for something better?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a dilemma...we have campus placements going on in our college. There's one job that i have a good chance of getting...and the location is quite close to where my bf stays... The thing is, this job is good; but the company isn't that well known...and sinc... (117 words)

He hacked my facebook!!!???

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid ,my boyfriend is very jealous and today he went to tha extream of hacking my facebook because he thought i was cheating.when he went on there he saw that i asked a male friend if theyd missed me and he fliiped out!!! he also saw that i gave some male highschool ... (179 words)

She came to me once, will she come back again?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this girl on-line, we flirted and then arranged to meet. She got cold feet and told me to leave her alone so I did. 6 weeks later she comes back into my life apologising for the way she treated me and she'd got in some trouble. We got talking and she was in a hard place, ... (450 words)

Do you masturbate?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello! So I just signed up on this site as I go on it regularely to check out some questions, but today i decided I would contribute and ask this questions, well two actually: ( this is more aimed at girls, as I am more interested in their response, but boys are welcome t... (104 words)

I don't want him to think what's wrong with her? I love my cousin!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, my name is sky and i am in love with my cousin. its plain and simple i am in love with him. here is my story, i need some advice. When i was 5 to about 8 my cousins from Michagin would come over and i would hang out with them. i was more attached to the girl lets say her ... (795 words)

I don't think there's anyone out there for me!

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 36 years old and never had an relationship before. There is must be something wrong with me. I am at the point of giving up finding someone.I go out to clubs, date, and even been on many single sites. I believe that no one out there is out there for me. Anyway every time I ... (79 words)

Why is she "out of his league" but I am not?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I cant get over something that my boyfriend said to another woman he used to fancy almost two years ago. He told her he thought she was " out of his league " , whatever that means, and said he wished he was confident enough to talk to her one on one. I'm not exactly sure what ... (146 words)

Should Guys pay for everything on a date?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's a question for everyone. When you're on a date with your girlfriend, does the guy have to pay for everything? I mean sure, it's nice if he did, but is there a rule that says that guy's have to pay everytime? Like when I go out with my girlfriend, everytim... (179 words)

Should I keep my husband but keep cheating?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 29yrs married lady and im in love with a guy also married and having a 1 child..thy lives in srilanka and i came to join with my hubby in UAE. what my problem is i wanted to forget the man i loved as i cannot bear the pain of living without him.. he do loves me a lot a... (161 words)

I don't understand his actions or his thinking!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were on a break and just got back together. We went back and things have slowly gotten better progressing. The communication is good and he shows he really cares about me but something has changed. When I have spent the night in him apartment not having sex ... (424 words)

Ex became friends with my friend

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well me and my ex were dating for 5 months before we broke up. While we were dating she was hanging out with me and my good friends. Then when we broke up one of my friends did stop hanging out with her. I know they aren't doing "anything" for a fact but it still makes me ... (70 words)

I'm small and have premature ejaculation. How do I satisfy a girl?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a 19yr old boy.my problem is that i have a small dick 4inch and premature ejaculation.what can i do to satisfy a girl,if i get the chance of having sex with her?... (34 words)

He left me to be with his mistress and I'm still having a hard time dealing with it

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me and left me for his mistress. I am having trouble getting past this, there are times where I am ok but truth be told I am still very raw, Its been about a year and I find that there are times I want him to hurt him for as much as he hurt ... (172 words)

Free sites on body language?

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21 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - anyone know any free sites on body language and psychology or something that could help me with my studies in that field it could really be of great use to me thanks... (32 words)

Should I even try with this boy?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys so I am having trouble deciding whether i should try with this boy, or even if he likes me..no idea. We met a couple weeks ago and we text sometimes (he texts me then a few days later i text him, so on...) anyways he seems like a guy who doesn't speak much, or ma... (172 words)

She has a Boyfriend and likes me

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I am 21 and I go to college. I have a friend who already has a boyfriend, she is average good looking, I just want to kiss and have fun with her. So i said that i have a crush on her but if she wud have been single then i wud had been with her. I even mentione... (198 words)

Jealous about girlfriend's past! Am I too sensitive?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi again , I've porblem jelousing my girlfrined about her past .. she had some guys before and some time i hate the feeling .. do u guys feel same???? or im so sensitive ??? what can help me ??? thaks all ... (49 words)

I'm pregnant and he doesn't interact with me at all!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been in a relationship for a year and a half and went through my fiances phone only to find out. He is still communicating with his ex they send sexual pictures through text she is in another state I was so upset that I called her and she let me know that he told ... (185 words)

Should I keep in contact with him or just get on with life?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I were with my boyfriend for 4 years and we broke up 2 months ago, he gave me reasons of break up were he wants to be alone and we have communication gap, after break up I beged him a lot about 1.5 months and tried to talk with him to clear but he said only that he made ... (268 words)

I care for others but don't feel anything for myself!

