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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Would this be considered cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok there is this guy i really like but he says he want to be just friends. I understand that, he takes up most of my life and we do "stuff" together and he says i am free to date who i want. So i met this dude online and he is coming to visit me tonight. Is it considered ... (66 words)

I want to give my boyfriend a real sexy treat any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone I'm going home to my gorgeous man after a month away on business! I've lost quite a bit of weight in the month so am feeling more confident about myself!! Anyway am wondering any tips on giving him a real sexy treat when I get back, i want to show him exactly... (95 words)

My boyfriend has pushed me and punched me but now he wants me back what should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - write im 14 and the other day i was with m boyfriend and we started arguin about something stupid and he called me a slag so i pushed him backwards (which didnt move him anyway) then he punched me in the stomach and pushed me over i started crying but he juss left me there on ... (84 words)

I am very confuse about my pregnant girlfriend what I'm to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a pregnant girlfriend that I've been with fora year and a half but I just broken up with her today she has money I have nun she gets mad I wont keep spending on her saying I can't take care of a baby if I can't take care of her. She constantly downs me n told me because ... (317 words)

For two years I've been with this widower but why does he keep me a secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been seeing with a widower for two years, his wife sadly passed away three years ago december. He has three grown up children, but i am unsure that he has told them about me, he spends alot of time with me and my children (young), the pressure some of his family and ... (91 words)

Who and what does he think he is he has a big ego and thinks he has me right where he wants me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age - Hi I have been in a relationship with a guy for about 3yrs but things are not going as good as they should be,and so i told him i wanted to end things. what has shocked me is his remarks to me saying this.first he said I could never say good bye to him, then he said i could ne... (206 words)

What does he mean by that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Here's the deal there's this guy that likes me and he knows I like him back and we haven't actually agreed to be a couple even though everyone knows we like each other. Basically we're just friends, but I don't know what he thinks of me at this point and he makes it pretty o... (259 words)

Why did it feel weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm 14, the boy I like is 15, He asked me out and I thought he was messing around like usual, so I asked him to prove it to me that he loved me... He told me to meet him, so I did we stood around for abit and then walked about 10 meters down the road, he asked me out and... (140 words)

I don't feel pretty.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 im ugly with brown spots (one above my lip and one on my cheek on the other side) on my face, i have dark brown eyes, and my friends alway call me pretty, even though im sure im not. i hate how there are so pretty people and i aint even half as pretty. I want a bf but i ... (101 words)

How do you end a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been fighting with my at-home boyfriend like cats and dogs for a week now, and i really don't think i want to be with him anymore. Like he's coming to visit tomorrow for ten days and I really don't want him too. But how do i end it?? he's a really sensitive depressing ... (86 words)

Does he like her more than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok soo like this boy (lets call him umm jami) yea soo me and him always flirting and stuff. he said he had a dream about me a few times and i be dreaming about him to. hes always touching me and laughing at almost everything i say i catch him staring at me a few times but when ... (139 words)

Am I doing enough for his birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my boyfriend's birthday is tomorrow and he will be turning 30. I am worried I am not getting him enough or anything spectacular. So far the plan has been to take him to his favorite restaurant, super expensive and he has only been there once in his life because of the ... (325 words)

He's shy and won't call me.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how long should a girl wait for a guy to call her before she loses hope in him. I told a guy to csall me abut 3 days ago, hes really shy and will IM me but not call yet....so when shud i wait til until i kno hes just nt htat interested.?... (53 words)

What shall I get him for xmas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is 17 and im 16. I dont know what to get him for christmas, he loves xbox and has a ton of games. He likes soccer. He dosent like candy very much. He dosent like gum. and I need help because i want to get him something good..... (50 words)

Is there any chance in me being with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i have preety hard one I like one girl in my class in the university. She is very very beautiful. So now my real problem. I am very very shy and i realy hardly begin a conversation of any kind. It s not that i am a computer geek or something it is just that thats what i a... (232 words)

Why do I feel in love one moment and sick to my stomach the next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Hi! I have a problem, and I don't know what to do with it.. :( So Im hoping someone out there has some advice for me.. I have been dating this guy for the last two months now, he is 26 yrs. and I am 23. I like him alot, he is everything I want in a man. He is handsome, very nic... (703 words)

