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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I be worrying about this sex stuff?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well im 20 and a virgin and i wont be afraid to admit im nervous to have sex, mainly just scared that when we are going at it, ill be so nervous that ill hold myself back and not be able to climax :/ its not like im completely inexpereinced, ive had sexual experiences. jus... (79 words)

Have I been a good friend in all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - This is a very complicated problem, im not sure where to start. My best friend for 10 years is in love with my ex. It isn't a crush, he loves her like he has never loved anything else. I was genuinley happy that he did, because she deserves that after some bad relationships ... (207 words)

Why you so obsessed with me..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Help! I'm a guy who's gay, going to college. I'm obsessed with one of my classmates. It's gotten so bad that I've added him on facebook and constantly keep trying to chat with him on it. I'm not sure if he's gay as well but he's been giving me good signals. The other day he ... (168 words)

Going to meet my online guy, stay at his house and am worried about how his mother is going to react to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy online 2 year ago. To begin with he was just a cool friend then i got to know him and fell for him and same goes for him. I have loved this guy for an incredibly long time now and I know I do love him as Ive never felt this way before and its something I ... (320 words)

My girlfriend wants me to hurt her during sex, is this normal?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined ive been in a relationship for a year and 4 months now and my girlfriend has changed in terms of our sex life. she keeps asking me for 'punishment sex' and when we are having sex she tells me to hurt her and make her bleed by scratching her back and... (125 words)

Should I talk to him about why he'd pulling away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been going out with this guy for almost four months now. He's amazing and I love being with/around/hanging out with him. He's a really great guy . . . and I think I like him more then I intended to. But latly I can't tell if he even really wants to be with me any ... (175 words)

He says this isn't going to work but yet he makes googily eyes at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Sorry if i ramble this one out. Basically i am one in a long line of teenagers with boy troubles. I actually can not believe the amount of headspace they take up! Ok so there is this guy and i was really into him at the start of college, we get talking and he tells me he has ... (238 words)

This problem is making me too scared and embarrassed to have sex. Is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP! I am so embarrassed... Sometimes when my boyfriend and I make love, (its usually whilst in doggy-style position) He kinda packs me full of air. I can feel it when it happens, and tell him to stop. Then after, It has to come out somehow, so it escapes out of the vagina a... (219 words)

She said yes but I'm not sure she meant it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well I got a yes last week to a run with this girl who I like a lot, she said the date was to be determined but she did say yes for this week meaning monday through friday because we don't have school on the weekends. Anyway I posted a thing saying if I should just tell her ... (688 words)

My best friend could make me so happy! But she doesn't want to date me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Basically I have feelings for my best friends (She's a girl and I'm a guy). We have so much in common, we are basically the same person and I love spending time with her. She's so pretty and amazing, and this came about for me about a few months ago, I kept it to my... (256 words)

My husband can't ejaculate during sex at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married a year and even when we were dating my husband could not cum inside of me, he can when he masturbates but not when we are having sex, is there any solution to this problem, we've talked about it and he just says he cant and that he tries, I feel so down at ... (88 words)

My boyfriend thinks he's ugly but yet he cheated on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im in so much pain, i dont trust anyone anymore and i dont know who to turn to for help! i was with him for 2years where our longest breakup only lasted 2weeks! he always told me how much he loved me, how he could never do without me, how he could never stand the thought of m... (448 words)

I really think I should start taking birth control.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a question about birth control. Im not having sex yet but I think I will be and one of my biggest concerns is getting pregnant and im scared to talk to my mom about it because i dont know what her reaction would be? but I really think i should strat taking birth ... (64 words)

Why does she keep on bringing up our past relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm going to keep this short and simple, me and my ex are friends for say. We still do things together periodically throughout the weeks and months after our break up. We broke up around a year ago this month, it was hard on the both of us, her decision, she couldn't deal with ... (355 words)

Boyfriend is very romantic but I don't know how to answer him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well my boyfriend is really kute with me, he is always telling me what he feels for me nd always telling me kute things, like i am the most amazing thing that has happend to him and tht kind of stuff. in other words he is really romantic. but i dont know how to answer him or ... (71 words)

