New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in November, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (136), 2 (139), 3 (139), 4 (125), 5 (108), 6 (115), 7 (128), 8 (135), 9 (123), 10 (105),
11 (130), 12 (110), 13 (100), 14 (139), 15 (129), 16 (134), 17 (145), 18 (120), 19 (110), 20 (107),
21 (157), 22 (128), 23 (109), 24 (122), 25 (102), 26 (102), 27 (126), 28 (138), 29 (136), 30 (124),

Archived questions from: 1 November, 2010 (see latest questions)

(More questions from November, 2010)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I find it tough to find attractive women who fancy me! Should I lower my standards??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

- Hi guys can you help? I'm 32 (embarrassed that a guy my age is even on here) and feel I'm getting on now and need to find a decent girlfriend. I’ve been single for 2/3 years now but to be honest girlfriends have always been hard to find. (before then was a bout 4/5 yrs) I’m ... (254 words)

Are there any other departments we could go to for help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and my husband is 20, we have a two year old daughter . we live in ny and on june 10th 2010 my dad passed away from heart cancer in my arms. we lived with him and he supported us finacially. we have section 8 housing and finally have our own place. we are trying our ... (141 words)

I want her to have everything she has ever wanted, but if she goes away out of my life I think it'll crush me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hello. I started dating this wonderful girl recently. She is everything I ever wanted. We had a bit of an odd start as friends. Then she started to pursue me as a little more than friends. Things were going well, until a man from her past came along and ruined what we were ... (403 words)

Seriously... what's going on here???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Seriously I might as well just give vital points: -been seeing each other over a year -get along VERY well -when we're together, he treats me as if im the only one that matters -waited a while before having sex -met his brothers, have yet to meet mother -regards me a... (227 words)

I can't stand the drama and I don't want to be a drop out!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm sick and tired of all the craziness in mexico i want to run to california and meet my guy, i can't stand the drama but i don't want to be a drop out! i'm a senior at college and i don't want to risk all my school years for nothing but i really want to be with him just tu ... (76 words)

I feel like I've cheated, but I didn't go on a date with my now girlfriend yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've met my now girlfriend 6 months ago. We met on a Friday night, out at a bar, after quite a few drinks. We talked, ended up back at a mutual friends house, and kissed goodnight. The next morning we exchanged numbers, exchanged texts the next day... That night after we m... (400 words)

Sister in law urges...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hey there again its me the crazy OCD guy that thinks about his sister in law lol.:P The last thing I am is OCD and I dont need any medication either. It wasnt my idea in the first place to trade my wife like a power tool! It was my GREAT brother in laws idea. I dont want to ... (301 words)

Should I just hide how I feel... as usual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. i have a little problem not too serious or anything. i'll just give you the short version so that i won't bore whoever is reading this. there is this one guy that i really can't get out of my head and believe me i've tried. i've liked him for a really long time. ... (275 words)

My friends always choose the wrong men...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a few female friends who seem to constantly be attracted to people who hurt them (ex. cheat on them). They seem to like bad boys but they end up hurt. I hate seeing my friends hurt. Any advice? ... (42 words)

Best mate is too pally with boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to put this exactly, and i don't know if it is all my own fault. My boyfriend and i have been together for 5months now, and i trust him utterly and completely, but recently, i have been having jealous feelings, towards him and my mate. It all started when i w... (335 words)

Is it too late for a good sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there everyone! I am a 26 year old guy who has been married for almost 3 years. My wife and I have always had a great friendship and we love each other very much, however our sex life has been suffering for the last 2 years and it is driving us apart. Here is what is ... (491 words)

Three guys and don't know which one to choose...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK here the thing, there is three guys that i talk to and kind of like. The first guy lets call him playmate, he has a girlfriend but we fool around often. We haven't had sex and we haven't had oral sex either. I gave him a hand job and he has fingered me and sucked on my ... (362 words)

Unappreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i been dating for a year and 6 month. we always get in argument when he goes out to hang out with his friends because first of all his friends are all single and they talk about getting with girls all the time. btw we are in a long distance relationship, 3 hrs ... (327 words)

If your boyfriend was blind, would you stay or would you go?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My name is Alexis and I'm 18 years old. I met the man of my dreams of 21, four years ago and we have been together ever since. When we first started dating, I knew I could picture myself getting married to him, and having a family with him. It was all a fairy-... (482 words)

Why is true love so hard to find...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is true love so hard to find?... (8 words)

I'm pretty sure I love this girl but I don't know if she feels the same about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know how common this question is. I met this girl about 4-5 months ago and I can’t stop thinking about her and I really do feel like I love her but I’m pretty sure she only thinks of me as a friend and its driving me crazy. Every day we talk in the morning on the phone and ... (329 words)

