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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I just want to know if there's anything that I can do or say that will get him at least making an EFFORT

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I just need a second opinion to make sure I'm not going mad. This is a question about my boyfriend and and my family. I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years. During which time my boyfriend has met my family about five times during the first year a... (204 words)

He's a great guy and I want to give him something that shows how much I care!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost a month (he asked me out at homecoming how cute:)) and i have no idea what to get him for christmas!! well okay we are both freshmen and he wants to play football and baseball next year for our school. he is realy big in ... (180 words)

Can upper classman date freshies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so there is this really awsome, sweet, cute guy that I like alot. But there is one thing...he is a freshman. Im a sophomore. I know this may sound dumb, but when I asked my friends if they would date a freshman they alll said no...But I would, Do you think it matters if an ... (64 words)

"We're too young to be in love." What do I make of THAT?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my boyfriend, who I've been dating for a little over 9 months that I'm in love with him (neither of us have ever said that before). I thought it would go over well and he would say it back, but it would have been okay if he didn't, but instead he kissed me on the cheek ... (148 words)

Desperate to have sex with older guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i am dating this 21 year old man. we have been together for about 8 months but it was in secret any ways most people know i am seeing him but there was a point when people called me a liar etc. they also said that he was to good for me. well i am asking ? do you thi... (128 words)

My best friend has cut me out of his life and I am heartbroken! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok to cut a long story short, me and my friend have been very close for 3 years, there has been laughter/heartbreak/anger/passion everything, I fell for him and he didn't feel the same so he stopped talking to me because he didn't want to hurt me, by this time I had met someone ... (225 words)

Does he like me or is just curious about me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Okay so there's this guy in my history class that always stares at me when I look back at him I smile he doesn't smile back he just does a small nod or raises his eye brows . I'll continue working but then I'll see him watching me again sometimes he looks away or stares back . ... (107 words)

Is it normal to be really concerned about potentially catching an STD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to be very hesitant about dating new people because you don't want to get an STD? Everyone seems to not care and it makes me wonder if I'm worrying about it too much. However, I feel like most people would lie if it's convenient. I thought I knew my boyfriend well, ... (232 words)

I do love him a lot but am I a mug?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a long story lol.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years ( 6 Month break between) we have a 2 yr old daughter also. Anyways at first he was perfect but after aa while of him smoking drugs I ended with him an found someone knew ( which broke his heart)... (301 words)

What went wrong? Why his change of heart? Can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently had a breakup with a guy I dated for 2 months. It was a short relationship, but everything seemed from the first date and so on. We went out every single week since we met each other. In each one of the dates we felt we had so many things in common, and always ... (333 words)

Women: do you want a bad guy or a good guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, i am hopin someone can help me here, prefferably a female. I know a girl whom I am attracted to but she is not interested in me just want to be friends. i am a nice guy. steady job, supportive, relaitvely stable, kind, et cetera. But she doesnt like me. Who does she l... (136 words)

How can I overcompensate for my size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin stressing about the size of my penis. It's around 5.5 inchs long with 4.5 girth. I truly want to make love, show my affection, and give my first gf (she's not a virgin) the time of her life, but I feel that my penis may hold me back. Any tips on how to ... (81 words)

I don't know what should I do with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for a month and the very last night I saw him, we got together. I didn't think that I was jumpin in or rushing it in because, I saw him like twice a week every week for a month. Well the bottom line is that after that night(at the end of Oct) , We don't ... (203 words)

How can I ask her to the concert without flaking out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So there's a really cute girl who works at the gym at my university, i've had a crush on her for the past year but only recently (2 months) had the courage to get her name. we exchage small talk couple times a week whenever we see eachother no real conversations. i found out ... (120 words)

Is this going anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this guy and I have known each other since we were little but not always been in contact. Anyway we have been out twice it all went really well and we were getting closer. However I think I might have mucked it up last time we went out coz I didnt hug him or anything before ... (188 words)

Sex toys: what is a dolphin ring?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, my bf said he'd like to use a dolphin ring? (i think) sex toy when we're in bed sometime...what is one of these?? he said he broke his last one!!... (31 words)

Did my shyness blow it with my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a huge crush on a guy with me in college and it s been almost a year now and i know that he likes me too he really tried so many times to talk to me and i let him down everytime and just few weeks ago he came and sat next to me in the class and i just froze i didnt kn... (192 words)

