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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I break up with him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot, and it's all about really dumb stuff. Most of it is my fault, because I have a really bad temper and things make me mad very easily. We've been dating for about 3 months, but you'd think by now he'd know not to say/do certain ... (120 words)

Why are his parents being so extreme?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem that is becoming too much for me to handle. I'm dating a boy a year and couple months younger than me, i'm 17 and he's 16. We've been together for almost a year now. I'm from a foreign country although have been in my current country for almost 10 years. But ... (510 words)

Am I too nice? Why do bad people only interested in sex, get the girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'I'm a young man, in college and I consider myself to be a nice, generous and caring person. My friend was having a house party to celebrate his 17th and during a party one night , I was introduced to "Steph". ". She is an amazing person , same interests, same tastes in music... (347 words)

So it's official, we're finally over. Where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've posted a few times in the past two weeks about me and my (now ex) girlfriend first being on shaky communication terms, then on a break. Basically, the last time we talked and went on a break, she said she had to clear up things with family issues and focus on getting... (211 words)

Shall I let him bully me like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Where do I start... I've been with my partner on and off for 5 years. We have a daughter together. Everything was great until I fell pregnant then the name calling started. Shortly after my daughter was born I ended an moved out. But about 1 1/2 years ago we met up to talk abo... (235 words)

I feel as if I am a lesbian!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel as if im a lesbian i dont really know but i have feelings for a girl... (18 words)

I find it so hard to open myself up to my online love interest!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago I met someone online who I have now fallen for. We both like each other and plan to meet up. However, I'm worried that he might 'give up' and stop liking me because I find I can't really open myself up to him, and I give the impression that I'm not very comfortable ... (329 words)

Why can't I get over my ex? It's been 3 months and I still feel the same as the day it ended!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i cant get over my ex girlfriend. iv become close friends with someone else now but i cant see her as attractive even though she is good looking, and a nice person. all i do is fantassize about my ex even though she doesnt want to get back together. we did sleep together last ... (168 words)

All I want is answers to my problems with my family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get over your father not wanting you then finding out he is dying and suddenly he finds you interesting, your step father of 15 years abandonds you, and the guy your mom is dating treats you like a seven year old when your 18 and you want freedom.... (51 words)

Period pain !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do girls get cramp while they are on their periods?... (11 words)

Girls keep saying they don't see a romantic future with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been broken up for 2 months now and my ex girlfriend has been in a new relationship about a week after she ended things with me. This guy she met while she was still involved with me. She said that I was truly a wonderful person that she wants to be friends with but ... (269 words)

Too fat to be loved!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend(ex) over a year ago... we got along very well spent almost every day together talked for hours and hours and never seemed to care about anyone but ourselves. about 7 months into he he suddenly started to pull away and i felt it but did my best to keep ... (371 words)

My professor held my hand?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry in advance if this is too long! I'm a 19 year old university student.This semester,I decided to do a project on a specific class,and so I went to the professor's office to discuss the subject of my project with him,as all students have to do.Now,I went in there wi... (547 words)

How do you get big muscular arms?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 17 and lets face it a bit of a weakling i have very small arms and i have tried working out but there just hasn't been any difference in the size of my arms or biceps to be precice. what i would like to know is does anyone know a way of getting big muscley arms? e.... (95 words)

There's no label on this relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past few months, I've been sort of seeing this guy. To be brief, I feel that there some chemistry between us; we have been hanging out together alone and with friends, we've slept together and recently spent the night together. It feels as if we are together but there ... (179 words)

Boyfriend is sexting other women!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a 2 year relationship. We broke up last June because he had been sexting a Married Woman. Yes, I checked his phone (1st time) and I found the texts. I broke up with him. He claimed that he had done Nothing wrong because it was only texting, and he hadn't slept with ... (551 words)

Is he my rebound?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 19 months (about a month ago) and since then I've met another boy who is really nice and we're now in a relationship together. I still speak to my ex on friendly terms and am arranging to go see him. I was deeply in love with him and I ... (115 words)

