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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does it hurt the second time around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I lost my virginity last year, and I am now scared to have sex again because it has been so long, and apparently it hurts again. Does it?... (28 words)

Little bumps in the road.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Things between my Fiance and myself have not been as good as they used to be, lately. It's been five years together, we have a house and a 3 year old daughter. Im having a hard time trusting him. Im not positive of infidelity, however there have been little bumps in road we ... (219 words)

Why does my brother's friend act weird towards me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My brother asked his friend and colleague to do a favor for me. I need a letter of recommendation. So, my brother told me that his friend said he was happy to write a letter for me. My brother and his friend are in the US. I met his friend 12 years ago when he was single. It ... (226 words)

Misunderstood his email, now he's mad.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months - really like him but he is playing it really cool. So i am playing it cool too. All was fine, then today he sent the following email "my phone just went blank c**t switch it on" I took the c word to be bad and thought what is ... (121 words)

Stay together for the kids?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have to ask, and I would appreciate people’s responses who have actually dealt directly with divorce, whether that is being the child involved or the parents. My parent’s divorced when I was about 8 years old; my father had been kicked out of the house countless times be... (545 words)

I hear what he's saying but I'm not listening.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - lately ive not been my sweet loving self. i find my boyfriend really irritating and annoying..i just think hes boring and when we on the phone half of the time am not even listening to what hes saying.. i dont miss him and i cant even say i love him back when he says he lov... (142 words)

Lost: Soulmate, reward if found.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I became involved with a woman seperated from her husband. She was asked for a divorce from her husband and he told her to move on. She met me shortly after and we fell in love. We talked about marriage, having a family together, bought rings for us to wear as our commitment ... (261 words)

If my checkout lane is a mile long, he'll stay in my line!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres this guy, of course how else would i start a question lol, that is shy around me and only around me at work. I try to make convo but he always looks down and around when talking to me. I think its cute lol. But the only time he talks to me is when he goes thru my line ... (126 words)

Why do some people never think before they open their mouth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I work for a pretty big company and there's one woman there who, in my opinion, really rude. I had the misfortune of seeing her today and it got me thinking: why are some people so tactless? I will give you an example: The subject came up of that group of idiots on the n... (206 words)

I want to get rid of these fanny farts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - right well where should i start.... i know it is normal but also very embarrassing an all. but when having sex with my partner sometimes i "fanny fart" that is what they call it these days well, they dont happen all the time but when they do i get really embarrassed and ... (160 words)

I heard girls in the back ground!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay to start things off Im 17 years old, and i've been dating my boyfriend, 20, for 9 months now. He moved away in July to about 1 hour away. Its been hard not to see him whenever i want too, but we settled on seeing each other on the weekends. One weekend he come down here ... (229 words)

FWBs vs. Relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy online about 2 or 3 months ago and we went on our first date a few days back. Had a great time and find myself attracted to him but I'm sensing that the feeling is not mutual. I want to start building a relationship that leads to love and I think he wants a ... (301 words)

Swinger wanting to be monogamous with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this is gonna sound really weird but anyways. i met this guy a couple of months ago and we both hit it off. a few days later he told me that he was a member of swingers club i was like oh cool. it doesnt really bother me i was happy that he was honest with me and told me ... (276 words)

Girlfriend seems to be slipping away, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 months now. I have never felt this way about anyone and she has told me over and over that she has never fallen in love this quickly before and already knows that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. The first two ... (272 words)

I added this girl on Facebook without knowing she's a blackmailer!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok Well, About last month...some girl added me to face book. I didn't know her. Then later on I had her on msn messenger list..We started chatting, and then she started getting nasty and was almost demanding me to put on my web cam. It was getting unbearable so i just let her ... (288 words)

Did I just take her virginity?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - We are friends and unintentionaly,i just entered her once,only one shot and then out,and she saw a little blood and felt pain walking.is she virgine anymore?... (26 words)

I see the "texting on the wall".

