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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I charge my sister to clean the bathroom! Am I cheating her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think its wrong that I charge my older sister 15/20$ to clean the bathroom for her? Meaning she don't have to do anything, no sweeping, no mirror cleaning ect. She has the bathroom 2 times a in a row and then I have it 2 times in a row. What do u think? =)... (57 words)

I don't get this post break up stuff!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I were going to get coffee, she canceled, had homework to do and needed extra time to do it. She has a boy friend (probably going out tonight). I told her its okay, just tell me you are free next week, she said she had family stuff, school stuff and a bunch of stuff ... (376 words)

I miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so me n this guy were seeing each other n everything was fine n everything was completley normal. I fell in love with him after only 1 month. Never in my entire life, have I ever loved someone so much! When I first met him, I didn't think anything of him and I didn't like ... (559 words)

She fell out of love with me! What did I do wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm 20 and she's 18, gonna be 19. When we met, I was 19, pretty confident, waned to go places and do things. She was still in High school, 18 years old in December.. Pretty much we met each other randomly. I'd not lost my vigrginity till a month before I met her with an ... (1626 words)

I'm a Christian, he's a Muslim and I don't think this is going to work!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone please help me! I've just found out that my Internet romance, who I have fancied for about 4 months now and think he's amazing, is a Muslim! I'm a strong Christian in a very strong Christian family. I don't know what to to I love him to bits but it's going to hurt my ... (94 words)

Partner is very disagreeable and turns it around and then says I'm moody!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I've been with my partner for nearly 5 years now not sure to leave him we have a child together too, his a bully but nice to others. If I answer back to something he says horrible he turns that around to me and days I'm moody! Even work colleagues are picking up on my ... (60 words)

He's falling apart at the seams!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I have a guy friend at school who I really need help with. We were never really close but recently he split up with his girlfriend and he's falling apart about it and Im the only one who seems to be really there for him. Hes been talking to me about it and I've got th... (128 words)

Do men fancy their female friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What is it with men and female friends? I have just had a major argument with a friend of mine about sex. Specifically the fact that because I am his friend, he would never sleep with me. I thought men were attracted to all women? Everything I read or see is abou... (170 words)

Do guys like girls who take charge every once in a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - do guys like girls who take charge every once n a while ? or a girl who lets them do everything ? my boyfriend and I are in love , butt I wanna take things farther than just huggs . like a peck on the cheek or a little lips-to-lips action . how do I approach him ? how do I ... (78 words)

He has people watching me while he's away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ive been dating this guy for a while and hes really nice. i have a wild streak and u know am a free bird and sometimes can do some pretty crazy things. ive never hidden it from him and was open with him from the begining of our relationship. he accepted it and seemed totally ... (182 words)

We should be fine in the sex department, but we're not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It's most women's dream-cum-true, But sex lasts forever. My boyfriend takes forever to come. Whenever we have sex, he always has to finish off himself, because he just doesn't get enough stimulation from sex. It's not because he doesn't love me, we have a really really close re... (228 words)

Girlfriend texting my best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - thanks for the last help guys and girls it really helped me out. ive got another one for you now. my girlfriend and i have been dating for about 2 and a half months now, and i think were both pretty happy with our relationship. at least i know i am, but there have been some ... (129 words)

She thinks I'm obsessed with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - This girl thinks I'm obsessive of her (which I'm not). I would like to get into a long term relationship with her. Do you guys think I should back off or keep perusing her like I am. Thanks... (40 words)

Got quotes?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - got good quotes ? any kind . love , life , dark , light . you name it . I need some good ones for my class . lol . help me out . post one or more(: thanks .... (40 words)

The butterflies have fluttered away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been going through a very difficult phase with many external factors, with work, business, finacial situations to mention a few, and with all of this stress, there has been alot of strain on our relationship and we have grown apart as my partner has a ... (310 words)

This new guy is clingy, needy, and cheesy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago. we had been together for a year and it started to get really routinaire. i needed time and he wouldn't give me time so we ended it. i started dating this other guy inmediately after we broke up. at first i was happy with the new ... (295 words)

I want to send him something to knock his socks off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to send my boyfriend some naughty and sweet.. something to turn him on;) what i would do to him next time i see him..but am not good with words..please help me thanks..xx... (42 words)

