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male
age
30-35,
*mash111
writes:hi every 1 ... i neeeeedd heeeelpin late 2005 (5) years ago i received a love note from the hottest girl in my school, i was 13 she apparently had a crush on me and wanted me as her boyfriend of course i accepted, (AND THATS WHEN I HAD MY FIRST LOVE) we loved each other so much.after a very nice 7 months of peace and love, we planned to go for a swim ME HER and my BEST FRIEND and thats the (first time she meets him) , we spent some time had some fun i started to realize that shes ignoring me in the pool and around.she didnt dump me she didnt say any thing! 2 3 days passed SHE JUST STOPED CALLING and TEXTING.. and then recognized that she doesnt want a contact with me she doesnt like me any more,, i got so depressed,, she left me while I STILL LOVE HER ,, i called i texted asking why shes leaving me but she never answered.she started to reply after a week of calling and texting , (summer 2006)[[saying that she wants me to forget her]]( without an explanation,, AND I HAD NOOO IDEA why shes doing this...i stoped contacting her while im beeing tortured.i didnt see or contact her for a long time,(late 2006) i knew that my best friend and her hooked up and thats why she left me.(then i had a fight with him)some how i heard that she moved to another city in SUMMER of 2007.i e-mailed saying hi and hows her new life AND SHE REPLIED in proper nice way WE STARTED TALKING AGAIN she started to apologize allot and allot, i accepted her apologies cause I still had feelings 4 her.Some how my family and i had to move to the city where she lives! we had occasional chats and phone calls , (((hint::she was never out of my mind))she knew that we moved, we planned to c each other after a very long time ((((DECEMBER 2008))) i saw her for one hour only as a friend i miss, we stayed in touch occasional contact etc.. and now im 18 shes 17 the next time ive seen her was in((NOVEMBER 19 2010)) 3 days back, she came over and slept here i couldn't believe it cause she surprised me, we remembered old times she showed me love we made out (took a couple of pics) we slept beside each other holding hands (NO SEX).. it was the first wonderful night for me in a long time ok heres the thing she has a boy friend and they r together for the last 2 years she told me this,, thats when i lost hope cause i thought that shes single and we have another chance,she leaves the next day ,, and thats when i get sad and depressed again....i sent her a couple of messages saying i cant stop looking at our pics :,( 2 days passed already and we have no contactWHAAAATTT CANNNN III DOOOO ??? I LOVE HERR
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 You need to get her out of your life, i know you love her but she is not good for you, she left you for your best friend and i know she was only young but now she cheated on her boyfriend with you and now she is ignoring you again, to me it sounds like she just loves attention and she knows that you probably still like her therefore she came over so you could show her some attention and now she has got what she wants so she is running back to her boyfriend and you might not get to see her again for another year or two. Dont waste your life waiting around for this girl because she is never going to be yours she is a player and a cheat and you deserve so much better, get out with your friends and meet new girls your age who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Dont text or call her, if you feel the urge to then delete her number so that you wont, also get rid of the pictures as this is just making it more painful, put then in an envelope and throw them in the attic of your house or else give them to your parents and tell them not to give them back to you until you are over her. Goodluck.
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