He's leaving and I think he's the one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and for the first time in my life met the most lovely guy who was everything I had ever dreamt of recently. He was good looking, very fashionable, very kind, warm hearted, a good friend, very deep and loved doing things most gay guys don't like going f... (780 words)

Kissing best friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok ppl,! umm im seemin to have mixed emotions bout my best friend and he lives like 2 house down from me so we see and hang out with each other everyday! but he has a girl.. but i already worte a question bout that one incident but anywho, um yea and sometimes i seem... (440 words)

Communicating is an issue with my soldier!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my finance have been together for a while .. and for those of you who remember me... yes we got back together sorry. well things are going great the only thing that worries me is our conversations because now a days they last less then 15 mins a day and we usually ... (213 words)

Pregnant again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I tell my parents that I am pregnant AGAIN!!..Im only 21 and I have a 18mth old son..I just found out that I am 6 weeks preggo...My oarents helped me so much with the first one and still help me a little..I live with my sister but my parents gave me a car and they help ... (117 words)

I don't know if this break up is permanent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I had the perfect relationship with a great guy who I could see myself with long term as we had the same goals and wants out of life and a relationship as well as several things in common, but it all fell apart. We used to be so happy together both wanting to be with and spend ... (323 words)

I don't have the money to lend him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been togethere 4 a yr we r verry happy together and we r very open with each other its really nice. well at the moment my boyfriend is in a big financial crisis hes on the brink of loosing evrything he ever built and its a huge loss 4 him cause he ... (207 words)

Honeymoon phase has past, now it's down to make it or break it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My spouse and i argue over everything, constantly. I feel like my spouse assumes they know what i am going to say and talks over me, so i am never heard. I have expressed this. My spouse says that i do the same back, but i feel like i really try to listen. We have been marrie... (314 words)

Sometimes I think he came back for revenge.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My issue is pretty strange. Recently, almost two months ago, an old high school friend came back into my life. He started to talk about how in love with me he used to be, and said he still had feelings and had been searching for me all along but since my name changed he had no ... (741 words)

How obvious do I have to be with these signals?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How obvious do I have to make myself before he realises the signs im sending him. I really like him! Here we go again ... I like this guy in the year above me and we don't actually talk at all. We used to but we drifted apart because none of us made the next move (too shy). ... (183 words)

Can people be in an exclusive online relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Can people be in an exclusively online relationship? How does that work out?... (13 words)

Fat fetish-help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am having big problems about my fat fetish. I am a gay male who fairly round and I don't want to get any bigger. Truth is, I have a fetish for fat men; curves, love handles and everything else. My fetish has often led me to put on weight as I find it 'sexy' in a sense. ... (116 words)

LDR break up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf broke up with me a week before. We are in LDR now since i need to travel abroad for my work. I might be returning back after 2-3 months. When he broke up, i was depressed so much i cried all over him and tried to reach him. He talked to me few times and said ... (182 words)

Boyfriend and ex-wife have terrible boundaries, I am not allowed to be around his child!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a divorced guy for 2+ years. He has been divorced about this long as well. His ex-wife lived in another state with their child, but recently moved here to be closer by. She has known he was dating this entire time, and never had any problems with it. However, ... (299 words)

He'd rather play video games or hang out with his friends instead of having sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for the past two years...in two weeks it will be two years. I love him very much and I know that he loves me but I don't know anymore if it is in his heart to commit to me. Before, we used to have sex all the time...all the time. Now, I'm lucky if ... (340 words)

Found a picture from a previous relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I recently found a picture of my girlfriend that she took of herself when she was nude. I know that this is from a previous relationship and that she was with the guy for a while, but it is bugging the hell out of me that I accidentally ran across the pictures. I just ... (67 words)

How do I catch my orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear readers I have a serious problem and am unsure what to do, I lost my virginity at the age 18 to the person that I will be soon marrying. I also took his by the way and for starters were actually pretty great at it and are in to trying new things. But for some reason m... (127 words)

Anybody else out there insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a really [REALLY!] insecure person. About everything. My appearance, my body, my boyfriend, my friends...it's ridiculous. And I know when I am rational that I AM being ridiculous. It's all those other irrational times (80% of the time!) that I don't. There hasn't been much ... (132 words)

