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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to test the waters!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Cupid.... Im a male 20 year old virgin student and kinda happy with my life and the momment.... for the last 5/6 years ive been single mostly but also been attracted to girls and guys.... (im not ugly, well i wouldnt say so, im not fat or anything)- just to clarify! As i... (205 words)

Dreams, what do they mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well our relationship is done now from over 6 monthes but i'm still love him and i dreamed of him kissing me 3 times i don"t konw what does this mean help me i'm confused monthes ago he told me he dreamed of me under a tree reading a book what does this mean too ? please ... (60 words)

My married lover skipped town!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was involved with a married man for 3 yrs.He always said he does not want to be committed to me.I did not believe him because his actions spoke volumes.He wanted to see me all the time. He became very possessive of me and was extremely jealous of me.Often he would ask me when ... (375 words)

Crossing the border.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My long distance boyfriend recently asked me to marry him on our last visit together. Unfortunatly my family has not been very supportive of my good news as it means I'll be moving from my home in Canada to his in the Southern USA. Im very much in love and want my family and ... (114 words)

Once they prove it's his child, does he have to fork over for the medical bills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband got another girl pregnant and im being told that once they prove it is his child, we will be expected to pay back all the medical bills. Do you know if this is true? We live in NV and she is using free clinics for medical now. ... (50 words)

For all the young mothers, will I be throwing away my life by having kids at a young age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend and am madly in love with him as when i first laid eyes on him, it sure was love at first sight for both of us. I never wanted kids but am getting really broody lately - he tells me he wants me to have his baby and it just melts me away. I'm 19, ... (112 words)

Should I contact her to see how she's getting on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was going out with my girlfriend for over 3 years. We started dating in college, and at the start I loved everything about our relationship: she was pretty, we got on very well together, never fought, we got on well with each others friends and we could talk to each other so ... (243 words)

I can't get no, satisfaction. But I try!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

15 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and bisexual. The problem is that whenever I'm with one gender, I end up missing the other like mad. For example, if I'm with a man, I miss women, and vice versa. I'm dating a beautiful woman who I care a lot about, and we have everything in common, but late... (141 words)

My friends are racist against my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a Afican American girl and I have a Hungarian and Puerto Rican...Recently I over heard some of my "friends" talking about him...in a racist way. They said "I always knew she would go with a white guy" "That is so freaking nasty" "I couldn't imagine" "wtf is wrong with ... (137 words)

Am I meant for relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is am i compatible with relationships. Every time i get into a relationship i end up feeling really tied down and don't want to go on with in the first week or two. It's kind of repetitive, i'll actually like someone then i just want to be alone. I went over six ... (112 words)

When I finally started moving on, he's back in my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey every1 !!! how's it goin?!!! im a 17 year old girl who has this 1 problem in her life. for almost a year,i loved this boy who seemed intersted in me too cause he was always staring at me and he tried to reach me so many times.but none of his ways worked cause im too shy... (315 words)

I agreed that my boyfriend can have a stripper at his birthday party, now I regret my decision!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I allow this? My boyfriend turns 18 in 2 weeks' time, and he's having a party at a local pub. all sounds great, all his friends and family will be there. HOWEVER, there's one small hitch, I'v just got an e-mail from one of his friends asking my permission for a stripper... (437 words)

Sex starved marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am lost, i have been married for 12 years and together with my wife for 14. I have 2 great kids 2 and 8 who i love to death. My issue is for about the last 4 years my marriage is missing the love and affection i need. My day to day is good go to work come home family time is ... (189 words)

I don't like myself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I need help but don't know where to go or who is the best person to talk to? I know I have self esteem problems and I cant seem to be able to get to the point where I like myself and I know I am not a horrible person and I should like myself, I feel ugly all the time ... (194 words)

Should I have to convert to a faith that I don't even believe in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my boyfriend is Catholic and I am Baptist and we have been only dating for 1 month but we already have stong feelings for eachother...Soo last night we were talking about stuff ya know the usaual then he asked me what religion I was...and then I said Baptist. He said that ... (86 words)

What do I do to remedy being bored and moody with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - We are a really cute couple. We've been dating for a few months, but we've liked each other for a really long time. Background: I'm 20, she's 18. Anyway, it seems like when we hang out, we can never find anything to talk about. We kiss a lot, and that's always nice, but... (237 words)

