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writes:I have a boyfriend and we've only been going out for a few weeks. I don't know if I really like him enough to be in a relationship with him but I'm afraid to wnd it because I don't want to hurt him. There is also his other guy who is into me who is older and wants to hook up with me and I like him more than my boyfriend. I dont want to cheat or break up I'm so confused! Help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): ~DECEIT IS CRUEL~
Break up with your boyfriend. It's heartless to mislead his heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): i always feel guys(x) who try to encourage a girl to break up with their current guy(y) and instead choose x very disappointing kill joy sort of guys.
If x will do it to one girl then x is likely to do that again. Leaving one girl for another girl who has just ditched her partner to be with x.
So enjoy Mr x while it lasts. Until either he or you tire of each other. Grass always being greener on the other side.
As far as your current guy (y)
Very impatient indeed.
You've hardly allowed time to get to begin to know your current guy, before you've started looking elsewhere.
So obviously you will never discover the full depth and breadth of who he really is and all that he is capable of.
I suspect you will break up with him if you have doubts about him already.
Perhaps it really was never meant to be
Perhaps you are just not the right partner for him.
I hope y forgives you when you break up. Hopefully he goes on to find a loyal friend, prepared to get to know him, and build the trust/ and love together over the years they enjoy together.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 If you're only with your boyfriend because you don't wabt to break his heart, you should definitely break up with him. It's not cool to string him along while you're thinking and dreaming of someone else. You should be with him because you care deeply about him and want to spend time with him.
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