Fiance and I at loggerheads over money!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age - Please can you help with the 2 following Questions. Background I am 46f, my new fiance is a 50yr male. We live 60 miles apart but see each other every weekend ( we take turn in travelling. He also visits me every Wed. We have been dating 18month. Q1 Last week we chatted... (292 words)

I need a 5 year plan!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having a lot of worry since I have turned the age of 30. I understand that fertility starts to decline in the 30s and more particular there is risk after age 35. I am currently in a relationship, and while he wants to get married and have kids in the near future he ... (179 words)

I want my mom to treat me like an adult, not a kid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom treats me like i am 6 when im 18. When I tell her to treat me like im 18 she says she doesnt have time to deal with me. How do I tell her to stop treating me like a little kid?... (46 words)

My boyfriend is losing interest!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. Lately it seems to be me always making the effort. I always go to see him, suggest what we get up to, and annitiate sex. I am tired of it and have spoken to him about it. But he still has not changed. He never comes to my house, ... (124 words)

How to make your breasts sprout?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a problem i didnt get my period and i and i am 14 years old and my weight is 37 and i am not tall and i dont have boobs i dont know how make them grow?... (45 words)

Is it wrong that I am having to kiss his butt just to keep the peace so I can see my family at Thanksgiving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i have been fighting for a while now. Making up and breaking up. Not litterally him leaving but him saying he wants to and saying ugly things, me thinking it was the end several times. So we fight and we make up and we fight the next day and it just the same ... (243 words)

At the cross roads........

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i am in my mid 40s married for 20years together for 25 years with 2 children over 18now. i have wonderful life with my wife and family but have fallen out of love with her about a year ago and emotionally diconnected from her. only resently i shared this with her. i have fallen ... (292 words)

Inappropriate ex behaviour?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's ex comes to all his important events - birthdays, thanksgiving, Christmas, when his band plays. She is a good family friend but he cheated on her and that's what ended their relationship. I don't understand why someone who has been humiliated like that wo... (88 words)

Shall I take any further steps to win him over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi..so here i am..one of the most active, outgoing, attractive (according to many), intelligent gals in my college...involved in robotics projects, alumni affairs, dance clubs etc in the campus..rubbing shoulders and working at par with guys. However , sadly i am also among ... (581 words)

Do you think that this will scare her off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i'm not too sure how to explain but i've got myself into a bit of a quandry. I am bisexual, not out yet, and have recently met the most fantastic girl online. Literally there is hardly a minute when we're awake that we're not nattering away about anything. I am going to see ... (211 words)

Barking up the wrong tree?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age - HI! A fellow townsman and I connected strongly on the basis of some mutual political views and doing committee work etc. We spend a lot of time together doing such things. I know there is a strong personal interest on both our parts, and we give hints to each other, however ... (310 words)

My friend who I still love has come out of his relationship and still loves me, but now I am the one in a relationship! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heey, Last year i fell head over heels in love with my best friend and i told him, he told me he felt the same way but he was in a relationship. I was heartbroken and have always had a thing for him ever since. I recently go into a relationship and a few months in hes just ... (98 words)

Is our relationship evolving over time? Or...is the distance pulling us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together about a year and half. We are the best of friends and believe that what we have is true love..I have never known a feeling like this. But this fall we both went off to college and now live 3 hours apart. We fight about the smalle... (287 words)

Could my girlfriend be gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. We don't live together, but we see each other virtually every day, but now usually only for an hour or two due to her working a lot. I am 29 and she is 33. For the first 18 months of our relationship things were great, we ha... (584 words)

How do you separate what you have from love on the TV or radio?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend about 5 years. most of that was long distance but we live together now. Living together has been so nice, so much better than apart, we're pretty receptive to each other's needs and we're both going through school and are really good at supporting ... (406 words)

Wining over the parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi people I come to you in despret need. Me and my girlfriend started dating last year 27 september everything was just perfeckt until about 4 months ago her parents didn't want me to see her anymore. We still did and her parents got worse and I couldn't see her at all. So we ... (186 words)