I don't know how to stop this cycle and be rid of the pain for good.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I don't really know why i'm asking for help or advice on this as i know a big part of it is my fault. To cut a long story short i've liked this guy for a while, and he was the first person i'd ever slept with. He doesn't know that part and i wouldn't give him that satisfation... (314 words)

Puppy love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 14 and have fallen in love with a teacher at my school. i havnt told any 1 about this because i feel shy. i really need help. he doesnt pay any attention to me and that really bothers me. i love him madly and i cant to forget him. he is white and im asian. aaliya... (62 words)

Website to bash and humiliate my husband's other woman???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to know if anyone knows of a website were I can upload a picture of a woman that likes to sleep with married men and get pregnant. knowing that the men are married. I would like to bash her and humiliate her for what she has done to myself and my 5 year old son. I ... (106 words)

Girl problems!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a student at an American college, coming from Britain. I am really new to the romantic scene, and having a few problems. There is one girl I really like, but I don't know how to ask her out, and I'm not even sure if she likes me at all, though we are friends. I don't ... (211 words)

How would you define the word "outgoing?"

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How would you define the word "outgoing?" And is it such a bad thing to be on the shy and quiet side? I want to work as an Au Pair abroad, but one of the families i am interested in says they are looking for an outgoing girl. I do like to socialize sometimes, and i have a good ... (309 words)

Ever since he got a girlfriend he acts like he doesn't want to be my friend any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, My guy friend and me have been great friends since 7th grade, we're in 9th grade now. Well, just this past summer I got his number and we started texting. Not during the day, like I'd text him at 2 am or some stuff like that. We'd text alot, and we got closer. We'd talk ... (278 words)

I'm having feelings for my gay friend... we just "click!"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. I am a somewhat happily married woman who has never cheated on my husband. My husband is very jealous and can be somewhat abusive at times. We do not do much seperately for that reason. He does not seem like he trusts me at all. I truly believe that I do love my ... (410 words)

I really need some advice and my heart aches every day and the desire of just to be with her is so overwhelming.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Help please, I have a real big problem, I am in love with my first cousin. I am 25 and she is 29. I have always been really close to her, and have always though of her as a great friend, well my best friend. I recently separated from my wife and at the same time she separat... (217 words)

Anal sex and condoms?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years and i are both virgins. I have known him forever and know that there is no chance that he has ever slept with anyone and therefore he has no std's. We are considering trying anal sex but i was wondering how important it was for us to use a condom. ... (71 words)

My he/she wife has left me and I'm broken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age - What can or should I do; (heartbroken)? On Aug.26, 2010,I picked up my fiance from OKC Airport;she just arrived from Republica Dominicana, where she lives. Met her on the internet about a month before. We married on Sept.01, 2010,deepest love I've been in, I'm 72,have had one ... (230 words)

How do we get some more alone time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have this boyfriend.. I am completely in love with him. We have done stuff, sexually. But both of our parents don't trust us alone together, we need alone time. What can I do? ... (35 words)

Is he just flirting or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if a guy wants more and just being shy or just being flirty? I have a co- worker that I don't see often because he is out of state a lot selling for our company. He texts me several days a week, probably 20 times) and this has been going on for months. I really... (206 words)

My new love interest is giving me mixed signals and my ex is pressurising me by being emotional all the time. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5129 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be easier to understand if you read my previous question. The same guy who I have been interested in and who showed interest in me - things have been so slow, it's non - existant. What would I like to happen is for him to get in touch and tell me how he feels and for... (254 words)

How do we fix this without breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help, a lot of help. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months. It has been all lovey dovey, but recently we have been arguing a lot more. I hate it. I don't know why we argue so much, I don't really even know what we argue about, just little things, I ... (175 words)

I like this girl A LOT... but I'm also female!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think about this girl a lot. i like her actually. thing is im a girl. what do i do? i like guys too. ive even dated two guys but now i feel like i like this girl more. help.... (40 words)

Preparing yourself!