My best friend is giving me the cold shoulder!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend is mad at me and hasn't spoken to me for almost a week. I've tried to let him have his space, by not calling or texting for 2 days, is this the right thing to do? I tried to reach out to talk and try to work things out, but he won't answer my calls...... (60 words)

We need a better way of communicating our problems!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to find a better way to argue. My boyfriend and I are doing great but we have a problem when it comes to arguments. I am a very emotional person, he is not in the slightest. Which makes things difficult at times. I feel a lot and sometimes since he doesn't, I feel ... (661 words)

We cut off contact with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

My husband always talks about how hot porn stars are.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband watches porn. we have a great sex life. but when he watches porn he says comments like, o look at that big ass, mm those boobs are huge or her pussy looks good i want to fuck it. he says he loves me and loves my body. why would he say this things? does he not love ... (60 words)

I get so wet during sex that he can't feel me. Is something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My man and i hav been together for 3 yrs now. He took my virginity and he's d only man i'v eva slept with. At 1st yr i didn't reach climax infact i didn't even knw wat it was. As tym went by i reached it. Lately i'v been getting very wet during sex and he's said it dat ... (90 words)

He keeps telling me I need to lose weight and it's really hurting my feelings.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, here's a cliche situation. I am an older, married woman with two kids. I have a demanding job and I take on the bulk of the child care responsibilities. I work out abotu 3 times a week. My husband has repeatedly told me that I need to "take better care of myself" (on nice ... (277 words)

We haven't had sex in over 6 months! Any advice would be appreciated

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years, lived together for the last 4. I am 28 and she will be 26 in a few weeks. Our problem is that she has lost her sex drive and nothing I do gets her in the mood. We used have sex a few times a week and now it's been nearly 6 ... (75 words)

She broke my heart and married another, now 10 years later I don't know if I can be with her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am a 37 year old male with an issue that I really really need help with. I have been looking on your site and it seems as though this question has been asked before, and to my amazement; It seems as though I am not alone. Still, I need to tell someone my story... (917 words)

Things started out complicated and now he won't marry me because of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I have gotten myself into a pickle. I have two close friends who used to be a couple. They broke up about a year ago, though they were always more of friends than a romantic couple. I'm not sure how they even lasted as long as they did. They both would tell me how much the ... (890 words)

Did it take you a long time to conceive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just have a simple question for everyone out there who has kids, or is expecting. I would just like to know, did it ever take any of you a long time, months, years possibly, for you and your partner to conceive? I know some people it could take longer than others, b... (111 words)

My husband said he'd run me over!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This is not the first time we have fought. Yesturday on the way to drop our 6 year old daughter at school my husband told me if I got out of the car he would run my bitch self over. He didn't mean it literally but it hurt that he said it. He was angry because I told him her ... (332 words)

Wife says she's in love with both of us!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am a 33 year old who has been with the same woman for 14 years and been married for 7 of those years. I love this woman with everything I have. We have four children together and are very happy together. My question is, recently after I had a surgery and a ho... (276 words)

Why does he make me wait and feel like an idiot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - I cannot make sense of this situation and i do not know how to handle it. We had a relationship for several months. He live abroad and started to freak out because we became really involved. Too much really. So naturally we stopped to see each other. It was two months a... (252 words)

Can I do anything to get bigger boobs?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hello everyone, im 15 and im a 32 a and im size 6 or sometimes 8. im always being bullied about my boobs and i was just wondering if i can do anything to get bigger boobs? I've heard if i put weight on they will grow but im just confused and desperate to be normal and fit i... (65 words)

Ready to move on and have sex! How do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, just started dating this sweet guy, none of the three guys that wanted to date me, Lets just say hes a total sweetheart, weve been dating for a week been out 3 times, and weve always had fun, The problem is that suddenly im having all these feelings for him, we agreed t... (116 words)