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21 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i'm not sure where to start but i'm really optimistic about others and i love helping people out through any tough times they might have but i never feel anything for myself i think i'm ugly i'm always put down and picked on for i always find myself as an annoyance to everyone ... (121 words)

My choices are a cheater, or a man who doesn't love me!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have known my boyfriend for 5 or more years but we just recently sarted dating and just found out he cheated on me but i anm in love with another man that doesnt want a relationship. i love my boyfriendbut what do i do.... (45 words)

He acts like we are still a couple, is it so I won't move on?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago now and ended with still wanting to be friends. Two days after the break up he invited me over and we ended up having sex, bad I know. He treats me like are still going out and leads me on and still texts and talks to me everyday, ... (148 words)

Sex for first time I didn't feel anything??

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i m 17 years old boy and and didn't feel any thing during sex but that was first time so plzz help me what can i do i feel so shy in frant of my g f!!! ... (37 words)

How do I know if he's just not good for me?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I started dating in our last year of high school and are both currently in our first year of college, and still together. He is my first serious relationship. We both have always wanted to move to the same place for school and conveniently didn't have to break ... (852 words)

Dumb arguments turn into major fights!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 1/2 years. Lately we have been arguing alot about extremely dumb stuff. but when we get into these arguments and they turn into a really big deal. it even comes to the point where he tells me he doesnt want to be with me anymore but ... (259 words)

She said it was disgusting for a women to pay a man's bills but she let me pay for all of hers!

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I am a 30 year old guy from London and I have come on here from some honest opinions on my relationship. Now this is quite a long thread but I promise it is very interesting and will be the cause for conversation with your friends and family, especially if you live ... (1588 words)

Friend tried to hook me up with guy and then stole him when her relationship broke up!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm upset with my friend because she tried to hook me up with a really hot guy she knew but she stole him back after her boyfriend broke up with her.......now he's interested in her and I'm left with nothing.....what do I do? How can I get him interested in me? HELP!!!!!!... (52 words)

Are all guys this confusing?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So theres this guy, and i've been told that he likes me by lots of his friends and I kinda like him too, but every time I confront him about it, he says that he doesn't. Proms is coming up soon and he told me that he "might" want to ask me to go to prom but he ... (115 words)

How do I stop from being so maternal or bossy?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I not be so maternal or bossy? So, in my last relationship my ex was a bit younger, had less education, and seemed to need help doing certain things. As his girlfriend, I always tried to help him when he needed it. I didn't think it was wrong to offer help, but, I rea... (464 words)

Since we had sex he won't talk to me!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So me and my x boyfriend were together for 2 years and, I finally gave inn an gave away my V card to him.Ever since that night he wont talk to me and, he told me he hates me and never loved me.What should I do he was my everything and I have tried every... (82 words)

Will I eventually get closure? WIll I get through this?

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21 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - He's engaged to the girl he told me was just his friend when we were together. I found out last night. We were each others' first love. We were together for two years until he dumped me out of the blue. I was a wreck for the past two years. Almost dropped out of university, ... (505 words)

How do I ask her out without regressing 5 years?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i've known this girl for about 5 years,when i first met her she just looked amazing,i knew than on that i was going to marry her at some point...but thats not the point. How do i get the smallest detail to know when to ask her out without blowing it and sending me back a couple ... (59 words)

She invited me to a birthday party at the last minute?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How would you react if girl invited you to her birthday party at the last minute? A girl who's been flirting with me asked me to come to her birthday party a few weeks before that event, but she didn't specify the time and location, just the date. I called her and left a m... (145 words)

Why do we set up dates and then she cancels?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - There is this girl I met 2 weeks ago. We were both interested and tried to meet twice. Both times she had to cancel and postpone. Even though I believe she had had good reasons to do so, I don't feel like setting up dates to have her cancel them and ask to meet later. What... (112 words)

He's into me, but then he's not?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently went out on a first date with a guy I met though a mutual friend. The first date went well. Throughout the date he mentioned future dates which made me think that was he was into me. Otherwise, why bring it up right? But he's sending me mixed signals and I'm ... (189 words)

I just don't know how to cope without love!