My ex boyfriend disappeared on me & is now in a new relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who I fell head over heels in love with. He lived an hour and half train journey from where I live. This lasted a full year and I spent a lot of time visiting him , and he would also come to visit me . We were close ... On his ... (340 words)

He makes no noise when I perform oral sex on him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He's nice a hard worker student still lives at home. I've been giving my guy blowjobs for about 4 wks. I can't tell if he's enjoying it! He doesn't do anything. He sits or lays there with hands folded across chest eyes closed. Not a moan or anything. He cums because I swallow ... (160 words)

I can't date because I'm hung up on a married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a confusing situation. A 21 year old guy has been texting me and we hung out once (I am 18). I feel like I could possibly like him, but I don't know. It's like my mind won't let me like him, because I am hung up on a married man. This guy (30) is everything I want. The ... (121 words)

Is 14 too old to have your first kiss?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okk this sonds sooo stupid /: but im 14 and well ive never actually kissed a boy properly ( in which i mean tongue ) and i feel stupid because my bestfriend has and i feel stupid i dont want to be like a 40 yr old person and never kissed a guy lol but seriously what am i doing ... (122 words)

Husband is making me out to be a bad wife!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My husband has always been jealous, not allowing me to talk to the opposite sex and we have been together since high school and in high school it is hard to avoid talking to just a bunch of people. Anyway, of course he has been upset about me speaking with men, simply ... (589 words)

He's content with sex once a month, I'm not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for almost a year. I married my best friend last November. I cannot explain how much I love him, he is amazing. In January he got a new job and he started chaning. We bought a house and I instantly became invisible. He never looks at me, he is conten... (176 words)

Good girl gone bad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5118 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine started to drink and smoke. She was a decent girl before always been a goody goody girl. Always did well in school. Teacher's always said she was the best pupil she cared about herself before. She was so sweet and Innocent she had good respect for herself. ... (170 words)

I can't stop myself from pulling out my eyelashes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, this isn't a relationship question, buuut it's something that i REALLY need help with. i guess, really, it's more of a health question. anyways...hopefully, there's somebody on here who can help me out. ever since i was around five years old, i've had ... (265 words)

What's with this Facebook guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to fall in love with someone online that you hardly know? This guy on facebook recently friended me. We start chatting and in no time he wants an online relationship (he lives in a different country) and starts telling me he loves me. What's up with him, its ... (65 words)

Back to the future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i was seeing this guy, we went out a couple of times and ive never felt so in tune with someone. even though we where different, it was a way that we could complealty compleament each other. well he moved away. but we decided to remain friends. things been quite strained l... (104 words)

Boyfriend needs to keep his wagging tongue in his mouth!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my boyfriend do this?? am really hurt:(? my boyfriend claims he loves me soo much..but yet he cant stop looking at girls every time we go out. today, we went out to the movies and on the bus, this girl came on..she was not even attractive..but my boyfr... (256 words)

I told her to keep quiet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is on behalf of a friend of mine...she and her bf were on the verge of a break up...and during that time she ended up kissing another guy... However, they managed to work things out...and they are together for the time being. She feels awful about making out wit... (109 words)

He's not who I want him to be.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is not the boyfriend I want him to be. He has very different opinions on everything to me. I know they say opposites attracts but this is extreme. It's mainly about how we see the future [when we'd move in together, what the most important thing about life is, how ... (87 words)

Eighteen and want to be pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm eighteen yeast old. I have a real big desire to get pregnant with my boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I've tried keeping myself busy but it doesn't seem to work. We've only been together for a short while. But it's not the relationship that bothers me, it's the fact that ... (58 words)

It seems like everywhere we go we run into someone he's slept with

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have always known that my partner has had many partners and has much much more experience than me. He lost his virginity at 11 and has had several partners and has slept with teachers and professors. it is starting to get to me because everyone that I meet or when we ... (168 words)

Double life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Not quite sure how to write my question in a nut shell. I have Indian back ground. I associated both men and women for a long time. But I enjoyed men than women, I didnt wanted to show my feelings to the society and cursed myself for my feelings. I met a guy who want to live ... (237 words)

I like this guy in my office...how can I get him to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i never have any luck with men and i really like this guy in my office. we say hello when we pass each other in the hallway but thats about it...we sit at opposite ends of the office, how can i get him to notice me and get chatting??... (51 words)

