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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Long Distance - Not Allowed - Relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I had a very serious relationship last year and it ended in July 16, 2010. After my ex and I broke up we didn't talk for awhile, and he got a new girlfriend and everything and he started talking to me again and he still had strong feelings for each other and we wanted to be ... (295 words)

Getting married soon and have never had sex before... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 23 years old and about to get married to my boyfriend. We haven't had sex before. The problem is that i dont know anything about sex, how does this operation start, what happens in it, how does it end, what is the couple doing during it, I know nothing of that, im comp... (145 words)

How can I contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age - Having just had a fabulous holiday in a smashing Hotel owned by a chain in the UK-I found myself very attracted to a younger man-much younger. He seemed interested although it was apparant he was going out with one of his work colleagues. He was always eyeing me up and... (425 words)

Are my reasons for wanting to end this whole thing and never enter into a relationship with him again reasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of four months around one month ago. We had been friends for three years before finally deciding to go out, so we decided to go back to being friends. It turned out that we ended up being "friends with benefits". Only difference really in our re... (700 words)

How do I get him to prove he's been cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I was tidying his room today and found a reciept for a hotel room from 2 weeks ago, 6 Nov 10. The hotel is in the city centre which is about 10 minutes from his house so I know he wouldn't have stayed there after a night out with friends, ... (167 words)

This guy doesn't like me for no reason... it's confusing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys just a little probem i have that is niggling in my head for a while now. ill try and kee this short and to the point. i am i mysecon year of uni and i live in a house share and my flat met with the upstairs flat a few months ago and i met one of the guys up there. w... (372 words)

My "friend" stole the girl I love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well what do you think when your friend takes the girl your in love with even if you weren't dating this girl. I have been interested in this girl for longer than most people would have interest for. I have liked her for about 6 months and haven't really flirted to much ... (395 words)

Is there something mentally wrong with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So listen i been dating this guy for a year and some change. Well it's been a rough patch. A week before sweetest day i broke up with him, He was very verbally abusive and talked about my child, not to mention I was pregnant with his child. Well to make a long story short he ... (202 words)

What more can I do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I decided not to have sex till we're married, its hard though, but we're coping. We do do other things like fingering, muffing, licking and sucking her boobs. But i want to know what more can i do to pleasure her without having sex. Thanx Guys ... (50 words)

Friends, lovers then friends again... but what are we now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated/lived with my ex-boyfriend for about 7 months. (we broke-up 5 months ago.) At the end or our realationship I became very insecure and was convienced that he wasnt into me anymore. This eventually broke us up. At first when we broke up we did not speak at all. Then ... (850 words)

I'm tempted to have a one night stand and maybe get it out of my system but I really don't want to hurt my boyfriend... Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been in a gay relationship now for four and a half years. Not long after getting with my boyfriend I found out he was chatting to other lads on the internet and swapping naked pictures. When I found out and confronted him about it he said it was all harmless fun.. s... (245 words)

How do I move on when he keeps pulling me back in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm having trouble moving on after a past relationship that has lasted over ten years. About eight years ago this man had cheated on me, it was like this rollercoaster ride ever since. I was so in love with him and made every effort to work on things. I ended up moving away ... (183 words)

Will I get any bigger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I know this is asked a lot but it's an issue I have to deal with. I'm so discouraged by my penis size. I'm a 16 year old boy and when you look at me you see a buff looking guy who you'd a assume has a larger than average size. But that's not the case. My penis is ... (229 words)

Do you think he's keen on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and there's this guy that's 14, the thing is he lives in the apartment building next to me... I think I really like him but he's just younger than me and my close friend says he's a good friend just not bf material.. I think she may be right since one of his friends ... (92 words)

Why is my friend always so snappy with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a good friend who had a baby about 6 months ago. shes very protective over her but have also noticed shes very snappy with me. i know shes had a lot of sleepless nights and am understanding about this but it seems lately anything i say makes her snap. its putting me on ... (92 words)

