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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why hasn't he told me that he wants me to be his woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ladies and males it does'nt matter both can answer my question please. Well I have been dating this guy I love alot sometimes I love him like a water overflowing in a glass! My problem is that it's been almost 2years and Iam not his woman yet; and over and over he knows ... (190 words)

Hooking up with co-workers

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I work with a group of people who all get along really well. we tend to all go out at least once or twice a month. The other night we all went out. Me and one co-worker are neighbors so we usually walk to and from things together. During one of these walks I expresse... (203 words)

My boyfriend always answers his cell phone no matter where or what he is doing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age - my boyfriend of 9 months always answers his mobile phone, even if we are at friends house or in a restaurant, sometimes its his ex wife, he chats but sometimes its about nothing in particular, I get angry and think its very rude, he thinks I am jealous and he just doesnt want ... (104 words)

In college but never had a b/f -- what's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im already in college now and iv never had a boyfriend before or even went out on a date. all my friends and family say im cute and pretty but im too shy and not outgoing, i have confidence in myself and how i look but its hard when guys that i do know say thats its b/c im ... (89 words)

As long as we can make it..is that a good response?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I asked my boyfriend how long did he see us together and he said as long as we can make it. Is that a good thing? ... (30 words)

My boyfriend flirts with other girls without realizing it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - this is a huge problem with us. we have been going out for almost 11 months, and we really care about each other, but he doesnt realize that he flirts with girls. they flirt with him and he doesnt realize it and flirts back, and we have talked about it and he tries to change ... (64 words)

New girl at school, aren't the guys supposed to say 'hi' first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I'm in the 8th grade. I recently transferered schools. There are a lot of guys that are cute there. I don't have any classes with any of them. I see them in the hallway but I'm to shy to say anything since I'm the new girl. What should I do? Plus isn't the guy supposed to ... (64 words)

Did I give him too much information and scare him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I really screwed up with a guy I'm interested in. I have recently left my husband, we were never in love so I have been emotional gone for quite some time. I have a friend who I have known for most of my life, but only recently gotten close to. He starting talking to ... (402 words)

I flew across the country to meet him and now I'm not attracted to him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I got into a relationship with someone online. We've been dating for 3months and I fell in love with his personality. I flew across the country to meet him and now that I have I'm not really physically attracted to him. My question is, should I stay with him or break it off? ... (62 words)

How can I make him want me more and kiss me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating with my bf like a 5 months at first we dated well we been together well and we were happy as well but by the time passed we stopped to go out i mean he didn't ask mee out anymore or kissed me anymore for along time ago and he got really busy he could hardly ... (90 words)

The ex will not stop bothering me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with a guy 4 years younger than me..... when I met him he was wonderful Even made me feel younger than him cuz of the way he carryed him self.... things started going bad after I said yes to being his girl friend.... he lost his job and got kicked out of his house... ... (228 words)

I'm due in 2.5 weeks and I'm not ready for this child!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So as not confuse you, I'll put these facts in list form: -My husband and I are both 19 (he'll be 20 the end of this month) and we've been together for two years (tomorrow is our two year anniversary). -We've been married for three months and I'm currently eight and a ha... (416 words)

Is this a sign of a possessive/insecure person and how can I help him deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I believe my boyfriend may be insecure about himself and our relationship to the point it has possibly manifested itself into possesive and controlling. But the thing is I can't really tell if he is. Last night, I told him that I was going across town to stay the night with my ... (212 words)

Crushing on my teacher...

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, well it's my teacher (sigh) I admire her lots not in a love way but in a huge role model thing way. I'm in her science class and she is a big part of helping out in the school plays and recently I have just got the main part. I'm always exited to see her in my science ... (250 words)

Boyfriend wants his friend to watch us have sex

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to have sex with his friend infront of him ! I don't know what to do! help me please xx... (24 words)

Am I eating off a used dish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well ive liked this sgirl for a long time,but she had a boyfreind. She just got dumped and i helped her feel better but then everyone just said i was "eating of a used dish" what should i do should i ask her out or not... (46 words)

Should I cut off a 22 year friendship for my girlfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone. I have an ex girlfriend from High School that I am still very good friends with. We live 5 blocks away from each other. Speak to each other 3 or 4 times a week. See each other twice a week. But this is only because we are in the same neighborhood. The problem is ... (146 words)

How can you know if you have a hymen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i wanted to know how can you make sure you still have a hymen... (15 words)