Humiliating rumors at work won't stop!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There are alot of rumors going around work about me and a superior officer and they are humiliating cause he and I are both in committed relationships. The person saying these things twisted words that I told him and made it look like it was my sgt and I and it's not and now ... (94 words)

Girlfriend constantly wants me to chose her over my family!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend continually demands that I choose her over my family, and refuses to compromise about the issue. She comes from a broken family, and has picked fights with my mom, sister, and brother over menial issues. She demands that I take her side 100% of the time, and is ... (130 words)

Am I angry she was taken advantage of or angry that she's been with other men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Right, I dont really know how to put this simply.. Basically my girlfriend of 18 months, has only slept with 2 guys other than myself, and both have been bad experiences, Partially down to naivety/vulnerability, and them also being complete asses. The problem is, sometimes I ... (248 words)

I want to go out with friends on my birthday and now she's threatening to break up with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for 6 years now. Since the beginning she's always been hard to deal with when a disagreement arises, and she always refuses to compromise. It seems to me that she blames every fight on a failure on my part. Most recently, I planned to go out on my ... (284 words)

He made a joke about fancying my daughter and now I don't want him near her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I started a relationship with a 35 year old guy last year who doesnt have much experience with women. He is close to his mum and sister and her children but apart from that has always lived alone, has never been pubbing or clubbing and only has a coupleof friends. He is very ... (335 words)

How should make his birthday special?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For my boyfriend's 18th birthday, do you think it would be a good idea to get a hotel in London for a few days, and book tickets to attractions I think he'd like; he's never been before but has always wanted to. I am already eighteen and we've been together just over 2 years. ... (69 words)

No trust or breathing room in our relationsip!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am not allowed to go have quality time with my close friends after work at there place. I am not allowed to go have a drink with my close friends after work. I am not allowed to go to the room and use my computer when I am at home If I am he won’t leave my site the w... (544 words)

I don't know what to say to the boy I like.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hix okay theres this boy and me and him sit ourselves at this bg table in computing and its been over a year ive been crushing on him but i cant find any words to say to him i find it hard to make conversation plus hes leaving school soon becausewhn your turn 16 you can leave... (200 words)

My ex won't leave me alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate my ex, he's so selfish. Ever since we broke up in May, things have been his way. When he wanted to talk, we talked, when he didn't want to talk, we didn't talk. When we broke up I met another guy, who was interested in me and told me he liked me. For a while I entert... (514 words)

Fiancé wishes my penis was bigger, do you think I'm big enough?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help. Me and my fiancé been together for over a year and I have to admit...we are both sexually active. She says she loves my penis size but constantly reminds me that she wish I was bigger. My penis is 6" long with 3.5" girth but she says everything will be better if I ... (75 words)

Are these signs of cheating?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I am suspecting that my bf is cheating on me. There are many reasons why I feel this way. - I came home to him today showering, which he would never do this late in the day - he wanted to change the sheets because he claimed that they were dirty even though... (125 words)

Does he like me or is he some kind of human contact freak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - there's this boy i really like and sit next each other in math and he always sits so his arm arm is touching mine and if i move mine he'll strech out to be touching again but its not like he's like taking the whole table over. we dont really talk only a bit about the class. ... (82 words)

Am I a freak for not having my first kiss yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im just about to turn 15 and i've never had a boyfriend or been kissed. ive never even had a friend who was a boy. i feel like a freak, is it normal not to have your first kiss at my age?... (42 words)

Why would a 70 year old married man from the US come to visit my 37 year old friend in the Philipines? Will he just use her for sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to ask for some point of views. Do older married man like 65 yrs. old and above seek an affair because his wife cannot give him the sexual desires he needs? I have a friend who falls madly in love with an old married guy almost twice her age. He is 70 and she ... (216 words)

Is this cute and quirky or just plain weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So this a kind of a weird questions and its a bit embarassing, but i'd just like some guys opionions. I have a little mole on the side of my vagina - like on the skin next to it. Will guys find this quirky and cute or is it just plain weird and disgusting? xxx... (57 words)

