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writes:Dear Cupid, So me and my x boyfriend were together for 2 years and, I finally gave inn an gave away my V card to him.Ever since that night he wont talk to me and, he told me he hates me and never loved me.What should I do he was my everything and I have tried everything to get him back but I give upp. What should I do now?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (22 November 2010):
It seems unusual that he would wait two years to sleep with you and then just dump you.
If it was just sex he was after, I don't think he would have waited that long.
Did anything happen between you that you can think of to make him just go, or perhaps something during sex?
Whatever the answer, it seems he has gone and now you have to move on, albeit it at your pace.
Don't beat yourself up about it. You will be stronger from this in the long run.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 I can't believe I read this right...I know you feel you love this guy but, to me he sounds monstrous. You gave him something special, you tried to get him back, and he's not responding. It will be hard but hon, you need to move on. This boy used you and is now going to find another girl to hurt. Hon, it's ok to cry, grieve, anger and even to miss him-just letthose feelings out so they don't suffocate you. When you're ready, delete his number, his e-mail, block him on fb-make sure you have no way of contacting him if you get tempted. Keep yourself busy with friends, family, and school-don't let him have any power over you. Force yourself to be happy and eventually, you'll feel it. Don't jump into another relationship. The best thing to do is to be someone's friend first, friends get more real than bfs. We're here for you if you need more help in moving on. Remember that you're stronger than you think and WILL get through this. By the way, this going to sound strange, but did you bleed? Somethings occured to me
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reader, White Knight +, writes (21 November 2010):
Hard one on you.
Learn the lesson hard and move on.
We all mis judge things in our lives sometimes but dont let it destroy life. It is his loss not yours.
Take a breath of time to heal the hurt and your time will come again.
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