Just who is telling me the truth here?! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I got back together but he dumped me the next day b/c he said 'Its too soon" and doesn't want to hurt me again. He said him and his ex may be over and not getting back together but he doesn't want to use me as a rebound. He claims he needs time and wants to date me ... (209 words)

We had a connection, is she avoiding me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Since I am new here, I will keep it simple. I know a girl for sometime now and we both certainly share a connection.(we enjoy each others company and often tease each other). However since our last meeting, I have asked her casually to go to a place once and she denied saying ... (133 words)

He got a past 1 night stand pregnant... should I stick around to see if it's his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating someone and he has just found out that he might have got a one night stand that he was with before we got together pregnant. Should I break it off now or wait to find out if it is really his?... (44 words)

He's married, but I want him! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, am a 37 yeas old woman never been married am in a relationship with a married man 4 years ago. we are both really in love. he has a 5 year old boy and has been married for 10 years but he doesn't love her. he says there is nothing keeping him with her except his child. I ... (111 words)

My ex broke up with me out of the blue, is there still a chance for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago out of the blue, I asked him the reasons and he said he'd been thinking about us for 2 weeks and realized that he was unhappy but he never specified why, through a friend I also found out that he thinks I wont be good for ... (272 words)

How do I tell my parents that I'm pregnant?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

15 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - here is the thing i am 15 almost 16 in the uk -legal age of consent is 16 - any ways . me and my boyfriend of 2 years he is 24 okay now there is a age gap i am very mature for my age and my parents now know we are in a relationship and they think we are very cute together... (293 words)

Why won't she believe..that I do really love her! Advise?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm a 16 year-old male ... before i met my girlfriend she was with another guy but their relationship wasn't good he treated her badly and they had alot of arguments then broke up ... now everyday i'm telling her that i love her but she doesn't believe me ... how can i pr... (85 words)

We have different libidos how can I change that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now. My question is in regards to our sex life. I feel like I want sex too much, several times a day but I'm content with just once before bed. Thing is, I never feel like he wants it. He never touches me or does anything in the ... (166 words)

This guy hates me and I don't know why! How can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and a 9th grader in High School. My first boyfriend just broke up with me and I'm crushed. One of the reasons he broke up with me is that his best friend doesn't like me. I know he hates me. He's been mean and has hated me years before I met my ex. I've ... (222 words)

We had a wonderful first date! So why is he ignoring me now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I recently went out with this guy and am trying to find out why he went Missing In Action on me, when I thought we had a lovely time. He picked me up from my house on the day of our date. He was dressed nice and smelled good. He was respectful to my parents and a gentlemen ... (604 words)

After 4 years of dating he avoids me! I need help to get over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a boy friend with whom i had steady relationship for 4yrs.After that when our college was over(after 4yrs) he stopped talking 2 me and started avoiding me..whatever i ask him he is just taking it too easy which i couldn't tolerate finally i asked him the reason in avoid... (119 words)

I don't know how to be in a relationship, but I want to try! Which one of these guys will be best for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused right now. I have no idea who I want to choose. First, I have this guy whom I've known since high school, we're talking, and he's asking me out. Then, this jerk who really only wants me as his booty call is starting to act really differently. He's calling me ... (258 words)

My crush hit on my childminder the other day...but I want him! How do I resolve this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a baby recently and a guy who was a good friend of mine (well my crush) who wanted to go out with me back when I was preg..in fact he wanted a sexual relationship with me at the time but it never happened between us..anyway I met him the other day over the weekend and ... (570 words)

Turkish love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, basically i met this turkish guy through my family that live in turkey, i met him back sep 2009, i never did think of anything of it because you hear the stories about turkish men. after i met him, he would ring all time, every single day, and it was soo nice, and i ... (879 words)

Help me understand this cheater....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What kind of a person would cheat on their girlfriend, propose several months later, and marry her without ever telling her that he had an affair? The newly married guy, shared this with my boyfriend in a drunken stupor...My boyfriend told me, and now I have a hard time facing ... (160 words)

I'm worried about travelling alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering whether i should go to a concert alone this saturday ?. some of my friends will be sat in the same block as me, and a fan i know online, but havent met personally yet, will be sat next to me, so i wont exactly be alone during the concert, just when i'm travelling ... (216 words)