Should I try to become "the 1950's" model wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is should I try and change myself to try to be perfect all the time and basically be the 1950's wife (I have accepted the cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids, but I dont agree with the "Dont speak unless spoken to")? My husband grew up in the traditonal ... (293 words)

Help!!! Career advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hey guys-not after relationship advice-just general advice please help me ok im after a new job and somethings caught my eye big time. i only have a week to apply and in the job spec it states that i need intermediate ms office skills. now i have word etc but extremely bad on e... (89 words)

Trying to squirt... what am I doing wrong???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months but we've known each other since we were 15. we were talkin about our sexual experiences and he brought up squirtin, something I have never done but hes made females do. so one night we decided to have sex and try it NOTHING. ... (112 words)

Help!!! Should I tell my boyfriend that my ex tried to call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My current boyfriend who I am seeing for 7 months now used to be my bestfriend. There is no secret he doesn't know especially about my ex who I have struggled so much to forget for almost a year. Anyway, he helped hasten my coping up with the break up which led us to a rela... (263 words)

Still scared of my abusive ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this abusive ex boyfriend whom i been with him for 2 years and after i decided that i had enough of insults,pain and hurt i broke up with him then the drama started as i never excepted he turned into a very obssesed person that may beg and plead cry to get back to him ... (180 words)

Safe sex condom change!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you change a condom after cumming, without risking getting any on you or your partner to continue with intercourse?... (21 words)

Stuck between two men!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so i have been dating ben for 2 years now, i am 15 and he is 16, he was also the first guy i was intamate with. But, for the last 3 months we have been getting to comfortable with each other, i feel as if i am one of the guys when were alone and then im his girlfriend when ... (674 words)

Girlfriend dumped me over a lie, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend was hospitalized due to a mental illness. Seeing as we had a very important class together, I informed the professor she would be gone for a while due to being in the hospital. I did not tell anyone why, just that she was. I made sure to respect her privacy. When ... (304 words)

She left without a real reason

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok...So I met this wonderful lady with 3 kids 4 years ago and started dating. I got scared because I really liked her and then all of a sudden she disappeared. 4 years later, we meet up again and I find out that she has watched me from a far throughout the years. We both were ... (164 words)

Do I wait another 5 months on him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - As I've said in another question, I've been with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now. Like quite a lot of people I'd assume, he's been in his fair share of trouble. About 6 months ago he finished a 12 month prison sentence, and has since been on a 12 month probation ... (347 words)

Need relationship advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I'm too young to date, but everywhere I look I see everyone in a relationship. I'm not the jealous type or anything. But for no reason at all, I want a boyfriend. I can only get along with people older than me, people my age, not so much. I'm WAY into older guys, some ... (95 words)

Do you deep throat 6"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i give a real good blowjob? my boyfriend has a 6inch penis, do i deep throught or what. suggestions ... (27 words)

We both want different things in life... help!

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a dilemma and I need some advice off someone who doesn't know me so cant judge or show biased views. I've been with my fiancée now for 2 and half years and to say it's been rocky is an understatement. I know there is something there in the lines of love and I... (724 words)

I know I don't want a baby right now... so why do I keep thinking of them???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, babies! To start at the beginning (obvious, right?) I didn't have the most amazing childhood, and my parents didn't have the most amazing marriage (I know no one has things perfect but I would have at least wished for 'average') Because of this I have, from "dating" ag... (405 words)

In love with a married man. What is my future? Is this a sin??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am unmarried and in love with a married man who's 22 years elder than me. He's got his wife and daughter in India and says if he divorced his wife she would commit suicide. I don't want to make her sad either. Currently he works in Dubai. His love for me is wonderful and I ... (175 words)

How can I tell my future husband about the past sexual abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was sexually abused over a period of four years, I was eight years old when this took place. I lost my Mother at the age of twelve. After my Mother's death my Father used to suggest that I invite a group of girlfriends over for the weekend, he would then insist on us all g... (242 words)

What does a brown discharge mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have brown discharge coming from my vagina and i cant go to a doctor can anyone tell me what it is and what to do about it?... (28 words)

