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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend met my ex and really liked him but doesn't know he's my ex. Do I tell him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met two guys at the same time last year. They don't know each other. I went out with guy A but didn't feel that 'spark.' Then guy B asked me out and the spark was definitely there. So I stopped seeing guy A and started seeing guy B. After about a month or so guy B dumped me. ... (409 words)

I feel like I can't trust him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I kinda need help my boyfriend thinks i'm mad all the time,i mean i kinda am but just cause his bestrfiend told me about some girl he used to date and how he went to go see her while i was at school. i feel like i can't ever trust him and he just doesn't care. what am i ... (62 words)

Should I have tried to work it out with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with her to do the right thing, but it hurts more than I thought. After a year and a half, I decided to break it off with my girlfriend because I tend to get bored in relationships. She was different, though. I think I actually found someone I could have poten... (201 words)

My fiancé cheated on me and I cant deal with it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my finace of 3 years cheated on me 2 months ago.I found out by looking at his emails.when i confronted him about it he denied everything!I cried for 4 days straight and he never said a word to me,until one day he decided to tell me everything that happened between the two of ... (111 words)

We both still love each other, but we're bored. Is there anyway we can save this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and tonight we came to an agreement that this just isn't exciting anymore. We've had discussions so many times before about whether we shoudl stay together and we usually do, but this time we both know we're not completely ... (121 words)

When it's good, it's very very good, but when it's bad, we're toxic.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel that my relationship of just over a year is coming to an end. There have been a few occasions where I have considered ending the relationship because of the way I am treated, but then find myself running back to make things better even when it was not my fault. I h... (570 words)

Is euphoria necessary for love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a bit of a strange situation and need to know if there is anything I can do to straighten it out. My very good friend and I were dating for almost a year. Earlier this year he broke up with me stating that he cared for me but he wasn't "dancing for joy and ecstatic... (185 words)

Help! Having boyfriend trouble...What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and I am confused as to what is going on. I havent been in a serious relationship in a long time and I dont know what to do. My boyfriend and I dont see each other that often he lives about an hour away and we both work ... (200 words)

In what way can I improve myself to become more attractive to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - About 6 months ago I got out of an awful relationship (although it was my first ever one) with a muslim girl; I'm a Hindu myself. Of course, the idea to get involved with her in the first place was not brilliant, however, I've always been insecure. She was the one to g... (497 words)

How can I make him trust me? I love him so much!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hii everyone, thanks for taking the time to read my story. :) well i am with this guy for 9 months now and i am so in love with him i just cant do anything without thinking about him. its like he is my life now, i feel him next to me whenever i do something. he is 18 and so h... (389 words)

How am I supposed to act when the guy I like comes to our house now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - the guy i really like just keeps confusing me lol, he is my older brothers friend. I had a wee feeling he might like me back cause he stares at me sometimes and just acts really flirty with me.. like the other ngt he pulled my foot trying d pull me of the sofa lol or just try ... (202 words)

Will cum on my stomach wash to my vagina in the shower?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, so yesterday I was giving my boyfriend a hand job, when he ejaculated on my stomach. I was wearing underwear and pajama pants, and wiped it off with some toilet paper ( and the cardboard roll part because the paper was gone). Some semen got onto the leg of my pants so ... (213 words)

He's in his 20s but his sex drive is down to nothing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey all! ive been with my boyfriend for 4yrs now, we have a 1 yr old daughter together. but the reason that im asking this embasasin question is because its bugging me! we had a fairly modern sex life up to 2 yrs ago. and now im lucky if i get it once every 3 weeks! he makes ... (93 words)

What is the big deal with ones partner watching porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I always see a lot of married couples or people dating complaining about their husband/boyfriend watching porn. Why dont they like it when they do it? Because really I would be up for watching it with them, but other people dont seem to feel that way. Answers?... (47 words)

How do I work with a relationship with such a big age difference.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18...in love with a 48 year old man... We haven't told anyone about it... I'm really confused...I do love him and i wanna be with him more than anything....but i still don't know how it will work out... What should I do?... (47 words)

My husband thinks I'm cheating because during sex I queef alot!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am having problems between me and my husband he thinks i am cheating which i aint but my vagina farts like just about every time we have sex i have been with him for four and half years and one partner before him but he had problems getting it up so i dont consider it sex ... (109 words)

LD relationship where he just isn't telling his parents about me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a couple months. The first week we started dating he wanted my parents to know bout him (It's a long distance relationship) They talked to him over the phone and they like him. And, he's like the most romantic person you could ... (150 words)