Break up? Go out with other guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do. I love my boyfriend to bits, but there are some things i dont like. He is unemployed ( i am too, but i am trying my best to get a job ), he has spondylosis and he sleeps a lot during the day. I know he cant help having an illness and feeling tired ... (227 words)

Should I keep this relationship with the teacher a secret?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

22 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i need help i wanna know if we should continue this relationship in secret or we shuold tell someone but i don't really want to end what we have got. i will be brief i went on this school visit for the whole weekend with school the teacher i have a crush on went and he came... (149 words)

Will I ever get a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm nearly 15 and haven't got a boyfriend yet. i'm starting to think i'll never get one!!! at my school, people play jokes asking people out and stuff, but my problem with that is that you never know when people are asking you out for real. i'm scared that if i say yes to ... (70 words)

I'm in lust with my teacher.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I am in lust with my teacher. I'm a 15 year old girl and he is 32 years old. I dream about him, fantise about him, touch myself over him but I realise that he and I can no future. How do I get over him???... (48 words)

Female masturbation advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello all I just wanted some tips, I am a 16 year old girl and have become quite sexually frustrated and I want to start masterbating. any tips?... (28 words)

Is it ok for me to ask to be exclusive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating someone for over 2 months now and things are relatively well. He asked for us to get tested for stds because he wants to go off condoms. Is it ok for me to ask for us to be dating exclusively?? I do not not know if he's dating other people....... (54 words)

I'm not supposed to like him but I do...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i sorta have a crush on my moms bf son.hah ik bad. i like him so so much he is a sweet caring sensitive guy we are both teenagers. he always stares at me, i catch him so much and he would smile sometimes or laugh. he walks close to me and when ever are arms or shoulders ... (98 words)

Will these feelings ever go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, When I was 17 (he was 18)I met a boy and we dated for 3 years. We were each others "firsts." Then, we ended up breaking up for about 8 months. This was the most miserable, depressing time of my life but I eventually started to move on. That is, until we ran int... (209 words)

Neighbour cheated on fiancee with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i guess the title has got you all wondering what is going on. well ive been in some sticky situations before but non like this. if you have time please listen to my story and i ask for your best advice as soon as possible. well my next door neighbour (yes thats wh... (1269 words)

How do I overcome my guilt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone thank you very much in advance for reading my problem and answering. I love this guy so much (let us call him "shah"). We've been in relation for nearly five years and i really value him and he loves me loads. The problem started when he got a job which kept him... (795 words)

Should I pretend I'm not a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 20, almost 21 and still a virgin. I recently dated my first real boyfriend. When i told him i was a virgin, he started treating me like a little kid. he was also a pig and would have totally held it above me, sorta notch on his belt idea. What makes it worse it that i told ... (281 words)

Is my calmness going to backfire when his baby is born?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've only been dating this guy for a month but we've completely hit it off, we spend every waking moment together and we're pretty fond of each other. I've met his family and friends and they have welcomed me and vice versa. He had a one night stand with a girl 4months ... (178 words)

His controlling female best friend is finally out of the picture, but I'm not sure if I trust him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend had a best friend that is a girl he has been friends with since high school. Although they never dated he told me that he was once in love with her and she is really important to him. She is from his hometown and I have never met her but she was always flirting ... (330 words)

For the guys, can men and women be "just friends"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Can men and women be "just friends"? Or are men only friends with women that they are attracted to or fine attractive? Speaking from a woman's perspective, I know we can have platonic friends. Let's hear it from the men. :)... (44 words)

Signs he's into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, this may have been asked before, but how do you tell if a guy is interested but nervous, or just wanting to be friends. Rather than type the entire story, I thought I would bullet point the goings on and I would appreciate anyones input. Right now I am at that annoying ... (422 words)

Why is my boyfriend asking another girl for her number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The OH and I have been going through a rough patch the last week or so , we both went out saturday night with our friends, we had a row and went our seperate ways, he made a point of chatting up a girl in front of me etc in the nightclub i just walked away, then sunday i found ... (131 words)

So much hurt but so much to do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a bf he was my first love but off and on for three years my first in every thing but he hurt me flirting talking to gitls just when i had the strength to end it i forgave him again and then i found again he still talked to another girl flirting and whta not i stil love ... (116 words)