I'm worried my OCD is coming back.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - When i was a child i used to have pretty bad OCD. Certain things had to be done a number of times e.g. switching a light switch on and off. I know i probably sound like a complete nut but if you don't have it you really can't understand what's it's like. Now i'm 23 and i though... (180 words)

I'm pretty, why don't I have a boyfriend when ugly fat girls have one?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - All of my friends continue to tell me to ask outthe guy I've liked for 6 years. They continue to say I'm pretty and the refer to me as the 'hot one.' I do believe I'm pretty, but, these over weight, ugly, and mean girls have boyfriends, yet I have never had a true boyfrien... (85 words)

My friend shouted out that I liked him and now he always gives me weird looks

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i really like this boy that always gets on the same bus as me .nd i told my best friend that i thought he was fit then a few days later we were on the bus and he got on .and my friend shouted oh look theres that boy you like and heard he looked right at us and smirked ... (90 words)

Dating awkwardness

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, im going out with my boyf tomorow, just to the park. but Everytime we meet up its really awkward because i feel like im the only one making the effort to make conversation. I want to have normal convos and have a good time without the awkwardness. please help x... (54 words)

Am I getting paranoid over her or is something really going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

- hey i need some help firstly i have been with my partener for 18 months, we have a son together. the birth of our son was a bad labour and my partener was diagnosed with PND she was on medication for 7 months for it and she has recently stopped off her own accord, without ... (386 words)

Do I leave this guy or should I give him a try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i want some advice on this. I have been dating a guy for about 5 months and we are pretty good to each other, he has told me he has started to feel something special for me and i am starting to feel something for him, too. Before we started dated, we both left our ex's ... (417 words)

He cheats lies took my virginity...now wants me back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - IDont know what to do. I lost my verginity and im inlove with this kid BUT he cheats and lies and I barley see him now but now he is calling me texting me to take him back. Ilovehim but I've gotten to meet someone else who im startting to like but he can be a asswhole and he ... (68 words)

I just feel like crying all the time

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,i really dont know wha it is but i just feel like crying all the time and i dont know why like right now im sat just thinking about everything and its rubbish! When im in college im well known and i wouldnt be the sort of girl to be updet all the time. I tried to tell my ... (211 words)

I lose all my confidence because of my dad

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6 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Im 14 n my dad still beats me... He scolds... I dont have any boyfriend in fact i never had a boyfriend... Because i dont trust a boy because he says that theyll use u and go away... I dont even have a friend of the opposite sex... I go for jogging at 5 with my ... (184 words)

I don't want this girl to think I'm a dufus!

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i know this might sound like i am shy but i am really not that shy. I have a calm personality but i am not afraid to go up and talk to people. My problem is that theres this girl ive seen in the halls at school and i think shes cute and im not afraid to go up to her but i ... (159 words)

Am I going to get a huge bill from this porn site?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So let me explain a few things I was really horny one day and I decided to buy on of those pre-paid credit cards for 50bucks and get a membership to one of those porno site and I filled out everything and got the membership for one month and spent all the money one the card S... (105 words)

Everyone says I should fight to get my ex back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok , I am not with my ex and he is with someone else. i love him and miss him. Everyone is telling me that I should fight to get him back. I have spoken to him and told him how much I love him. i even asked him if he loves me he says that he wont say if he does or don't. I... (255 words)

Boyfriend more quiet than usual, not sure whats going on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend got into a big argument last night long story but later that night everything calmd down and he was back to normal. we were lauqhing and had great conversation. Now today we talk and theres silence..so i ask is everything okay he said yea why wouldnt it be ? ... (154 words)

Boyfriend lied and now I don't trust him at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I caught my boyfriend lying to me a couple of weeks ago. He lied about where he was so he could stall me from coming over so he could smoke pot with his lady friend. We sorted it out, and on his own accord he promised he would stop seeing her and swore to never lie to me. He ... (179 words)

A shy girl meeting a shy guy that my bff wanted me to meet unexpectedly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a shy girl that hasn't ever had a chance. I've met this shy guy that my best friend wanted me to meet. We have been talking for a little bit after we first met. He never texted me first I was the one who did. Also when he asked me to go to the movies he'd always ... (201 words)

This guy has a problem, right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i know this guy and was wondering if he has some problem or am i just amagining this,he is the most house proud man i have every known,cleaning all the time,obcessing over DIY,washing the cooking dishes before he has even eaten his dinner,etc everything is really perfect.but ... (175 words)