Should I stay with my girlfriend who has love addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age - I have a dilemma: I think my girlfriend has love addiction. I have been dating this woman for over a year now. She is 44 and I am 47. I have discovered that she has been in lots and lots of relationships before we met, some lasting a few days to a few years. I have ... (277 words)

Cumshots! Outrageous???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have heard that one of the latest things in porn is to have multiple oral cumshots. I've heard that some of the women have had up to 20 or more men cum in their mouth and pretty much mad to swallow all of it. How can any woman like that? Do any other woman find that ... (58 words)

How do I help my parents understand me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I need advice on how to deal with my parents.You see,I am an african american and so are my parents.my mom is 41 and my dad is 53,so theyre old-fashioned people.I am very much into rock music(hardcore,punk rock,christcore..etc)the emo/scene/gothic subculture,and most of the ... (313 words)

Is this an appropriate subject for her to discuss with my husband??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to do a poll... Is it appropiate that a female friend of my husbands told him about her getting a boob job? Also if there are any other topics you think are taboo to mention to an opposite sex friend when both parties are attached please share. They became friends a... (60 words)

Please interpret his words??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I just want to ask about my boss.He told me I am special and He like me..I am still thinking about those words what He said.What is the real feeling of a guy if He said that words to a girl? ... (51 words)

Men only! Does this work for you??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - For the boys, would you not wana date a girl who says the following: 'if u want, u can call me,' and 'i'd like to come see u orrr like in a flirty way ask 'y did u add me on fb' (hint hint) I was just tryna flirt but maybe it backfired? i suck at this! im no mystery! boys, how ... (78 words)

Am I over my feelings for him or not, if not what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there's this guy that I've liked for two years. He's an amazing guy, makes me smile whenever i see him, there's only one problem, he's my brothers best friend. Also one of my good friends brother. He's 3 and a half years older than me, I dn't know why I've liked him this ... (219 words)

He leaves me alone, I feel isolated and resentful, what do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I just moved to London from Birmingham for post-grad studies, and I'm having an absolutely miserable time here. He's never around because he always has a lecture, a seminar, a project meeting to go to, even at the weekend, so I constantly find myself alone in our ... (305 words)

Relationship has broken down over trust issues, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend, it just turned 1 year and 9 months. The problem with out relationship is that he doesn't trust me. I don't know why though. But what really is bothering me that he doesn't trust me with my bestfriend. I have never cheated on him ... (165 words)

Why is he so distant at times??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy that i have known for a couple years but i never really talked to him until recently i got a job where he also works. Ever since then we talk all t he time at work and then we'll also text each other. Then i asked him if he was busy one friday night because i wanted to ... (158 words)

Has he lost interest, moved on, what??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a long distance relationship and we've been apart for the past month but have lived together for four months proceeding him leaving and were a couple. He's gone to the other side of the country for four months so that he can renew his visa and stay with me in ... (413 words)

Need some tips on how to talk to girls, please??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I go about talking to girls? I'm not a very social person. Quite introverted, so how would I go about perhaps even making friends with a girl. Maybe even asking one on a date or anything? I'm quite an awkward kid, and there's a few girls at work that I sorta like, but ... (113 words)

Why is my gf so moody or is it me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello dearcupid and everyone else on it. I've just been having some girlfriend issues lately and was wondering if anyone could shed some light on this.. See, there's my girlfriend; She's really, really hypersensitive and when I like to joke around and have fun, she'll ... (655 words)

Am I begin paranoid about "Georgia?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, just wanting to know if i'm being paranoid OR if my feelings and thoughts could actually be true. K so. I'm three months pregnant with our second child, our first child is eight months old. We've been engaged for four months and together for two years. My fiance got ... (403 words)

Why does he want to know??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Very long story short. I remanined in contact with an ex FWB so to speak. I was kind of torn with the idea of staying in touch just a friends because i thought it might be a bit awkward. Anyway, i'm single and he has a girlfriend now. He's been with her about a year i t... (303 words)

