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writes:this really isn't a question for help more of just an opinion that people might have. and is for both girls and guys. what is the cutest or sexiest name you like. For me its Natalie that name drives me crazy lol. What is your preferred body type like height and such. I prefer 5'6 to 5'8 120-135 blonde pretty smile and a good personality. Looks aren't everything but that attitude that comes with the looks sometimes gets me haha. Do you like a girl/guy to be in control, I personally like when a girl is a little more aggressive pulling me out of the crowd and going to dance. Would you like a girl or guy to call you even when you hang up on him or her, for them to text you to see how your day is going, to think about you when your not around even if your not dating just friends. when you go out of town to tell you to have a safe flight and to have fun. To support sporting events that they would compete in? basically just say everything you would want a girlfriend boyfriend or just a friend to be for you.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (23 November 2010):
Hi there. First of all, as far as control is concerned, it really should be 50/50, and nothing less. Decisions made by both of you - or not at all.
Both should have equal say in a relationship, not just one person always saying - "We're going to do this, or we're going to do that" - giving the other no say at all.
Even though you say you like a girl who is slightly agressive - in pulling you out of the crowd to ask you to dance - is ok, for a while.
At first it's something you might find attractive in a girl, but over time it could become a bit overbearing. On the surface you might like it, but only in the short term. In the long term however, you would find it very annoying indeed. Have a think about it.
There are many different things that are attractive in people -
(1) Looks.
(2) Smile.
(3) Their eyes.
(4) Personality.
(5) Sense of humour.
(6) Free spiritedness.
(7) Independence.
(8) Honesty.
(9) Open mindedness - seeing both sides of the story.
(10) Sharing themselves and their life with you.
(11) Being genuinely interested in you and in your life.
(12) Being slightly unpredictable - not a lot, just enough to make life interesting.
(13) Knowing exactly where you stand with each other.
(14) Being comfortable in each other's company.
(15) Being able to talk about anything and everything, with no awkward silences.
(16) Realling listening to each other when you talk, and look right into each other's eyes when you do.
The real attraction is what's inside. The pretty face and nice body are only the initial drawcards to actually walking over and talking to her. Once you say "Hi", then there needs to be a whole lot more than just good looks after that.
True beauty and sexiness, comes from within. It's all about building a good rapport with each other. That's the glue that really keeps two people together and the emotional closeness that goes with it.
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