I am 35 and don't want to feel I have wasted my life, what on earth should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid. I have been in a relationship with my partner for 7 years, we have 2 children aged 5 and 2 years. The problem is that he is 42 and still lives at home with his mum, i currently live alone with my children, he looks after them a few hours a day whilst i work so we ... (346 words)

Do you think a married man would visit his other woman of 6 years thousands of miles apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have an affair online with a married man of 6 years. We plan to meet in 2011 for the first time. Our relationship has grown so deep, we fight and we mend. His wife knew about it and his children but despite of it he continues his relationship with me. I love him so much and ... (136 words)

How do I get my husband back before it's too late?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I am still married and we have a child together but we are not together. We moved and we had some problem before we moved so when we moved I left him because I thought we were over.he never wanted to talk to me just play his Xbox. So when we 1st got here he wanted t... (318 words)

If he cant see himself with anyone but me for the rest of his life, then why is it so hard for him to fully commit to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years now, and living together for over 1 and a half years. We talk about the fact we want to be together forever, but when it comes down to him actually popping the question, he always is saying he is scared of commitment. I ... (85 words)

How would a freshman guy be viewed by a junior girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a freshman and I get rather "flirty?" with this junior who is maybe 1in. Shorter than me she's amazing lol and a vegetarian I'm 5'7" so... How would you view that me I'm rather shy I'd say I'm not sure how she views me. I do walk over and randomly talk to her she's rather ... (88 words)

I'm having an affair with my friend's husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been seeing a married man for 5 months who is separated from his wife but not divorced. he has kids with her though. he says he is in love with me but i find the situation tricky because his wife was my friend. what do i do? Do i run? I am in love with him.... (61 words)

I need some advice on how to handle this guilt I'm feeling.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on how to handle this guilt I'm feeling. I'm overwhelmed with guilt for breaking up my boyfriend's family and hurting his children and ex wife. Our affair was brief, only a little over a weeks time before he stated he couldn't do it anymore and he left home. ... (691 words)

Not knowing what skeletons my girfriend has in her closet is driving me crazy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for about a year, and we've been discussing marriage. I recently found out that my girlfriend is very worried that one or more of her former friends (my girfriend had a falling out with a couple of her friends awhile back, but these ... (297 words)

How do I start up a new life abroad on your own and with a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey want to make a new life for me and my baby but i don't know where to start kind of a chicken shit really afraid to do it cos i fall flat on my face. How do I start up a new life abroad on your own and with a baby and i have done courses but don't have a dregree or shoul... (120 words)

Single mother making me earn trust again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How much time should it take for my ex to trust me again? We were together 11 months and 2 months ago we had a disagreement and we stop talking, even told her not to visit me ( lives 800 miles away ) I didnt really reach out to her until I visited her in person(6 weeks later). ... (235 words)

I need your take on this guys... Do you think he likes me a little?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I have been at this company for a few years; I was in a serious relationship and it was hard on me after. It has been a long time. One guy in my area is very good at his job, smart, very outgoing, moved up fast. He is pretty personable too and friendly with everyone. He is ... (1266 words)

About my ex long distance relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Why does she call me up some nights and fall asleep on the phone, I don't get it? And then some nights she does not call me up but the past three nights in a row she has called me up and fell a sleep on the phone with me, then last night she did not call me at all? I'm lost on ... (129 words)

Even though people have reassured me so many times, I still feel so insecure about my penis size. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just can't get over this fear and paranoia that girls are going to make fun of me or dump me because my penis is less than average sized. For what information is worth, I've got a 4 inch, yes that's when it IS erect, penis with less than satisfactory girth (4 inches around... (302 words)

Is it wrong for a teen to masturbate?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im a teenage girl and this past year i have had relationship problems and feel like a part of me is missing without him. i started humping a towel rolled up and waiting until i got a good feeling. is that considered masterbaition? also, is it wrong to masterbait as a teenager? ... (83 words)

I was molested as a kid, is that how I got cervical cancer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have cervical cancer and don't know how i got it an i was just wondering if there was a way i got it by being sexually abused as a kid... (31 words)

Is there a reason I literally have no emotion towards anyone right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - About 2 or 3 months ago I broke up with a girl I had been dating for about half a year. I fell in love with this girl and felt things I had never felt before, but she left for college and we couldn't make things work between us because I have trust issues and she didn't have ... (267 words)

I like my new girlfriend so much and a convinced I'll never cheat on her but I've made mistakes in the past so who's to say I wont again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My ex keeps trying it on with me whenever I go to her house even though I have a new girlfriend and I'm afraid one day I might give into temptation. I'm 20, my ex is 19 and my new gf is 18. I have a 10 month old son with my ex which is why I go to her house often, as every ... (428 words)