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 years old, mom of one. My boyfriend and his daughter have been living with us for the past 3.5 years. To be honest, this is the first time I've felt that "in love" feeling...deep, caring love. BF had to go stay with his best friend for Halloween weekend. His best friend ... (411 words)

Relationship addict!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, How do I get over control issues and trust issues in relationships? I seem to fall from one relationship into the next and they get progressively more and more unhealthy. My currently relationship has been going on for about 2 years and we are to the point where he... (318 words)

How to regain his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance now for almost 4 years and we are on the edge of breaking up. I recently lied to him about stupid crap. I lost my job and didn't tell him until about 2 days later. I know it was wrong and I should have told him but I was afraid to. We have been having ... (290 words)

Average woman likes a penis 7.2 inches plus? Is this survey correct?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i read something that says the average penis size is 6inc by 4.75inc around. I also read a survey that said the average woman likes a penis between 7.2 and 8inc by 6inc around. If the mean average for a man is as above and only 20% of men have a larger than the mean size ac... (117 words)

I want to be happy too, but with her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my ex and i have been broken up for about 9 weeks now. I thought that NC would do both of us some good and i have maintained NC for about 8 weeks. However the other day she talked to me again and said that she has a new boyfriend for about 8 weeks and is very happy. Hearing ... (126 words)

Confused by a woman's cycle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit confused by the woman's cycle. If I had my period the 25th of October and it ended 4-5 days later...what are my fertile days and what are my not-so fertile days? I looked at some things online but got horribly confused. Also, I wondered, are men truly more drawn to ... (61 words)

In your own personal experiences, how long does it take you to get over someone?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a question, for anyone to answer... on average, how long does it take you to get over somebody whom you've broken up with? Or who you've liked. I'm just asking because I feel as if it takes me so long to get over someone. My relationship with my first boyfriend ended 6 ... (157 words)

I hate being the green monster in this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a hugeee problem with jealousy lately. I feel like it's tearing my relationship apart, but I don't know how to stop getting jealous all the time over stupid things. As some background, I'm not a very confident person in the first place. Therefore, I've always been... (250 words)

How to deal with passive aggressive husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just learned 3 days ago that my husband is Passive Aggressive. What an eye opener. I have a feeling this will be a long letter(It is very long, grab a coffee lol), I have never spoke to anyone about this other than my older daughter, no one is aware of his behaviour, he is a ... (1573 words)

Summer lovin, happened so fast..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have a few mixes so, I usually go on holiday back to where my mother is from which is Cyprus. I stay with my grandfather and there's this guy who lives near by. I first met him when I was about 11-12 and he was 16, I really liked him and he used to smile at me and froze ... (497 words)

These 19 day periods aren't natural!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have 19 day periods is there something wrong with me im sick of it!!!! i cant get into the doctor untill 3 more weeks and the worry is killing me... I have a 4 year old and have been on depo on and off 1st time on was age 16-17 then got off and imediatly got pregnant. Than ... (105 words)

Secret relationship and now I'm pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this man okay but it is a secret love. okay so we are seeing each other it is a secret relationship we have only been seeing each other for about 2 months but i think it will work . i need your help in how i should tell my parents and my friends! okay so we are a item... (113 words)

Stop seeing this guy or let him take the reins?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About 2 months ago my boyfriend of a year broke it off. He just didn't "feel it enough," aka not enough passion, and his gut said this relationship wasn't going to work out. I thought our relationship was great. Maybe he wasn't exactly what I would imagine as my *perfect* mate, ... (359 words)

He puts on a condom when we're only making out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - as soon as we start making out my boyfriend puts on a condom. i meen like straight straight away.can it be that he doesnt like blow jobs and just doesnt want to say so thats why? he likes it when i rub him he told me. or is it just because hes cautiose and afraid of diseases?... (57 words)

He cuts off contact when he goes abroad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey.my boyfriend and i have been in an l.d.r for over a year now. we met the day he was leaving for u.k and fell in love in the few hours we spent together that day. at first we talked everyday and i was so in love but then he cut contact with me and i felt so alone. he... (236 words)

Can't finish masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well im a girl and im having my first attempts at masturbating, lol, the thing is, when i start rubbing my clit i can't go on with it, it's not like "painful" but i just feel like i have to stop? not because i think it's wrong or anything like that, it's just a bit of an ... (66 words)

She's hit rock bottom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is 25, I'm 37. In the beginning obviously everything was so great. We had alot in common, but yet differences which kept it interesting. Had a great time going out, staying in and our sex life was simply amazing. Now I feel its all changed. She lost her job 3 ... (252 words)