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

1 November 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Does fingering, masturbating and playing with sex toys really help before first sexual intercourse?... (14 words)

I'm thinking of breaking all contact off with my mother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids, I need advice about my mother, i am so sick of the way we are always arguing, i am beginning to wonder if it is best to break off all contact with her. She constantly puts me down, tells me that i am a horrible person, i am not a horrible person! i am alw... (312 words)

Hey what's the deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - he says he doesnt want to be with me anymore ever again and that he has let go of all his feelings for me. and that he isnt in love with me and probably never will be again. when i got kicked out of my house he opened his doors for me (i know he still cares for me) so i hav... (234 words)

I don't want to seem needy or clingy by calling him, texting him even more or demanding a response.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've had a boyfriend for about 1 month now, though I've only seen him three times. We're both the same age and last time I saw him (last Tuesday) we had our first kiss. He seemed a little nervous/embarrassed after our kiss, but he sent me a message asking me if I would want to ... (145 words)

She refuses to answer her calls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I feel upset when a girl gives me her number and I call with no reply. There was a lady who gave me her number. After about a week, I called just to say hi. I have called twice but she has not picked up. However she said that she is in a financial situation and does ... (442 words)

How do I leave this abusive relationship for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my on and off boyfriend for almost two years now. He can be such a sweet and charming man but he can also be a psychotic bully as well. All of the problems started when I moved in with him away from family and friends. I always wondered why he wouldn't move ... (375 words)

I'm confused regarding my boyfriend's fantasy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Is it weird that my boyfriend has a fantasy to watch me with another guy? Usually they want to see 2 girls but not another guy with their girl. Anyone experienced this ever? ... (35 words)

Tall and short women hate short guys equally

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do taller women have so much hate for the shorter guys who approach them only to complain themselves about being single and the lack of quality available men? Is it so wrong for a short guy to be attracted to a woman more than a couple of inches taller? I've always bee... (134 words)

Need help with "dirty" truth or dare please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well me and my boyfreind text a lot, and we were thinking of games to play during it and i thought of truth or dare. The problem is i kinda wanna do "dirty" truth or dare but i cant think of any over the phone. Any ideas? Thanks. ... (49 words)

Where did my macho guy go and who is this wimp?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need advice, my fiance has turned into a right wimp. when i first met him, he was this matcho man, very confident and could handle himself, he used to do MMA, now hes a right pussy. i touch him and he says ouch and hes always hurting himself. its kind of like hes always ... (517 words)

I want to have sex but am afraid of the "what ifs"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) age 30-35 - I am a 20 yo male and have never done it before. I have a gf who is also virgin and we have been hinting sex to each other. I want to do it, but I fear for many things. I fear that she will feel pain during it, that the condom might break, that she might become pregnant, that I ... (93 words)

Is our marriage going to be over soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 3 years, together for 6. I got pregnant at a young age, 19, just 1 year after we met. We had a wonderful sex drive when we met up until the point of when I was about 4 mos. pregnant. Ever since then we have only had sex about once a month, sometimes even ... (199 words)

Help!!! I wish I knew what was going on in his head, is he just trying to be friends with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5128 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I need some advice. Me and my ex have been together on/off for 4 years. He broke up with me like a month and a half ago and it was because we argued too much :(. I was so heartbroken about everything and even begged him like an idiot lol. 2 weeks after we broke u... (423 words)

How can I ask my boyfriend to spank me as a punishment instead of during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've only been with my boyfriend for 3 months but we have sex and i told him that i like to be spanked. the truth is that i don't actually like it, i just want him to dominate me. when he spanks me it really hurts and i want him to stop but when i do something wrong i want him ... (94 words)

What's the difference between the two?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! A question about orgasms. When I have an orgasm by clitoral stimulation I feel it inside my vagina so how is that different to a vaginal orgasm?? Any help on clearing up what's what would be helpful! ... (45 words)

My boyfriend is non stop and I'm losing my mind!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm between a rock and a hard place. im with a guy i love him dearly. hes good with my daughter, he works, he dont have any drug habits, hes smart, hes everything ive wanted in a guy. the problem i have with him though, is that he is always busy, he expects me to always be ... (407 words)

B/f wants me to call myself a "dirty slag" during sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What does my fella mean when he asks me to call myself a "dirty slag" when having sex? - Is it a disrespectful phrase or is he just getting off on it as a weird kind of sex speak? should I be offended or not?... (48 words)

Don't want to come on too strong but I want to take our friendship further.