Boyfriend threatens to hurt my family if I leave him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend hits me and i've tried so many times to leave him but he threatens me...he says that he's gonna do something bad to my family...i'm so desperate..please hep me...i can't stand him anymore..give me a solution please...what should i do to keep him away from me and my ... (51 words)

Getting a good night's sleep

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Does anybody have any advice on getting a good nights sleep and how to clear my mind so i can relax? I've had a lot of stress in my life lately and am finding it really hard to get to sleep, i maybe sleep 4 or 5 hours a night if i'm lucky. Thanks x... (59 words)

Do I tell my boyfriend his friend hit on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends Friend made move on me, and ididnt say nothing to him but iwanna tell my boyfriend I don't know if ishould because he gets mad quick help me!... (30 words)

I don't know how she feels but she has a bf already...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay the basic details are this: I'm 20 and at university and have just started my second year. Half way through the first year I met this girl and from the moment I saw her I thought she was stunning. I got talking to her and her personality was 10/10. She's funny, hard wor... (826 words)

Husband having affair but I feel bad leaving him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age - I don't know why but I am having the hardest time leaving my husband of 28 years even though I know he is having an affair and has been for at least a year. My husband is disabled and can't work so he can't pay the mortgage, he won't agree to sell the house, and I can't pay ... (71 words)

I'm sick of the way he treats me what should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i need some advice please. i really like this guy i work with and im sure hes already aware that i like him a lot. but it seems that he only wants to be friends at work. hes happy to work with me and have me pay for lunch etc but when it comes to socialising he balks at... (180 words)

I got dumped harshly and am not dealing with it well

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 14 year old guy who just got dumped.. It was harsh.. It was the morning of a Thursday and she just texted me and said "I thought about some stuff and I think we should just be friends.. I'm sorry." I got so depressed and still am.. I need help getting over her.. Shes... (262 words)

I'd love to ask out my TA but am wondering if its a good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am taking an Anthropology course, along with 400+ students, and when I met my TA, and I was just shocked at how beautiful she was. She's about 5'8, very kind, is from Brazil, and is 2-3 years older than I am. Although I like Anthropology, I can't even tell myself if it was ... (252 words)

He is my world but I don't want to go through what we've already been through!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my patner for 14 years, recently we have split up this was a mutual decision to start with but when it came to the crunch i asked him to stay i love him, during the past couple of years we have both been through so much about 4 years ago i found emails from gay ... (643 words)

My christain boyfriend said no sex,kissin and touching in our relationship and I don't really go down well with it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am 18 and my bf is 21,we met through a dating site weeks ago and fell madly inlove wt each other{though we are in a LDR}. .so we were talking yesterday and he was telling me that he is a christian and don't want us to be having sex,kissin,or even touching each other til we get ... (101 words)

We hit it off on holiday but now we're both home and I haven't heard anything

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. Met a guy from holiday. We exchanged emails. Then we went off to our own countries. I'm from USA and he's from the UK. He didn't send me an email within the week so I sent him an email and kept it short, sweet and friendly. It's been three days and no res... (215 words)

Does the awkward feelings have anything to do with the lack of physical attraction ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I apologize that this is so long but I don't have anyone else to talk to and I really need some advice. I met this guy from an online dating site a couple weeks ago. It's not something I would ever imagine myself doing but I decided to give it a shot. We texted and email... (617 words)

They say I'm too young but I've been feeling like this for years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am in year 10 at the moment and there is a teacher and i really like him i cannot stop thinking about him i love him and i was talking to someone and they sed i am to young to fall in love but i have been feeling like this since year 7. he has taught me every year so fa... (125 words)

Return to wife? Pursue divorce? Stay separted? What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age - Well, I'm wondering what I should do now. I am in a long-term marriage of over 25 years but for many of those years felt very lonely. My wife and I had drifted very far apart and it seemed like we had very little in common any longer except for the children (two gr... (815 words)

Is a girl more attractive when she plays games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone agree that playing games spices up a relationship? I was with a guy for almost 3 years... we lived together 2 years and had spoken of marriage. One day we had a small argument and I came home from work and all of his stuff was gone. I was totally shocked and ... (474 words)

I need space and he won't give it to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. We first met each other in high school, about 11yrs ago and got reacquainted on FB a few months ago. Everything was going well in the beginning, but lately, everything he does just seem to irritate me! I'm not a very ... (193 words)

