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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband and I have been together 6 years and only married a few months. I used to work before the birthof our son(who is almost 2), and we both decided that i woudnt return to work until he was old enough for pre-school. My husband has become increasingly verbally abusive, calling me all kinds of names and telling me that I am worthless...most of the time i just cry when hes around and dont even want him around me...usually i cant wait for him to leave the house. We used to have so much fun together, but now he blames me for everything that goes wrong and all i ever hear is about how everything is his and he often accuses me of being unfaithful(which i am not). What cn i do to bring some spark and happiness back into our lives? Please help me.
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reader, White Knight  +, writes (21 November 2010):
Look carefully at all factors in the relationship, from all angles including money.
It may be that the relationship worked outside marriage but the marriage has triggered a rift.
Try to find common ground and remained composed, maybe it could be resolved by sometime out together and your child look after eg for a special weekend.
Try to to find the sprakle again, but realise it is a fragile plant and that can easily wither.
It takes two to tango.
good luck
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