My husband has a big crush on my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My Husband and i have been married for 5 years now. For the most part it has been really good and very trust worthy. he is in the military and travels alot So trust is very important to both of us. He has never given me a reason to not to trust him and feel betrayed... (445 words)

My best friend of 15 years is an escort!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age - i met her 15yrs ago and we have had most difficult friendship ever. I'm not kidding,we met through her brother and from that first day have been friends, she was a single mother raising her son and i was so impressed by the way she cared for him she was a great mother hes grown ... (375 words)

Threatened by my boyfriend's female friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and we're in a long distance realtionship as I'm at university.I really love him and am generally really happy in the realtionship. However, for some reason, I've always been quite a jealous person and feel threatened by a ... (156 words)

My gorgeous, married neighbor is always home alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i'm a 21 year old guy and i hav a very gorgeus looking married neighbour who lives alone at her home,as her husband is out of station most of the time.though both of us have never talked to each other but the way she looks at me,it seems that she wants me to talk to her. ... (116 words)

I want my high school sweetheart back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i just got over a relationship with a high school sweetheart. we had been friends for a good 6 years and dated for another two. it was great. she ran off after we had our first fight. she has commitment issues and so do i. both our fathers were alcoholics. mine ran off with a ... (166 words)

It's been 24 hours and he hasn't called!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend was really busy yesterday and wasn't sure if he could make it over to see me like he said he would, but that he'd definitely see me today. He asked me to call him at a particular time to arrange everything and said if he didn't answer to call back, and again if he ... (329 words)

Ex boyfriend has a baby on the way but is cheating on his gf with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heres the deal; my ex boyfriend got a girl pregnant after they had been dating for only 4 months and it broke my heart because we were together for almost 5 yrs on and off. we were each others first true love but the reason we broke up was my fault. within the 5 yrs that we ... (204 words)

He hasn't made another move.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I bumped into this old classmate of mine about two months ago. He started calling me and we started going out on a regular basis. After a while, we started calling each other every day and going out almost always together. After about a month of going out, giving me the looks, ... (210 words)

Confused but committed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I cant seem to break my habit of constantly asking my girlfriend if she is happy in our relationship and she is getting annoyed by it, I have been told it is because of a lack of confidence in myself and in our relationship..but here's the catch...it seems that everytime I make ... (163 words)

I got my mind set on you!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I have such a big problem and its really getting to me :( I am totally head over heels for this guy at my school. He is STUNNING!! He's in the year below me...but thats not the thing which bothers me. I see him looking at me ALL THE TIME!! If he is by himself or wi... (267 words)

He's just too into me! How can I tell him to bug off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I need some help here. There's this guy at my workplace who really likes me. I mean even after I told him I have a boyfriend, he still tells me I'm his type of girl and that he'd love to marry me. At first I thought he was kidding and I got with it and I th... (254 words)

Attracted to my cousin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi,i am in love with my cousin.she is 20 and i am 19.she is my maternal uncle's daughter.i met her after 6 years and we were attracted towards each other.we love each other very much and want to get married to each other but we fear that our families will not approve of this ... (71 words)

What do men find sexy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What do men find sexy in a woman? Is it her smile, is it the way she carries herself, is it the way she looks, is it her attitude towards life, etc...? I really would like to men what men perceive as sexy in a woman. Thank you in advance. :)... (54 words)

I kissed another girl before I got with my girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My now girlfriend and I met 6 months ago. We met on July 3rd, ended up exchanging numbers, and texted back and forth the next day. That next day, I brought a friend of mine back to my house, and ended up kissing her for 15 seconds before we went to sleep in a drunken state. ... (284 words)

What is the perfect penis size?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, so I know there are a lot of penis size questions on DC, and most of the aunts are honest and offer reassuring advice on this sensitive topic. And we get that size is not everything, and bigger is not always better and it can hurt, etc. And we've read how it's "how you use ... (159 words)

Should I end my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I end my relationship? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and the relationship has been pretty rocky because I have been very jealous and we both are very stubborn and stuck in our own ways. My situation is this...my boyfriend started a ne... (304 words)

Why is she keeping this a secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - been dating my gf for 6 1/2 months and been living together for about a month. We are a typical couple and we fell in love about 2 months into the relationship maybe even a bit sooner. Anyways, as of recent I have noticed a change in my gf. Since we have moved in she has ... (285 words)