Does my married doctor have a crush on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been seeing my doctor for 2 months.i've been in and out of the hospital 4 times.he spends some time in my room,talks about personal life, touches my shoulders when we are alone.he makes a lot of eye contact . last time he saw me he got so close that i had to pull ... (119 words)

Is it wrong for my wife to make me choose between our family (wife and kids),and my family (dad, brother, cousin, close best friends, etc...)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 6 months now and I do love my wife. I know when I tied the knot, a lot of things in my life will change and I would have to adjust to many things. I like to think I have done pretty good job on adjusting to the married life and happy to do so. There ... (553 words)

How do I go out with the friend of the guy I was dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this guy and didn't fancy him at all...I tried to give him a chance and all but I didn't feel it.. anyway he fancied me more than I fancied him and now I have started to keep my distance more and more from him as I don't want to go out with him and cos he is a ... (537 words)

She wants sex more often than I do, how do I deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Help! My girlfriend and I are having problems when it comes to sex. I love her and think the world of her, the problem is that she wants to make love probably more often than I do. I am happy to make love too, but sometimes I am stressed or tired and find a l... (186 words)

My family are stopping me from having a relationship and say I'm a bad mother! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im divorced with a baby and am now living with my parents. i had a very abusive relationship and didnt have any self confidence, anyways ive been divorced 4 yrs now and worked thorugh my proplems with a shrink, whom i dont see any more, anyways ive gotten my confidence and my ... (394 words)

Do I let her be and give her the space and let her come back in her own time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Ive got an issue with my girlfriend at the moment, we have been together now for almost 5 years... its been a pretty intense relationship really with plenty of ups and downs but we have never seperated in this time. At the moment we are taking a break from each other, ... (280 words)

Drama, the other white meat.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I will try to keep this as short as possible, but I have so much to talk about I think it might be impossible. I am going to try to condense 5 years of problems on both of our sides and remain completely honest about my faults. I will not hold anything back in an attempt ... (1599 words)

I was so close to me and my ex getting back together and I feel like I ruined it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help, I was so close to me and my ex getting back together and I feel like I ruined it. I went over and accused him of so much more than the situation really was. I told him I hated him from the bottom of my heart, that i would have sex with someone else. I threw the ... (931 words)

Anyone else worried about schools' sex education??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very worried about teens sex education. I am from the UK and our sex education is very good. Girls only get pregnant because they want to or because contraception fails or they are just too stupid to use contraception. Some of the questions I've seen on here and around ... (361 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to break my hymen without it hurting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im sixteen years old. i have never trusted a boy to do anything with my vagina before but now i do. and he did try not tht long ago and he sort of just rubbed and nothing went inside cos it really hurt wen he tries to this has happened twice now and i dont know what to do. ... (111 words)

My parents found out he is married from a private detective, then I heard kids in the background on the phone! Do you think he is lying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i got involved with this guy, and my parents being bossy and overbearing hired a private detective to find out about him, i didnt know this, anyways they came to me and said all these things about him and then they said that they found out he was married. well that came as a ... (319 words)

This is the longest I've ever been seeing a guy, but I don't know where I stand with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to try and brief this question up as much as possible. Im 18 years old, and im seeing this guy thats 20. We're not official yet, we're just getting to know each other, etc. We've been seeing each other for a little over two months now, but have only had 3 dates i... (552 words)

Do I have to tell her I told my friend about her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - MY girlfriend told me a personal story of her in the very beginning stages of our relationship. It was very vague, but I could see how upset she was. She never went into too many specifics on it, but I could see the anguish it was on her. It was something involving her and ... (897 words)

How do women define maturity?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do women put so much importance on a guy's hobbies and possessions to decide if he is "mature" or not? To me, maturity should have nothing to do with anything as superficial as collecting action figures, reading comics, not owning a car for economic reasons, being a virgin, ... (275 words)

Is it possible to set up a porn site for my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I need a little help please. My boyfriend of 3 years is currently overseas on business, his been there for about 4 months now. We chat whenever we really can, both of us are business people and spend a lot of time on our businesses. We try and have live chats at ... (169 words)

How can I help him be a man to satisfy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm not satisfied at all when my boyfried make love to me.i've told him my problem but it still the same.The problem is he gets tied easly.we only take 3 to 4 minutes thats all.what worries me is that i dont wanna live him because i love him so much,but now i'm suffering.i ... (68 words)

