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writes:I recently went out on a first date with a guy I met though a mutual friend. The first date went well. Throughout the date he mentioned future dates which made me think that was he was into me. Otherwise, why bring it up right? But he's sending me mixed signals and I'm not sure what to think or do. On one hand he seems into me, but on the other hand, not so much. I think he's into me because he has no problems with initiating contact, and he asked me out. Yet he doesn't seem really....enthusiastic about it. Not sure if that's the right word or not. But he canceled (second date) on me once which is why I think that.But if he wasn't into me why would he waste his time and mine by talking to me, then asking me out again? I guess my question is, would he reschedule the date because he has nothing better to do? Or am I just being paranoid? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 He can be into you without being wildly enthusiastic yet. After all, he barely knows you. He may like you without being smitten. Do you want to resent him because he did not fall in love at first sight ?
Relax and see what happens. He may have had legitimate reasons to reschedule. Wait to see if he reschedules and when. A one time cancellation is not a big deal- of course, developing a pattern of last minute change of plans is.
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