Ho can I make my boyfriend last longer when giving oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I usually suck my bf's penis almost everyday.My boyfriend's penis is almost 8" long.When i suck it he make out his cum within 1 minutes.How can i suck his penis for more time?... (34 words)

How can I repair our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I have been with my girl friend for 10 months now, I love her a lot, I have'nt had a lot of relationships before her, She visited ethiopia in July to attend her freinds wedding and met up with her ex - boy freind, before she left she met up with another ex boy f... (211 words)

Why can I not keep my broodiness at bay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why can I not keep my broodiness at bay? I have wanted a baby ever since I got with my partner 3 years ago. We live in a 2bed house, have a car each and work hard. I can't stop thinking about having a baby, I get jealous when I see mums and children. I have buried thi... (141 words)

She won't talk to me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a crush on a girl. Then my friends borrowed my laptop and found that I would take stolen pictures of her. Then they spread it round. Now the girl (we were good friends before she found out) won't talk to me. I feel like my world has collapsed and I made it so. I am ... (64 words)

Should I just wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey! I broke up with my ex about 3 weeks now, and in that time for the first two weeks i was no contact with her, and since then we have chatted on a few occasions online and seemed to be getting along okay. I haven't seen or heard from her since a few days ago and she's be... (215 words)

I don't like my fiancee working with her ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey This is my situation. Me and my girl work in the same industry and have known each other online for many years but have never met in person till about 1.5 years ago. Long story short we were friends but then something happened and without realizing we are now together sin... (1545 words)

Help! My girlfriend seems to be having second thoughts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So me an my girl will have been going together for a year this January. This is my first relationship and her second. We are both 20. Are relationship has also been sexual for this time. We have had many fights in this time but have always gotten over them. Recently, howe... (525 words)

Is she marriage quality?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age - I have been going out with this girl for 1.5 years now. We are both in our forties. She has had many many relationships in the past. I discovered that she falls in love very quickly (like she did with me) and she started many of her relationships while still in a ... (194 words)

Do you think my boyfriend isn't that into me because he wants a threesome

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I recently lost my virginity to my gay boyfriend. It was quite an awkward experience... It lasted for around 3 hours and I didn't get aroused much, because we spent all night drinking coffee and cola and watching movies. So I hope that he doesn't think I'm not attracted to ... (199 words)

Do women really prefer more 'masculine' men for sex but less 'masculine' men for relationships?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've read quite a few articles about evolutionary psychology and the theory that women tend to prefer more masculine men for short term sexual relationships, but prefer less masculine men for long term relationships. As I understand it, the theory is that the more masculine men ... (173 words)

My husband just disappeared but is all over her facebook page!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (?) age 51-59 - 21 years married 24 years together, two kids, I was happy I thought I had the best husband, he was so good to me then the unexpected happened 3 1/2 years ago he had an affair, from the internet, I was unable to forget....I fougnt with him constantly, everything I held sacred ... (326 words)

Is my girlfriend losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I'm confused. After spending nearly 4 months in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, I'm getting ready to visit her. The problem is, I have no idea how my girlfriend views our relationship or me. She is not the type who likes to talk all the time and is pret... (404 words)

How do I find a relationship when I'm a newcomer to the country and don't speak the language well?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi ! It's me Mohammed but my screen name is different and I'm sorry for that.I'm Bangali and new commer in this country for study.I enjoying my life in this country with all of my friends and family.Now this time I'm thinking about my future life that's why I'm looking ... (90 words)

Should I call it quits? It's like we aren't even in a relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago i met this guy and we clicked right away we would have long phone conversations every night he would text me and keep in touch all the time. He asked me out but i told him i wanted to wait until we got to know each other more before we rush so we met up this ... (265 words)

My fiance doesn't trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi please help.. im 39 and my fiancee is 41, we are due to get married in 4 months, but i know he doesnt trust me example of this is: my birthday yesterday, he popped out for a half hour, he secretly turned off our internet so i couldnt check my facebook when he was not ... (88 words)

My husband with obsessed with my past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for the past 20 years. I had many sexual relationships before marriage. My husband is obsessed with my past, wanting to know every detail. He like wise has a past, so i don't see what the big deal is. These questions are often asked during intimate times, ... (90 words)