How long do I wait? Or should I let him know I'd like to see him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay Dear Cupid I need your help! I went on a date with this guy who previously blew me off, I let him know it was his second chance but he wasn't getting a third. Well I didn't expect the date to go that well being as he blew me off before and I wasn't sure if he deserved a... (650 words)

Unexpected boyfriend -- is it love or just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year i had an on again off again "thing" with a boy in most of my classes. Over the summer i became severly depressed and cut myslef off from the guy i liked. During the time we stopped talking one of my friends used the oppertunity to start a relationship with the guy i ... (177 words)

I've fallen for my cousin's ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have become good friends with my cousin's ex for 10 months now. My cousin no longer contacts me because I kind of got involved during their break up. She asked me to do something and I asked him to go see her. He got mad and that was it. After the break up, his ex and I got ... (203 words)

Is there anything I can do to get him back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) age 26-29 - Will my ex ever love me again? he says he wants to be friends, but i still love him! Is there any hope of us getting back together, still? It has been nearly 2 months since i broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months... He asked me out online and i had met him in person before... (945 words)

How normal are these sex acts for women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a relatively sexually inexperienced male in his late 30's ( I was married most of my 20's and 30's). I've done most things sexually, but only with one woman, and the other 3 or so women I had sex with were not long enough relationships to get into a lot of stuff. I am... (260 words)

What can I do besides having sex with my boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month now and we makeout all the time, recently he tried to finger me and I stoped him. I am virgin and plan to stay one until I get married, but I just felt like fingering is losing your vigintiy. I want to try oral sex but I dont know ... (85 words)

I'm upset about how he reacted to the gift

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My BF and I are very close. He's very special and i care about him so much. Lately I been feeling like he doesn't really have much feelings 4 me when I tell him I don't like certain things. I been feeling like my feelings don't really matter. So his birthday was a few days... (364 words)

Is this something you'd say to a friend, or is more interested than that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - It seems that reading signs is not my main skill and in the past i consistently got everything wrong ! So i would need some external advice about this before I make a new mistake. We used to go out together for a while but things naturally stopped and we lose a bit of co... (147 words)

My man is moody and is increasingly difficult to deal with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age - I'm almost 47yrs and have been seeing my partner for just over 2 years. We don't live together and live around an hour apart. Over the time he has had moody times when he's just left my house for no apparent reason, or slept on the sofa. Last february we had booked a hol... (265 words)

I'm afraid I'll be rejected yet again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have recently started a course (I’m on Jobseekers Allowance so I have to be on this course) and there is a girl on the course I like but I’m afraid to ask her out. I’ve talked to her a couple of times during the breaks so I know she is single and has no kids but I can’t go to ... (112 words)

Why do some women feel the guy is ok to hear EVERYTHING about their past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - We had a perfect relationship, until she started getting into details about her past.. I never asked for details, I just asked for a number of partners, and about her last serious relationship.. Why do women feel comfortable with some men to the point of thinking that he can ... (157 words)

Why would a 42 year old man be interested in a 54 year old woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age - I want to know why a 42 old male would have a relationship with a 54 women Do you think he really cares about her or is he just using her. We have had problems in the last 1 and half years. I really do not trust him I do not know what to do... (55 words)

Does he still love me - or is it over for good????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex and i broke up 4 months ago. We were together on and off for 22 yrs. We have a 10 yr old son together. My ex took our son away for a week without me for a boys bonding week – but i felt a little left out. Any way while they were away i had a massive row with my... (1212 words)

How do we have a relationship outside of samba drumming?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Last year I had my heart broken, and found myself single again after a 10 year relationship. I decided at the time that I wasn't going to wallow in self pity and got myself out of the house and joined a group of people doing something I have wanted to for ag... (278 words)

Confused in New England.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm currently in a unhealthy relationship for the past 8 years and was perfectly ok with it. Recently I have met an amazing women whom is 10 yrs younger that is in a relationship with someone for the past 6 years and own a home together. We have been spending an enormous amount ... (141 words)

Should he choose to end the relationship, will he ever realize what he would lose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age - Met bf 10 mos. ago. Great relationshi; no fights/arguments. Due to our belief/faith, no sex w/o marriage. Not to say we do not show physical affection (intense at times) to one another. He 53 widower of 3.5 yrs, me 47 divorced for 4 yrs. We have spoken of marriage between ... (677 words)

Understanding the logic behind female's thoughts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hey there. im just very curious to understand the logic behind female thoughts. this woman who i see all the time cause we live very near had a crush on me for months. we only ever said hi. i finnaly asked her out and thats when i found out she was crushing on me for a long ... (323 words)