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I think I'm going out of my mind. I'm a 16 yr old guy and I'm horny all the time.I don't really like masturbating, that's why I rarely do it. It doesn't satisfy me. I get really lonely sometimes and I just want to be able to have someone to call my own. Not just for sexual ... (274 words)

Is my ex trying to make a point to his partner that he's a father?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,i have an ex who i had a child with he got married not long after our split.My girl is three now he left me when she was just over a year.It took along time to get over the breakup,when i had to move out he left me with stuff all and a bit of dept,even though he had a good ... (439 words)

Socially anxious female virgin needing help

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I am wondering if there is any advice for a girl like me. I am 25 years old and have never really had a boyfriend at all. I am not that bad looking but I suffer from social phobia which really makes things hard for me. I have been on a few dates from online dati... (311 words)

If he's engaged to his new girl, why isn't he shouting it from the rooftops??

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21 November 2010 (F)

age - My ex fiance left me 6 mths. ago after 7 yrs. and immediately became involved with someone else. He broke it off with me a mth. before we were to be married and still claimed he loved me right up to the end. There is no doubt in my mind that he met her before leaving me ... (312 words)

HELP! I feel betrayed by my boyfriend! what do I now?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like my boyfriend has betrayed me. He puts other people above me. He doesn't even open up to me anymore. He opens up to his friends. What's the point of having me around if he can't open up to me? Some of his friends are wonderful. I am friends with them too. Ther... (156 words)

Is it worth it trying to get him to talk?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesn't communicate well. He holds his feelings in, he plays the silent treatment game, he's a brat. For the two months we've been together, most has been great, and some in between has been NOT great. I've been trying to get him to speak his feelings. I'm not his ... (244 words)

Should I keep contact or go quiet again? And can I get her back?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey : ) Basically, It's now been just under 3 weeks since I broke up with my long distance ex-gf , and I'm trying to find out if she might still be interested in getting back together and if so what i should do to help myself? I was NC with her for two weeks straight after... (243 words)

Why does he stare at me but never talk to me?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, so anyway there is this guy I used to like and someone told him I liked him so the next day one of his friends came up and asked me do you like (his name) and I say no (but then I did like him). So I had my one friend tell him I didn`t like him. I thought ... (235 words)

Are there any guys my age who actually want a reltaionship?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, where can I meet a guy who actually wants a relationship and not just another notch on the bedpost?... (21 words)

I'm amazing at picking out men who aren't available!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i'm 26 years of age and i'm simply really really bad at dating and relationships!i am amazing at picking out guys who are simply unavailable!i've never had a long term relationship or a relationships where i can look back and say wow that was nice we had some good times and ... (105 words)

Why can't I leave him? He's getting married !

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for almost three years now. We've never been "official" because he always had a girlfriend/fiance. I didn't find out about her until about a year or so into our relationship, and by then I was too emotionally involved to leave. A couple weeks ago, I ... (605 words)

Should I move on to this other guy?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and we've only been going out for a few weeks. I don't know if I really like him enough to be in a relationship with him but I'm afraid to wnd it because I don't want to hurt him. There is also his other guy who is into me who is older and wants to hook up ... (87 words)

It feels like everone my age is engaged or having children

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and its seems like everyone else my age is either engaged or having children. I feel really jealous. Where as I've got out of a bad relationship, where my ex was verbally abusive and I was never a priority. I'm a good person and would never cheat, I feel like it should ... (67 words)

Misunderstood about dating, and want my friend back

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've had an extremely difficult school quarter. I started out my sophomore year of college by quiting my fraternity. Due to the backlash and harassment I received due to leaving I ended up in a very dark place emotionally and was extremely distraught and depressed. I'm was a ... (575 words)

After this heart-wrenching break I wonder if I can ever love again

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well here's my sad story. My ex girlfriend ended things with me about 2 months ago and she has been with a new guy for about the same time as well. She basically left me and started dating this new guy about a week after, which she met while still with me. I guess she was ... (421 words)

Are we really done?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I broke up with my gf... this time I am sure that its final. Every time I talked to her on cam I was put to the side, im on deployment so its tough on me, then she lies to me. So I donno what to do so I just said we need to take a break, I talk to her about it a lot and she ... (90 words)

Should we get married?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 11 years we have 2 children together aged 9 and 8. She really wants a commitment from me in the form of marriage but I haven't given it yet. I have never had an interest in marriage but it's really important to her. I love her and want ... (73 words)

Will he leave her for me?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been with this guy for a little over a year i love him and i know he loves me but recently we've had some problems i was kicked out of my home and for some reason i couldnt stay at his house he made me stay at a hotel until i made up with my mom. then my mom sent me ... (139 words)