Anything but a fairytale..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - About 5 years ago I met once of the nicest sweetest people in the world and fell in love with her. Sounds like a fairy tale, but it is anything but. The truth is that from the get go I based our relationship on a lie and I had fidelity problems. Completely my fault, I won't ... (820 words)

How do I play it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - this guy (my brothers friend) is sending me mixed signals all the time he is way to flirty with me and i kinda fell for it, he knows he could get any girl and is so full of himself. I thought he liked me cause he knows i like him and yet he still comes round r house evryday to ... (116 words)

Grandma's playing matchmaker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think this guy likes me ?. He works in a shop in the town centre where i live. The first time i went in there, i was with my grandmother, who he already knew, and they spoke to each other a bit, and i noticed after i walked out of the shop that he was staring at me, as i ... (326 words)

Would you say he's controlling?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my boyfriend controlling me? I have been dating this guy for a year and four months. Some insight into our relationship: I have cheated on him. (Kissed an ex at a party) And told him in a hurtful way. That was four months ago. Since then we have decided to stay t... (329 words)

I do it all for him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - On the inside I’m the crazy girl with tattoos piercings and emo hair, on the out said I’m plain Jane and I do it all for my boy friend because he says its gross when girls look like that. We been together for 4 years and when we met I still lived with my mom who was really ... (487 words)

My boyfriend kisses some of his guy friends and I'm not talking a peck!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, my boyfriend kisses some of his Guy friends and not just a little Peck I have talked to him about it n told him it really bothers me that I feel like he's cheating, he stopped for a while but only after a huge argument about it n now he's started doing it again, should I ... (66 words)

Someone old or someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I got back together last night. But now, i'm having second thoughts. We broke up in mid July b/c due to another girl. They broke up 3 weeks ago..somehow me and her became friends. The thing is, I met a guy almost a month ago and we have been talking nonstop.... (142 words)

He's nice but he's also a pimp!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been single for 4 yrs because i have been burnt and didnt want to get involved. a few weeks ago i was at gym and this guy came over to me and we started talking. there was instant chemistry and i felt really free and happy with him we meet in gym 3 times a week and he ... (161 words)

He can't stand to wear a condom!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together just over 10 years, and are between 30-40 years old. He only had one sexual partner before our relationship, I had around 20. He is completely unable to maintain an erection with a condom. He can have normal regular sex fine, no problem. ... (250 words)

From Dr. Jekyll to Mr. Hyde.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello well i have a boyfriend and he was really nice when i first met him and we have been going out for almost 2 years now but now he likes to hurt me . like when we first had sex he was so gentle and careing for me but now he makes me do stuff that i... (117 words)

If I'm on an online dating site just chatting, would you call that cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have a boyfriend that nobody approves of i like him alot but the strain of sneaking out to see him is taking its toll. its hard 4 me to lie about were im going all the time. but i really like him and dont feel ready to break up with him. he has also just gone away and wont... (169 words)

What are the rules of giving one space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently the guy I've been dating for 7 months now (not my bf..just dating) has been acting not like himself..he's also not been showing so much attention that I am use to. Then I found out he is mourning from a loss family member that happened a year ago and he is also stress ... (281 words)

How should I ask my bf about the money he owes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do?? please help? my boyfriends sister wanted him to buy her make up..so he asked me to come to the shop with him..i went. he was waiting for his sister to send him the money so he could pay for the make up..it was taken quite long so i told my boyfriend i woul... (136 words)

Should I tell him my feelings and risk ruining a good thing? Or should I stick with "if you love someone let them go"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recentley reconnected with an old flame. The last time we saw each other we were intimate but I was in a relationship at the time, so we never kept in touch. It is now 10 years later and last week we disovered that we live down the road from each other. We kissed... (256 words)

My dad is still angry at me, how can I get him to forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - dear/sir/madam i cannot see anybody sad i cannot talk bad to any body.i am a very soft hearted person.but two days before such an incident happened i became angry on my father and i shouted at him we had a nasty high loud conversation at mid night.actually he entered my room ... (124 words)

How can I compete with someone I have never met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i need help,7 yrs ago 2 before we got married my husband called me by his ex wifes name,i got angry ,he apolojised but it stil happens sometimes.one night we had sex and he called by her name after this i asked him why did you do that,he said no i dont remember.lastnight he ... (113 words)