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

1 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I really like a friend of mine but can not figure out why he won't make a move. I'm single, he's single, we've been talking online and texting for months but I can't figure out where I stand with him. I usually communicate 1st but he always responds AND QUICKLY. We have a ... (183 words)

B/f wants a hand job but won't show me how to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help my bf wants be to give him a hand job but idk how!! he wont show me eather help mee please.... (24 words)

Why does my ex want to hang out if she has a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I dated for three years (almost), and haven't been in contact for about 4-5 months, except for when I texted her on her birthday a few weeks ago. She flirted and tried to text me a little bit even though she has a bf. The reason we haven't talked is because she ... (157 words)

3 boob jobs and my girlfriend STILL wants them bigger!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has had 3 boob jobs and has DD size breasts. She now wants to get yet another boob job taking her up to ideally F size breasts. I find this too much, not being a fan of fake tits anyway. Yet she has got upset and says she is getting them anyway. Am I being out of ... (84 words)

Why does his erect penis go down and not up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right I'm a twenty year old girl and I've just found my third sexual partner... He's different from the others in the way that when he's hard his penis goes downward instead of up... I know he's hard but... Does this mean he's not that attracted to me if it doesn't go upward ... (78 words)

Can a man masturbate so much he loses interest in real sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - can a man masturbate so much that he looses a sexual desire for his female mate, i am a full figured woman the same size when i got married 5 months ago but now my husband is totally and completely uninterested in sex with me he is a good no great guy just so extremely ... (87 words)

How effective is the birth control shot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now and we've been together 2 years. I just started the birth control shot back in July so I just had my 2nd shot on October 12th. This past Saturday, we had sex with no condom (I usually make him wear one ... (103 words)

How can I control where things go???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5129 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a late-teenage guy currently studying for a degree. I have never been in a relationship before. This girl in my subject first sat next to me a few days ago. She was pretty and friendly, but I didn't know her name. As she was talking to someone near me, she shifted up ... (435 words)

My first crush...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. I've known this guy since i was in year 1, he was my first crush. I told him a few months ago that i loved him because i do, he said he loved me too then we dated for like a month, and then he said he doesnt know what happened but he left me for someone he'd pretty much... (103 words)

Was I wrong in asking his dad to call first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My question: Was I wrong in asking my boyfriend's father to ask us before coming over? My boyfriend of 4 years and I recently decided to move in together. We've been considering it for the last year, and the opportunity came up about 6 months ago when his father purchased... (724 words)

Is oral sex so bad???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a boyfriend. Our relation makes 1 year. we've gone so far during this one year (no sex)..only foreplay. i trust him a lot and i know he will never betray me. we are very open in sex topic. he is now abroad. a few days he was always asking me that he would like to ki... (230 words)

Is thing going anywhere or should I let go? If it is going somewhere, then what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What are my feelings? What are hers? Did I upset her by mentioning the other girl when we had dinner? Is she having feelings for me or concern? A few weeks back I was visiting my very close friend for the day before she left to go abroad for a year. (we are friends in uni... (438 words)

He's watching porn... is he a player? Am I too ugly for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. I need you to judge me. My boyfriend said I'm too jealous. We been together for 3years on and off. I always check on his stuff. Like his cell phone, computer. I always see what he been watching on the internet. I found out last past month he been watching porn wit... (125 words)

How can I just forget the fact that her male-friend likes her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend are celebrating our anniversary, and I make it noted to everyone. Write it in my facebook status and im proud of her and i for coming this far. She drops the "so my friend told me he likes me" bomb and i dont know how to deal with it, and what to think. she ... (199 words)

How can I get over a break-up when there wasn't one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so pathetic for writing this but I'd really appreciate the advice. My boyfriend of four years just left me. Told me three days ago that he was coming over the next day to break up with me. Well, he never showed up, and I kept trying to call but he's either turned h... (342 words)

What if I cannot stop my attraction to my sister in law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, Im back again with these SIL thing. I got your answers to the question however I dont think it done me much justice. Im still having these feeling in fact I woke up thinking about her. What if i cant stop it? I know im married and so is she with kids but I will always be a ... (346 words)

First time sex anxiety!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) age 36-40 - how to overcome anxiety in first sexual intercourse?... (8 words)

Will my prayers work so we can be together? And does he even like me if he has not shown any interest in 10 years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear readers, im madly in love with this guy for the past 10 years. we used to speak to each other as kids when i was as young as 9 yrs old, but we stopped now as we grew up. The thing is i have been praying continuously for the past so many years. In fact we have never sp... (172 words)

What can I do about my feelings for my teacher? And why am I attracted to a girl when I am straight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, I'm going to be vague about this, as I don't want to much revealed but here goes. I'm a straight girl, and I'm in love with one of my teachers... Who is also a girl. She's a young teacher, I think about 25. She's been at our school for a few years now but I only start... (371 words)

Is the only way to move on to forget about your ex completely?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I miss my ex a lot. I miss his smiles, his hugs, his stories, his everything. I know he has moved on. I know he would be happier with someone else. He has told me many times what he doesn't like about me. I wish I could be the person he wants to be with. I do want him to be ... (108 words)