He is a flake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - let me give u the run down b4 starting this im almost 22 now and he is 32, he is a bad boy and im a former " bad girl" i have changed alot of my ways to make him happy n to b closer to him. also i dont know if this matters but this is an interracial relationship. okay so to ma... (490 words)

We can't date anymore because I'm so amazingly, dependable, caring, and kind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Asking for help is hard to do... but I've found my way here, where it seems good advice is all around. A little about me: I'm a solid guy, no emotional baggage or other major life issues hanging around me - been there, done that, learned my lessons. I'm in a good headspace, ... (889 words)

Want to make her mine!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I like a girl very much, We met through Facebook and have never met physically because we live in different countries. She seems to be a very nice girl to me and I love her very much, even more than myself. We know each other for the last 5 months, I always switch on my web... (255 words)

Does having a baby change whether he still wants to be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. I'm 32, was married for 12 years, no kids. my marriage was always troubled from the beginning and I did everything I could to make it work, went to marriage counseling, but my husband just didn't cooperate and so long ago I gave up and just resigned myself to live in a lov... (1472 words)

He's marking his territory!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I go out with my boyfriend to bars in my home town, I often see lots and lots of old friends, including close male friends that I have known for years. My boyfriend is generally an easy going guy but whenever I greet these old friends he gives them really disapproving ... (137 words)

He says he needs time, does he actually want to break it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5051 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I started talking to a guy I met online. It is long distance. After three months I went to visit him. We both totally fell in love. We have so much in common. Recently his behaviors have changed a lil and Ive become needy out of insecurity cuase of the distance. We split up by ... (107 words)

I cleaned up his vomit and this is the thanks I get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, this is kind of long but please bear with me.. I hope someone can help me out with some good advice...me and my ex boyfriend of a year and a couple months broke up about a month ago. We were still in contact the first week after the breakup and ended up having sex,... (718 words)

How many red flags can you spot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Is this a red flag for a relationship? Im getting to know this guy Im 41 hes 43, the odd thing is, he never seems to have had a really significant other in his life ever, only relationships lasting a few weeks maybe. His family told me when he was young he met a girl he re... (161 words)

Bootcamp or bust!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a senior in highschool, and I'm going to sign into the army. I want to sign in badly But I'm so scared everything is changing I'll graduate and go into bootcamp. But how can I let go of the few friends I got. I lost friends to this decision Please give any advise ... (61 words)

I don't want him to be homeless!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm in my mid 20s as is my bf of 2 years. He cheated on me, physically and emotionally and I found out a couple months ago. I loved him, and took him back even though I knew I wasn't doing the right thing. (We live together in my house). Over the past year almost, I've har... (309 words)

I was lying there thinking, is that it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

13 November 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Compatible, just not in bed. I have been seeing this great guy for six weeks or so. Really get on well, easy to be with him, he is very caring and considerate. Also affectionate and I can tell he is into me. Feel happy when we are together. Just had sex for the firs... (276 words)

Do I respect girl code?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid.... My friend Katrina has been dating this boy named Alex for about 8 months now. Me and Alex met the week they went out because I thought I should get along with him since he's going out with my best friend. btw, we are 13 years old. The thing is over the summer we ... (180 words)

I was hoping for a raunchy reply!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been together almost two years now, and unfortunately are a few thousand miles apart for a couple of months. I would really enjoy the odd sexy email or text message but whenever I initiate a flirtatious message hoping to get a raunchy reply, I just get cut off and ... (142 words)

She still wears her ex's sweatshirt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend sometimes wears her ex-boyfriends sweatshirt. I'm assuming it's his because it is too large for her and is of the hockey team he played for in college. i'd like her not to wear this anymore. am i crazy to ask her to stop? is that a reasonable suggestion? Also... (131 words)

How can you tell if your best friend is attracted to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How cant u tell if a guy u have mixed emotions fro is ever thinking bout u ?? i mean when i talk to ppl and the convo doesnt have to be about him and i just say his name when im suppose to say someone elses name its gettin really crazy! and idk if hes thinkin bout me as well.. ... (80 words)

What does mirroring facial expressions mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I like a certain guy and he likes me in a certain way too. Earlier he used to have those serious looks whenever we met. But nowadays, he is quite sweet and charming with a hidden smile in the corner of his lips when he is not smiling. Otherwise I have seen him mirr... (185 words)