Why is she signing "with love" to another guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so I told my gf about a problem befor and how this guy always comment her on facebook as she is my wifey, So I askd her about it and told her just to get rid of him on her facebook. But recently she added him back and I read a comment saying when you get back get at you ... (130 words)

After 5 years and 2 kids, I kissed another man and I think there is something there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - iam 24 yrs old and my partner of 5 yrs is 45, we have two children together, however a week ago, i went to a party and kissed another guy, not a random a friend, ive never cheated before and although at the time it was amazing, i felt sooo guilty and was honest and told my ... (119 words)

Do's and don'ts of a long term relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So simple question, what do you guys think are do's and don'ts of a long term relationship(at least more than 4 months). ... (22 words)

What did having a threesome do to your relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

15 November 2010 (F)

age - Hi there. I am really interested to know if there is anyone on this site who has tried threesomes. I am not talking about trying for the first time or thinking about it - but am interested in hearing from people who can look back on the experience with hindsight. I am ... (147 words)

How long do you wait for someone you love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three years.. It has been a rocky relationship, but everything has finally smoothed out over the last 5-6 months and had been going great.. Well a little over a week ago she told me that she needed "Space". Her given reason... (700 words)

Am I being too much of a tease? And how should I let him know that I want to take things slowly?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so been on 6 dates with this guy- im 21, hes 22-- have no intention of getting more intimate until much later on in the relationship (im a virgin and believe in waiting until love)... but last night we were making out on his bed (all clothes on) and we kind of were ... (325 words)

Should I wait 2 year to go out with her?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a fantastic woman while I was working part-time a few months ago and I have had a great time hanging out with her. Just 3 days ago, she called me, asked me out to dinner, and told me that she has feelings for me. I was speechless although i adore her too. I didn't say ... (503 words)

My man is upset because women don't hit on him?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a bit upset at the moment . The man I have been dating just left my home after an arugement . He didn't understand why I would get upset when he started talking about how he wishes women would hit on him ... And I was the only person in four years to hit on him . He said ... (113 words)

Mixed feelings and don't know which way to turn

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I posted a few months ago about my boyfriend and things are no better really. We have been together for 14 months now. I am 38, divorced and he is 43, divorced. We are meant to be getting engaged at Christmas but I am having doubts. I have very mixed feelings for him. One... (243 words)

His current girlfriend is clearly not right for him, and there is so much attraction between us! How should I handle this situation?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Guys, I have a bit of a situation , not sure what to do. There was a guy I was hooking up with just over a year ago , started to fall in love with him - we didn't go anywhere but seem to be growing closer and closer and calls me his best mate nowadays. He recently me... (431 words)

Do men enjoy having sex for the first time?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - this question is mostly for men but women are welcome. Do men enjoy the first time they have sex unlike woman? or do they have some pain just like woman's pain when her hymen is being broken? i also want to know whether men like girls who are not virgin rather the virgins one?? ... (69 words)

Can polyamorous relationships really work in the long-run?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age - Is there anyone out there in a successful polyamorous relationship? My wife and I recently fell in love with another woman and believe it or not I sometimes have jealousy issues over the time they spend with each other without me. they do have something very special together ... (78 words)

When I ignore her she talks to me, and then when I put effort in again she hurts me! How do I get her back?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sir, i love my girlfriend a lot ... Last year she broke up with her bf who was very aggressive and dominating..... at that time we were just good friends .... when she broke up i was there to support her but i never told her to be with me ..... she after the breakup said i love ... (291 words)

A sober girl's intimacy with a drunk guy?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm new, but I've been rather worried and confused about an encounter that occurred a few nights ago.. I'm 19 and a freshman in college. I'm not extremely well-versed in love (I'd had one relationship in high school, which ended shortly before my graduation) or ... (814 words)

I just can't help but feel that he may like the girls from his own country better!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this amazing guy... and we were born on different countries. He has a different accent than me but his accent makes me drool! and I have a different accent as well... the thing is that... for some reason even if we are together now I cant help feeling ... (204 words)

Should I wait for him?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were together for 1 year before he broke up with me 2 months ago because he said he needed time to mature, he wasn't ready for a relationship, and because we're too close. I told him I would wait for him but he said there was no chance for us to ever get back ... (254 words)