Online guy thinks I'm single, but I'm back now with my boyfriend, who doesn't know about online guy. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello if anyone can help me i more than appreciate it. I have a boyfriend for the last 6 and half years. We've had our ups and downs and its been on and off lots of times. 2 months ago we decided to finish our relationship. I ended up joining an online dating site and m... (254 words)

Virgin boy asking if his wife's past should bother him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife when we started dating had other partners before and I was a virgin does that make me a type of cuckold? Should it bother me ? I had other girlfriends but never went all the way . Se was a loyal girlfriend although she did talk to her former lover sometimes and would ... (68 words)

Should I move back in with my parents before she evicts me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been in a relationship for more than three years. We've had our share of bad moments but we've managed to move on so far. But now that I'm unemployed, I've started to question whether this is the woman I deserve. Near the beginning of our relationship I decided to move ... (279 words)

Dependant on porn and worried about my fantasies

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 39 year old woman and a single mum. Not found a relationship that makes me happy and have become dependant on porn, but I feel sick with myself and this is the only place I feel I can share it without being judged. Problem is that when I surf the net for porn I feel ... (233 words)

He said his family would not accept me. Will he call me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my ex 1yr ago.it hurts me a lot.I was terribly looking for a support at that time.then suddenly I met a guy.He was not committed with me. but when I met this guy for the 1st time he liked me and want to proceed. But also told me that if we get the better options ... (133 words)

I have a partner but I want to holiday alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F)

age - I live with my partner of 10 years, we are both in our 50's, we both took early retirement and I now find we have very little in common although I do love him. I find myself wanting to go on holiday abroad with a solo group - this is because I want some fun not because I am ... (253 words)

Why can I no longer have an orgasm?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been having sex for about a month now, we were both virgins when we met; so we are both still quite inexperienced. In the beginning of our new sex life my boyfriend was able to make me orgasm during intercourse a few times. Its now been almost 3 we... (172 words)

Am I obsessed with my ex because I dream of her?

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22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Has anyone really had dreams about there ex's? We broke up over a year and a half ago, I still have dreams about her. These dreams are not sexual in any way just friendly dreams where we are just doing something together or things which we use to do together when we were ... (132 words)

My married lover returned to his wife. Should I try to salvage my own marriage?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been married 10 years. were generally unhappy. what my therapist calls a toxic relationship. i stayed for the kids. had no feelings for my husband nor him for me. i had a friend (S) who's also married (no kids) our friendship sort of developed into mutual attraction then ... (154 words)

My special needs daughter is sleeping with someone, I worry if she understands what she is doing

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22 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my teenage step daughter has special needs i have just found out shes been sleeping with an older man and im worried that she may not understand what shes doing or he might be taking advance of her should i stop her seeing him or just make sure she knows about safe sex and ... (58 words)

I think he likes me but he turns down every invitation!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have never done anything like this before so I hope it works! I am sorry if its long winded. I need some advice. There is this guy who I work with who I really like but he is giving off really mixed signals, it doesnt help that he isnt English although he does speak go... (418 words)

I helped influence my boyfriend to disown his son

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a 6 year old son by another woman. When I came into the picture there was hardly a bond between them which I was not surprised at, he only saw the child twice a year and spoke on the phone with him. I felt this burning resentment towards the child, it was ... (290 words)

How do I make the first move smooth....I feel awkward...

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22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I found this website really helpful, so here it goes: Im 18 years old in college, and all of my relationships i been in are usually the girl making the first move. I been told im really cute and sexy a couple times, but i have low self esteem and i get really shy when it come... (175 words)

He says he loves me, but wants to be with his single friends too...how do I support him?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, but lately he has been struggling with being in a relationship. Almost all of his close friends are single and I know he's getting crap from them. We're having a less contact and I'm giving him more 'boys nights out... (129 words)

Emotional drained, confused, fustrated, and angry at myself ...so is this love?