I've grown and changed since I proposed to her and am now doubting whether the marriage is the best idea

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I've been so depressed lately. Let me start at the beginning. I'm originally from India, I moved out here when I was 11 so I have been brought up with a mixture of Indian ideals and I've seen all the western ideals by going to high school and college here... (788 words)

The longer we stay together, the less sex we have

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age - Been in my relationship for almost 2 yrs, seems the longer we stay together, we're having less and less sex. He says he's tired from work, but work more hours,. How can I get him to be more into me, and have more sex, I mean it's like almost a month, between sessions... (53 words)

I thought the date went really well but he didn't try to kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i rlly rlly like this guy, "Sam". We have kno each other for 4yrs. And now that where both in high school him an 11th grd me a 9th (yea im 14 not 16). Anyways we have rlly been conecting lately. We where txting and hanging at shool. Then he asked me out last night. And i ... (169 words)

Help me to develop more spontaneous conversation skills

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My problem is building up my conversational skills when talking to a girl.it has been my problem cos am not that conversational person.each time am into a conversation with a lady,i have to think of what to say before i can say it to her which is really killing me and my ... (75 words)

He ended our affair, what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 3 years, have a 21 month old and had been having an affair for 3 months. He has ended it because he can't bear the thought of me with someone else, we had fallen in love. I just don't know what to do now, how to act, where to go. I have no on... (67 words)

We're both married but does he love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40, in a friendship type of marriage, and am also in a love affair with a married man, 50. I have allowed myself to get into this affair with the assumption he is in the same situation as I am.; a friendship type of marriage. During the course of our 10year affair, the ... (306 words)

Help! I don't know how to share what I feel!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I have a dilemma and I would appreciate if you guys could give me some advice or opinions. So I have been in a relationship for a little over 8 months with my boyfriend. We are very close, trust each other, and I'm completely happy being with him. The problem is that ... (199 words)

How do I take our communication to a deeper level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 months. He is a single father with full custody so we only see each other once or twice a week. He is a sweet guy and I know he likes me a lot and I like him a lot, too. I think he does have some insecurities. Our problem is that we ... (199 words)

What do I say to introduce my son to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am recently divorced, and am living with a new partner. We are in love and planning our future together. Problem is, I don't know how to bring her up to my 13 y.o. son. He doesn't know about her (ex-wife does, and isn't happy I moved on so soon). He has said his biggest ... (217 words)

Does manipulation give a sense of empowerment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, well. Today I was on IM chat (MSN) with my girlfriend. I had just got back from work and had only spoken to her once, for 2-3 minutes, that WHOLE day. On IM, I was laughing and sharing demotivational pictures and enjoying myself whilst sharing them with her. ... (316 words)

Am I being manipulated to "prove my love?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hello i have a problem i need some advice i need to know what it means to be controlling and trying to manipulate someone.my g/f and i have been together for two years we got along great wicth i found out she had a drug problem i did help her with staying clean but she le... (135 words)

Is activating your dating account cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - if you met someone online and made your account inactive when things progress between you both is it classed as cheating if you go back online and re-activate your account and look at other profiles without the other persons knowledge? ... (40 words)

He has another girlfriend! How do I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i like a guy he stayed in touch with me for 6months but during the 7th month he started ignoring me .i stay in jaipur and he stays in indore .during the diwali breaks i went to indore and thier i found that he already had 1 girlfriend and is still with her he had cheated ... (87 words)

I'm married now but I'm still in love with my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know where to start. my best friend and i fell in love and have been friends for 7 years (we were a couple for 3 years). his family didnt approve of the relationship so we decided to call it quits but remain friends. i got married 3 years ago and he supported me even ... (181 words)

Any tips for having anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Me and my boyfriend want to try anal sex, we have attempted it before but I want to be prepared this time. I got an anal douche, but I don't know how long before sex I should use it. Also, I travell up to his on the train (3 hours) will there be any problems with ... (116 words)

Did we have sex because he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey freinds pleae help me out of this confusion. Two years back i was in a relationship with a boy. I know at starting there was just attraction from both sides. We got involved in kissing, hugging, oral sex. after having 2 years relation we got seperated due to my transfer to ... (199 words)

My ex is dating my best friend but says he wants me again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, i've been in a relationship with a guy for more or less seven - eight months (we hang out for an year), two years ago. After he left me because he told me he didn't feel anything for me, he fell in love with my bestfriend (now my ex bestfriend xD). He spent all the ... (254 words)