Confused over this entire thing??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hello i need some advice on what to do my girlfriend left me three months a go she kept texting me telling me she loved me and wanted to work things out any way the whole time she was saying this i found out looking on fb she was in a relationship with another girl.i am hurt ... (188 words)

What makes someone a 'Soul Mate'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How would you classify the terms "Soulmate"? What does it mean to you, do you think you can have more than one?... (22 words)

Give it another go with the ex and move on to the new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey lovely Agony Aunts, I've wrote a few times about my Marine (ex) boyfriend.. quick background: we started dating this summer, I couldn't have been more excited, everything was PERFECT. He went back to his base and everything fell apart. He stopped calling, texting... (384 words)

Should I contact him or not??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I currently finished my first year in college and happened to have met this guy during the last couple of weeks I was there. We met in class. I initiated a conversation with him, as he seemed not interested in me at all but I wanted to make things less uncomfortable as we we... (522 words)

Why can my ex talk about our past but I can't?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't get this, why can my ex bluntly talk about our past together by saying, remember when I did this with you? Or I gave this to you, but when I talk to her about our past together or to tell her how I felt about something she had been asking me for months on end, she just ... (119 words)

Do I ask him outright if he is seeing someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy on a dating site, we have been seeing each other since september,i really like him, only see him once or twice a week as we don't live near each other and he works late afternoons, i know it's not very long, but i know he is still on the dating site, also know ... (142 words)

Gifts for a 14 year old boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my bf have been dating for 2 years now and i dont know what to get him for christmas and i dont know what he is getting me and i need some ideas for christmas gifts for a 2 year relationship and me and him are both 14.... (50 words)

He said he wanted to marry me then out of the blue he says he's not meant for each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupied , something happend this days but unexpectet, truly one boy wrote me in fb.and he told me that he likes me, i acceptet his invitation and I began to speak with him , i didnt give him a phone number only in fb we chat. every time he said to me that he miss me , thi... (425 words)

Can you find true love in your mistress? should I leave my wife and marry her?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age - i have been dating my mistress for 3 years. we decided that its time to take the next step. i am in the middle of a project abroad that will be completed in march 2011. i decided to file for a divorce then. in three years we have seen good times and bad and survived. i am 47 an... (132 words)

B/f asked me to change my plans, why can't he change his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend works long hours on weekdays with the weekends off. So this saturday, he's spending the entire day with a friend and wants to see me sunday which is my cousin's birthday. I told him I'm sorry but couldn't, he asked me if I could leave early and after a ... (139 words)

I'm worried that I'm in love with my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried I'm in love with my best friend , I sometimes dream about us making love , and once when I was drunk ( although I don't remember) I told her I was in live with her, when she mentioned it I said " lol i must have been really drunk to say something like that" what a ... (80 words)

Should I give him another chance or stay broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years almost a year ago. About 4 months into our relationship he went on holiday with his friends and when he came back he told me he had slept with someone. He was in tears when he told me and begged me to forgive him. It was really painful ... (420 words)

Boyfriend really in denial about his drinking

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why is that my boyfriend gets drunk all the time he is only 34 he is a truck driver? he wakes up looking for something to drink everyday and wonder why our relationship has gone sour he blames for everything he is really in denial about his drinking.Im not going to blame it on ... (225 words)

Will I get bored with just one man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a rather complicated question, to be honest I think I am looking for reassurance rather then an answer. I have struggled for a few years with my mental health due to this I decided not to interact romantically with men,I knew that I was vulnerable and didn't want to d... (196 words)

Why can't I meet a man my age with the same level of inexperience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How come I can't meet a man of my age with the same level of "inexperience"? I wouldn't mind if he is younger than me as long he is over 21. But I was raised not to take sex sightly and do it with people you are in love with. that doesn't seem the norm as all the men i have ... (105 words)

I don't get this girl! She's complicated and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m a male of 26. Since I broke up with my ex of 3 years in January, I have been dating different girls with nothing serious coming of anything. However, 2 and a half month ago I got talking to a girl I had liked for a long while, she had recently came out of a long-term ... (893 words)