What is she implying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - If a girl in an IM chat (who is close and you like) says "you exist in me" - What is this implying?... (23 words)

Do I tell her about this debt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am getting married in 2 weeks and in the past week some things have gone wrong. I bought a new TV and as I was setting it up, it fell and broke and unfortunately the warranty does not cover this, so I had to throw it away :( I haven't told my fiance about thi... (153 words)

Why do I get horny during my monthly visitor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is weird but its bugging the heck out of me....So every time I get my monthly..It seems like thats the most time want to have sex... Why is that?... (32 words)

Can't take being her friend anymore.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Maybe this has been asked for but I did not find it here. My dilemma is somewhat simple, but is heart-rending to me. I have a friend who is a girl. We have been friends for about a year. Sometimes she has called me her best friend. I have developed strong romantic feelin... (229 words)

I wrote her a 3 page letter on how I felt, she never replied!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - We broke up on 9/28/10, just before our 4 month anniversary....i have to see her everyday at school. I see her in the hallways, and every 2 days I have one class with her, which is band. About 2 weeks ago she sent me a text saying she still loved me, when my friends in her c... (356 words)

What's the name of that one sexual position?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I was wondering is there a sex position were the girl lays down on her back but has one leg over the guys shoulder? Does any one know the name of it? I wanna tell my bf it but i dont know if he will know what im talking about. Thanks.... (52 words)

Why does a girl become special only after a guy cheated on her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - After a guy cheats on girl, why does she all of a sudden the love of his life? He starts saying things like: -Your the beautiful girl i wouldnt trade you for anything -I cant wait to spend the rest of my life with you -You mean so much to me -I cant live without you -I... (167 words)

Every time I fall for someone my heart gets broken! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I could probably say I'm one of the 'Popular Girls' at my school. Everyone knows who I am, and I'm best friends with all the girls I would call popular. The difference with me is I'm more laid back. I'm not one to start drama, rumors, and when it does start I usually tend to ... (179 words)

Help! Does he like me or is he just a nice guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help! I'm in college (not sure if I needed to add that but at least it'll set a background)and there is this guy that I really really like. I've known him since last year. I'm confused because I'm not sure if he likes me or if he's just a nice guy. For example, ... (236 words)

Is there any way to get rid of this girl from our lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of one and a half years and me were going fine until his ex-girlfriend emerged on the scene. They were in a relationship for eight long years and broke up two to three years ago due to family issues. She used to text him once in a blue moon. After coming to know ... (608 words)

One man's whore is another man's virgin. Why is this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - why does a woman, in essence, make herself a "porn star" for one man, and not another? I find this to be the case with my female fiends when they reveal that they suck and screw one partner they know won't be around in their future in every way imaginable, yet when the one that ... (75 words)

I don't like being around other men like this but it is the only place I can meet my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i have a boyfriend of a few months now. he is nigerian and im romanian. colour and race difference doesnt mean anything to me and nor does it him. the proplem is i live with my parents and they dissaprove and wont let me see him. so i sneak out to see him. which adds some ... (224 words)

Confused!! After all the mixed signals, he now says we should be just friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi well here is my problem ive known this guy or years we met at 9 years old and went out with eachother for a few years, then when i was 13 i moved away. when i was 27 i bumped into him again we are both married with children we were friends and then he started to txt m... (229 words)

How do I get my husband to get over his office crush with a needy co-worker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 26 years, two years ago my husband took a job in another town, so now we are in a long distance marriage. Every thing was going as best it can in this situation, until a year ago a new single female co-worker arrived, who is a very needy person. About ... (166 words)

Did I start my pill on the wrong day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I started birth control(for medical reasons, don't worry I'm not having sex) but I think I started at the wrong time and I'm worried. What happened is I started the Sunday of my period, which was also the first day, but the next day I wasn't bleeding. I called my doctor and ... (114 words)

I want sex but I don't like it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a bisexual guy who's attracted to both genders and has had sex with both of them. Trouble is, I don't enjoy sex, even though I do want it. I currently have a boyfriend for whom I have fallen head over heels and we do engage in intimacies from time to time, just like ... (183 words)