I love her so much, but she loves someone else...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i had a girl as my lab mate at school. 5 years passed thereafter. and i didn't see her, but during that time i was feeling for her strongly. this august i joined a organization. on the very fist day i saw her and chatted with her and exchange cell nos.i noticed that unlike me ... (196 words)

Would you ever lie to the person you are going to marry about having cheated on them during the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Would you ever lie to the person you are going to marry about having cheated on them during the relationship? Could you live with yourself after marriage, knowing you lied about being loyal throughout the relationship? What kind of a person can say wedding vows, knowing they ... (86 words)

Would a satisfied lady cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - simple quistion for the ladys would a loved and a sexualy satisfied women cheat in her husband/spouse ? and if the answer was yes what would be the most common causes ... (37 words)

I want him to call me more! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, need some advice/ help please! I seem to have a problem with my bf being slow on the communication like texts/ calls. We have been together 9 months and hes always been like this from the start. He does initiate calls/ texts sometimes but its not as often as i would ... (149 words)

How do I fix this drunken mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's what happened. I'm a 25 year old male. I have a long distance girlfriend who I love dearly. I've never met anyone quite like her, she's amazing, everything I want in a girl and I'm going to marry her when we can be together (we're away from each other due to work and... (285 words)

He's too gentle! I need it rough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well.... I use to go out with this guy who loves to have rough sex. I use to hate it, but I eventually got use to it since its the only way to have sex with him. Now i love rough sex, but the problem is, the guy I'm dating now doesnt. He's a softie and likes everythi... (157 words)

I think she's straying again! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I separated in April of 2010. We battled for a few months and then I started moving on. In July she started coming around again. We had sex and started to spend more time together. She and I cried about missing each other and things started getting better. We got ... (302 words)

Gf forcing me to get maried and have kids but I don't want to go too fast

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a girl for the past 5 years and so and we have never had sex.now my girlfriend says she wants to have sex as all her friends have already done it more than once.i said that she might get accidentally pregnant .so now she is forcing me to marry ... (98 words)

Florida isn't in the Midwest!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years. This weekend, I found out on the internet that my lover is attending a conference in Florida. He works in the midwest and during a phone conversation, he told me the conference was in the midwest. We've had many arguments ... (131 words)

Reoccurring booty call!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up since March 2010. We were together for an on/off romance for about 3 years. But we fought a lot and we handled them the wrong way. But I made a mistake. I let myself become his "booty-call" and it kept recurring. After, I'd just stop. But I ... (222 words)

I'm having a hard time understanding.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm in desperate need of advice. I am an asian girl, 5 8, skinny and fit. I have been told I am pretty, sexy, hot many times by many of my friends, heard that guys have said this about my through word of mouth. I even tried online dating, aka okcupid.com, for a bi... (338 words)

Do guys usually open up after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do guys usually open up after sex? What makes them want to talk about their personal stuff and feelings?... (19 words)

Ongoing confusion, what is he thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this has been an ongoing situation for a while now. This guy I've had feelings for, asked me to the ball next year. I don't know if he asked anyone else, and I'm not planning on asking. I said yes, and more recently he's been seeming to show more of an interest in me. W... (310 words)

Does he like me for me or the sexual attraction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

13 November 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I need opinions, but please don't be rude or too judgmental. I realize I need help; that is why I'm reaching out for it. There is this guy I grew up with; we were always very close and I always felt like he was the best part of my life growing up. We were like best friends ... (858 words)

I know she loves me but it was her call to end it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys my ex broke up with me after 4 years of living and travelling together about 6 weeks ago, it was reasonably amicable, everything split and done fairly no arguments, no emotional outbursts, she moved out I got rid of the house etc.. it was a nightmare 4 weeks for me but ... (615 words)

Abdomen aches and we only dry humped!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey.... i was with my bf yesterday and he was on top of me .... he was just pushing his hard penis on my vagina... he did it alot... but he with his boxers and me with my underwear... so we did not take off all our clothes... and as far as i know if our clothes were on then ... (108 words)

Going limp during sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - embarrassing question....a few times ive gone soft while having sex, Is there a reason for this, or is there anyway to prevent it from happening, tip tactics anything?... (28 words)