Who is this strange man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age - a man started texting me that i dont know.it turned out that he knows my brother and girlfriend so must have got my number off their mobile although they say they dont know him by the nickname he gave me. he also knew my name and address and what i look like i found by asking ... (71 words)

Never broken up before! How do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. i have a problem. i have been seeing this super nice guy but in all honesty i'm just not that into him. i thought that if i continued seeing him the spark would develop. but obviously it didnt and now im stuck. he is really into me and tries so hard to make me happy. i ... (121 words)

My work took my wife away! How do I get her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am lost for what to do to get my wife back. We have been separated for over two weeks now and we still live together. I have been depressed for a long time and I believe this has gradually deteriorated things between us. I had been looking for a job for a year with my degree, ... (986 words)

Handjob and Blowjob at the movies?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while over 2 months now, but I'm never actually the one to actually DO anything. I've never actually given a handjob, or blowjob. But I really want to pleasure him the way he pleasures me. Just recently he fingered me, it weas so great, ... (79 words)

Help, Is my marriage over befor it starts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Hope, I am 28 years old. I have been with my now husband for 2 months, we have been dating for 5 years prior to getting married. We have had issues in the past, I have gotten bored in the past and end up searching for attention from other men. I dont act on these tem... (211 words)

Heading for a break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - im 30 an been in a realtionship 4 11 months she is 6 months pregnant an my paranoia is draggin her 2 rock bottom im on resperidone an got 2 see a shrink just dont want to lose her n i think its heading that way wot can i do ... (50 words)

My best friend tried to kiss me but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster combined] y best friend ha s a girlfriend and he still flirts wiht me and touches me and all that everyday..we all are very good friends except for me and his gf but we talk and chill with each other eveyday and he hardly see his gf b... (495 words)

I fell in love with a stranger!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey My name ammie and am 22 years old Well ,,I don’t know where should I start ,, Or how can I Describe my situation Am single since 4 months ago things are going pretty smoothly for me And I find it a great time for me to get to know myself more and be much wiser and i... (513 words)

Attracted to my Best Friends Ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in my last year of high school and i've started having feelings for my best friends ex. But its forbiddon territory! I never meant to fall for him, but we are together everyday and its so hard. He really likes me too and I think we could be so happy together. My best fri... (308 words)

How do you become a personal assistant?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if anyone knows how i could become a PA ( personal assistant ) ?. I would like to work from someones home as a PA, maybe just to start off with,so for a business person, or even, by some miracle, a personal assistant to an actor. And no, that's not just so i ... (138 words)

I think my female student has a lesbian crush on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think one of my female students has a crush on me, I am a lesbian and she may have heard that somewhere I’m not sure. I need to tell her that I don’t have feelings for her. I’m not sure whether I should of if I should just wait for it to pass. She is always asking for help,... (193 words)

I wrote a love letter to my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 year old girl. Well, that's obvious that I'm still in high school. Since I'm in Indonesia, I have two native speakers from Europe and USA to train our english. But, I think I like "Mr.A" from Europe.He's new in my school, replacing my previous native teacher. ... (446 words)

She was my everything

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it take to get over a 3 and a half year long relationship? She was my everything and she found it so easy to just take every shred of respect and caring for her and throw it away. i was willing to do anything for her.. And she just met some guy and slept with him afte... (72 words)

Should I make a move, or is he no longer interested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in a complicated situation. I recently met a man and started dating. All was going great - he was taking me out for dinner, coming over and cooking me dinner, going for moonlit walks. It was very early days but I was feeling really optimistic. Then my father passed away. It ... (241 words)

Our work schedules clash!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure whether to break up with my boyfriend and would appreciate your advice. We've been together 7 months. At first he was working days like me and we used to see each other on a Friday night, which was good because neither of us had work the next day. Since Augus... (249 words)

How do you stop having feelings for someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on holiday 4 years ago and we got on really well and spent the whole holiday together. Then when we came back to the uk he came up to see me and i went down to see him, but it just fizzled out and we lost contact. I actually really feel like i fell for him big ... (270 words)

I want to see the doctor again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i need help i get attracted towards a doctor who did my check up once i dont no his name but i no where he works i am interested with him a lot he is still in my eyes he was very kind and nice i wish to meet him again what should i do to ... (58 words)