She turned me down once but I think she wants me to ask again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My friend's sister turned me down for a date after initially accepting a few days earlier. Anyway since then we've been out a lot in the same social circle and she's been sending some strong signals. She's kissed me on several occasions but always when drunk and at the end of t... (140 words)

I want to move out but don't want to break my mother's heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I tell my mother I plan on moving out without breaking her heart? It's inevitable, isn't it? I just cannot stand her. 80% of the time she irritates me and 10% she's insulting, the other 10% she's funny. She's practically the only friend I have but I really do not tell ... (339 words)

I like bigger women and am having trouble dealing with it.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a thing for bigger women and i dont know how to deal with it. While Im not into the deal of larger women getting larger or "gaining" and not into the feeding thing, i definitely have an appreciation for plus-sized women, and am unsure if my thoughts concerning what i ... (699 words)

Married and feeling attracted to the 19-year-old I'm teaching karate to!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 33 year old male.(most people say i look 25). I am married for three years and she is 25. I have just gone back to uni. I recently started teaching a 19 year old woman karate privately. She is absolutely fantastic, and not your average student ( doesn't drink, plays an ... (130 words)

Why do you think he behaves this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello - Why do you think he behaves this way ? We dated for several months but ended last september. We never lost contact but definitely was less frequent. Anyway he always crossed the friendship line with those "I would like to be with you" comments. We saw each other af... (206 words)

I really want to have sex, but I don't want to rush into things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this guy a month now, and he's the best thing that has ever happened to me. he is lovely, caring and he is just a sweetheart. to celebrate our 1 month anniversary, we gave each hand jobs. it was great! but now i really want to have sex with him, bu... (107 words)

I'm 16 and in love with my 26 year old teacher!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - How do I approach this man before I graduate high school? I'm 16 and in love with my 26 year old teacher. I know you've all heard this before but im serious. I know what I want and that's a man. The boys at my school are way too immature and they remind me of my 13 year old b... (178 words)

Should I up my game and just say what's on my mind or just be patient?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so I know that as a girl, we should be chased. I have made no moves with this really shy guy, except instant messaging once in a while to him. He has called me twice (its wk 2 since we met in another country...so its long distance) he initiated things and called first but ... (248 words)

I have secretly been in love with my best friend's husband for 20 years.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have secretly been in love with my best friend's husband for 20 years. I have never told anyone this and I have never acted upon my feelings. Recently I felt that he may have feelings for me too! He hasn't directly told me so or made a pass at me but he has sent me an ... (293 words)

Help!!! I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating. Lately he has been distant, says its more work related. We don't speak as much as we used to. Last week as we were texting he called me "Judy" my name is no where even close to that. I asked "who is Judy"? He rep... (146 words)

Under arm sweating problem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have two qustions to ask number 1 i have really shaky hands even when i am calm and warm my hands are there shaking constantly and when i am nervous my hands get very very shaky and i find it very embarrassing and i judt don't know what to do. Can anyone help me with ... (205 words)

Worried about these little black bits!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want to do things with this lad, but you know when a man shaves loads round their mouth? Well, "down there", has gone like that because ive shaved too much! Even when i shave it again you can see little black bits. What do i do?!... (48 words)

I'm completely devastated by the lack of communication me and my mother have.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I know this has nothing to do with dating issues etc. But I'm completely devastated by the lack of communication me and my mother have. Sure we get along every-time, laugh, agree on the same things.... but just that because when it comes to serious personal problems... (852 words)

My wife won't have sex with me any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age - No sex anymore My wife and I are in our early 60's and we are on really good terms but for some reason she will not indulge in any sexual activity with me. This has been going on for several years now and I am becoming more and more frustrated by the lack of sex. Frankly I h... (221 words)

I am not satisfied with my wife...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i am 34 years of age married man from amravati, india. we have been together since 3 years. Why i dont know i am not happy with my married life. I alway think some thing is missing in my life. My wife doesn't understand my feeling and my fantasy for sexual raltion ship. she ... (83 words)

Who does he like more, me or his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey umm I really like this guy... But he has a girlfriend, But everytime he is with me he cheats on his girfriend with me, He flirts with me, He kisses me I think he likes me... I can see the way he looks at me, I dont know who he likes more Me or his girlfriend, Or if hes just... (136 words)