I want to fight to get him back but he has cut off all contact with me, and my friends don't seem to understand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I am still very much in love with my boyfriend who broke up with me 3 months ago... I cant get over him at all, and my friends dont seem to understand they slag him off all the time when i bring him up and try and talk to them about my feelings.. Its like they have always hated ... (266 words)

My mother knows my crush's family, I have asked so many times to go with her to meet him but she ignores me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me! I'll tell you what happened to me. Before one year, I suddenly had a big crush on an old childhood friend. The crush was becoming huger and huger, but at summer he changed school and now we couldn't talk. The whole summer, I had depression. I cried all the time... (166 words)

How can we grow as a couple when we cant even get one day to ourselves because of his mom!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Thanks in advance for all advice. Ok I have a live in boyfriend for 1yr in my home - yes we split bills - right off the bat* Now I really love him and can look past some sexual issues he has (pre ejac, lack of drive)- He feels horrible and has some big issues on admitt... (625 words)

Do I tell her that her boyfriend slept with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm in fairly tricky situation at the moment. For the past year and a half me and this guy had a serious thing going on. Anywho, we broke things off, and he got himself a girlfriend, whilst I stayed single. A few months after, he randomly contacted me to hang out, which ... (260 words)

Do I want to be with my boyfriend, or his best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know i like my bf's best mate, it all started like this me and my bf live together and we have being going throught a rough patch. i dont think he appreciates me enough i do everything for him, we have been together for 2 years now this all started wen my bf's best mate b... (216 words)

For the men: Do you count on your wives to look after the house and kids, or do you take charge and help out around the house?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i want to know how many guys out there who work full time are married and have kids. when you get home from work do you spend time with your kids, help with housework, dissapear and do your own thing? i dont mean to sound rude but im just curious how many men count on their ... (97 words)

His ex wife has not told anyone they have split up, and he is allowing this! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Need advice. I'll try to keep this as simple as I can, but it is complicated. I'm separated for over a year and a half. I have been dating a man for the past 13 months who has been separated for the past 7 months. Yes, that means he was married when I started dating him..he ... (419 words)

Why do guys come back to relationships after it is already too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently had a guy (ex-fiance) come back after 3 f'ing years telling me what a loser he was for letting me go, that the whole break up was his fault and I was the girl of his dreams.. begging me to marry him, he totally had to let go of all his pride to do that and that's ... (282 words)

Does the fact that he has difficulty feeling love and empathy mean he's a narcissist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does the fact that he has difficulty feeling love and empathy mean he's a narcissist? He has admitted to me that he doesn't love easily. He has had several relationships before me (one that lasted 2 years!) and claims that he never loved his previous girlfriends. He said he ... (124 words)

I'm seeing her again tomorrow, how do I show her I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - guys i need some urgent tips , today i met this beautiful girl , shes so pretty though , we met in a shooting , i was playin the main support and shes is the main character ( shes a professional model ) , anyway i was all the time around her since i had a role in this tv ... (168 words)

Delayed ejaculation or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I ve been with my current bf for almost year and a half.i m 19 and he s 24.Its a long distance relationship,and we see each other every week or two.He is the first guy i ve slept with,so i dont have lots of experience with this but 4 almost a year that we re having sex he only ... (300 words)

I don't know where I am going wrong in this relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone; Been with my ex girlfriend for 5 years and been lived together for the past 2 years. Im 26 and she is 22 so we been together since she was 17 and i was 21. While we been living together she left me 5 times but 4 of them took couple of days for her to realise t... (306 words)

How do I stop getting ahead of myself? We have only been together 3 months but I cant help think about the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love some advice on how to rein myself in. I have a new bf of 3 months. I'd been single for 9 months after splitting with a guy I was with for 8 years. I never expected to meet anyone, and he is lovely, kind, handsome, caring...I love spending time with him, a... (199 words)

How can I convince her mum that I am good guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hello again look i am deeply in love with my gf and all i want to do is be with her but her mom prevents me from seeing her. now my gf and her mom aren't necessarily close my gf doesn't like her mom because of her childish behavior and stubbornness i know my gf wants to move... (165 words)

How do I make her want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm doing an open long distance relationship with this girl, and i am bi. i really like her but she doesn't seem to like me as much. i haven't talked to her in more than a week because she never replies to my inboxes on facebook even though i know she's been online. im guessing ... (248 words)

Am I right for getting upset about him smoking pot? Or am I just being controlling and he can do what he wants because he is his own person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are incredibly close... he is one of the most important people in my life, and he means everything to me, but last night i went to a halloween party with him. it was us, and some people that we work with. when we first got to the party, he met up with some of ... (408 words)

Is my boyfriend too young for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some help i am 27 my boyfriend is 24 is that to young for me.... (18 words)