I'm 13 and my girlfriend wants to have sex, if we don't she'll dump me!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and my girlfriend really wants to have sex. My best friend did it once and said it was a great experience. I'm breaking under peer pressure and need help. We've been going out for 10 months and I really like her. She said if I don't have sex she will break up and ruin my ... (62 words)

Why is he so obsessed with her, what about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I shouldn't be asking people I don't know for advice and comfort, but I'm finding it hard to talk to my family about it and I just need some consoling now. I think I like a guy in my college who I've been dating for a few weeks/month now. He's smart and funny,... (727 words)

I don't think we mesh well anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two years, and I don't feel like I'm lying when I say I love him. But it feels like we've grown apart, and I'm starting to think that maybe we should break up. I'm just trying to figure out if we've been having problems because we ... (347 words)

She's starts 95% of our fights!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age - Where do I start. I can't believe at my age I'm feeling the way I do. I love my ex girlfriend with everything I have. We were together for 5 yrs. The last three on and off almost 20 times. We have been apart now for two months which I'm afraid may be for the last time. She is ... (358 words)

He's a breath of fresh air, but I'm married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my husband for going on 9 years, we've only been married for over 2. We have a little baby boy together. Recently we just haven't been able to get along. Ever. We constantly fight and argue and the sex, well .. it's pretty bad. It's often, but its not good. The ... (168 words)

Boyfriend has disgusted me-can I forgive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have hit a rough patch recently as we've both been ill on and off and very busy at work. Basically just not in sync, no sex, just all very practical chat. We're both feeling better now so this weekend was gonna be the weekend to reignite the passions as far ... (350 words)

Turning a Bootycall into a boyfriend, can it be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear agony ants, I've been sleeping with this guy for 2 weeks, mostly after hanging out with him on the weekend. Sex is really good. We have been texting and e-mailing (FB) each other almost every day. When we're out together, he takes me to dinners, pubs, coffee places an... (255 words)

Didn't mean to fall out of love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Ive been with my bf for about 5 years now. He's the only bf ive ever had and i love him very much. We have been going through some bumps in the road for about 6 months now and although we both care and love each other very much, i'm beginning to doubt whether hes the right ... (390 words)

Why is my boyfriend so hurtful one minute-yet loves me the next?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when your ex you've been with for six months, is constantly bringing you down, critising you, picking on you, mocking you and is still possesive, but then he says he is kidding, and he says im beautiful and perfect and his girl. Yet the next minute he hurts... (267 words)

What kind of guy do girls want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Girls, Would you rather a man who would fight for you or would you rather a skinny twig or a man with muscles (not overboard but enough you can feel them when he hugs you)?... (36 words)

Was I wrong to chase him out my house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I just wanted some advice from you guys because I just had a quarrel with my boyfriend. He has been appearing very tired whenever we meet up recently because of his hectic final year project. Yesterday, when he came to my house at 12am midnight he said he wanted ... (236 words)

Why the frosty attitude?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi All. I have been talking to this guy who goes to my college via facebook, we talk a lot and he told me he thinks im pretty nice and he knows i like him too. We have been talking every night for the past week on really good terms, just the average banter. Then we never sp... (148 words)

She's going by his last name and they're not even married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't seem to get over my ex. Over 4 1/2 years with my boyfriend I found out he had been cheating. I was pregnant at the time (we had tried for 3 years and all had resulted in miscarriages). He had been with her for 4 months and it was a long distant relationship. He was with ... (293 words)

Boyfriends best friend confuses me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there, So I have this "problem" (4 a lack of better words), I'm confused about my boyfriend's best friend and men in general. So let me tell u all about it and if u can give me your opinion I'd b truly grateful. My boyfriend and I have been together 4 over 8 months no... (506 words)

Girl thinks I'm a disgrace for being a 19 yr old virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there i'm a 19 yo male,virgin i've met a girl 1 year ago, a collegue, i like her a lot but she likes my best friend every time i go out with her she's okay, is having fun ... doesnt seem like she's disturbed by my presence but when i go out with my best friend and s... (173 words)

Is he really in love? Can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would my boyfriend do that?? is he really in love? ive been with my boyfriend for 4months now and he tells me he loves me everyday.. hes soo sweet and nothing compare to the guys ive been with in the past. the guys ive been with in the past cheated on me and treated ... (236 words)

I can't stop this flirting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

14 November 2010 (?) age 41-50 - my problem is that i can't stop flirting with my colleagues, sometimes i get good response and sometimes bad. i keep falling in flirting thing, even though i'm not interested in sexual relation, i don't want and i didn't ask for any kind of relation. the problem is that ... (81 words)

I bought her a house and proposed, she's still not happy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i been i a relationship with my girlfriend for close to 6 years. and no matter what i do she does not seem to be happy. i bought a house for her and her kids to live in. ive asked her to marry me. but she is still un happy. she doe not help me with any of the bills. and seem to ... (200 words)

Should I ring him, I don't want to seem needy?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is my first real mature relationship, with a guy, yes ive had relationships bfore but not like this, hes older then me by 9 yrs though i feel like hes my age, i dont notice the age difference except that he is very busy in business and work and im in university, well ... (166 words)

Love behind bars!