Do some men just have some kind of attraction around them or something?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Do some guys just have the mojo? like austin powers? My question is for the women out there, do some men just have some kind of attraction around them or something. Something that just makes a women want to have sex with them? If a guy was to have some super mojo (if it exis... (113 words)

Where do I go from here, its got the point where I literally cannot concentrate on work anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Help, I'm sinking in lust and love and I'm going bananas!!! I've fancied this guy at work from the moment he started last year; it has taken a while but we have gradually begun to talk more, stare at each other constantly and flirt outrageously! We've both admitted to each ... (196 words)

I love her and its difficult to forget her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in love with a girl i told her i love at that time she told me that she has a bf who cheated him she need to think, then on ther other day she told me she loves me and she also kissed me. then after 2 days she told that she want to stay single and she loves him. after fe... (304 words)

Is he is making do with me, while still on the look out for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, this might sound like a trivial question, but I thought I'd just ask for some opinions anyway. And yes, it's about online/long distance things, which I know tends to get a lot of criticism. I have been in contact with a guy for about a year and a half, we have never met, ... (337 words)

We'll be talking frequently, then suddenly he vanishes for weeks on end! What is going on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I am a bit confused. There's this guy, we met about 7 months ago and the chemistry was amazing. Then he had to go home (we met while he was on vacation) but we've been keeping in touch via the net. I had plans to come visit him early next year (April or so) and he seeme... (239 words)

How can I get to know her more so I don't lose her to someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid,i am confused, frustrated and i need help.There is one girl who normally sits next to me in class...from the very first day that i got admission to the school.,she always stares at me.But the problem is anytime we come in an eye contact,she will just smile and i will ... (114 words)

How do I approach my friends about a threesome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i want to bring up the topic of a threesome with some friends of mine (they're the couple), but don't know how to go about it. i wanted to know, hopefully from couples who've done this sort of thing before, what would be the best way to open the subject? and how would i know ... (91 words)

I just don't want my husband anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i am 31 and my hubby is 33, we have been together for 11 years, married for 6 and have 3 children together, 9,7,4. my problem is that i don't want him any more, i hate him a lot of the time and i don't want him to touch me any more. i do have dreams about other men and ... (173 words)

How would you feel if you found out your spouse had been lying to you before you got married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How would people feel if they found out their spouse has been lying to them since before the marriage proposal about serious betrayals and disloyalty? Lied throughout the engagment and after marriage...What kind of a person can lie to their partner day in and day out about ... (75 words)

Would anyone please describe experience with dating Danish men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently liking a Dane. I just want to know if it is a given that you are together just because you are all sweet and stuff. How is it in Denmark? Is it true that they don't talk about it but you're already exclusive with each other over there? ... (51 words)

I'm worried he is too nice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having trouble with this new guy i'm going to meet up with. I got this number off a networking site and we've been texting each other for a few weeks. We are now planning to meet up soon but the thing he is a nice guy. I know that any girl would say I'm crazy for being un... (155 words)

It is so close to our wedding but we both have doubts! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was in love with a guy.We are in relationship since 2yrs now.We decided to get married.He used to do all lovely things to me.Very caring,Affectinate,Not at all aggressive and all.Everything was so smooth and going pretty well. Suddenly a girl came in between and he g... (262 words)

Is there any end to our sufferings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.. I am a 19 yrs old girl. I need your help and prayers. I need your time. Plz help me. I am surrounded with so many problems that i've forgotten myself. My mother died when i was small. After that, we are suffering continunusly. My father is a heart patient. I've 2 ... (210 words)

Catching up with an old crush

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, the good news is that I'll be graduating within in 4 or so weeks. The bad news is that my luck with girls wasn't really good...It doesn't matter, I'm still young. Had a crush my senior year in high school. We would sit at lunch together, and see each other in the hal... (296 words)

Get back with ex or go with new girl who offered support and grew attached?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my ex GF and i want to get back together, or are in the process of sorting out ourselves. we both have realised our mistakes in our old relationship and are having fun dating. however there are a couple of obstacles in the way: - her parents dont like me, they have ope... (356 words)

Why is it so hard to meet a decent honest man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is it so hard to meet a decent honest man? My last relationship ended nearly three years ago. We were together for 11 years - most of which was very good and we broke up simply because we had grown apart. I made the decision to move back to my home town and I felt so ... (272 words)