He says he loves me but I have my doubts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been married 21 years minus 4 year of separation. It was a terrible break. He got the teenagers to side with him and threw me out! Then our first born and only daughter died and I was shattered. I was so unstable that I needed someone and I just went to him as I don't ... (171 words)

What do I get my 38yr old boyfriend for Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Any ideas on what to get my 38 year old boyfriend for Christmas? I was thinking maybe the Wii but I can't decide. Any advice?... (25 words)

Can someone who's cheated, have a healthy relationship with the person they cheated on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Can someone who has cheated on their partner have a healthy relationship with the person they cheated on? Specifically if they never confess that they cheated to their partner? Can they marry that person and have a good, solid marriage, by withholding things that they did that... (62 words)

New boyfriend and his ex-issues, should he keep talking to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 6 months. He was on again off again with his ex and finally ended it for good in march. They were still in contact every day and she lives close. She doesn't like me at all and has been trying to get him back... writing him letters ... (311 words)

I found him a great gift, but how long is too long to wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of a dilemma. It's not really a relationship question but I could use some different people's opinions. So, I just found out Batman Live is coming to my town in September 2011, so next year, and my boyfriend loves Batman. I thought I'd buy tickets for him for ... (152 words)

My parents want me to marry the man of their choice but I'm desperately in love with another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am from a very orthodoox rich family of rajasthan.i am madly in love with a guy of different caste.first we tried to convince our parents for marriage.but as they came to knew about it they started threatning me that they will get the boy killed.i pleaded that i will live ... (153 words)

I'm only interested in being with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i've read some stuff on here and i kind of relate to it. I have a girlfriend and we have been dating for 9 months now and everything is great and i love her to death. I know she's the one and we never fight. but when i'm not with her or she doesnt text me back within like ... (132 words)

He'd rather touch himself than touch me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know where to start or if my marriage is too far gone. He has informed me that he would rather masterbate to porn than to touch me. We do not have a very active sex life and he has always stated it was because of his depression. I find out recently that he has been ... (196 words)

What's your take on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age - My common law spouse works for an organization which he was a manager and is now working in another department which is up there in the ranking. One day I went on the computer and he had left his yahoo open. He was receiving work e-mail through his yahoo account. Well, I found ... (258 words)

My boyfriend loves the attention, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The first encounter which lead me to believe I have something to worry about is when he was at his brother's house and they were there.He was talking to me and he told me to hold on.They were talking about the fact that he has my name tattooed on him and what if he cheats on ... (625 words)

In love after three days???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i went for holiday for 1 week .. and i meet one guy .. we have fun and went out for a drink all the time after that 3 days pass he told me he loves me .. and he wants to marry me .. do i need to belive it ?.. cos for me love is not for just in 3 days ...any advise pls ... (69 words)

I couldn't have got pregnant from this, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really worried... Last night, my boyfriend and I were messing around. While he was fingering me, I touched his penis... but as far as i can remember, I didn't felt anything wet on his package. after touching his penis, i touched his body and his head because of the tingling ... (113 words)

My ex girlfriend has left me for another guy but I still love her, is there any chance of winning her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there all. This is my first major break up, my girlfriend of 3 years recently went to university, i was seeing her every weekend, in till during the week she broke up with me and got with another guy. The way she did it was so awful, i didnt deserve that, I feel like ... (141 words)

Am I paranoid or is my wife cheating on me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am trying to figure out if I am paranoid or if my wife might be cheating on me. We have been married 12 years and have two young children. We recently relocated for her job and I quit mine to stay home with the children. She has lost a good deal of weight, bought n... (261 words)

Should I be moving on, or should I continue chasing her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, this is my first time posting qns here... Anyway, there is this girl I like, and she already knew since i had told her. and it seems that she has been giving me several signal that she likes me as well. The problems is that she have several commitments going on. Becaus... (339 words)

One day he said he would love me forever, the next day he hates me and has found a new partner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age - I Was in a relationship for 6 years on and off for a year because another person they went with we got back together 2 years now we became partners a month ago a week later they text me they dont love me and is with another person already! how can someone promises to god vows ... (72 words)

Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

30 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy we will call him ...... bill. i met him a while ago but we started to hangout again here a few weeks ago. Were always together but me him and his best friend and one of my friends all got drunk together the other night. I really like bills friend and me and bill ... (157 words)