I have a baby with a married man. Now what?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 36 year old single woman who has a daughter with a 50 year old married man. He has no children with his wife. I am so in love with him but I want a complete family. Is it wrong of me to want him to leave his wife? And if he doesn't (which I know he won't) how do I ... (76 words)

A work colleague looks into my eyes and uses my name in conversation

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy at work who is always staring at me. He is really nice to me but i noticed that he says my name a lot when we speak ... im not really sure if he does that to everyone. he would come in the office to say something to someone else, yet i see that he is watch... (259 words)

Getting mixed signals...so is he into me or not?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so i like this guy at school. We are major flirty when we are together, but when he's with his friends, or when im with my friends, we don't talk, but we do make eye contact. I mean, the only time we don't talk when we're with our friends is at lunch time. Well, anyways, ... (151 words)

I do love him a lot, but he just doesn't care! How do I deal with this?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I've been with my boyfriend for 5 nearly 6 years, and we had a really bad path for about 7 months and about 2 months ago he moved out for a week and came back. Well he's back and he tells me he does love me but when I say I love you in a text or by mouth he never says it ... (315 words)

Lack of sexual chemistry, do I leave my husband?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Asked By: ineedhelp07 less than a minute ago, 3 days left to answer. I had arranged marraige, he wanted nose job for me, done it 10 yrs ago. Have two kids, he has his ex in his relative circle, though she is married with kids too, he does meet her in social circle. Dont thi... (213 words)

Am I just another girl on his list! Help!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently been going on dates with a boy from my school. He broke up with his girlfriend the day before he told me he likes me.. So I am the reason he dumped her. I have never dated a guy before, because I think that serious relationships should only happen when you're ... (242 words)

How do I date this cute guy, I really like?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, So I obviously have a problem. There is this guy. He is so sweet,caring, and majorly cute. I'm not positive but I think that he might like me. But I don't want to feel stupid and ask him and it turns out that he doesn't like me... What should I do?... (52 words)

Is he just playing mindgames with me and that's it? Advice?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm confused and lost. I'm totally in-love w my guy friend of many years. I never in a million years thought that he would be interested in a me. I never thought I was his type. Recently, he's been giving me compliments. Most of communications are via text that are ... (253 words)

He claims to care about me but then he goes cold. Is this a waste of my time?

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21 November 2010 (?) age 41-50 - i am in love with a friend. we were getting closer than just friends and then he called me (cuzz). Didn't quite understand where that came from. Just a day before that, he spent the night with me. no we didn't do anything. we just layed and talked and it was nice. he told me ... (390 words)

I want to date her, so should I tell her my true feelings for her or not?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey... Never done this before, asking people I don't know for help =P don't really know how to start... Sorry. Anyways, I'm 16 and have had girlfriends before - though not from my school. The reason being, the embarrassment if I'm told "no" which spreads like wildfire. Th... (373 words)

She's married, but won't leave her marriage for me! How do I get over her?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age - I'm married and have been having an affair with another married women for the past 5 years. My children are married and on their own, she has a 13 year old at home with her and her husband. She has said she will not get a divorce for the sake of her child, and claims she does ... (186 words)

When would be the right time to ask her out?

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - One of my friends that i'd really like to date told me that someone she knows just died. Now, i know for sure that now really isnt the best of times to ask her out and ive been trying to be there for her and support her and I'll keep doing so until you know things are better ... (74 words)

He said I still have a place in his heart... but he's getting married!!!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey dear cupid friends .. this is my story.. well i dated a guy in my past and we broke up.. we have not been talking for many months now but today i texted him and told him what the problem was, he said i was his precious treasure but i just disappeared, i heard he's getting ... (86 words)

Neighbour's constant coughing is driving me nuts!!!

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My neighbour converted one of the bedrooms in his house into a bathroom. Unfortunately, it happens to be the one the other side of my bedroom wall and for months now he has been coughing incessantly but tends to go into the bathroom to do it. This particularly happens when he ... (444 words)

Long Distance help please

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21 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a long distance relationship. My girlfriend and I dated for over a year in college then moved pretty far away upon graduating (~8 hour flight). We decided to try the whole long distance thing since we really love each other, and we trust each other. Late... (167 words)

How do I know when to stop drinking?

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21 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with some co-workers last night and got way too drunk. I am really starting to realize that for some reason A) when I drink too much I become aggressive, not in a mean way. For example when i drink I have the courage to do anything hit on anyone. Sometimes I become ... (190 words)