I told my best friend what her husband had said, and now her husband and my boyfriend have turned against me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Drama! Drama! Drama! My boyfriend, my best friend and her husband and i aré really cool.. We text or call each other all the time.. Well my boyfriend and her husband were friends before they met us and she and i were friends before we met them... Well the other Day my friends ... (355 words)

She walked out on me and we had only been engaged for 2 days! Will she contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my partner walked out on me two weeks ago, we were only engaged for two days..... will she contact me or do i move on?... (25 words)

I can't switch off my feelings. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - 3 years ago, i committed adultery and fall in love with a prostitute. eventually, she stop being one on her own accord, and i get friends to teach her how to do massage instead. Then we became romantically involved. Strangely, she ask about Christ one day. I shared to her...and ... (263 words)

Is this just a rough patch because of the distance? Or do I just not love him enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I feel so lost. Like a horrible girlfriend. Like a horrible person in general, I honestly don't know what to do that Im turning to total strangers for comfort. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and things are serious. The only problem is its a long distance ... (351 words)

My ex tried to use me........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex tried to use me,i hadnt heard from him for 4 years,but 3 weeks ago i had a message from him,i had a coffee with him,then he trys it on,i refused and said its best to stay friends,i spoke to him a few days ago through email and asked him what all of this was about,he said ... (182 words)

Found out husband talks to co-worker about us, now I don't trust him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) age 41-50 - so i recently found out my husband of 8yrs but weve been together 15 talks about our problems 2 a female coworker complaining about things and me. he didn't tell me about her i had 2 play detective,he says she is attracting they are just friends she's just someone 2 talk 2 he ... (119 words)

Relationship advice for gay 14 year olds.

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am a gay 14 year old boy who has NO idea how to get a boyfriend. I recently moved and I know no one at all. I know it sounds a little inconsistent, but I really want a boyfriend. Are online relationships a bad idea? Thanks for you advice.... (51 words)

I'm scared to be naked in front of him!

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have been dating this guy for 7 weeks now.We finally decided to have sex.But now im soo worried.Its coz i have stretch marks on my ass n boobs.Im shy to be naked in front of him. I'm confused as too what he will think and if this will bring any issue in our relationshp.Im ... (93 words)

LDR girlfriend is giving me too much drama

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - let me clarify, sorry about that but answer will be appreciated Okay, I'm a long distance relationship here... we been going out for 8 months but in august she went to college to another city. sometimes she comes to visit but we do have problems. For example, we argu... (604 words)

Can he forget what happened?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was partying with common friend of mine and my boyfriend.I got late so stayed at his place.But he started kissing me.I pushed him away and i didn't do anything.But he was trying to kiss me that i couldn't resist and i kissed him back for a very little time.As i said i didnt ... (302 words)

I think my marriage is dead.

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12 November 2010 (F)

age - I'm a 46 year old woman in a 24-year-old loveless marriage. I should say it's loveless on my side only. My husband loves me dearly and would do anything for me. But I don't love him anymore. I tried to leave him a year ago, but lost my nerve and got back together with him (we ... (604 words)

Do I need to approach this girl that my husband is friends with?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi! My husband is working in a call center for almost 3 years now. We have been married for 2 years and 8 years as gf/bf. I saw a picture of my husband and his girl officemate that is so close and i can't help to ask if there is something between them.. I discovered small ... (161 words)

I'm still carrying what she suffers with. I can't stop loving her!

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12 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I had the most wonderful relationship with a wonderful girl, and now's it gone. I loved her so much, she meant the world to me. Waking up beside her was the finest thing I had to look forward to. She suffered with horrible emotional trauma from the past. Rape, and physical ... (291 words)

When I see a guy flirting with my girlfriend I want to punch him!

