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writes:One of my friends that i'd really like to date told me that someone she knows just died. Now, i know for sure that now really isnt the best of times to ask her out and ive been trying to be there for her and support her and I'll keep doing so until you know things are better but im just not sure how long i should wait to try and ask her out. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 November 2010):
 Well yes at least it hasnt affected your friendship, thats a good thing and she is being open and honest with you which is always good to. Continue to be her friend but dont wait around hoping that she will change her mind soon and you'se will be together, just accept that she is a friend and nothing more, that way you wont get hurt if you are waiting out for something that might never happen.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (25 November 2010):
Well yes at least it hasnt affected your friendship, thats a good thing and she is being open and honest with you which is always good to. Continue to be her friend but dont wait around hoping that she will change her mind soon and you'se will be together, just accept that she is a friend and nothing more, that way you wont get hurt if you are waiting out for something that might never happen.
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reader, spino640 +, writes (24 November 2010):
spino640 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys. I just figured id update ya if you check this. I just asked the girl out a couple of minutes ago and she said no =/ the good news is that she really was nice about it and we're still friends. She did say though that she wasnt looking for a bf right now so who knows? Maybe when she is she might ask me?
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reader, spino640 +, writes (21 November 2010):
spino640 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow thank you guys so much. Im so glad that i found this site. Every person here is just so helpful. Thanks a bunch =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): I would tell her at a moment you and her are together that you know that she is going through alot and you like her. tell her how you feel. there's nothin wrong with asking her out now just also say that when she is up to it how would she feel about going out with you..that way it's considerate to all she may be going through right now, dnt wait too long because as you said you're doing all you can to be there for her but you allowing a certain friendship to be just that!! every girl wants to know when someones intrested in her, give it atry before someone else does..good luck and also hope she smiles again soon.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (21 November 2010):
Well everybody handles things in different ways, just keep doing what you are doing being there for her and being supportive. But you will be able to tell when she seems happier and in a better place and when you see that she seems happier, like when she laughs and smiles and seems to be enjoying herself then ask her, there is no set time for something like this, infact it would take her mind of things goodluck.
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