Is he serious in wanting me back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I broke up but after 3days he called me up and wants to see me so we can talk things out--and save the relationship.. he even suggested that we both should write what we dont like about each other so we can discuss things and make this work. He still calls me ... (260 words)

All 4 of my ex's want me back! Who do I choose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay i have been single for a while, i had been together with 4 girls in life.All pretty and nice girls. One or more circumstances made them leave me. Now they are all single and want me again. I dont know what to do. I mean i am not seeing anyone right now and would love to be ... (233 words)

I've just started a new relationship and found out I have herpes! How do I tell her she needs to get tested?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently found out I had herpes. God knows how long I've had it. I've started in a commited relationship and we've had unprotected sex. How can I tell her to get tested? I feel horrible.... (39 words)

Is it wrong to end a good relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This may sound a little crazy but im thinking about ending a relationship, when there is nothing wrong with him. We have been together for 3yrs, and they have been great years together. we started as friends which evolved into a really fun relationship. We see alot of each ... (370 words)

Too tight and dry to have sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married but my vagina is too tight and dry that my spouse can't enter me. please help me... (20 words)

What should I do to build my confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - When I was young (16 and upwards) people started teasing me for being 'thick', family members as well. They would roll their eyes and look at each other if I said anything or didnt understand something maybe. I even got a reputation for being 'thick'. It was really nasty. ... (118 words)

Do relationships work if you're not fully compatible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - he says we aren't compatible. we've been dating for over a year now, and he moved away a few months ago, so currently in a long distance relationship. When we first started dating, we had a lot to talk about, mostly because we were getting to know each other, but there were ... (562 words)

I feel like I'm wreaking everyone's lives!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i left my wife 2 yrs ago after a long marriage that went wrong and met up with a girl i had gone out with 18 yrs earlier , she is a lovely girl but took alot of flac from my mood swings after me trying to get over the marriage. She then caught me having an affair whilst she ... (196 words)

His ex still runs a business in his house, what the heck?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing this incredibly cute, sweet and well mannered guy for the past month. We see each other about twice a wk and he's wonderful about scheduling dates a wk ahead of time - I just love that!! He's what I want in soooo many ways BUT here's the deal-eoo... (214 words)

How can I start enjoying my youth again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Since been 14 (I'm now 16) I can't wait to be an adult/grown up etc. I've never been in a realtionship or anything, and that honestly doesn't bother me (plenty of time for all that lol). I'm doing my A levels now but I just want to be through with been a "child". I'm fed u... (164 words)

I want to get back together but he lies constantly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age - I have a son to him, he is 23. Long ago i put him out and re married but so did he. He is a trucker and i talked to him all the time. For almost two years i have been trying to get back with him but he lies all the time, tells me he kinda is going to move down here with me or ... (87 words)

If he can spend a lot of days having fun then why should I have to text him constantly on my only day off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I of 3 months are going through a rough patch. He lives 30 minutes away from me and its hard getting together. He just got his license a month ago and he promised that he would see me more but it’s been hard because I started a new job and work a lot of ... (292 words)

Can the depo shot stop your period right from the first time you take it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, just got my depo shot on the firtst (first time ever). And I still made the mistake of having sex before my week was up (3 days before). My period was supposed to come around this week and hasn't shown. Needless to say, I miss Aunt Flo and am rather worried. I've been ... (95 words)

We had a great date and now she is 'busy' and not replying to my texts, what is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - please help me here because i dont know what to do..there is this girl i've met through a friend last 4 weeks. we are both in college leves and in different schools. im half chinese/fil and she is pure korean. at the first moment that we met each other. we already texted ... (252 words)

He always used to text me and wanted to spend time with me, now suddenly it has stopped!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - if hubby always texts and want to spend time with you then stops doing that..what would you think? he tells me he dont care what i do cause if im gonna do it then i will.... (36 words)