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a question is it bad to date someone who has been to prison in the past for fighting or any reason ,but now is a new person?... (35 words)

Should I let her go to deal with my own demons?

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i been i a relationship for close to 5 years and see to go nowhere it a long distance relationship but i vist every weekend. few month she said that she wanted to leave. ive bought her a home for her and her 3 kids to live paid all the bill and she still does not see to be ... (163 words)

Parents can't stand my girlfriend!

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - my parents don't like my girlfriend. so how can i make them like her... (14 words)

Is it rare for people to want unconditional love?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it better to be honest with one's partner or to withhold the truth about something that you know might lead them to reconsdider being in the relationship? I see so many people advocate for dishonesty in relationships, and I don't understand it. People who rationalize their ... (180 words)

I'm asking advice about my sexual orientation, gay or hetero relation?

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14 November 2010 (M)

age - Hi, I got a problem with relationships and sexuality. Sexual i'm attracted to men. When masturbating in 80 % its about men. Also i have more sexual contact with men in real live. I'm going to gay bars and find these men to have sex with. But i never fall in love with them. ... (516 words)

Why the big gaps between responding to texts?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is mostly for men but women feel free to answer too. I was texting this guy now and again and then after 2 weeks we went on our first date. It went really well, and for the first 2days after he would text me all day. Ever since he will text me, ill reply and then... (114 words)

Could I somehow have gotten herpes from my mom?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey cupid, its that time again :D right, so, my mother has herpes from a previous partner and has had it for years. she told me this recently and explained how she had it and how she took care of it (as well as how pissed she was at having it and the person who had it and d... (282 words)

Guy friend troubles?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 18. I met this guy in my university lectures two weeks ago. I've started to like him a lot as a friend, and maybe as a crush. And I know he likes me back too. I didn't reveal to anyone that I liked him whatsoever. However, my friends completely ruined it for... (225 words)

I'm drained financially & emotionally by this guy....and I have no one to turn to now

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.. I am a 19 yrs. Old girl. I feel all alone and cheated by my bf. I am still in a relationship with him, its been 2 yrs and want to seek your advise. I feel he cheated me financially and emotionally. Everytime i go somewhere with him..i pay for us always. ... (319 words)

Pain still there a month after toying

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i hurt my rectum during toying almost a month ago , and i think there is a minor tear (a ver scratch on my ass) and it hurts when i use the bathroom the pain is mild . what should i do please guide me Thanks... (55 words)

Daughters worried baby will push her out

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter is my only child and only grand child of my late husbands parents... Since my husband passed away 5 years ago she has become queen bee in terms of her grandparents and spends an awful lot of time with them, holidays Christmas, I've never got along with them (the ... (151 words)

She says she doesn't see us "that way"

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - well ive been friends with this girl for about 5 yars we get along realy well she is amazing.... but ive developed feelings for her and last week dropped the bomb that these feelings were there..... and she just said she doesnt see us in that way... i dont think ive read t... (94 words)

I just want to be secure in my life and its not happening!

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I need some advice. I'm actually having a bit of a breakdown at the moment! I'm waking up at 5am with a panic feeling of fear, I have constant headaches and cry all the time. Yes I'm going to my doctors! Basically I'm 30 years old and was brought up in a big majo... (1174 words)

Why would a guy text a married woman at 3am?

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14 November 2010 (M)

age - hi im a male 49 my wife is 46,we worked for the same company on a shut down for 6 weeks just 3 months ago.my wife was a saftey officer i was a wellder.are foreman was a 29 year old male.a little history i would go on the internet a couple of years on a chat lines,and look at ... (493 words)

I'm crushing on my pregnant friend's boyfriend

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I liked this guy but I'm not exactly pretty but I have this really pretty popular friend who liked him also and of course he said yes to her. I accepted that and moved on since she's my friend. But recently she told me she was pregnant. I asked her if she had told her bf and ... (171 words)

What to do with his erection?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, been on a few dates with a guy and we made out pretty passionately on the last date and he got hard. I don't want to do anything literally below the belt as we haven't been going out that long. Should I just ignore it, ask him about it, tell him how sexy it is? Cuz it ... (130 words)