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12 November 2010 (M) age 30-35 - I absolutly 100% until infinity and beyond love my best friend she means the world to me and I want to tell her but dont want to mess up our relationship every time I see a guy flirting with her I want to punch him right in the face! I try to talk to her but either her friends ... (103 words)

Do guys like it when girls ask them out?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy have hung out a few times. We made out after a night a drinking. ( we have hung out after ) I like him, I feel he likes me too. I made a comment how I would never go for a guy I work with, but would break the rule for him. Should I just ask him out? Do guys like ... (71 words)

Is it too much to ask my boyfriend to care about his personal hygeine?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boy friend have been together for four years we been having sex for 3 ish years , I’ve never had a true orgasms, I always thought it was me because when still lived at home with our families we had to sneak around I was always afraid we get caught so I never truly ... (350 words)

He said he needs some time, but I think he wants to break up

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 my boyfriend is 34.. he recently asked me for sometime off the relationship. I feel really confused he says he needs time because he is sick and he needs time with his children and I understand but I don't understand why is he is saying that if we only saw each other ... (304 words)

We've both tried moving on, and I can't seem to get away from thinking about her

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Some background information: So my ex and I dated for 2 years and we've known each other for about 5. We go to the same college, we still hang out, we still talk all the time... But the last couple months or two we were dating (before we both left for college), we fought about ... (336 words)

Really complicated mess! Please help!

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys this is a rather long question so sry in advance.For the purpose of this question i will need to tell u yhe whole story, so here it goes. A while back i saw a girl (duh) and it was whoa like love at first sight.the problem is that i did not know her that well.(read ... (542 words)

Was he just handing me a line of bull?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - So I signed up for online dating and a very hot man contacted me. He was very complimentary to me and a we texted and talked on the phone alot. After about 2 weeks we met at a sports bar for a ver nice 1st date. Later that night he asked me out for that friday. When I told him ... (260 words)

Cheating husband won't ask for a divorce! Why?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age - My husband has been cheating for 1 year in Nov. We have been married 20 years. Why won't he ask for a divorce. He has come into an inheritance as of late and I was sure he would take the money and run! I took care of his father during his last days Do you think it is guilt? ... (109 words)

Is he waiting till I graduate?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am a new comer to the U.S and I couldn't speak well-English when I just got there and I am a student in a HIGH SCHOOL . I've met lot of students , teachers and people who helped me a lot to improve my English skills and they're all proud of me because my grades are good... (771 words)

I'm in lust with my girlfriend's sister and her feet!

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a gf for 2 and a half years. I love her so much. I am a foot fetish guy and I want her sister's feet and I want to have sex with her. one time i slept in their house and i slept near the feet of her sis and i touched i and licked it. it happened for 2 nights. me and her ... (120 words)

Girl I like says she thinks even 6" is too small, now I feel insecure!

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - You've probably heard this a trillion times but I just can't get over it for some reason. I've gone through this phase of insecurity before. I had been consoled by a friend and I thought I was feeling confident and over it, but after hearing some of my female friends talking ... (381 words)

Why is he acting this way? Its like he doesn't care anymore!

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive been in a relation with my boyfriend for two years and sic months, i am 15 and he is 18...i have cheated on him twice and have told him about it because i felt horrible. I know i will no longer do it...i love him... Well anyways, the last time i cheated on him was when we ... (382 words)

She's a virgin and I fingered her and now she's bleeding

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I have a real problem. On saturday I fingered my girlfriend for the first time, and I went a little far. Also, I had a VERY VERY VERY tiny amount of precum on my finger, (less than a dab, and I didn't have a previous ejaculation). Anyway, sunday she started getting ... (151 words)

I feel like my boyfriend puts me on the back burner.

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now. We are both 20 years old. I really love him, except for the fact that his friends seem to never get enough of him. They are constantly calling or texting him when we are together. We hang out once to two times a week, ... (303 words)

I'm falling in love with everyone!

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I was wondering if it is weird that i fall in love with like everybody? Just lately I have begun having strong feelings for guys that are like twice my age and totally ugly. Its kind of had to explain but once i meet a guy; no matter how ugly they are, if i spend enough tim... (113 words)

Does he like me? Like my friend?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hmm, so I started talking to this guy named Jordan.. Well we have been talking for at least 3 months, but we didn't talk alot. Since than, we have exchanged numbers and such, and we USED to text constantly, like everyday. Now I'm lucky if he even talks to me.. It seems... (259 words)

Should I pay my mom back?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I need some advice. Ok. So I get food stamps 200 to help out. I'm 19 and @ the time I was job less. So before I got my food stamps my mom was payin my phone bill ( 98.00 ) and she told me to sign up for food stamps, so she can save some money. Because food is going up... (326 words)

She loves me, she hates me, I'm confused!

