A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid ,my boyfriend is very jealous and today he went to tha extream of hacking my facebook because he thought i was cheating.when he went on there he saw that i asked a male friend if theyd missed me and he fliiped out!!! he also saw that i gave some male highschool friends my number to keep in touch and he went crazy!!! but he has plenty of female friends..anyway weve worked it out and he wants to know if ill give him another chance but i cnt get over the fact he hacked my facebook!!! why couldnt he just ask me? i was so scared all day thinking of what enemy could be on there and its him!!! its kind of creepy like a stalker.i never thought he would do that to me i thought i could trust him.we worked out everything else its just that because ive never done it to him...even when i suspected stuff of him!!! im afriad hell do it agian..or everytime he thinks something stupid. i hate it what should i do??
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Some people just don't seem to grasp how bad snooping really is... they can think something along the lines of "I've got suspicions, so I have a right to do this"...
Hacking your facebook is pretty extreme, but if you guys use the same computer then he may have put a "key-logger" on your computer to get your password.
I'd be very wary. If you are going to give him a second chance then I think you need to make things very clear and that hacking face-book etc. is an indisputable deal breaker. If he is so emotional and suspicious that he feels he can't talk to you instead of going all cluedo on you- that ain't exactly a great sign of a lasting relationship is it.
This is a relationship- you're supposed to grow closer together, its not a game of espionage.
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reader, Abella +, writes (21 November 2010):
 he's immature and nasty.
Change your password and block him. He will not like it. But he has to learn that there are consequences for all actions he takes.
If someone did that to me i would feel they had destroyed my trust in them
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