Getting rid of these sickening romantic thoughts for someone other than my boyfriend?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been really infatuated with a guy whom I admire a lot. Since a few days, I have been thinking so much of him even when I am doing my studies, work, cooking- anything. It's limerence I guess though I am not extremely crazy as to end up doing anything foolish. I like hi... (292 words)

Should I just leave things alone and see if he'll come around?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past 7 months, I have been getting to know a guy that I met through the internet. He lives in another city, and we are both very busy with work and school, so we haven't been able to see each other very much, but we would talk almost every day. The problem is that ... (301 words)

Is there ever a right time to tell someone that their partner is cheating?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age - Dear Cupid What I want to know is where it would ever be right to tell someone that there partner is cheating on them. My situation is this: Four years ago I was drawn into an affair with a man I work with who was living with someone. He had been with his partner for ... (194 words)

Why does my 12 year old sister want a g string?

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my 12 year old sister ask our parents if she could have a G-string. why dose she want one at her age... (22 words)

Can you hate and love someone at the same time?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together since May 2008. We started a long distance relationship because he was from the States and I was a Canadian working in Asia at the time. He flew about 100 times a year and he would always try to find time to visit me. Strictly speaking, ... (448 words)

Shy guy--should I just accept that if it was meant to be he would have made a move?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so there's this guy and today I'm going to go for it. We have a bit of history (in the form of me crushing on him 100% about a year ago) but after a few discussions with his best friend who I'm really close with, I have decided to talk to him. Lay the cards out on the tabl... (187 words)

Nervous to meet my ld man

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so nervous to c my long distance bf of 2 months. We met through mutual friends and he paid for me a plane ticket to go visit! Of course he's seen several diff pics of me but I'm still nervous.. A pic can only go so far! I just want to b everything he looking forward to! I ... (103 words)

I don't want to lose him but I will regret it if I never go out and do my own thing.

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend since 8th grade some on and off parts but not many and I'm 19 now and have been having second thoughts. i know I love him. He is practically family but i don't think I want to be in a relationship this serious so young. I want to go out and meet ... (133 words)

I'm a girl who'd rather watch tv than have sex. How do I get him to be passionate???

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf and I have been dating for 3 years. Lately I'd rather watch tv than have sex. He's the one who says he wants to do it, but he expects me to instigate it since he pays the rent. I want music in the background and he could care less. How do I get him to be passionate and ... (63 words)

I hate performing oral sex on her, but I don't know what to tell her!!

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been having sex for some time now. The sex isn't the problem its the oral sex that has me worried. She gives me BJs plenty of times and that isn't the problem either. The problem is I hate giver her oral sex and I'm not sure if it's me or her. I don't ... (201 words)

Am I an "intimacy-addict", or could this be the real thing?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a man about a month ago at a party, he was a friend of a friend - and we instantly clicked. The first night we spent time alone we went out for a nice dinner, had a glass of wine and then sat down by the pier for hours talking and listening to the sounds of the ducks in... (413 words)

Should I just expect that we won't be together again?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were together for almost 5 years. He just broke up with me after we'd been having some problems. I love a lot, and he is not capable of giving me the love that I need in return. Now we are seperating, but have talked about staying in touch and maybe one day ... (116 words)

I shouldn't be in a relationship feeling the way that I do

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am having relationship dilema and am hoping someone can give me some insight! I think I already know my answers but I'm not confident enough to act on it! I am in a relationship with a girl for the last year. I have never been with a woman before, and I think I am defin... (336 words)

Married my boyfriend, but I'm still a virgin!! Help!!!

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a love marriage with my school + college friend.We were madly in love when we got married.But after marriage I started to get some strange feeling, my husband loves me but we didn't had any physical relationship. I tried to initiate sometimes but couldnt make him do ... (223 words)

Whats the best way to say, "let's just be friends"?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started seeing a guy. There was an original spark at the beginning, but after the third date, it felt that I was talking to a little brother that I never had, not a potential boyfriend. I'm new to the dating scene, so how do I let him down gently with the "let's just be ... (57 words)

I slipped a little and now my girl is with Mr. Loser

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the long question, but this is one seriously messed up situation and I would really appreciate any and all answers I can get. I'm a 19 year old college freshman. I live in the dorms and the most beautiful girl in the world (who is the same age as me) lives across... (898 words)

What is the deal with women and high heels??

