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anonymous
writes: Hey : )Basically, It's now been just under 3 weeks since I broke up with my long distance ex-gf , and I'm trying to find out if she might still be interested in getting back together and if so what i should do to help myself?I was NC with her for two weeks straight after the break-up, and then she caught me online one time and started to chat, and i rushed off saying i had to go as i was busy, but i kept it friendly.A few nights after that i sent her a message(bad move, i know) saying we should catch up.She told me she was busy that night but the next day was fine, we ended up having a quick chat(about 10 mins) that day as i had to leave for work and things seemed good. Later that night she started another chat with me and this one lasted for a while longer and again i ended the chat by telling her i had to go.She told me she'd have time to chat tomorrow, I'm just wondering should I chat with her again and try to keep repairing our friendship, or should I stay offline/quiet for a few days or a week and try to make her miss me a bit? Thanks in advance! : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): omg, stop playing mind games with the poor girl!!! You break up with her and now 3 weeks later you want to get bac together! Sounds like u need to decided if u even want to b with this girl, or if u were just attached and are having a hard time moving on. To your question tho, yes u could get bac together with her if u wanted. no girl would chat with u after u broke her heart if she didn't want u back.
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