I cheated, confessed, my wife forgave me but I feel horrible!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So this is my situation: recently I cheated on my wife...mostly emottional but it did almost go to the point fo having sex. I almost began the "act" with my lover but deep down I felt horrible and stopped. I just walked away and never looked back. Yesterday I told my wife ... (260 words)

He chose his girlfriend over me, should I have tried harder to make him want me or did I do the right thing by walking away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So this is on my mind and has happened a while ago I just wanna make sure I'm doing the right thing. I met a really great guy he is everything I ever want in one. There are some problems around this and that is we are both in relationships, mine is at the point of broke we have ... (347 words)

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't appreciate me! What can I say to him that I havent said already?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like i'm unappreciated. i always organise days out with my boyfriend and i always sort out tickets and transport and times. he just says yes! but he when it comes down to paying, all he does again is say yes.. he never actually pays up. for example, we went... (228 words)

At what time in a relationship do guys expect these things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - in the beginning of a relationship, i know people say go at a pace your comfortable but im just wanting to know the average amount of time before/ maximum amount of time guys expect 1. girls take their tops off while making out 2. hand jobs 3. blow jobs 4. sex ... (57 words)

Can he take me to court or stop me from leaving the country? Or is he just pissed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay my ex and are not talking and yesterday i sent him a text saying 'i know that car was your gf's she told me (bluff). how could you leave me in a hosiptal all alone crying my eyes out and thinking my baby was going to die, while you were partying with her and didnt answer ... (166 words)

I feel selfish for wanting to move away when my mother is ill, but I want a future of my own!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am the full time carer for my Mother. I have brother's but they refuse to do anything for her. I am in love with a man in another country and I really want to be with him, he feels the same way as me, but circumstances won't allow him to immigrate to my country. We have been ... (123 words)

Why don't my parents want me to grow up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and still living at home. I envy my cousins who are in their twenties and have children with their partners out of wedlock. My parents are really conservative and I'm not. They think that you have to be married just to leave home! I completely disagree with them. I find ... (139 words)

Is he having some ED problems? Or am I not attractive enough to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi my boyfiend makes sure i enjoy sex and that i orgasm every time we have sex. as a matter of fact i had a relationship with a guy before and i never had an orgasm with him, i couldnt relax and i couldnt completely give in. but i loved the guy and i loved that he loved me... (283 words)

I feel I'm giving more to this relationship than him... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. my story in short is: i love that guy and he loves me back, we are in a relationship and everything is just normal but sometimes i feel that am giving in more than he is. for ex: i call/ text him more than he does. Although he always say that he misses me and he loves ... (239 words)

Should I go to the party or stay away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm thinking of going to my friend's party but im not sure if it would be wise of me to go. The thing is, she invited this other girl who I hooked up with a few months ago, and the problem is, after I hooked up with her and text her and stuff, I completely ignored her because ... (322 words)

Caught by her dad in a compromising position, what do I do now?

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just had sex with my girlfriend...she consented to it of course but... we're both 16 and we did it in her dad's office. we did it when everybody was out and her dad came back earlier than expected...she got caught with me in an awkward position and she told me to run...now ... (59 words)

I love him but is he losing interest in me?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband have been together for for over a year and married 7 months, and he has always been so affectionate but lately he has been distant. we are going through a lot in life right now but when he works with a certain girl he doesnt text or call me like he always ... (172 words)

I get upset by things I make up in my own head! How do I stop doing this so I don't lose him?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even know where to began... This WILL seem like all over the place but I'll try my best to make sense of it. It's SO long too but it's SO SO SO important to me and will affect my life deeply!! I am lost in my own little world in my head, always imagining everyt... (1289 words)

Where is this heading?

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so there is this girl that i like and has helped me move on from my last ex, we had a thing before my ex and i dated and now after a few weeks of breaking up with my ex i wanna try things again with this girl. Except that i dont know what she wants out of me and her...shes ... (455 words)

Do I have enough here to say that she likes me back or am I just getting my hopes up?

