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writes:So i've been with this guy for a little over a year i love him and i know he loves me but recently we've had some problems i was kicked out of my home and for some reason i couldnt stay at his house he made me stay at a hotel until i made up with my mom. then my mom sent me away for a while now that im gone i see his bull shit for what it really is and ive been asking him if theres someone else and he finaly admitted it that he lives with this girl and he ddoesnt want to be with her but i just cant believe it. my heart hurts so much i cant even think about it without crying i need help i dnt want to make the wrong choice Reply to this Question
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (21 November 2010):
 If he didn't want to be with his girlfriend he wouldn't be there. Don't believe that lie he told you. He had plenty of time to come clean about his living situation but he kept you in the dark the whole time. That should tell you all you need to know about the lying cheating dude that he is.
You are better off without someone who thinks it's okay to lie to you for a whole year.
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reader, Mirry  +, writes (21 November 2010):
Go and dont look back.men use such tricks.how can he live with a lady he doesnt want?logic?al da best
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): ~SELF-RESPECT~
Sweetie, your self-respect is invaluable, and the minute you lose that you would be a hypocrit should be offended by another's disrespect of you.
That your boyfriend is hiding you from his live-in girlfriend speaks no clearly than of his gross disrespect of you, his live-in girlfriend as well as himself.
Now that you are aware of his unsavory character rather, walk away with your head held high elevated by nothing less than pure self respect.
Self-Respect is the core of character, as without it how in God's name can you exspect another to respect you when you don't even respect yourself.
I would much rather live out the remainder of my life, crushed at rock bottom, grasping for each precious breath, shedding the amegeddon flood with my heart strangled by splintered glass whips digging crevices into my heart than to bow down to the deplorable, putrid, dispicable role of IN LOVE LE SLOPPY SECOUND.
~IT'S CHRISTIAN THAT YOU WILL CONTINUE TO LOVE HIM..BUT..AS FAR AS A RELATIONSHIP, NO MORE~He's beneath You
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): My boyfriend lives with her girlfriend and their baby the thing is i love him so much sometimes i think of going to the sangoma to find muti to make him love me only
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): its only one choice! leave him alone! if he didnt want to be with her he wouldnt be there!!!!! u shouldnt hurt over someone who would do that to you!! you deserve better go thru the motions of lettn go instead of going through worse pain later..
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (21 November 2010):
 If he doesn't want to be with her and you have been seeing him for a year, then why couldn't you stay at his place even if he is living with a girl? I'm not understanding why you are asking if he will leave her for you, is he seeing her or you? She sounds like a roommate than a girlfriend.
I need a little more details hon. And how did your mom send you away if you are 18 or older?
I'm confused.
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