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22 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have like this women for a number of years and I dont know if its love I feel for her or self-disillusionment(basically seeing something thats not really there) I think I love this women but I shouldnt I not going into details, but I have liked or loved her for the last ... (323 words)

I am having an affair with my boss and his wife knows about it!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I m in love with my boss, he loves me too. He is 15 years senior to me, is married and has 2 kids. it all started from his side andhe says that he wants to marry me... we are in a relationship for 5 years now, there have been all sorts of problems but he never left me. his wife ... (144 words)

Am I being taken for a fool, or am I paranoid like she says?

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22 November 2010 (M)

- i need help i feel im at a loss over the occuring months i have been posting frequently on here and today im going to give the fullest picture i can. my (ex)partener and I have been together for 18months and we have a 10 month old child together, my GF and i started o... (504 words)

Why did he come by my job?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, Long story short, Fell into a casual relationship without any intentions of it being casual. I really liked this guy, he didn't want the same things = I felt like crap about it. That was 2 months ago. I've seen him a few times since and have avoided talking to him r... (224 words)

I believed he was single, now I am pregnant and want to tell his wife!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - OK here it is.. I am a 35 year old woman. I met a guy who was introduced through a great friend.. this man told me for more than a year he was divorced and that he lived alone in a house with his daughter and his dog. after a year of talking we had one intimate enco... (760 words)

For men: Is it physical or personality?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a question for men and women. What do men find sexy, or what attracts them to a woman? Is it mostly physical, is it personality, etc...? ... (30 words)

Should I discuss family issues with my bf?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in ldr committed relationship since 1yr 5months. i and my bf really love each other and are very serious about our relationship.i am tensed from few days as my cousin sister has ran away from her house.she ran away because she loved some other guy.our whole family i... (113 words)

Is there anything memorable I can give him for his 21st birthday?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh Dear! My boyfriend lost his favourite ring that he bought in America a year ago, and for his 21st birthday in two days, I bought him a similar one. He just called me all excited, saying he'd just found it in a pocket of one of his pairs of pants! I was pretending to be ex... (151 words)

I don't want to lose her but its such a big risk to move!

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22 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I have a problem and need some help. The girl I am talking to you, lives in Florida. I have known her for 3 yrs. We both feel like we are each others soul mates. I live 11 hours away. How we met, she actually lived in NC, and then moved to Florida. We get along so well. We, ... (136 words)

She says I'm not a man because I'm sensitive!

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22 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hello guys i need help with my gf now for the past year and 4 months i've always been lovey dovey with my gf and she was happy that i was i know i never smothered her but just recently she says she wants a "MAN" and being lovey dovey and sensitive(i'm that type of guy) makes me ... (112 words)

We broke up but we still like to hang out

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined. Okay.. So here we go..(sorry it is sooo long!). My ex and I were dating for 6 months and broke up 7 months ago. He broke up with me. When we were dating I always went over to his house, and when I did I hung out with his sist... (361 words)

Which one of us is being selfish?

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22 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I initially agreed to go to a concert with this particular female, but recently changed those plans due to that fact that I decided to spend Thanksgiving in another state and see my kids that I have not seen in several years. Needless to say she told me that she is upset and... (177 words)

Is he my friend or is there something more there?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - he is very sweet and very confident in what he is doing very helpful and goes that extra mile for me. looks like he cares for me and doesn't want to see me unhappy and he does his best to make me normal... even helps my boy friend, family etc. he smiles a lot , a lot.... (239 words)

Was I dreaming things will work out or just being insecure?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm quite upset my boyfriend of 14 years was sending dirty pictures and chatting nasty with women on the internet. This one women he actually gave his cell phone # and he was telling her he loved her for over 3 weeks. After two weeks of fighting and 2 break ups and lots of ... (122 words)

I just want to move on

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - had bf he was my first love but off and on for three years my first in every thing but he hurt me flirting talking to gitls just when i had the strength to end it i forgave him again and then i found again he still talked to another girl flirting and whta not i stil love him ... (96 words)

Is it enough?