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl I know, let's call her Miranda. She's the roommate of two friends of mine, and we sometimes go over just to hang out with them. I've known this girl about a month or so. Two weeks ago myself, three other girls and her had a night in to celebrate Divali... (213 words)

I broke up with him but changed my mind and now I want him back, but now he said he needs time to think.....

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with this guy for a year and three months. We met where I had my first job, we were from the same batch of new hires. He instantly caught my eye. He was too cute, in many ways he was never aware of and he was mysterious. He was quite the quiet type. The first time we went ... (887 words)

I'm so obsessed with his ex girlfriend I have made friends with her!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Let's see where this gets me, if anywhere... I've written here in the past quite a few times, always inquiring about the same thing, only now the situation has changed drastically, but my feelings still haunt me. My fiance is 23, and I am 21. We I have been dating for a yea... (1327 words)

Happiness Vs Security.....

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are still together and we almost 2years together. Love him because I can feel that he loves me so much i feel so secure that he will be faithful to me. But when the time passes by I find myself falling with my friend whom I known for almost 10 years.He was ... (203 words)

She's acting moody and not communicating! What's going on here?

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18 November 2010 (M)

Office gossip about my boss and me! What should I do?

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18 November 2010 (?) age 51-59 - i am having problems with this women at work she has started spreading lies about my boss and i that my boss and i are having sexual relations via texts which isn't true and that i'm wanting to sleep with my boss its gone around the workplace, and i have told my boss and he's ... (72 words)

When making out...how long does a girl wait before removing her bra?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how long do girls usually wait to take their tops/bras off while making out? i dont want to give him the impression that i want to go faster witht he physical stuff, quite the opposite- weve only known each other for almost 2 months.. and i regret allowing this because i f... (68 words)

Do I marry the guy my parents chose for me...or stay with my boyfriend?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a 27 year old from a very conservative family and am in love with a boy outside my community/religion. I have been seeing him for 2 1/2 years and am in love with him. He is kind, sensitive and we get along great.My parents have found a boy for me-yes, an arranged marriage... (250 words)

Should I leave my cheating husband or stay for the sake of the kids?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I often caught my husband cheating. We are married for 8 years and has 2 children. 5 and 2 respectively. In 8 years of our marriage, he always cheats. But I always forgive him as I don't want to have a broken family. I am trying to save our marriage. Never a year passed that he ... (252 words)

How do I tell this guy..that I don't love him! Advice?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am madly in love with a man I'll call Mor. He doesn't know I do but he told me he loved me. We have an amazing bond, a complicated relationship. Now my friend Jay is madly in love with me and I hate myself for being too cowardly to tell him I don't see him that ... (211 words)

I've never had a proper father figure, in my life and it saddens me..what can I do?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I grew up in on pretty much a single-parent household, my mum's been on benefits all her life. My dad has spent the majority of his life in jail, and he's been extremely violent and emotionally abusive to both me and my mum, but my mum has always invited him to stay with us, ... (517 words)

I'm a virgin male..will this help me find a better class of a gf, in the future?

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend has told me that not dating and being virgin through highschool will help me meet a better class of women. Do you think not going through the highschool drama will help me in the future?... (37 words)

How do I stop this retroactive jealousy? Help!

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I went out with my current girlfriend for about a year, then broke up with her for about three years, then got back together about 9 months ago. I love her, and she says she loves me and wants to get married to me. But, I've been struggling with retroactive jealousy concerning ... (546 words)

I lied to him! How can I get over this?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 17 year old girl in Califronia.Last summer i went to an indain chatroom. I would chat for fun when i was bored, it was a way to get the stress out from school. I ended up talking to a guy, sent him fake pics like always (not that im ugly, but i prefer using other pics cuz ... (472 words)

My best friend's girl!

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having some serious relationship issues right now. I've had crushes my entire life and I know that they've all been just crushes and nothing more, but this one person I met... I've never felt this way about anyone else. I seriously think I might be in love for the first ... (278 words)

He's lost interest in our casual deal!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so i've been seeing this guy for 2 months now and even though it's a very casual deal between us he was very intense about me at the beggining. I kind of did some damage and he didn't want anything to do with me after.. however he forgave me and started seeing me again. ... (134 words)

She's the one who cheated, now she has the audacity to ignore me?