My ex has a fake profile pretending to be someone else and he has befriended me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My lover dumped me 3 weeks ago,he said he needed some space and time to think things out etc.I have left him alone but i am heartbroken, anyway he has gone on a website that i go on and he goes in a profile pretending he is someone else...he befriended me and has sent me a few ... (125 words)

I'm scared fiance will leave me sooner or later

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age - me and my fiance have been together for almost 4years and we have 3 kids and a eldrely grandma to take care of we are not as intimate as we wre in the beginning we might have sex once a month if that she hardly goes anywhere but stays on the phone all day long talking to ... (113 words)

My husband can't get over HIS affair.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband had an affair 2 years ago, and we worked through issues, the affair ended and life went on. 3 weeks ago we celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary with a vow renewal ceremony, and I noticed after that he started acting very depressed. I questioned him a... (121 words)

I've had sex with both my boss and her daughter! How do I get out of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. This is a very awkward, but sadly very true, story that I need help with. I have recently been having a casual sexual relationship with my 38 year old boss. I'm 20. This may sound bad but bare in mind she was not my boss when I began 'seeing' her. We met when I was o... (332 words)

How late is too late to lose your virginity?

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6 November 2010 (M)

- I'm 23 and was reading an article about age on losing virginity http://abcnews.go.com/Health/Sex/story?id=3932047 and page=1 I was late when it came to dating and I nearly lost it when I was 20. But everyone thinks if you haven't had sex when your at uni, you're either ... (123 words)

He's married but separated, is he taking me for a ride?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im a 28 year old woman in love with a 32 year old guy,we have been dating 6 months now and its really intense from the start,here is the problem: he is married but separated from his wife for the last 2 years they have lived apart in different cities but they have a 3 n half... (210 words)

I fancy his taken best friend way more than my date but I don't want to - help?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I REALLY hate the fact I fancy the man who is the best friend of the man who I have been going out on dates with (who already has a gf - I think he fancies me back as the other day he asked the guy I was dating for my phone no!! what the hell?) (I'm guessing in case it doesn't ... (532 words)

I feel he is getting an easy ride ...

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6 November 2010 (F)

age - My partner has been living with me full time for a year now and he pays me £400 a month for his keep. My living expenses probably amount to about £1,500 a month and I am now feeling that he is getting an easy ride with what he gives me. Apart from getting his washing and ... (302 words)

I lied about my age and have found out he is a copper!

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Aunts. I am 15 and hang around with a large group of girls. I wear nice clothes and make myself up to look older I suppose. I went to a party recently and met this really nice guy. He said he was 26, I really liked him so I said I was 17. He took my number and ... (271 words)

What should I do after a hook up with someone I like?

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I have a question about hooking up vs. real interest. I slept with this girl on Halloween and she initiated the whole thing. We were both pretty drunk at the time but she seemed interested before we hooked up that night. Afterwads she didnt even spend the night however. ... (165 words)

How can I overcome these mixed feelings for my friend?

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people! I have a problem. I asked out my close friend a month or so ago, and was rejected, given the "no chance" treatment. My problem is not with trying to form some sort of relationship (as she said, "no chance of anything happening between us"), but it's more gett... (137 words)

How can he expect me to see him everyday and not show affection?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, well I guess I have the same problem as many of you. I have been dating my bf for about 2 years now - almost 2 years to the day actually. We were in a wonderful state at the beginning of our relationship, and then after about a year, it went downhill. We moved in... (268 words)

But I love him ...

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today is a month for me and my boyfriend, we have had our ups and downs, we had broke up and gotten back together and ever since then things have not been the same he doesn't call me as much or say sweet things I'm not on his top on myspace he has his ex on there but not me! ... (109 words)

I want to tell him my feelings have changed

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - here is the problem. My boyfriend and I havnt been dating very long but i know he likes me alot. i had agreed to go to formal with him but now, i really dont think i like him and its extremly hard to tell him. i have already told him that i do not want to go to formal with him... (145 words)

Money shouldn't be an issue when it comes to love right?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Omgosh I'm so stressed.. I've been talking to this guy for about a month now and everything is going pretty good! I met him through my best friend's husband... Well unfortunately he lives about 1700 miles away :-( well he bought me a plane ticket to go visit in a couple of ... (178 words)

I don't know if hes the right one for me. He never says he loves me

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.. I am a 19 yr. Old girl. I am in a relationship with my bf from last 2 years and i feel he doesnt care about me at all. I just want to seek advice from everyone regarding this. Whenever i go out with my guy friends or flirts with them..he doesnt get jealous at al... (312 words)

Why doesn't boyfriend stop wasting money on rent and move in with me?

