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writes:This is eating me up inside...My boyfriend of 1 month broke up with me on thursday and his reasons were very unclear, here is some of what he said: I feel like im not being a good boyfriend to you, you have done nothing wrong and you have been the "perfect girlfriend" to me...then I say I dont understand...then he continues with. About a week ago I started getting a feeling in my gut that this was not right..????? what?!?!? and then he said That he has never broike up with a girl for this reason before. And Im like sooo you completely lost feelings for me..and he said no...then I said is it another girl...and he said..no no nothing like that,,,,, I dont understand his reason for breaking up with me, if I was so called the perfect girlfriend then how come he broke up with me...I just dont understand and it is eating me up inside...please help me interpret this break up!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): It sounds like he was just trying to let you down gentley and didn't want to hurt your feelings. Don't think about it too much. You're young and it wasn't a very long relationship. Do your best to move on from him.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (21 November 2010):
 I'm with Jmtmj. He just wanted to break up. Guys can give all sorts of reasons. Sometimes valid, sometimes a load of crap to make you or himself feel better. Either way he ended it and it just has to be accpeted, despite the reason. Is it better to know he met someone else? What difference does it really make? Just move on. You will be okay, believe me. You are still young and it wasn't too long of a relationship.
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reader, MsVick +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Hmm sounds to me like someone else may have walked into the picture OR he could have some hidden issues (gay, cross dresser etc) and he self loaths, therefore he feels no woman would be good enough for him. I can only speculate.
Don't blame yourself it is obviously him, I would let it go although I know how hard that is. You may never know the real reason he broke up, but you do need to move on.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): well sounds to me he just didnt knw what he wanted. a month is a short while to be 2gether then break up. but still i understand hurt is hurt!! I just think that he didnt have a clear reason why he broke up with you because he didnt knw his self.. maybe he just no longer wanted to be in a relationship and most times unfortunately most people dnt knw how to be truthful about anything more or less why they dnt want us anymore. as far as him sayn its not you, I dnt knw. for one you need to knw first ITS NOT YOU! if u knw u did nothn wrong dnt let it get in your head so much..move on. be glad 4weeks wasnt 4months or four years! if you need more closure tell him how u feel and see what he says but if he still has nothn to add except what he already told you then good riddens you obviously didnt need him..you shouldnt give anyone! anyone the power to get in your head to where you're questioning everythng...... you knw who you're and you knw what kind of girlfriend you're..and if you knw that nothn noone can say can have u question that...
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 There's nothing here to interpret.
He wanted to break up and in trying to be respectful and not wanting to hurt your feelings- he just gave you mixed signals.
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reader, Sarahh._x  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Im afrid its probably another girl my dear. But because you are so perfect he can admit it because he doesnt want to hurt your feelings. Hes not worth it move one.
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