He has a restraining order against me yet he waves at me when we pass on the street!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age - My ex has a restraining order against me, and is now waving when we pass on the road. what's up? This is a person that told me at the end of our relationship that he never loved me and he wanted nothing to do with me again.... (47 words)

I just want her to come home but I cant contact her! What should I do?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my live in partner of 6 years walked out on me early hours of sat morning. basically i have just found out i have a son that happened in my previous relationship and as requested by my present partner, him and his mum came to stay as she wouldnt let me have him on his own till ... (135 words)

Why is he so angry with me after the way he treated me?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year my husband told me he didn't know if he loved me or not and said I didn't support him enough. The smallest things I did caused him to explode in anger and he said he did not enjoy spending time with me. Our daughter was 18 months old at the time and I also worked part ... (437 words)

I don't know how to snog and I think my boyfriend will get bored with me if I dont!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend and he has been telling a lot of his friends that he wants to snog me, i have just said maybe next week or something like that but soon he is going to get bored and will finish with me. I don't know how to snog so its hard for me. ... (59 words)

How do I get my self esteem back?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - HI The Break Up was emotionally draining and I have now settled at a more peaceful place which is liberating. My feelings are still bruised and my hear is still very sensitive but im trying to make small steps to move on with my life.....I need to move on with my life for... (481 words)

We get along great but it worries me he doesn't have a job!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age - Been dating a man for quite some time now and he was in the army guard but just retired. He also does computer work freelance. Work is so slow hes not making any money. he graduated 2 yrs. ago with a BSN RN but has not taken his registry yet therefore is not working as a nurse ... (186 words)

Why doesn't my friend talk to me anymore? I know we fell out but she told my mom she still cares about me!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, everyone. I have a problem that is making me not feel so good. I have not talk to the person who was my bestfriend for 5 or 6 months. I feel bad and sad at the same time i really care for her a lot. We had an argument and she just said we could not be friends no more. It ... (191 words)

How do I make her see that we should give it a go?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do i get the girl i have been in love with for the last 2 years. she said that she thinks that we are to good of friends but i think we should just try it out and see what happenes... (42 words)

Clingy boyfriend! Help!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i have been dating this guy for almost 6 months, i really want to spend the rest of my life with this guy but sometime he is just too clingy. I just moved an hour and a half away to college and things have just gone downhill. Its not that he wants to spend every mome... (189 words)

Is there anyone that sees what they believe are spirits within people like I do?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age - I'm a 50 year-old man that's been diagnosed with mental illness. I don't know if I'm sick or what I have, if what I see and experience is real or what! I often see what I believe are spirits within people so I guess they're hallucinations. I tend to see spirits when I look ... (434 words)

I have never been with a man that doesn't want to french kiss! Is there a problem?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age - Ive been dating a man for about 8 months now and the first two dates were with passionate kissing but now that has stopped. Hes very attentive and shows that i am appealing to him. We have had sex multiple times and we mesh well in that area but still no french kissing.... (108 words)

I need to be able to trust him otherwise I might end up pushing him away.....

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey! I have a amazing boyfriend! He really makes me happy! We in a gay relationship now for 1 year and 4months! I met him when he was kind dating my friend! So we started 2 date! I lost my friend cause of this, but it doesn't matter cause I love this boy with every bit of my ... (170 words)

I don't want to lose our friendship, but now it is really awkward and I don't know what to do!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy i was wondering if you could help. Recently i was talking to my boy bestie and teasing him about this girl that keeps on texting him and asking if he liked her coz it looked like she liked him. But i was just joking about it, then i asked if he liked any of our mutu... (213 words)

I think I'm caught in a love triangle. Help!!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm dating a man who is about to be divorced within the month. We have been together for 9 months. Although he was the one that stepped out on his marriage lately his guilt and depression has been overwhelming. I can't help but feel jealous and insecure even though I know this ... (225 words)

Confused with the older man!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and this guy have been seeing each for about 3 weeks buy it's weird! I'm 25 and he is 34. He has a 15 year old daughter and is divorced! I don't have any children and have never been married. He and his ex have been divorced for 7 years. Ok so Halloween weekend ... (355 words)