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6 November 2010 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend of four months lives with me and my two kids but I pay rent and utilities. He has his own place on the side which he never stays at. I just don't get why he keeps his place and wastes money on rent instead of helping me! He says he is not ready to move in with me ... (107 words)

Why does he want my FB password when we have broken up?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Iam a girl, my name is radika. i started this relationship with kevin about 66 months ago. we were loving each other alot but because i had so many problems with my parents kevin asked to beakup. i really didnt want him to do that at that time coz thats the time i needed him ... (139 words)

A previous porn addict balancing masturbation/porn in new relationship

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have in my past been strongly addicted, and satisfied somewhat, with porn browsing, gathering, viewing and masturbation. I enjoyed every aspect of it, and though I've struggled with it's influence on my relationships and tried countless times to quit, but while I've been ... (990 words)

I am so confused about my sexuality

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello dear people, (First thank you for taking interest and for your time to read, review my question) Concerned subject : Sexuality I thought a lot on how to draft my concern. Let's see. I am 22 years male, educated, responsible and working in an IT industry. I am ... (662 words)

I don't know what I should do to get her back again

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - first note that we tried to hide our commitment from our friends.i and my girl friend study in same college.....at first we were friends then suddenly i propose her and she accepted my proposal.after that our love increases day by day and we came closer and closer day by day ... (176 words)

What does a women get out of strap on sex?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my neighbor have been best friends sine we were in kindergarden and now we are freshmen in college and sharing a dorm room. I always felt weird feelings toward her and always got upset when she looked at other girls. She is out of the closet for 6 years but I never told ... (223 words)

Dominant femme submissive femme

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6 November 2010 (F) age 30-35 - This question is for lesbains. What's the difference between a dominant femme and a submissive femme?... (16 words)

I'm starting to see him as how he is, not a prince charming

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in a strong loving relationship with my boyfriend for almost four years, never had any major problems that any normal relationship wouldn't go through. I became pregnant five months ago and it seems like our relationship just started to go down hill. we use to ... (357 words)

How do I deal with this friend of mine? She's irritating the hell out of me!

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this girl in high school...she had just shifted to my home-town...and we became the best of friends in no time.We bonded over everything, although we were poles apart. Im going to call this girl Meg. Meg was the typical wild-child...she wud colour her hair purple, had... (624 words)

Why did she broke up with me over a text message?

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was involved in a friend with benefits relationship with a woman who is 17 years older than me. We had a 15 months long relationship. I moved to a different city so the last 3 months of our relationship, we were just talking on the phone. I told her we can't have a serious ... (370 words)

What was my co worker really asking me?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - a co-worker of mine and myself were talking the other day and he randomly asked me about things i think about. I dont really know him all that well because i only started the job a few months back. So i just made a simple answer because it threw me off guard. But when i asked ... (145 words)

I've been seeing a married man for 7 years

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6 November 2010 (F)

age - Hi All I am confussed about this married guy i have been seeing for 7yrs. no i shoudn't be doing this sort of thing yes i do know it's wrong but you can't help you fall in love with either. I donot expect this man to leave his wife there is no children involved althoug... (283 words)

I'm unable to make him happy because of my past

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just four months been married with a wonderful and decent guy. Before I married him, he was a widower with one boy whom raised by the ex-wife. I love him so much and this feeling sometimes inspires me to agree with an idea of separation as long as it can bring him ... (1300 words)

Time to put my big girl panties on!

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my husband since I was 19 and he was 35. Now I'm 24 and he is 40. He did not show his temper until after I got pregnant with our son. His anger problem is getting worst. Not just that, he is cold with me. I thought we were doing okay and one day he start... (261 words)

She has not contacted me in 9 days, do I move on?

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i met a girl and fell for eachother straight away, she moved into my place and three months later got engaged. two days after the engagement she told me it was not working. she moved back home which is three hours away its been 9 days and still she has not contacted me.... what ... (67 words)

All he sends are one word texts!

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy of whom I know through family ties (he is related to friends of the family.) At our annual Halloween party, he and I seemed to be hitting it off rather well. He would tease me and I would flirt. After exchanging numbers and having texted him as of late, I feel ... (97 words)

Why is date no 3 the date where most men try to get it on with women???