I still suck my thumb!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19. It's pathetic but I still suck my thumb...a lot. The only time I won't is when my boyfriend helps me sleep, tells me stories or sings. But, when I feel too embarassed to ask or he's too tired and goes to sleep first, I do it and I get paranoid he'll find out so I keep ... (91 words)

Is it really just a friendship? Or am I emotionally cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. We live together, we love each other, and like every relationship we have our problems but I can see myself marrying him someday. Last week I met a guy that has a lot of the same interests as I do. He is in a long-t... (375 words)

Was it too hot and that's why he didn't cum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was having sex for about an hour with my boyfriend last night, in loads of different positions but he just didn't come! At least I don't think he did. He usually moans and he didn't, we just sort of stopped (because I was knackered!). I googled it, and it said if it was too ... (128 words)

Ovulation and how it works

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im kind of confused...can someone tell me when ovulation occurs and how it works???... (14 words)

Finding true happiness

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Is marriage and being in romantic relationship the only thing to lead to happiness. I am one of the romantic person in this world who believs being in a relationship is the only way to happiness. I am a country (India) where marriage is a scared thing and getting marri... (574 words)

Lost my job, I have no money and christmas is coming up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! i really need your help. me and my boyfriend are both 18 and i lost my job and im needing to get my boyfriend something for christmas and i have no money whatsoever. i have no clue what to do. i cant think of anything. help?... (48 words)

He says he cant see a future with me but is too scared to say so in front of his family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend dont see a future with me because he does not have guts to say it in front of his family...but i want a nice future with him so tell me shud we break up or continue?? ... (38 words)

Is it okay to embrace the feeling the friend gave me and does it make me gay?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - As Katy Perry said "I Kissed a girl and I liked it". The problem is the girl who kissed me was a friend and I responded. I was quite ashamed about it and never spoke about it to anyone until the other day, when I accidently slipped to a friend, about the person in question. ... (339 words)

Is this telepathy, real or a coincidence?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I like him immensely though I don't think we would ever get together. Leave as to why not. I'm a lesser mortal. I know that he likes me but may be not in the way I want him to. He attends, listens and is amused to see me. May be Im a temporary point of interest for him. But he ... (295 words)

Since we have got back together properly I'm finding it hard to even have sex!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok heres the problem..a few months ago I got back with a boyfriend of a year that ended suddenly with no warning (he recently admitted it was coz he got scared). Sex was brilliant before we split and even when we were not together we were never really apart..if that makes ... (131 words)

Oil and condoms.....

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunt, This is another condom related question. I read that oil based lubricants such as baby oil and body lotion should not be used. However, what if at that time it totally slipped our minds that our hands had some body lotion (due to normal daily body moisturi... (80 words)

What else can I say other than I'm frustrated?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My "guy friend" says that I need to use more words when we are "playing" around. All I can say is I'm frustrated when he is teasing me. He is a very vocal person and wishes that I would be to when we are "playing". He makes me lose my mind I cant remember any thing when he ... (72 words)

Retroactive jealousy and small penis paranoia

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i believe i have two issues that combine to ruin my life and my relationship. a relationship with someone that needs me more than I have ever been needed - she is so sweet and so beautiful - she has no one else to turn to or to be loved by but her past as a prostitue is killing ... (227 words)

What should I expect when I have sex for the first time?

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11 November 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I have been with a guy for 5yrs and he always talks about sex, we have not had sex since we started dating and we had a fight over this last week. I spoke to couple of my friends about this and they all insisted it was only okay to have sex with him now since he already ... (97 words)

Boyfried said he found a skinny celebrity 'hot' and now I feel insecure. Am I being unreasonable?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK i need help here. When it comes to looks I'll admit it im not happy with how i look (well im not happy about one thing and thats my weight, Im a UK size 22) Anyways I was with my bf the other day and I dont remember how the convo came about but he said that he thinks keir... (301 words)

Left everything for her and now I don't trust her any more

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, This period of my life has been extremely trying for me - I left my wife and young son, i entered into a joint venture with my existing business, i started 4 other businesses with my partner and i met a young new girlfriend whom today is pregnant with our baby gi... (296 words)

Is masturbation harmful to me?