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18 November 2010 (M)

age - Hi, My girlfriend and I have split up. We were very close. When I was away in France recently she had an affair with an old friend. When she told me, she was so sorry, and I thought we might have had a chance, but a few days later, she rang me and told me that she had dec... (205 words)

I feel like he doesn't want me anymore, but he doesn't admit it!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend that i have been seein off and on for about 3 years now.. He is from my past too.. I messed with him 8 years ago too. We had a bad year, because a ex girlfriend came back in his life a year ago. He tells me she is just a friend, n his lil girl is friends with ... (168 words)

He's a closed book.

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there. I'm I'm a LRD. I love it a lot. But lately he's been a closed book. well actually, he has always been. I've never really noticed it much till now, and i'm not sure how to deal with it. I'm always throwing myself at him, and he is just so closed about everything. I ... (78 words)

My baby daddy's family drama!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "Cord" is the biological father of my son and "Michael" is the man who has been helping me raise my son since he was 5 months old. Cord died in June of 2009, he was drunk (on Father's Day) and fell off of a roof and broke his neck in three places. I thought that I was in lo... (494 words)

We shared Facebook passwords, but he just changed his!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and our relationship is very good. A long time ago we shared each others facebook passwords but neither of us goes on the others account (well he says he doesn't). The other week a friend of mine was over at my place and asked ... (186 words)

Seeking a partner?

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a gay 14 year old with no relationship experience what so ever (except a silly bf gf thing in elementary school) I recently moved and I know not one person around. I'm also homeschooled which makes matters worse. Ive tried to be patient but its hard :/ But everyone back whe... (91 words)

We traded in a LDR for FWBs when we come home on breaks!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i began seeing this guy over the summer and he decided we shouldnt so long distance after about 2-3 months of dating and i agreed. However i know we are no longer gf and bf he asked to be friends with benefits when i come home on my breaks and such. When we talk he always ... (120 words)

Is my ex playing games???

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, is my ex playing games? We broke up, 2 weeks later she's staying and sleeping in another girl's bed. She has been staying at a girl's place for 4 days now, she's told me they've done nothing. She's been sleeping in the same bed as her "friend", she said she's not really ... (86 words)

I gotta feeling..He wants a threesome!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i just talked to my boyfriend and he says he is perfectly happy with me and our relationship. But i kinda get the feeling that he wants to bring another girl into our relationship because he keeps talking about it. such as asking me questions like "would you ever go bi" or ... (116 words)

I don't want to be waiting on someone who doesn't love me

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im dating this guy for almost 2 yrs. he had a gf be that left him without breaking up. he said he is not ready for a relationship right now bc he' has been hurt be4. should i keep hang on to this guy? or should i move on? he just want to date and doesn't want to take the next ... (165 words)

Crabby girlfriend or this new girl?

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so for the past 3 months my gf has been a total bitch to me every time i go to kiss her or hug her she shouts at me and storms off. when i ask her she just does the same thing. now theres this other girl who aparently is nuts about me ,but i love my girlfriends so m... (83 words)

The most he says to me now is "What page are we on?", what gives?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - The guy that sits next to me in one of my classes, we'll call him 'Joe', used to talk to me alot. But now he doesnt? I mean... We flirted and stuff, but now... He doesn't even talk to me at all anymore. and if he does, its only to ask things like "What page are we on?" It's ... (75 words)

How do I ignite the fire again?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly have no idea what to do. My boyfriend of 8 years (on and off) says he doesn’t feel the spark when we kiss anymore. We are both 21, and when we were 12 we met. He doesn’t feel like he could see us in the future and the pain is killing me inside. He told me this the ... (307 words)

How can I end this relationship once and for all?