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a girl at my school who I like alot. She hates me alot. She rides the same bus as me. She always sits on my lap for the bus ride even if there are empty seats on the bus. If she falls asleep her head is in my neck. When we get to school she doesn't hate me for first ... (132 words)

After such a strong connection, he tells me he just wants to be friends

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Sorry if this is long I just really need help. I already posted a question similar but it hasnt helped. Me and this guy had a thing. Im 15 and hes 18. One day we clicked and he asked for my number. We were flirting and everything. I have liked him for the four years I have ... (399 words)

I'm disturbed by the fact that my girlfriend had a lot of sexual partners before me

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 22 year old male and I'm currently with my girlfriend of 4 months. She is 18 years old. We have been having regular sex since we were together, and I love her very much. In fact, I love her more than anyone I've ever been with. Until recently, we began to open up... (209 words)

How can I stop being overprotective towards my girlfriend

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years. My ex girlfriend left me. For more than 2 years I've had a very good relationship with my girlfriend, however sometimes I feel I am overprotective, or ask too many questions. We have talked about this together. We both agree th... (311 words)

I get anxious when I talk to my boyfriend and have a hard time trusting him

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm getting anxious feelings every time I speak to/think about my boyfriend? A good example to give is this one that's happening right now. I'm on the phone to him, and I'm so happy that I'm talking to him as we've just come back from a holiday and I've become closer to hi... (448 words)

My girlfriend's best friend is really causing problems!

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice - I'm sorry this is so long, but there's a lot to it. My girlfriend and I are having problems (we're lesbians) – but not to do with our relationships, or anything between us. We are both madly in love with each other and plan on spending the rest of our ... (1464 words)

What is the deal with my ex? Why does he keep tossing me around like this?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my first boyfriend this summer. We were together for two months and then he dumped me. A lot of people say it isn't such a big deal or what not, but I still had all these feelings for him. It took me a long time to get over him. And it seemed like whenever I would make a ... (662 words)

Girlfriend cries every night on the phone

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a girlfreind of 3 years and every night she crys on the phone. i have to ask her what wrong she doesnt tell me. she then goes on to be very nasty to me what can i do.. i feel i need to help but im so so emotionaly drained. i have tried everthing realy. can someone please ... (62 words)

I'm scared to kiss him!

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - anyone answer (mostly guys) !!!! so , me and my boyfriend have been dating a while now ... I want to kiss him butt I'm scared . he's like 4-5 inches shorter than me , and he's really hyper ... ALL THE TIME . I want to let him know I love him and I want to kiss him . he can be ... (129 words)

What to do when love is one sided?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband I are married 10 years. We have had our ups and downs. Most of our marriage has been ups. Within the past year and a half I feel like everything is one sided. I really do everything in our lives. He works at his job, but that is all. We have four children, I do ... (297 words)

Confused!! Am I in love with the other man, am I seeking attention or should I just try making my marriage work?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i do? I need some major advice cus im so confused. First of all im a 21 yr old wife ive been married for about 3 1/2 yrs now and we have a 2 1/2 yr old daughter. I admit i have a problem with cheating emotionally. I mean first of all i got married at 17. Thats way to y... (540 words)

I want to have sex but something stops me. Am I not ready?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and a virgin by choice. i've decided that i was going to wait to have sex. now though i want to do it but i just can't bring myself to do it. i want to but something in me makes me stop. what should i do? does this mean i'm not ready?... (54 words)

Her past bothers me a lot and I don't know what to do!

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12 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid About two years ago I ment this girl while I was at a bar league softball game! At the time she was 19 and I was 24. I bought her a shot she bought me one back we had some small talk but I didnt have enough courage to persue her! A few weeks later I was in a serious ... (946 words)

How do you stay away from somebody you cant let go of but at the same time you know is bad for you?

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12 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Recently i've been thinking about this situation i'm in and have decided that enough is enough and i need to change it once and for all. I will cut this story very short. Basically i liked this guy, who turned out to be a complete jerk and now he has a girlfriend but still ... (166 words)

Why would he try to be "friends" after a nasty break up?

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12 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why would a guy who broke up with me after a couple months of dating (and was rather nasty about it) want to still be friends. He continues to text me to just say "hi" even though I've told him I am not interested in a friendship with him. It's only been a couple weeks since ... (89 words)