We are going to see the doctor about this lump on his penis, but I want to be prepared for what he might say. Can anyone help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't exactly a relationship question, but im hoping someone with a bit more insight then i may be able to help.. My fiance has a single white lump on his penis. He's had it since far before we got together. It doesnt hurt him, it never changes appearance in any way. Its ... (120 words)

Have I done something wrong or was it the situation which made me act this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a commited long distance relationship since 1 year 4 months.i have messed up very badly.i really love my bf and even he loves me a lot but now i have created a big mess. in the month of june,there was a misunderstanding between me and my bf.i gave him a letter when he ... (800 words)

Am I being insecure and wrong by assuming the worst?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - After over 3 years of break and make up with my wifes online infidelity and her denial,and again being convinced she was sorry,i now discover a web cam in a box. Am i being insecure and wrong by assuming the worst? I am not even asking her about it as she will either lie or ... (62 words)

Help! It's complex and I'm in hell!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So me and Lisa have known each other for 8 years, as my landlady who I used to board with (Linda) is her mum’s best friend. I went out with Lisa’s older sister around 6yrs ago, and it lasted for around 18mths. Anyway, the break up wasn’t good, and it took us a long time to ... (952 words)

Should I consult my daughter about possibly dating her close friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Here is a story. I am a woman in my early forties. I ve been told i look 10 years younger, and everytime i say i have a 24 year old daughter, eyebrows are raised. I m divorced from my childs father for many many years, but we managed to stay great friends, as he is a grea... (1205 words)

She believes what we have in our relationship is enough, but I am unhappy! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - hi, i'm a 43 year old divorced male in a subsequent relationship of 7 years. i have 3 children from my previous marriage and a 5 year old daughter from my current relationship. i think i am going crazy as there is nobody to talk to. i need your help? i am unhappy with ... (523 words)

I'm insanely jealous of his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I could really use some good advice right now as I'm steadily destroying my relationship with my boyfriend of nearly a year. I met him after he'd been split from his long-term(8years) girlfriend and mother to his two children 6 and 3. She finally threw him out af... (439 words)

My mother is a hoarder!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My mother is a compulsive hoarder. I'm the exact opposite and like to keep everything neat and tidy, but every single room of the house is overtaken with her useless shit. Living in a house full of clutter for most of my life and getting hurt while trying to do something as ... (678 words)

Why am I so unlucky in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What's wrong with me? I'm 25, single and lonely. I have a 3yr old whom I have raised as a single parent from pregnancy til now (with help and support from my amazing family), I have a good job, an active social life, a positive outlook, an above average IQ, am ok with my ... (244 words)

Is there anything I can do to break these attributes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I come out to be a reserved, quiet guy. I enjoy hanging out with my friends, but sometimes I feel bad that I don't really participate much in conversations. Usually, its because I don't have much to say. When I do have something to say, it seems awkward and out of place. I'm ... (237 words)

I am average to say the least and cannot ever compete with these guys!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am so gutted, my sweet and innocent 20year old girlfirend turns out to be not so sweet and innocent. She has slept with many many many men including black guys with what she says had enormous dicks and white guys with 9inc dicks. I am so gutted, how can I ever live up t... (375 words)

Should I give up on my dream career and play to my strengths at University?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So this is not a relationship question but more of a life crisis. Im in my third year at a very prestigious university. Im planning on going to medical school after I graduate. The problem is Im struggling in my organic chemistry class. I feel so defeated, like if I can't ... (349 words)

I want my feelings for wife's sister to go away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) age 41-50 - To make a long story short here recently (very recently) Im having feeling about my sister in law.I dont know were these feeling have come from. Am I wierd? I really dont know what to do. I have been married for 7 years and have a 5 year old son. My wifes sister is married (not ... (112 words)

His busy life is getting to me, what should I do for the best?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well hello there. :) I'm here just like half the other people here. Advice on a relationship. Here's my story; My boyfriend and I have been together for a little amount of time. Not the longest relationship on the record but it's a decent one. We're very happy together and we ... (345 words)

Cheating on my boyfriend with my next door neighbour and falling for him, how do I show how much I care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i am in a relationship that i have been in for over 7 years now and i have been seeing someone on the side for about 3 months he is i guess you can say he is my booty call. he has a is in a relationship also with a woman for about a year now. he and i are next door ... (214 words)

Please help me get over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy even though he's in a relationship. I've only met him once but I completly fell for him. I was looking on his wAll on facebook and he's saying "best girlfriend ever" "couldn't ask for a better gf" "I love my girlfriend" then people are telling him they think ... (99 words)