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people, I know my story is kinda weird but i really really need help. so i am not origenally from the US but i live here. Anyways, i had a girl friend back home for almost 2 years, she is from a very very (traditional) family. In a day she called me and told me that her ... (284 words)

Hand job pointers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, iv just got a boyfriend who is really experienced and wants me to give him a hand job. Iv never given one before and was wondering if anyone has any tips please?!... (33 words)

Pull and pray!

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - He said he pulled out befor anything happened.. is that effective? what does that even mean? ... (16 words)

Is she starting to like me??

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well..I think I may just be paranoid, and with no one to ask I thought I'd just post it on here. My best friend of three years now has been acting differently around me these past few days. Two nights ago in mid conversation I got a text that said, "I love you. You're one ... (182 words)

Why did he not believe me when I told him I'd never had sex before???

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I am 29 years old and have not technically ever had sex. When I was 14 i was sexually molested and had my virginity taken away from me. I used to finger myself to get off but more so enjoy using a vibrator on my clitoris now. Whenever I am making out or thinking about s... (169 words)

Trying to cope with retroactive jealousy!

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I suffer from Retrospective Jealousy, I'd love to hear from anyone that has a similar condition that has "come to terms with it??" Rather than tell a story here are some points that hit the mark for me My partner and I lack of balance or comparable experiences. - Is th... (654 words)

I have one flirty boyfriend!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend tends to flirt with other girls and this really bothers me. I've talked to him about it and he still flirts.And it is always the same girl he flirts with. I'm almost convinced he's cheating...he's cheated on me before. What should I do? ... (45 words)

Just friendly or genuinely interested...how can I know?

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18 November 2010 (F)

- Can a man still be classed as 'just being friendly/really nice' if he is asking a woman lots of things about her interests and remembering most of what she says. Also, the man in question makes time/goes out of his way to take me home from work whenever he can (even if its... (146 words)

What do you do about horrible housemates?

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18 November 2010 (F) age 30-35 - two of my housemates dont like me i know this because they have spoke about me behind my back to my 3rd housemate. being a good friend she told me they had said that i dont think for myself my mum helps me with all my work and its easier for me i confronted them and they tol... (363 words)

He never lets me leave this relationship!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend have been dating a little over a year.. we have had our problems where i want to break up its happened like three times were i get fed up and just want to leave him but he never lets me like he is like "you will never leave this relationship" or "i will ... (87 words)

Should I go on a date with her and her mom!

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Background- It has been almost 8 months since my last relationship and I am at the point where I am ready to be with someone again. I go to a smaller school and I met someone in my class that is really cute, funny, good looking, and has a great personality. I have been... (496 words)

Can it lead to miscarriage?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if you over excersice or if you take a laxative pill can your about 8 weeks pregnant. can you have a miscarridge or lose the baby????... (26 words)

He knows just what to say to get me to stay!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why do i allow this to happen?Me and my boyfriend were home cuddling on the couch watching tv all of a sudden he leaves and picks his uncle up. He brings him back to the house they drink beer and vodka. Then after a while his uncle whispers something in his ear and they decided ... (246 words)

Need critique on my love letter!

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18 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been talking with a good friend of mine for a few weeks. We met about 3-4 years ago in college, where we hung out amongst a few friends for a couple of years. It was about half way through that I developed a crush on her, but she had a boyfriend so I didn't do anyt... (492 words)

He flirts with me, but has this girl he's kinda involved with!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't tell if he's interested in me or not.... I met this guy over the weekend through a mutual friend. Our friend asked me if I thought he was cute because apparently I was flirting with him, and he was flirting with me, but I'm really oblivious to that kind of thing wh... (292 words)

We're back together and he's dating other women too!

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is dating other women. We've been together (on and off) for 6 years now. He told me that he's involved with others a few months after our relationship started and I always thought that when we'll get to know each other he'll stop. He says that he loves me and that ... (113 words)

How do I end my marriage without the emotional blackmail?

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18 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for nearly 2 years and have just busted my hubby for cheating. My husband is awaiting a transplant (kidney) and has numerous other medical conditions so we have had a pretty tough time including dealing with infertillity and his depression. I work very ... (150 words)