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22 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I just turned 15 a month ago and i got a 6 and 1/4 penis. Is it a good size?... (20 words)

What if my crush is embarrassed to be seen with me?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, my crush says he likes me and everything, but I'm afraid he won't want to make it even the slightest bit public that we're going out if we do. I don't mean like announcing it in-front of everyone or his friends or anything, just hanging out and stuff like that... what ... (64 words)

My friend is always eager to put me down!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy friend who I feel like is always eager to put me down. I don't know if I'm just being overly sensitive or paranoid, but I just feel like he's always on me and ready to point out flaws or make fun of things I do or flake on me after making plans. He wasn't alwa... (529 words)

We want to have sex but there's no place to do it!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a committed ldr relationship with my bf since 1yr and 4months.i am going to attend somebody's marriage with my parents to the place where my bf lives.the problem is that i and my bf wants to have sex but we are not finding a proper place. we can't go to hotels,a... (96 words)

We had casual sex, why is he avoiding me on facebook now?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy avoids you on Facebook could he like you or loathe you?...He always signs out like two minutes after I sign on. Lol.. We had casual sex once. Its weird because he smiles when he sees me, but that could just be because he's nice. I was shy when he saw me though. I ... (127 words)

Why would he go "floppyish"?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, So i recently started dating a guy call him Jay, we really get along and love spending time together but we have tryed to have sex twice and his erection goes floppyish when we are about to have sex but when we are kissing and i play aorund with him its hard ? i am... (132 words)

He's using me and won't break up with her!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused he's with her but wants me and he's my step cousin we kiss (on the lips)but I love him and can't get over him I really don't like anyone else hes with her then he doesn't know why but won't break up with her is he using me cuz he said she can't kiss but I'm a ... (97 words)

I don't know whether to go with my older cheating lover or the new guy?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am terrible situation. My husband cheated on me and left me 8 months ago. I was devastated, but have kept positive, hold no resentment towards him and have moved on. However during the recovery period from my marriage break up I got support from a married male friend, who I ... (535 words)

Should we stay together in an LDR that has no end in sight?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a 5 year relationship. I'm 33 he's 28. It's also been LDR for the last 2 years. I'm in grad school he has his own business. We get a long really great when we're together (about every 6 weeks) and really love each other. There are no plans to move to the same place since ... (234 words)

Why did my near perfect man fail me?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married for 14 years...the last 2 hell on earth...we had marriage problems 3 years ago i tried to talk to my husband but he ingored me , hoping the problem would go away..it got worse..i felt a stranger in my own home, he seemed to be with the children all the time ... (453 words)

Together 8 months and all we do is fight!

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22 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok here is the thing. My name is Tommy I 25 my girlfriend maria is 23. We been together for almost 8 months. Things are almost perfect but latey all we do is fight. Please help me. I don't want to lose her.... (43 words)

I think I'm pregnant, will all of our hopes and dream be ruined?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15, my boyfriend is 18; I'm sure you know what's coming. I think I'm pregnant. I know, I'm stupid and an ungrateful child who is going to break her parents' heart; I tell myself that everyday. So before you scold me and the like, please consider the fact that I know what... (168 words)

My husband cheated, I don't think I love him anymore, what do I do?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not in love with my husband anymore..what should I do?? I got married very young, early 20s due to finding out I was pregnant. Our marriage started off very rocky with a lot for us to overcome...I was still in college and he had never lived on his own so was thrown in ... (295 words)

I'm really irritable when its my period, should I just tell my boyfriend?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I've been tert with my boyfriend this week. It's because I'm on my cycle. He doesn't need to know I'm on my period, right? I mean it's a real problem for me because I get irritated and snap at almost everything and then want to cry over it. I feel we've been a ... (244 words)

I want to sow my wild oats!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to sow my wild oats. The problem is I am in a LDR and he doesn't know it. we never met. he is a great guy and I don't want to hurt his feelings so I need a good excuse to dump him for not apparent reason and no I can't be honest because that will hurt him more. He never ... (97 words)

I check out other girls but love my girlfriend. How do I keep myself in check?

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22 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hello everyone i have a question about well these teenage hormones no i have a girlfriend of 1 year and 4 months now since i'm a young man with alot of hornyness which i think is quite common but my sometimes it overwhelms me and i "check out" other girls but i'm completely in ... (106 words)

Can we be friends still if he doesn't return my feelings?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I have a slight problem. Ok so I like this guy he is so sweet and everything I like in a guy. We are in middle school and have abfew classes together. We sorta knew each other in 6th grade but we never really talked. We are both in 7th grade. Ok well we are really good ... (199 words)

What should I do about attracting flirting co-worker?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - humanMy very attractive coworker has been flirting with my hardcore for about a week. He has a very joking personality, but he's callin me hot n beautiful n paying so much attention to me. I think he is a dream! I do not however want to find out he is just playing around. When ... (67 words)