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I really wanna know the answer to this question especially from females - Do you females really like wearing sexy high heeled shoes or do you do it only for attention. I have heard of shoe fetish but I dont know how far it is true. Does it also have a turn on factor for you ... (57 words)

Obsessed with this guy....what do I do now?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 and I met this guy two years ago in the class. We talked a little and so I found his myspace and we started communicating through there. I told him that I liked him and he basically rejected me. He told me he didn't have time to be in a relationship because he had two ... (365 words)

He slept with someone else, she's pregnant and I don't think I can handle it

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Two years ago we had a beautiful son together and then a year ago he moved out and we went on a break because we were arguing over money and him going out because I was having to pay everything for the baby because he was not working ... (593 words)

She wants me to be the father of her child

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi need advice on the technicality of my situation. She is 35 and I am 28. We were former FWBs (friends with benefits). But we have not met for 5 years. Recently she was in town and asked if she could stay overnight. We did a lot of catching up that night... She is... (291 words)

What happened to our future?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know when a relationship is on the break? My bf is tempermental, and when he is drunk he can either be loving and say he loves me and wants to be with me, then on a bad day when he is drunk says he hates me and wishes I would die. This behaviour he has no memory of... (192 words)

I cheated with him while drunk. He's my cousin's boyfriend!

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night, I got drunk with my cousin (who is also my best friend) and her boyfriend. I wound up staying the night with them and sharing their bed with them. My cousin wound up passing out early on in the night and her boyfriend started coming onto me. Me, being really drunk ... (200 words)

Does anyone know how to stop being in love and just be friends with them

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i have been crazy in love with this girl for about 6 months now. iv told her about how i felt twice the first month and teh second but she doesnt like me that way. heres the kick in the teeth, we have ben best friends for 6 months and thats way too long to be with ... (128 words)

How to bring the Spark back in your relationship.

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you bring the spark back into a relationship when it is suffered from external factor, that can be sorted out, but put strain on the relationship. Ideas on bringing the spark back would be appreciated! ... (42 words)

Workmate gave me a bruise because I wouldn't do what he said

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi so i have this guy friend at work and the other day we got into an argument cause he wanted to take his break with me but he wanted to take it at 5 and i wanted to take it at 430 so then he got mad and squeezed my arm and when i said to let go he squeezed harder and then ... (199 words)

Baby daddy family drama

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. My son's father, we will call him Cord, died in June of '09 he fell of a roof and broke his neck (he was drunk)and my bf, Michael and I have been together for two years almost. Anyway, Cord was never there for our son. When our son was hospitalized, he didn't come see... (425 words)

I want to tell her I'm moving on...but I can't bring myself to do it.

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Short short version. My girlfriend of two years and I broke up this last week. She had become more and more cold to me over the last few weeks until she finally told me she didn't know if she loved me anymore. I care for her more than anything, but she still decided she ... (400 words)

I'm left waiting for him to set a time

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy will ask me out days in advance but he won't settle on a time until the day of, which is really really annoying because I can't do anything that day other than wait until he settles on a specific time. BTW, when he asks me out, I don't ask him what time either, so ... (115 words)

My friends are all attached, I'm still looking and not finding anyone

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - All of my friends are either in a long term relationship or already married and here I am, a few months shy of turning 25 and never had a relationship. Never even dated. The only experience I've had with being anything more than "just a friend" was a one night stand about ... (413 words)

Have I put him in a cage?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had a rocky first year to our relationship where he screwed me over and lied about meeting up with his ex girlfriend. Since then he's worked so hard to regain my trust. However he's stopped seeing his female friends on a one to one basis. I feel bad about ... (115 words)

The other woman was me

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - In august I had dated this guy ( let's call him Kev )me and him had very hard problems and I asked him for some time off and he took it personally and he didn't even what to see me. During the time we dated he had introduced me to one of his friends ( let's call him J ). well ... (1713 words)

Close pictures with other girls, acceptable?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering when photos of your boyfriend close with other girls (as in faces touching close) becomes unacceptable? Is it normal drinking behaviour for guys to go out and take close pictures, or is it a sign of something more? I have asked that the photos stop, but of course ... (94 words)

My boyfriend has a crush on another girl!!!

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month and before he meet me he had a crush on this girl. Recently I found out that he still has a major crush on her, he also wrote on her facebook wall that she was gorgeoous...she I be concerned?... (49 words)

Was he playing with me or was it just in my head?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's really hard to ask for help because I am aware of how crazy this all sounds to someone hearing it and not involved but I ask that you keep an open mind and I will tell only the facts: -DEC'08 I broke up with my ex because although I still had feelings for him I felt t... (735 words)

How do I show her what she's missing out on?

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I'm really interested in this girl but I just don't know what to do. She seems really interested. We talk all the time or at least try to. I think she might be involved with some other guy but I'm not sure I was going to ask her more but how can I show her what she's ... (138 words)

Need to focus, but not on her!