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11 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I masturbate almost every day. Afterwards i hate myself and promise myself that i'll neva do it again but i always find myself doing it. Is it normal to masturbate everyday, is there a way of stopping it, does it course any damage to my body? ... (48 words)

Pregnant to my 23 year old boyfriend, should I tell him? I think he wont want the baby!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im eighteen and still in school and am planing on coming back for year thirteen but i have a huge problem. im in a relationship with my maori teacher 23 yrs old and we have been together for one year now. and now few weeks ago he told me that his family wants him to settle ... (159 words)

Why would you choose to date a guy who is in the army?

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11 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Firstly, i would just like to say i have a lot of admiration for army wives so please don't take any direspect from this question. I know you don't choose who you fall in love with but why would you choose to date a guy who is in the army? Let alone marry them, knowing th... (285 words)

There is no way I can love anyone else, is there any way to get him back?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - we were friends for 2 years and then this love sick thing came between us. I obviously was amazing. And then we eventually kissed. But then we broke up. after a month or so we broke up. And he left without giving me a reason for why he is leaving. It's been 3 years now. And i ... (164 words)

How do you know......

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - How do you know if he/she is "The One?"... (9 words)

He broke up with me because he cant forget about how horrible I turned into in the past, but do you think time could heal?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - im very confused and heartbroken. Basically my fiance dumped me again few weeks ago becasue he said he stopped loving me long ago. The story basically is we were going out for 3 yrs and in that time i started taking the contraceptive injection which sent me absolutely me... (462 words)

Just friendly or wants more?

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I posted this question earlier but there is a little more info since then. Original A girl at my work has been there for almost 3 years. I've been there around 5, so I've known of her since she started. I think she is really beautiful and seems nice. Apart fr... (343 words)

It feels like 'his' house rather than a home....

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11 November 2010 (?) age - Hi there, I think this site is wonderful, it has helped me so much being able to share my problems and getting feedback. I was wondering if anyone else shared this problem. I live with my partner in his house. Up until I moved in with him, I always had my own home and ... (273 words)

I still love him but cant imagine another 6 years with him!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend over six years but recently I feel like were drifting apart. We are so different and even my family are noticing it and have told me that as much as they like him that they feel he is holding me back, although I don't agree with this I have to ... (80 words)

Has he stopped calling because he is stressed due to his financial situation, or have I done something wrong?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been going out with someone for a few months now. he was always talking about the future me and him together. that scared me cause im very pessimistic about love i always hid my true feelings from him until about a few weeks ago when i started trusting him more and... (187 words)

Should I end this LDR when she comes to see me in two weeks because of her lack of respect for me?

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm a long distance relationship here... we been going out for 8 months but in august she want to college to another city. sometimes she comes to visit but we do have problems. For example, we argue, and she some times disrespects me as thou I'm not worth anything to her. ... (188 words)

Help! Obsessed ex-boyfriend is making me feel very guilt!! What can I do?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in desperate need of advice. I've broken up with my boyfriend of four years. He was 5 years my senior. When we began our relationship I was 16 and he was 21. Both very young. In many ways we were on the same level mentally. I honestly couldn't believe that he was really 21. ... (726 words)

Is this an invitation or a come-on?

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Why does it mean if a 24yro woman, gets out of the shower then walks out to a window in her towel then looking back at you Would that be a invitation or something? Or a come-on? Something like this happened to me and I'm just curious what it meant... (59 words)

She doesn't want to be with me because of her past relationship! What can I do?

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Im in a big trouble. I met a girl on social networking site and we became good friends. We use to send each other messages and talked on the phone also many a times for long long hours. Than finally we met at a place. We were going very good, but this girl had a past ... (190 words)

Are his reactions normal?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are a couple for more than a year now, both virgins and decided to take things slow. However, we cuddle a lot, make out, fool around with clothes on, getting to know each other's body... Yesterday we were at his place and while cuddling, I touched his peni... (175 words)

I'm worried about his obsession with me...what should I do?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so theres this guy i had 2 flings with. and he constantly rings my mums house all the time now and its really starting to piss me off, my mum told him to stop ringing her house and thretened him about my brothers and yet he still rings. this is like really starting to get ... (140 words)

He's leaving in a week, should I tell him how I feel?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Not sure what to do here. I'm usually pretty assertive when it comes to guys and people I like in general. I've recently gone through a rough episode with someone I dated for a few months and wasn't interested in anyone at all and then I ran into this guy I hadn't seen for... (320 words)

The other shoe finally dropped.