Date 7 - talk about being exclusive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, The guy I'm dating hasn't said anything about get getting exclusive and this wk we have Date 7. I know he's a guy who probably should stay a bachelor. Very busy, has tons of friends. Should I tell him on our date what I want - to be someone's GF and that I get the ... (149 words)

My sister wants us to have group sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anyone had sex in the same room as another couple, and if so why? My sister wants me to do this in her room while she makes love to her boyfriend on a separate bed. She won't say why she wants it like that.... (51 words)

I have a live in boyfriend and a married lover!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Where do I start? I'm in a relationship with a married man and I'm in love with him however, I also, have a live-in boyfriend but that relationship is broken and has been before I became involved with the married man. I don't know what to do. I tried ending things numerous ... (324 words)

I feel sad because no one loves me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i feel sad because no one loves me. every time i see a perfect couple, i think in my head," will that ever be me? No it cant be." and then i start tearing. there is also this guy that i like. i have told him that i love him, but he never told me if he loved me back. and that ... (133 words)

It was like a fairytale, now I hardly see her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl 6 weeks ago now, usually i am shallow and decide before sleeping with girls if i plan to see them again. This girl took my breath away on first sight, first meeting. Everything was magical from both sides for 2 weeks it was better than a fairytale, no not just ... (373 words)

I had to be with family on our 1 year anniversary and girlfriend is mad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Thanks for checking out my question. I really appreciate it. Well firstly, my girlfriend is mad and disappointed at me. And I know it's my fault. So here's the situation. Couple of days ago, it was our 1 year anniversary. I made her a long letter telling her ... (247 words)

Why didn't he fight for me instead of giving up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5115 days ago

20 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok,I'm 14 years old and I've never had a boyfriend so I dont know how those things work.We move a lot so I go to this new school now and there is a new guy in our grade hes from Russia(his name is Armen he came one day before i did)and I really like him,he is just like me only ... (369 words)

I am hooked on a married woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, there is this married women I am very attracted to. Her husband is friend of mine and they have been married for about 5 years now and have 2 kids. Well, for the last year or so we have been talking a lot every chance I get and I think she is having an emotional affair ... (347 words)

Her mouth says one thing her actions another

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been a little over a week since we broke up. She felt like she was "tying herself down too early" and wanted to live college life, go party, flirt with guys, have fun, etc instead of committing to someone so soon. As loving as I always was to her, she just got bored with ... (373 words)

Boyfriend is away and my feelings for my best friend are growing stronger

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, well i have a problem i'm dealing with right now. my boyfriend is out of the city for a couple of months doing a recruting thing, honestly before he left he really didn't say "i love you" as often as i wanted to hear it and right now i'm getting really close to my ... (118 words)

My boyfriend of three years keeps breaking promises

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old college student, who has been dating the same guy since my freshmen year. I am now a Junior in college. My question is about my boyfriend and how he makes broken promises. Basically he has made plenty of broken promises, he is the type of individual who likes ... (167 words)

We broke up, she sent text, I responded and she says we are over and cant be friends

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20 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - hi, my expartner text me yesterday to pass on her condolences for a friends funeral i was attending. she never new this person so why after not talking to me for three weeks would she do this. she said she was thinking of me and hoped i was ok. i tried to call her but she would ... (88 words)

How do I meet women with moral fiber?

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20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not a bad looking guy; I'm just angry all the time. Nobody really knows that I'm angry. It's not like I walk around growling, breaking things and shaking my fist at little kids. The problem is that when it comes time to be happy or talk to somebody my hate for the worl... (521 words)

Sex used to be a pleasure now it's just a chore!

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - so i have been dating my ex foe about 7 months, hes 31 and im 29 and just recently broke up(at his request) mainly because i dould not give him "head" everyday or whenever he wanted it, or out in public, in the parking lot of the mall, la fitnes (you see where im going with ... (282 words)

How much bigger will I be in 6 years?