He wants to wait, but now I want it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18yr old virgin gal and my bf 21 not a virgin. So my bf and i have been dating for 2 years and we never had sex but attemptd but i ws 2 scared... He then decided we wait 4 marriage but now i want 2 do it badly. What should i do? Please help! ... (58 words)

5 o'clock shadow!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do I shave everyday, when I was a teenager I could shave and hair wouldn't grow back till 3 days later but now I shave everyday, it seems like every mid-day, hair starts growing back in?... (37 words)

Did I read him right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi i met a guy 3 yrs ago and we did date for a few weeks,but never slept togeather.we did have a fall out when i got drunk one night,but then got to being friends again.Its allways been friends.BUT ive wanted to form a relationship with him..BUT been reluctant to bring it up as ... (368 words)

It's difficult for me to shove my pelvic area in his face!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 November 2010 (F) age 30-35 - So, embarassing sex question...my boyfriend is somewhat into femdom and his favorite practice of that is facesitting. The problem is that I'm not really comfortable with my body so it's difficult for me to just shove my pelvic area into his face! How can I get over this or help ... (62 words)

Help getting over my first love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, so I'm 15. I've decided to break up with my boyfriend. We've been going out for 11 months, and we both care about each other alot, but things have changed, and we don't make each other as happy as we used to. I'm in high school, and high school is about having fun. I also ... (172 words)

Aren't I supposed to feel something?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So this is a strange question I know, but about a month ago I lost my virginity (we used protection, no worries) and it didn't hurt at all. Whenever I hear stories I always hear about it hurting the first time. And I know sometimes it doesn't hurt for people, but I didn't feel ... (89 words)

I can't bring myself to love him!

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this guy that's incredibly sweet to me, treats me like no one has ever treated me, and there's no question that he loves me and all my flaws unconditionally. The problem is I can't seem to actually love him back. We have so much in common, and I don't have any reason ... (164 words)

She has to tell me her every move!

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13 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend texts me continuously throughout the entire day, I wouldn't mind it as much but the stuff she says is completely pointless and is a play by play of her day. Things like I'm leaving for New York, I'm in New York, oh wait no we're not. I have told her to take it ... (105 words)

Am I bisexual, or is this a friendly crush?

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13 November 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Well there is this girl in my class, gretta( fake name). She's a tomboy and very much into basketball. She doesn't dress up, she wears gym clothes 24/7. So you get picture. Well before I met this girl, I was kind of iffy about her because I didn't know If she was gay/ straight. ... (157 words)

I think he's trying to keep me in his back pocket.

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate being in the state of limbo with someone you really like! I've never been in a relationship before and the guy I guess I'm dating has only been in one relationship. So together we have little to no experience with relationships. We both have established we like each ... (200 words)

We're going hiking on our second date!

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Went on a first date with a guy awhile ago (a few weeks ago), now we're going to go hiking in a couple of weeks. It'll be slippery and snowy! I tend to be a little cautious but he really wanted to hike this mountain. On one hand, he can't really be replused by me i... (179 words)

He and I come from 2 different worlds.

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi My boyfriend just left me last night and Im writing my final Law exam today. We dated for 1 year and it was an emotional traumatic experience. He and I come from two different worlds,Im studying and trying to make a career for myself and he is happy with being a driver for ... (608 words)

At least he likes me as a sister.

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - you see. there is this guy whom i've been friends with for 5 years already. I'm almost 15 and he just turned 13 so he is younger than me. Last year i started to like him a lot and i was confused about that heartbreaking feeling you get when you think you don't have a chance due ... (361 words)

Ladies, would you give me a shot?

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13 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok. I Have a question out there for all the Ladies. I am 26 and still have not had sex. Yes I am still a virgin. Is this normal. Do you ladies still find this attractive? I feel weird when all my friends talk about sex. They expect me to have had sex, and I haven't. Help me ... (115 words)

Her blue book tells quite a story.

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13 November 2010 (M)

- my GF of 18months and the mother of my 10 month son is making me belive im parinoid, i think basicly she has been intouch with an old friend and has now admitted that he fancys her, last week she was going to a party and said that this lad was NOT going to be there, how ever ... (302 words)

Getting my feet wet in the sea of dating!