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK, so the other shoe has finally dropped in my relationship. She wanted to call it quits. Give me my keys and get your stuff. I came, got my things quietly, and she barely mumbled a word. I asked what is going on and all she says is "I dont know, I'm miserable right ... (254 words)

He leaves after we just had sex!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age - right i am seeing a man nearly 9 weeks and i am very confusing about him . we had great sex but all he text me about sex and on sites . he never takes me out to make them know i am his girlfriend at all . i only see him oone or 2 times a week at weekend have sex and leaves ... (87 words)

I decided to go all the way with him when my parents told me we're moving across country!

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11 November 2010 (?) age - Hi I'm 14 now and I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and met in December and started having a "thing" by February, in April we started dating. At first we decided on no oral sex or actual sex because he's almost 2 years older than me and is'nt a virgin anymore whereas ... (312 words)

How do I ask out this older girl?

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - "Just do it" she thinks of me as a friend and I swear I love her. Everyday we talk more today we talked a bunch more than ussual (at play rehearsal) she's a junior and I'm a freshman she has a younger brother my age which makes it a little weird that "I love his sister" lol ... (108 words)

He was a perfect gentleman until we had sex!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I thought I had been dating this man. we met at a night club, and we kept catching eachtother's eye, so as I was leaving with my friends, he grabbed me by my waist, we chatted for a while, then he gave me his number. I called him about a couple of weeks later, and then we went ... (328 words)

Having trouble satisfying my girlfriend.

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a freshman in college, and my current girlfriend and I have been going out for about a month. This is the first time I've been in a relationship, and things are, for the most part, going really well. This has also been the first of my real sexual experiences with ... (269 words)

I couldn't wait for him to come out of the closet!

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm gay and there's this guy that I like. He is actually my house mate, and things are kind of weird. over the past 2 months, I thought that he had been hinting to me that he was gay, or at least unsure of his sexuality. I have never really seen him with a girl, and he is ... (412 words)

My boyfriend's best friend is a dog!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant stand my bf best friend!!! i dont like my bf hanging out with him.hes okay as a person but i juss hate the things he does. he treats my bf like crap,barrows large amounts of money never gives it back.hes trys to make my bf controlling and possessive over me because he ... (155 words)

Being her friend to win her back?

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend says she loves me and always will, she say's she wants me back but not right now. What does that mean? She wants to be friends but, how do you just be friends? I have a hard time doing that because I am a very loving guy. I like to spoil my girl and treat h... (204 words)

Where did the trust go?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically, my bf [now of 2yrs] screwed me over a year ago by seeing his ex girlfriend for coffee and pretending he hadn't. I now am a bit of a wreck where trusting him with other girls comes in. I don't expect him to cheat but he has so many girl mates and they text him all the ... (69 words)

Did I come across as trying to cheat on my husband?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am married and have great relationship with my husband.Few weeks back i met three people at a party and two of them were husband and wife and one was single guy who flirted with me throughout the night and i flirted back a little but it was all innocent.We were drunk, he gave ... (416 words)

I have a boil down south!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boil "down there" and I am scared that my "guy friend" will think im disgusting. Its nothing bad its not like i have a STD or something its just a boil but it terrifies me that he will tell me to get out. Should i be worried? What should i do about it?... (57 words)

My teenage daughter wanted permission to marry her boyfriend!

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11 November 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Hello everyone. This question is really me just wondering what you would do in my situation: Yesterday, my 16 (almost 17) year old little girl and her boyfriend came to me and asked me to give her permission to marry him. I was baffled by it, and shocked they would even think... (123 words)

Are online relationships worth it?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Online relationships is it worth it?... (6 words)

My best friend made my boyfriend feel her up!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help... i like this guy and he likes me and we flirted with each other for about 5 months before he finally asked me out. He's shy... I said yes of course, but then the next day, my friend "Janie" said that he felt her up the day before. I was heart broken of course... (261 words)

I love my engaged best friend, do I tell her?