I think my boyfriend is a just "now" boyfriend and not a "later" boyfriend

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about four months now. We started having sex about two months ago. The sex just isn't good. It has gradually gotten better but it's still not where it should be. I don't think it's him, I think it's me. I'm just not sexually attracted to him as ... (256 words)

Boyfriend says he will change for me but then goes back to his bad ways!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi This is my little sister who had a problem and i really dont know how to help her (she uses my email cuz her bf has her email password and she dont want him to see the question) hi im a sixteen years old girl , im loving a guy and he is also loving me since we were ... (401 words)

I was teasing and he took it seriously and now I don't know what is going on!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so to start off, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months anyway today we we're hanging out and I was giving him a blowjob and I stopped and kidding around said ya know you're so mean, I always do this for you blah blah blah, BUT I was totally 100% joking around. Then he ... (164 words)

Why does my boyfriend tell me one thing do another?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend constantly tells me one thing and does another. He also goes behind my back to other people to make me look bad to them. When confront him about it he lies and says it isnt true. He says he loves me and im sure he isnt cheating what other motives could he have? ... (76 words)

I'm falling in love with my ex's sister!

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22 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! Im after falling in love with my ex's sister and dont know to talk to her about it or what, my ex and I have been broken up for 3 months now and she's seeing a friend of mine that iv known since school, I still talk to her and the fella, but her sis and me ALWAYS had a ... (144 words)

Why do I try to seek closure, when the guy has made it clear?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I try to seek closure, when the guy has made it clear? I was dating a guy for a short time (1 month). I wasn't sure if we would be good together, and he just kept working at getting me to like him and I ended up falling for him. He started saying things about bei... (451 words)

My parents don't want me and my boyfriend to cuddle!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So my parents are upset because my boyfriend and I cuddle. They keep saying that we are being completely irresponsible, and don't believe that nothing is going to happen. I get where they are coming from, so I decided I am going to do what they want and come up with a plan so ... (79 words)

I stopped eating meat but now I'm eating too much sugar!

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22 November 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi,umm I have started this new diet about not eating meat anymore because I've heard about what they do to the animals(I've heard about how the animals are kept under very poor conditions and they inject steroids into them and things like that and quite frankly it disgusts me ... (148 words)

Does "not ready now" mean "not ready ever"???

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so crazy about my boyfriend. He listens to me, does nice things to make my life easier or more pleasant, and does little things to make me feel special. We've been together for a couple years now. The first year or so we didn't see eachother often as we both travel for ... (521 words)

2 years later and I want my ex back!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke every single rule when my ex and I broke up 2 years ago. We were both young and in love and nieve, soo.... in other words we made mistakes and said stupid things to make eachother hurt. I've dated other guys since this, but... nothing has really stuck or felt the same. ... (101 words)

Is it okay to message him on facebook or is that a bit stalkerish?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i need advice :) I met a guy through a friend that i think is really cute. We seemed to hit it off, but have only had casual conversations and flirted a bit. My mate told him i liked him and he said he liked me too but wouldn't do anything about it because his friend really ... (147 words)

If I'm bi, where does that lead me?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, im bi-curious at least i think i am, but im just really confused about the fact i like guys but the other night when my friend put porn on there were lesbian interactions and i couldn't help feel aroused. Though the thought of me actually being with another girl isn't as ... (66 words)

I kissed a guy when I was drunk, told my boyfriend and now I don't know what to do!

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - As background, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and were quite happy together. We were near engagement, so it's a very serious relationship. I went to a going away party this weekend and got blackout drunk at the end of the night. Apparently I kissed ... (263 words)

How can I convince my friend she's making a big mistake?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I are freshmen in high school. She is a beautiful smart exotic girl who "loves" this total jerk. Before the summer when she first got a phone he would text her and say that he loved her and ask constantly if she wanted to meet and have sex. The worst thing about ... (362 words)

Acne,no makeup what do guys think?

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22 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay im the type of girl that never leaves the house without makeup,i was bullied in school so makeup became part of my life and i hear the way peple talk,so my question is what does a guy think about a girl that has acne like the t zone on her and sees her without makeup,cuz i ... (85 words)