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When a man tries to touch the side of your waist on a first date and takes a while to let go of it - what does that mean?? Is he just thinking of sex with me?? I know he is heavily attracted to me and has said so asking me for a kiss at the end of date - I'm not as attracted ... (122 words)

Can anyone decode his odd behaviour???

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Been dating a guy on and off for the last two months - he seems mad into me but I am not mad into him. I like the fact he has been spoiling me and buying me nice stuff.. But now I wonder is he trying to buy my love more?? I missed a few calls and came back to a txt message that ... (537 words)

I've lost my best friend and I don't know why

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6 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - ive lost my so called bestfriend. we have known each other for about 4 years and out of the no where she stopped talking to me. I just dont no why and im not/ dont want to ask her. however i feel bad and i want her back as my bestfriend. i see her at school and she doesnt e... (178 words)

I think having a boyfriend might solve my problems

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a major issue. I'm a 16 year old guy and my problem revolves around my sexuality. For years I've tried to deny that I am gay/bi, I've tried to act straight, be straight and still do today. But, the difference now is that I've actually accepted that I like boys. All my ... (337 words)

My boyfriend said he loves me, yet he was kissing my best friend

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been going out with this guy for a couple months, but I caught him cheating on me. Worse part is that it was my best friend I saw him with. He was kissing her, and just yesterday he told me he loved me. So much for that. But sadly, I still like him. I don't know what ... (64 words)

I haven't got any friends and I don't know why

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6 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I dont know what to think...one of my old friends(not a friend no more) had a party and i wasn't invited which made everyone else curious about it. So one of my friends asked one of the girls that was my friend why she hated me know and she said that she just strongly disliked ... (116 words)

Should I pick either of these guys?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy long distance for a while - was brilliant at first - talking all the time etc - couldn't get enough of each other. He is American - he even shockingly showed an interest in marrying me or so he said at the time, so this good vibe went on for a bit until ... (574 words)

I'm caught up in 3 different situations!

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old female and I'm also bi. I'm so confused right now. It's a basic question: What do you do when you're still in love with your first love,(of course) really really like another girl, and dating a guy that you sort of like. Is this wrong...? ... (50 words)

Is my co-worker being friendly..or is it more to it?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this really cute co-worker who i think might like me but I just don't know if I'm reading to much into things. we work in retail so we are in the same building but different areas. I started to notice that he often comes over into my area for no reason at all, like he ... (412 words)

Whats up with this mysterious guy?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - It is Friday night and I am sitting home with tears. I had two offers for dates tonight, (both with advanced degrees) I am in love with someone who I can not have. Well, I should say he is shy. His body language says one thing and he does something else. When we are around each ... (449 words)

I am doing me...But I still wonder about relationships..

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some insight. I am usually single, haven't had any real serious boyfriends. I've had flings and casual relationships. Sometimes I feel like I'm ready to be in a relationship. It would be nice, but at the same time, I don't want to be one of those annoying, weak women ... (127 words)

I cheated on my wife with this girl...and now she's giving me a hard time...

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6 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I am very depressed because i have done a sin. I am married but was on a business trip for 3 months and befriended with a girl. She started loving me and started thinking about our marriage. I didn't tell her that i was already married. Then she told me to have a s... (422 words)

We just can't have sex!

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been having trouble with sex with my boyfriend its been like a month because I'm to tight and he literally cant get inside me it was going GREAT for the first 2 weeks and then a month ago things just don't seem to be working and its not as though we don't try, we tr... (182 words)

His actions don't make any sense. Should I wait or move on?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this may be a little long but bear with me please. My ex boyfriend is 9 years older than I am. I am 21 he is 30. He has a pituitary tumor and low testosterone so he pretty much looks and acts 21. Anyways, it took us a long time to get together. We did fall for each oth... (700 words)

How can my friend talk to her boyfriend about this?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So my friend asked me to ask you all for advice. Her boyfriend and her have been dating for 8 months. She feels recently that he isn't as into the relationship then he used to be. She has tried talking to him about it but he says "I don't want to talk about this now, my fee... (440 words)

I wanna spice up our sex life.what are some ways?

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6 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok.. this is for all the guys to answer or girls. i want to do some nasty things to my boyfriend..kinky things he never thought i would do in a million years. give me some things to do or tips to spice up our sex life??! ... (46 words)