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been best friends with her since kindergarten. We are both 18 now, I have known that I love her as much more than a friend since forth grade, but have always been too scared to ruine out friendship to ask her if she feels the same. We are still best friends and I see her ... (207 words)

5 years of denial, then puts his photo on her Facebook profile!

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11 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Why in this world would a very recent ex put up a photo of someone who she cheated on me with on her facebook? This person has never totaly gone away,always texting each other and her always lying. He is married and she denied it until i got in touch with him and he told me. He ... (121 words)

My fiance doesn't appreciate me

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm engaged to this guy I have been dating for 3 years. I love him very much, but a lot of things that he does, or doesn't do, makes me very unhappy. He is a firefighter. So he works 10 days a month. Because these are 24 hour shifts, he argues that he works more than I do. In ... (332 words)

Big nipples vs. Small nipples, which do guys prefer?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Girls have all different sizes of nipples and we dont really pay too much attention to it until it comes down to having to strip down and reveal them to boys..soo what do guys prefer...big nipples or small ones? or does it not matter at all? ... (47 words)

I really need to get in this college for him!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I met the love of my life two years ago. He was my best friend, and though I didn't think romantically of him at the time, I confided and told him my darkest secrets and shared everything of my life with him. It wasn't until six months ago that we became an it... (481 words)

I agreed to an abortion but now I'm second guessing it!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 9 weeks pregnant with my 3 child which was unplanned. My partner who I've been with for 16 years wants me to terminate the pregnancy, I said I would, but am now not sure if I can go through with it. What should I do? ... (46 words)

I feel like us not arguing it unhealthy!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I'm a new user though I've been reading for a while and I've decided to ask an for an opinion. It's simple really :) Let me start out that my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, are very close emotionally, and confide in each other. We also share opinions w... (183 words)

I don't know if I'm being petty.

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I got my eyes tested today -turns out I need glasses. I'd asked my boyfriend whether he might come with me to pick some, as I wanted someone to bounce different ideas off - I've never had glasses before and picking them seems daunting! I'd asked him if he was free that af... (416 words)

Would you consider making a pass at my best friend cheating?

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11 November 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My gf made a pass at one of my best friends late one night. When he told me I knew it was true, because that was the exact same way she expressed interest in me the first night I met her. Is that cheating?... (44 words)

Has anyone ever come across the male counterpart of a cock-tease?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all. I was talking with someone earlier this evening who told me a story of coming across a 'minge-tease' or the male equivalent of a cock-tease in her recent dating life. I was wondering, if any of you had ever come across this yourselves in your wanderings? A ma... (88 words)

In the end doesn't it only matter about maturity in the situation, not age?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So at the end of last summer me and this older guy really started something. We met through one of my close friends one day and later that night hooked up in the back of his car (No sex). I was expecting it to be a one night thing, but we started texting and talking and I found ... (395 words)

He says I'm ugly then I get a text from him calling me sexy?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have to type fast so I will just summ it up a bit.. Ty for reading I used to like this guy a few years ago, so I asked him out. He said yes to my excitement! But then it was a on-off relationship But not the normal kind... He didn't even like me. One time i asked my friend ... (248 words)

A whole lot of baby mama drama

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in a tough situation, im a mother of twin boys they are 6 years old and the father was in the picture when they were younger then he disappeared because he got with another women. That kept him from seeing his kids but his mother always called me and kept in touch with me ... (283 words)

B cup size, will they get any bigger?

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, thisnis kinda embarrassing but I'm 13 years old and I want to know if my breasts will get bigger. Cause they are like a B now but I would like them to be a little bigger. What do you think???... (41 words)

He claims he's over her, but I still see them talking!

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11 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should i be worried if my boyfriend is close friends with a girl he used to be in love with but never dated? It was before he met me and i have confronted him about it many times and he claims he is over it...but i still get jealous everytime i see them talking.... (54 words)