She's pregnant and I'm not in love with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok im not in love with my girlfriend but she's pregnant. Don't get me wrong i wana and gona give my baby everything she needs ( yes its a girl) but me and just don't see things eye to eye we argue a lot. Wat should I do cuz i wana be n my child's life don't wana be a dead beat ... (146 words)

I hit my wife after she kicked me, but my son saw the whole thing. How can I make this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - we have been married for four years, mostly good times, but when we fight it gets ugly, and yesterday for the first time ever i slapped her after she kicked me during a very heated fight. the worst part about it is that this all took place in front of my 3 year old son, who is ... (189 words)

Does he love me even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Does he love me? Am 27y and he s 51y.He s my closest friend.He s always here for me and we kiss a lot in a friend way.We care a lot about each other and cuddle a lot. We work together all the time. he has a grlfriend for 6months.I am single.but they just broke up for 2 months.a... (176 words)

I'm in love with a married man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am a Christian. My boyfriend (a Muslim) and I have been dating for some months now. We are so crazy in love with each other. At first, everything was just perfect. He gave me no reason of doubting on him and at some points I really felt he was the right one. He wa... (299 words)

How much does he like me on a scale of 1-10?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know I asked this before but I left some details out. I don't want to keep my hope up. Okay so I like this boy A LOT but he has a girlfriend. But before I knew that I though he liked me. Please don't make fun of me or be rude thanks... I had to help with this thing and t... (438 words)

Why does he keep hurting my feelings if he says he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - If he says he loves me so much ,why does he constantly hurt my feelings?He is very well aware of it and not making any progress.He is so loving and caring with everybody else but me,now that is a whole other story .He is very jealous and can't stand when another guy is nice to ... (184 words)

My fiance has been cheating for the last 3 years! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help! I have been with my fiance for over 7 yrs and just found out he has been cheating on and off for the past 3 yrs! I am scared to be alone and would take a huge financial hit if we separate as we own businesses and real estate together. I'm devastated but still feel ... (100 words)

Missing someone in a LDR

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there. I have a bit of a problem. My boyfriend and I are in a LDR, and it's a lovely relationship. But we've started missing one another. Which is normal in a LDR, but we get into fights over it. I hate it, and I'm not sure what we should do? Anyone who can help?... (56 words)

Tips to quit smoking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I just got out of a relationship recently and my self-esteem took a bit of a hit. I'm a smoker and I realize that a lot of women find smoking repulsive (I don't blame them). Anyways I decided to quit, currently I'm on day two. I'm struggling a little bit but managing. Anybody ... (60 words)

I feel like I have changed so much following this break-up, is this normal?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

1 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so about 2 weeks ago i broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months, not only that, i even told her i didn't want her in my life and that we shouldn't be friends even though she wants to.. At the time it seemed like the right thing to do but now it seems like it was a big ... (149 words)

If he cant orgasm through a hand job, what will happen when we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, well i have a question for guys i dont know what to think, my boyfriend and me we dont have sex but we try hand job he has see me naked and i think he likes because he always has an erection when he see me naked or when he touch me but he never never never comes :S its so ... (222 words)

Is he testing the waters or am I seeing things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I am happily married for 10 years and have recently developed feelings for my new friends husband. It is really throwing me for a loop because I know how irrational this is and that I am 100% infatuated with this man and nothing else! He brings out the biggest crush in me ... (397 words)

Made a mistake that changed everything...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My story begins with a guy who I have been dating for 9 months...we have had our ups and downs like any other couple. He is very sensitive, very insecure, and very emotional. He is a thinker can overthink things fast, he is also very irrational sometimes, and impulsive. ... (773 words)

Oh no! His ex is 5 months pregnant with his baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably the hardest thing I have ever been through. My boyfriend and I met this year, our first year in college. He was my neighbor in the dorms before he moved out to another hall so we got to know each other very well. We started talking immediately, I'd say because ... (442 words)

Am I the bad guy for asking him to quit smoking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi so ive asked questions in the past week about my LDR boyfriend and i but this has also been bugging me. When he said smoked cigars i thought he actually did, but he smokes cigarettes too. Cigars i dont mind, cigarettes i mind. And i had told him i didnt mind him smoking... (210 words)

He should treat the mother of his child with respect!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,i have a girl whos three.I still have to have something to do with my ex,the father of my daughter.I get on with him ok now for our daughters sack but toke a while as he hurt me emotionally.Now he picks and choices when hes going to treat me with respect,in all honesty even ... (161 words)

