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Penis isn't as erect as before, is too much masturbation the problem?

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Question - (21 November 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2010)
A male India age 30-35, *ntruder91 writes:

hi people ... let me introduce me first ... im 20 and im masturbating from 14 i suppose ...... and in recent days i started masturbating too much ..... and only now i noticed that my penis erection is not as strong as it was before ...... if i stop masturbation for some period of time will i get back to normal ??? or wats the solution to get erect and strong penis again .... pls help ( considering me a virgin ) .....

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A male reader, Nithyanala Indonesia +, writes (24 November 2010):

Nithyanala agony auntAs said by Jmtmj, that's pre-cum and it's perfectly normal - nothing to worry about. I don't know what you've learned, and from where, but sperm is not exactly a 'limited resource'. So if a little 'leaks' as you call it, that doesn't mean you're actually 'losing' anything.

Relax!

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A male reader, intruder91 India +, writes (24 November 2010):

intruder91 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for the reps .... but im worried about the sperm leaking ... when i get aroused and after it gets down , i see some sperm coming out without actually masturbating ...

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (24 November 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntSpend less time thinking about your penis, more time studying or working or whatever it is you do and masturbate only when you are actually aroused. Should do wonders.

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A male reader, Nithyanala Indonesia +, writes (24 November 2010):

Nithyanala agony auntI think obsessing less over your penis might actually be better for it in the long run.

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A male reader, intruder91 India +, writes (24 November 2010):

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thanks dude ....

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (23 November 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntSounds like pre-cum, perfectly normal.

If you're really worried then just see a doctor dude.

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A male reader, intruder91 India +, writes (23 November 2010):

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its me again ....but when my penis gets erect and after it gets down to normal state , i see a little bit of sperm coming or leaking without masturbating ..... if i continue to hold masturbation will it get stopped ??? or what is the remedy ????

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (23 November 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntIf there's improvement then keep doing what you're doing... no reason to suggest you won't keep improving.

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A male reader, intruder91 India +, writes (23 November 2010):

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hmmm .... its me the one who posted the question .....

i would like to add that .... i dint masturbate for 4 days ... now my penis is stong and erect ( not like the one i mentioned in my question ) ... but it is not staying erect for much time .... i can feel some improvement ..... will it become normal if i dont masturbate for quite a period of time ??? ..

i actually masturbated too much for nearly 1 and a half months i suppose ...

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A male reader, Nithyanala Indonesia +, writes (22 November 2010):

Nithyanala agony auntHOw much is 'too much'? I guess every person has a different sexual capacity and you may be exceeding yours.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010):

Sounds like that's your problem but there is only one way to know for sure......stop masturbating and all sexual stimulation for a week (if you can't, that's a whole other problem) and see if this corrects the situation.

Without the internet and easy access of porn, excessive masturbation was never such a problem as it is now so these kinds of questions have not been asked from a previous generation.

Report back to us in a week and let us know if this was indeed the issue, I'm interested in knowing.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (21 November 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntIf you've been masturbating to a lot of porn then perhaps you've "seen too much" and its harder to get aroused...?

If so then quit the porn, quit masturbating for a few weeks/months and see if there's a difference. If you're really worried then just see a doctor, but I doubt that's necessary given that you're so young.

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