This guy drives me crazy! Am I just a fling to him?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hes just a player and Im a fling to him? Im so confused! help! I need some guys opinion. I dont know why this guy had to be like this to me. ok, a bit long story but after all I think hes a jerk but I still kinda wanna call him. I hooked up with a guy a few month ago ... (854 words)

Why do exes insist on remaining friends?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do some people insist on being friends after a breakup? I mean ideally, that's a nice and very pretty idea. BUT, in reality, not the best decision in the world... My problem is that I told my ex I don't want to be friends with him because I still like him, but he is r... (263 words)

I don't want to lose her, but I am worried I might be too controlling?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, My girlfriend and I have been dateing for 5 years, we had got preg our first 3 months of dating. I love her with all my heart and I do have control problems like I dont want her to leave the house without me, but the reason is we live in a bad area. Im worried she will... (139 words)

Should I help my best friend out of what I think is a controlling relationship or just respect her wishes and sever ties?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well my best friend told me to leave her alone after she met a guy. Her excuse is that "she doesnt want to lose her man" and he doesn't want her to keep contact with her ex lovers. She was my fwb, then I moved and we kept the friendship. I don't have any intention to be in a ... (317 words)

He flirted with me, and now it's like I don't exist?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so, a little over a year ago, I met this guy, and we can call him, "Jack". so when I first walked into class the first day of school that year, he was in my homeroom, and I looked at him and thought, woah, there's something special about this boy. later i found out he was ... (1571 words)

I want my friend back, but is he even worth it?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy is a good friend of mine. He asked me out, I said no so we were just good friends even tho we flirt, I think he knows that I do like him but he means alot to me, and i cant risk losing him. I havent seen him in a year, we talked alot on facebook, on the phone once or ... (244 words)

How do I go back to monogamy after an open marriage?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for two years and together for eleven. Last year, we began seriously discussing opening our marriage. We talked about it extensively and by January of this year, we felt like we had the ground rules and foundation set to go through with ... (395 words)

One second he is in love with me and in the next, he's completely cold and rude

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know how to start my question but im a 21 years old girl and i have been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months now.Lately he is being so distant. i dont know if im being needy but he doesnt even bother to go online to talk to me and thats how we usually talk. He ... (290 words)

My parents are threatening to disown me if I pursue this relationship

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm so glad I found this site. Thank you for your help! I am in love with a man who is divorced with three wonderful children. Also, I'm much younger than he is. I've known him for 6 years, we have been best friends for the past 3 years, and we have been romanticall... (298 words)

Is my best friend attracted to me?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15, female, and Bi. I have very strong feelings for my friend who is a girl, as in I think I am falling in love with her. We have been friends since last November and these past couple of months we have been hanging out and talking a lot. She is a naturaly touchy person b... (345 words)

Is he over his ex girlfriend?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I reciently found out my guy best friend and myself like each other. One day we were on his bed and he just kind of told me. I knew I liked him for a while now, so I obviously said how I felt about him. He always says he really likes me alot and I even had my first kiss with ... (276 words)

We broke up, I thought at least he would come back on the pretext of giving back my stuff...neither's happening!!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help.. my boyfriend and I of 9 months broke up 3days ago.. I was miserable.. I miss him so much. I asked him if I could have my stuf back that i had left in his house but his answer was "I dotn want to got hrough that yet.. theres nothing in there that you will need ... (191 words)

Due to recovery for surgery I haven't seen her in weeks. Will she still like me?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl in my class, I really like her. It seems to me that she likes me, but I haven't been able to tell. We always hang out together and I even walk to her locker with her sometimes. I already know that she doesn't have a boyfriend right now. I've recently have had ... (153 words)

Life with my bf is like having a room-mate, not a partner! Help!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I found a text message in my boyfriend's phone to one of his friend's wishing the friend's wife a "Happy Birthday" and also to tell her best friend he said "What's up?" I did not confront him at the time because I was embarassed over it and did not want to argue. We ... (180 words)

When is it time to quit the affair?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am having sexual relation without the relationship (a mutual understanding). What do you think are the signs that a man is getting too attached?... (25 words)

Does he regret what he did?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have a boyfriend and we went to a party last night and his cousin was there. he is a flirt so basically the whole night he flirted with me. he would even touch my back and caress me. my boyfriend couldnt see. so we were all buzzed or drunk. well my boyfriend was. and ... (280 words)