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, I am just overcoming a bad breakup and I now like a girl who caught my interest with her personality. At first she seemed very sincere and caring which drew me in. I am not sure if she likes me back. I think she does because of the vibes I am getting.... (193 words)

My gf wants to go to a winter ball with another guy and I don't know what to say!

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Since I am in college and my girlfriend is still in high school she asked me if she could go the winter ball at another high school. I told her yes and why she even had to ask me. She then tells me since the ball is at another school she can't go without someone from that ... (174 words)

Do you think he cares?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy, We been hanging out/seeing each other for almost 6 months now. We act like were dating, But were not officialy because my age, Im almost 18 and he's 22, I always had a thing for older guys, I'd rather meet someone that cares about me, than a young high school ... (425 words)

I want the relationship to be like when I was home

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently in college about 2 hours away from home, so I see my girlfriend once every couple weeks if I'm lucky. Since I have left she texts me continuously and tells me how much she misses me. I don't have a problem with that, but it seems thats all she talks about. She ... (163 words)

I'm torn on whether or not I should divorce my alcoholic husband.

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm torn on whether or not I should divorce my husband. A year ago, pill popping and alcohol abuse led to him physically abusing me. I called the police (later dropping the charges) and left the house for two months and got some therapy. I went back home and things were ... (248 words)

A friend said my crush didn't like me

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I mostly hang out with guys although i have a few girl friends. recently my girl friend made me realize i had a crush on one of them without realizing it. when it told 'john' one of my guy friends he asked the guy i liked if he liked me. 'john' told me he paused before saying ... (115 words)

Feeling insecure because my partner gets so many compliments

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, here’s the problem - hope some people feel they can offer a little insight: First, to avoid confusion, I’m gay. I’m in a relationship, which appears to be showing signs of being serious. My boyfriend and I have an age gap - I am 33 and he is 20. The difficulty I’m u... (264 words)

Disastrous first attempt at sex

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I had sex for the first time today and it was kindof a disaster. We were both really nervous, and he kept loosing his erection for a while, and then he finally was able to keep it and he clumsily put on the condom. It was really hard to get it in me, and when he finally got i... (233 words)

He says I'm "perfect". Should I be flattered or is it going too fast?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I split from my boyfriend 8months ago due to cheating and lying. So ever since i've been pretty cautious with guys, as i dont want to go through that again. Two weeks ago I went to watch the rugby at a bar and when the match finished, a guy approached me and said he had been... (239 words)

I gave him an ultimatum but am having second thoughts

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago and im carrying his child and i still want him back so bad we were seeing each other for 6 years before the break up he was kinda talking to me giving me the signals that yes he try again but he said he was sorry he was just trying y... (171 words)

My b/f's baby momma is causing a strain on our relationship

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been in a relationship for 4 years and my boyfriend has a baby momma that wont go away. he can only see his kids at her house. its causing strain in our relationship we recently broke up because of her what should i do he wants to be with me and i want him but he seems ... (112 words)

I'm becoming a nervous wreck to the point where my mind plays tricks on me.

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm becoming a nervous wreck because I can't trust my boyfriend, please help? I keep looking at my boyfriend's past messages and looking for times that he may have said something he shouldn't have to another girl. I've been looking through his hotmail all night. I'v... (397 words)

Missing: My period.

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i haven't had a period in two months and iv grown a little more tired but im also in college, i was more hungry than usual but now i just feel nauseated especially with greasy foods. Is this a sign of something, other than pregnancy because i'm pretty sure im not. Thank you... (57 words)

I feel like a freak of nature!

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First I have to inform you all on the story, before my question makes some sense. Okay...Teens/young adults my age usually, already have sex or have sudden urges to do the said act. But...I find myself not feeling those urges, and frankly I don't really care 'losing my vigin... (121 words)

Mixed signals, how to interpret?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

14 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I am a girl in my twenties. At the beginning of this year I met a guy who shared a common grad class with me. At the same time he met another girl and they entered into a relationship. Although this guy had his gf yet we turned into best of friends. He is sort of a goo... (421 words)

Guilty feeling after mentally cheating on my girlfriend!

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14 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 6 years when our relationship started to die out. She seemed to have lost interrest in me and never gave me the attention I wanted. This went on to a degree she always had herself occupied with work and studies ... (996 words)

When will I know I'm ready for sex?

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14 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and recently got a boyfriend. he is really sweet and takes good care of me and i feel completely relaxed about him. me and him got a bit drunk, and we ended up pulling in a forest. we got a bit carried away and i ended up unbuttoning his shirt and trousers and gave him a ... (135 words)