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20 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 15 and i am a little bigger than 6 inched erect is that good and how much bigger do you think ill be by the time im 21... (30 words)

I have applied to his college so I can win back his love

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, what do I do? I met the love of my life two years ago, and although we're young, I know for 100% that it has to him. Problem is, he just doesn't love me. Before you tell me that I'm young, before you tell me that it's puppy love and BEFORE you tell me that ... (602 words)

Very confused about my feelings and my online boyfriend

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm scared, I don't want to leave my country (mexico) right now, I wanna stay here, but I don't see a chance for me to make my dreams come true here that makes me sad, scared and frustrated. I've been thinking a lot in my "online bf" and right now just the fact I still don't ... (172 words)

Should I talk to him again after nothing for a month?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy back in april online, I thought he was perfect he was 21 lived in washington, Im 18 and live in dublin ..ages away! anyway we talked for around 6 months loads, and he kept asking me to come over to him and I was really going to, anyway I haven't signed online for ... (88 words)

Does she want me to be her boyfriend?

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20 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a perfect girl. She gave me her number so we could discuss a thing I had for sale but that same night we talked about much more. This would happen many times; we'd text from 4 pm till 1 AM. She had a bf at the time but broke up a bit ago. I asked ... (253 words)

Is it wrong for me to look inside my boyfriends phone?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong for me to go in my boyfriend phone? My boyfriend laid his phone down so i picked it up and went in it i saw women pictures text saying when u coming back to see me and him telling someone he love them and the woman saying she love him why am i still with this idiot ... (68 words)

My co worker wants more, I want to be professional

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've worked with this guy for a couple years now and over that time we've become what I considered friends. He's been in a serious live-in relationship since I've known him and has me in age by about 10 or 15 years, so I didn't see the harm in being friends with him. I guess it ... (450 words)

Why am I alone? What did I do to deserve this?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married but had since move out on my own. I couldn't accepted the fact that my husband has been unfaithful to me in less than a year of our marriage. I have been asking myself am i the cause of a failed marriage?? Why can't i be like normal person have family of my own, be ... (136 words)

Have I been a rat in this relationship?

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20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Basically this is a problem with me not knowing what to do. A girl that I slept with a fair while back, but hadn't seen in some time, recently started seeing me again despite minimal contact (a couple of texts) over the time apart. We've been out frequently, done ... (384 words)

How do I lose the FW bit but keep the F?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my fwb is gay. I have a close guy friend. Besides the benefits, We have so much in common, he's my soulmate. When I first met him I thought he was gay and I was cool with that, I asked him and he flat out denied it. Seduced me to prove a point, it was cozy, comforting ... (301 words)

I don't know if my girl is being genuine and faithful to me

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20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - First of all, thank you for taking the time out of your life to hear and possibly help mine. This is a really long and possibly boring story, but it's a story that I need to be looked at and told what to possibly do. It's driving me crazy. Comments and Critiques I completely ... (1595 words)

I am addicted to the thought of having a baby

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I wont tell you how old I am but I have been having a problem... I have been wanting a child for the last I would say three years. I have been having major mommy issues. Every time I see a baby i get a pang in my heart and I get upset when the baby leaves. I have been ... (98 words)

Did I blow my one chance with this girl?

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20 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl in my program on a week long field trip last month. I met her formally the first night when a few of us went to watch the movie but really hit it off with her the 2nd night at a bar with everyone on the trip. We broke away to another table with my friend and ... (469 words)

Started out on the fence but it led to a successful relationship?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there anyone out there who is now in a successful marriage/long-term relationship but started out on the fence about that person? My partner and I have a child together. We are both on the fence about each other. I think he is more unsure than me. Why? In a nutshel... (445 words)

I need to chose between three girls .. two of them are already taken!

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20 November 2010 (M) age 26-29 - i'm stuck between picking three girls. two are in a relation ship. one i've known for seven years. the others i've known for a few weeks. the one i've known for seven years is in a relationship. one of the two i've known for a few weeks i comunicate with a lot. and the third is ... (63 words)

How to Approach a Guy without looking desperate?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this normally outgoing, confident guy for about 6 months and our relationship kinda goes like this: we ignore eachother and stare when we don't think the other person's looking. Then by chance, one of us will say something and we'll spend hours opening up about ... (186 words)

I don't want a random guy getting her while I'm giving her space!