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm gona be 17 soon and have never had a boyfriend. I'm not beautiful but I'm not ugly eitherl. People tell me I'm pretty but I still can't seem to attract a guy. I used to just want to stay away from dating because I saw how bad it was for friends, but now I want to try it ... (64 words)

I think about my girlfriend's sister while I masturbate!

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13 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my gf for 3 years. We have a good healthy relationship, we have a house together and are planning a family. I find myself physically attracted to her sister (they're sisters) and I do believe I have received vibes from her and I frequently find myself thinking ... (93 words)

For the guys, on a scale of 1-10 rate how would you rate your girlfriends/wives and why?

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked my boyfriend on a scale of 1-10 what am I? He replied with Im an 8. Is that bad? I mean shouldnt he really think Im atleast a 9. Hes one of those guys who believes no-one is perfect so I understand not being a 10 but 8 really. I wonder if he thinks any girls out the... (120 words)

My first kiss went a little something like this..

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 18 years old and a Freshmen in College. I am pretty but really picky when it comes to guys. Like I get asked out all the time but I get scared that he only likes me for my looks so I get nervous and make up an excuse. Now, a couple months ago I had my first kiss with the ... (191 words)

What do guys want to hear?

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - any ideas of something sweet to say to a sweet boy ? help ! what do guys like to hear ? lol , who as cute little things to tell him ? anyone ? ha . please and thanks - ahead (: -Rebecca .3... (46 words)

When I graduate he's fair game, right?

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am a new comer to the U.S and I couldn't speak well-English when I just got there and I am a student in a HIGH SCHOOL . I've met lot of students , teachers and people who helped me a lot to improve my English skills and they're all proud of me because my grades are good ... (788 words)

My boyfriend constantly shuts down and defeats himself!

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever something upsets him, he completely shuts down. He'll have no motivation and will only speak in a whisper, as if it requires huge amounts of effort (not that I'm doubting it does). He's constantly in this cycle of feeling like a failure, sleeping in through classes, ... (345 words)

They say we won't last, but I have faith in this relationship!

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so me and my beau have been dating for a while(; he makes me sooooooo happy . I always feel hyper after I hugg him or even talk to him . I want to tell him something really sweet . I've thought of a few things , butt they don't apply to us . we are always playing 'games' ... ... (121 words)

Don't know how else to prove my love for him!

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, It's me again and this is the follow-up to my original question " Am I wrong to be in love with my bestfriend". Well as of right now me and him are some what doing good but this week I haven't seen him, he hasn't been in school, he's never on... (278 words)

Am I on his mind?

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I constantly think about my boy all the time . I'm not sure if he EVER thinks about me . he's adorable , funny , sweet , and everything I've ever wanted . Isaw him "hugging" hus best friend (a guy) and I've been worried about it . how can I tell if he's thinking about me ? ... (64 words)

It went from dating to FWBs!

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so this guy I was dating broke up with me a couple weeks ago. I was crushed because I did like him although I never thought of him as a marriage material. Our personalities were clashing and I think he just got fed up, which is why he chose to end it. It's been a couple ... (196 words)

Lost: Sex drive.

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my b/f for the last year and a half now. I love him so much and can tell that we will always be together. We are perfect in every way together. There's one problem though. It's a little embarrassing to say but it's to do with our sex life. He's always turned ... (111 words)

All I do is kiss her neck and she's ready to go!

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13 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - When I kiss my girlfriend's neck she becomes quite aroused. I know it's probably a dumb question because mostly likely it's her nerves responding but, why do women get turned on by that?... (33 words)

Is his size normal for his age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bofriend have been together for 2 years now and about a year ago he told me that his penis was three inches not hard and six incehs hard he is 16 is this normal?... (37 words)

I feel like he's digging into my stomach!

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - During sex is it normal for the guys penis to feel like its digging in ur stomach n make it a little bit uncomfortable?... (24 words)

Will she come to her senses before walking down the aisle?

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13 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have a best friend whom I am very concern about. She is in a possessive relationship. She is 19 and her bf is 22. She has been with him for about 5 years already. She told me she has gone through a lot in this relationship. This is what has happened in her relationship... (276 words)

Does anyone else's boyfriend jump after sex and are ready to engage in the next activity?

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13 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone else get upset when your boyfriend/girlfriend after a mind blowing love making session jumps (without any kind of cuddling or talk) to wanting to do something else. Like having friends come over or going to a bar with friends?... (41 words)