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writes: Asked By: ineedhelp07 less than a minute ago, 3 days left to answer.I had arranged marraige, he wanted nose job for me, done it 10 yrs ago. Have two kids, he has his ex in his relative circle, though she is married with kids too, he does meet her in social circle. Dont think they have an affiar, but her being there, has not helped my confidence in bedroom dept. Now him saying no to sex, has made me question if he cared any of these years and if it is worth staying in this relationship? I dont miss sex yet, but to be deprived of it, seems like living in forced loveless relationship. He is good father, earns for household expense and i work n take care of kids expense. We do love our kids, he shows concern for me, but more on friendly way, not passion. I feel cheated of it as he proposed this arranged marraige. Is there hope to get some fix for this or do i put my kids through me having a divorcecan there be love without sex?can sexless marraige last on cuddles n kisses alone?can ejaculation issues be solely down to lack of chemistry?
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (21 November 2010):
 I think there can be love without sex, but only in a friendly way. Where you two care for each other on a friend level and don't feel the need to consummate that love with making love.
I don't think sexless marriage can last on cuddles and kisses alone, don't get me wrong, it might work, but I don't think it will. It certainly wouldn't work for me.
Ejaculation issues can be related to a number of different things (including chemistry).
If you don't feel like your relationship has passion or love, or what you want out of it, then I would leave.
Id on't think I've ever heard of an arranged marriage.
If you truly want to be with this man and he is willing to make your relationship work, then perhaps try couples counseling? I know a lot of couples stay together for the sake of their children, but how fair is that to you or the children?
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