My parents cant stand my boyfriend and they have forbidden me from seeing him ever again. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 16 and I'm in love. Yeah yeah, I know it's corny, and I'm sure you've seen hundreds of questions before from lovestruck teenagers, but this is for real. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and it's been amazing. I love him with everything I have but my parents ... (271 words)

How long should we wait before sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. He has had a hand job and a blow job before. I myself have never given one before. We have only been dating for a month and two weeks and was wondering how long we should date till I should give him one?... (52 words)

My Fiance's sister in law is a monster

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My fiance and I have been together for almost a year now and have a great relationship. At the beginning though, his ex wife made things very difficult for us because she was stuck on getting him back. What made things even more difficult though, was his brothers wife wh... (285 words)

We're drifting apart, and I'm worried he's considering leaving

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age - I am a woman of 62 and my husband is 68. I have Parkinsons Disease and have put a lot of weight on because of the medication I have to take. My husband doesn't touch me, kiss me or make love to me and he makes it pretty obvious that my being fat repulses him. He said it ... (195 words)

What is guy's reaction to rape cases?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like to know, what generally is the reaction of boyfriends on their girlfriends rape cases. Do they usually tend to leave her inspite of being in a long time relation or else accept and support her. What is the acceptance percentage so far. Incase if they accept ... (91 words)

He gave me his cell number, does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I talk with this guy at my work sometimes. I asked him for his cell number and he gave it to me. Do you think he likes me? Or does he just like me as a friend. Should I text him? He hasn't texted met yet :(.... (47 words)

It's all good except the arguments

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently got married although we had previously lived together, so not alot has changed. For the most part things have been good between us except I've noticed how much my husband is starting to argue with me, over every little thing. He'll ask me something and before I get ... (108 words)

Soap as a lubricant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - is it ok to use soap as a lubricant to masturbate?... (11 words)

My boyfriend's behavior has turned me into a clingy, obsessed person. I hate that!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend messed me around for a year, flirting with girls, metting up with his ex in secret. We talked it through and we're still going out, but it has turned me into a clingy, obsessed and overthoughtful person. And I HATE that. I hate what I am now, What do I do? PLEASE ... (56 words)

Is he gay or just really nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i've just recently met this guy whos friends with one of my friends. At first i just thought "cute", but then i talked to him and now i can't stop thinking about him. When he left i turned to one of my friends and was instantly saying "Wow, he's hot!" just as she asked if... (510 words)

How can I break his heart in a nice way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys im kind of new at this thing but i really need an outside perspective. I am a 16 year girl who's in love with a 22yr guy. We met online, never met, but we've been talking for 3 months +. Obviously he doesn't know my real age, he thinks I'm also 22. We at the point ... (163 words)

What does"I don't want to hurt you" mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I really don't understand how stupid,yes stupid,guys can be. So about two days ago my boyfriend texts me saying "Hey,lets just be friends" my heart immediately sank and I texted him back asking why. His respong?... "I don't want to hurt you." We were together for a month ... (139 words)

I just want my ex's attention back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know when to stop wanting this. Me and my ex broke up due to issues with me and me bettering myself we both still love each other. But i pushed him to his limit i know i have to give him time to hisself. But what should my limits be we dont have sex or anything but ... (239 words)

Basically I'm in love with my best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Basically I'm in love with my best friend. And I need some help getting over it, because if i don't I'm in danger of sabotaging our friendship. I should say straight up that this guy is totally decent - I'm not trying to rant about how I've been led on. That is definitly not... (320 words)

Is she growing fed up of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a long distance relationship right now. I Love my girlfriend deeply and care about her very much and think about her all the time. I've sent letters to her, and she knows how much i feel for her. She was recently up here from mexico for two weeks . And during those two ... (361 words)

Why buy the cow when the milk is free???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and things are really good. We've discussed where we see our relationship going and we both agree on marriage in the short term future (say next 4 years). We've also talked about living together and that happening in the next ... (152 words)

Why does my boyfriend keep looking at porn???

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've caught my boyfriend for the second time looking at porn and masturbating over it. I hate the thought of my boyfriend looking at other naked girls on the internet and wanking off to them. Iv been seeing him for just over 2 years and its seriously starting to piss me off. I ... (185 words)

She seems to prefer to lose me completely than even giving anything a try.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've had a VERY close female friend for the last 10 months, in the past we've admitted we both like each other more than friends but never really did anything about it, she even went as far as to tell me I have all the qualities she's looked for in a guy. In the last week this ... (241 words)

How can I get rid of these irrational fears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have irrational fears of my boyfriend wanting to leave me, cheating on me, and looking at other women. He's never given me any reason to not trust him, would let me go through his phone at any given moment without question. These fears though are turning into arguments ... (67 words)