I feel lonely for my bf! How do I deal with this?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I live in the same city as my boyfriend. However, I find it VERY hard when to go from spending the weekend together and falling asleep cuddled up together sharing a bed, to nothing for about 5 days (his job is hectic during the week). I feel mega lonely despite being surrounded ... (80 words)

After 3rd date I feel like running for the hills!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I started seeing a guy since Halloween. It's been three weeks and three dates. By the third date, I'm not feeling it, and he has a picture of us saved on his cell phone screen saver... I'm 22 turning 23 and have never dated before. Am I over reacting because I feel like running ... (57 words)

He caught me in a lie, and he won't talk to me now! Can I fix this?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After going through a tough break up a year ago, I connected with someone I met at college. We started talking and hanging out, and we became very close friends. A month ago, he decided that we needed to take a break. He told me that he didn't like that I had lied to him. I ... (130 words)

Am I that boring? And not pretty enough for him? Help me figure this out!

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I shouldn't be asking people I don't know for advice and comfort, but I'm finding it hard to talk to my family about it and I just need some consoling now. I think I like a guy in my college who I've been dating for a few weeks/month now. He's smart and funny,... (710 words)

Is he making a fool of me?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well right now I just need advice because I'm really confused. I'm only 20 and I feel hung up on this. I was going out with this guy for over a year and then he left to go to uni, it was 2.5 hours away from me and we struggled through the distance to male it work. Then he met a ... (249 words)

Is he losing interest in me?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted the other day about my boyfriend and I and our difficulty communicating (titled "how do I take our relationship to a deeper level"). I'm still troubled about my relationship with my boyfriend. He has such a hard time opening up and I feel like I can't get in. He is ... (193 words)

This guy I like, signs off when I messaged him! What should I do?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I sent him a IM on his wall..he deleted it? i sent said hi in IM he signed off? I always had a crush on this guy last i seen him two years ago and i was so happy because he really liked me back and then he disappeared. i feel so depressed we used to be great friends back in... (99 words)

Humping to get off?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How normal is it for a girl to hump things to get off? ... (13 words)

When I want to break up with her..I get scared of being alone. What can I do?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Me and my girlfriend have been together for four years but it's a long distance relationship. We started off as friends on the internet using a Chat site. I made lots of friends but diddnt expect anything to come of it, next we were internet dating for around a year un... (622 words)

I have a pregnant lover and I also have a fiancee. How do I sort ths out?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Help needed Understanding my feelings Hi, what a tangled mess I have got into.... I live with my fiance of 10 years and 2 of my kids aged 7 and 4. I met a girl 14 years yonger than myself 3 years ago and we clicked, im 38 now. We have so much in common but I kept say... (668 words)

He talks to me through my grandmother! Does he like me?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think this guy likes me ?. He works in a shop in the town centre where i live. The first time i went in there, i was with my grandmother, who he already knew, and they spoke to each other a bit, and i noticed after i walked out of the shop that he was staring at me, as i ... (372 words)

Why can't you just love me back?

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So guys, I've been stuck for five months now on one girl, lets call her M. I really need someone to read this question carefully, and give me some good advice. I really need help with this, more than any relationship. I used to barely notice M, I was dating a girl for 6 month... (587 words)

Why is the breaking up bothering me now?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a counsellor to try to sort out some of the problems I've had in my life and I didn't find it helpful at all. I thought I did then I realised that it didn't change anything or change how I felt about myself. I feel like everything is bubbling up again as I managed to ... (127 words)

My boyfriend and I are both down in the dumps... It's a problem.

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Usually, one of us gets upset and the other is there to make them smile but for a little while now, both my boyfriend and I have been really upset lately. Not with each other, with life, but I feel it's hurting our relationship. I have so much to do for college and grad... (655 words)

Her place or mine???

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15 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have gotten my new girlfriend to come on a date with me. I have never taken anyone on a date before, and i have no idea of what i should do. I have the following at my disposal: 3 different restaraunts, amazing natural views, nice walks along a river bank, But if i go to he... (123 words)

If he didn't want to go out with me, why did he ask me in the first place?

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15 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out on a lunch date (first date) with this guy last weekend. Everything seemed to be ok. We talked, there was very little awkward silences. For a first date, I think it went ok. During lunch, he said several times that we should do it again, even going so far as ... (232 words)