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20 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i really need help. recently me and my girlfriend got into a fight and i didn't break up with her but she got the "impression" i did. because i was getting mad that she was saying its all about me and she's stuck with me i just told her to do whatever she wants but never in my ... (114 words)

I know it's an unhealthy obsession!

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have a huge problem that has really started to get to me and has taken over my life for a couple of years. I am overly obsessed with a guy! I am in a perfectly happy relationship but cannot get a man I once had in my life out of my mind. I check his facebook... (346 words)

Why do these guys talk bad about some girls when I think they actually like them?

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20 November 2010 (F) age 36-40 - my question is confusing, but its important to me to know so any advice i get i appreciate. i dont understand why some guys call girls who do crazy things like; "trains" or sleep with whoever wants some; they call them foul names and make fun of them, but for some reason i... (239 words)

I don't understand what I have to do to get a girl?

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20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't understand what I have to do to get a girl. I mean, I understand, but I don't want to do certain things. I think I suffer from nice guy syndrome. Let me try to explain. From what I've noticed in my years being alive, when I meet people, particularly oth... (733 words)

Have I read too much into his actions?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - does he like me??, he flirts with me like tapping my shoulder, pulling my foot, and putting his hand in my face lol and recently i was drunk and hugged him and he kissed my cheeck which gave me little butterflies in my tummy lol. then i got all these mixed signals he has m... (352 words)

An unexpected invitation has my boyfriend fuming!

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night I got a txt msg from my supervisor asking me out on a date. My boyfriend who I live with was right beside me and saw the message. This question from my supervisor came out of the blue. I've worked with my supervisor for 8 yrs and have never had any type of ... (212 words)

People annoy me, especially the ones I work with!

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know what is wrong with me..I've been working at a medical facility for over 4yrs and the majority of people are hyprocite's and I know this. My manager is one who I have never clicked with because I know through people that he has mentioned mean things about me. I've ... (134 words)

My girlfriend lives with another guy

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20 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My Eastern European Girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We used to live together but because my job means I am now away for a lot of time time she has moved in to a flat with 3 of her freinds - two girls and a guy. She has addmitted that 10 years she slept ... (193 words)

How do I approach him on the phone?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I used to like a guy in my class a lot while at school. Since I am a kind of very shy girl, I never talked to him about this. Our conversations were largely related to studies and career. Though it has been many years now and we are hardly in any contact now, live in ... (145 words)

My girlfriend won't let me finish in her mouth!

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20 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend won't let me finish in her mouth. She is grossed out by semen. How do I get her to open up to the idea. She also does not want to experiment with taking it up the butt even though she did it with someone else previously. Is it disrespectful for me to push thi... (67 words)

Where is the best place to look for a "decent" guy?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys I would like some advice please. Every guy I am interested in, sadly has a colorful past. Way too much for my taste. I have tried different environents even at church! And those men still have secrets that you can't imagine! Anyway, I still got hope in finding a man ... (115 words)

I want to resolve my problems... but how?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - One of the things i want to do is to resolve some of my problems in the holidays - but i don't know where to begin? I had about two major crushes when i was younger and I never did anything about the crush and never told them. I feel like its unresolved because even now... (124 words)

I am very tempted to have lots of sex and see what is out there for me. Should I?

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very tempted to have lots of sex and see what is out there for me. I am in a long distance relationship with an older man who has done it all and been there but I have no experience and I feel like I am missing out on plenty of things. I need advice on what to do. He is ... (76 words)

Every day I seem to like him more!!! Help!

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20 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, in the middle of seventh grade, I began riding the same bus as one of my male friends. We bacame better friends, and we always laughed and joked around on the bus. Soon, i realized that i liked him. A lot. And then I moved across town, so i dont ride his bus any more. Now ... (107 words)