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writes:I am 36 years old and never had an relationship before. There is must be something wrong with me. I am at the point of giving up finding someone.I go out to clubs, date, and even been on many single sites. I believe that no one out there is out there for me. Anyway every time I really fall for someone, they are more interested in someone else or dont see me as an priority and just an option. Reply to this Question
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reader, xo11 +, writes (24 November 2010):
xo11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionanyway realise I need to enjoy my life and be happy. If someone comes into my life then it be an bonus.
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reader, xo11 +, writes (23 November 2010):
xo11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks, anyway I over it. Looks like the latest person I really into likes someone else. It always happens. Anyway I feel better off dead than always put up with this bs.
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reader, xo11 +, writes (22 November 2010):
xo11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks bloondie anyway I am so over those sites u suggested. I just dont have any more profiles as had them for 10 years and nothing has changed. I used to be on it alot and spend hours each day looking at each profile and messaging people. I sick of it.
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reader, xo11 +, writes (22 November 2010):
xo11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi there and thanks very much for the replies.
I only one person in my life only once I loved her but she only saw me as an option and also saw me more saw me as an friend than something else, and after that became more reserved.
I have tried being friends with people I really into, yet eventually it does not turn out. I do take things slowly too. I do want an relationship but I realise the older I get the less opportunities I would get.
It gets me depressed too when I contemplate it.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Could you give us some more information on yourself and how you relate to women in general? Otherwise we can only speculate what could be holding you back...
I will say this though... there is someone out there for everyone, I absolutely 100% utterly believe that, not from a romanticized, idealistic viewpoint, but from a statistical one. The current world population is estimated at 6,882,800,000 people, and roughly half of that is women.
If you truly believe that there's no-one out there for you, regardless of who you are... honestly, you aren't trying hard enough, either in trying to improve yourself, meeting enough people, not dealing with your own issues, etc. etc.
I've had a few 40+ year old guys contact me via my mailbox asking me for advice on how to lose their virginity and have a meaningful relationship... now I'm no expert, but I have a lot of resources that I'm prepared to send/point people to. But they all give up/get scared and go back to their comfort zone. Feel free to mail me if you're serious about trying to change your situation.
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reader, White Knight  +, writes (21 November 2010):
Absolutely the harder you try the more obvious and less you will acheive in love.
Friendship can blossom into love, get on with your life receptive but over receptive
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