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writes:So I have liked this guy and I have known him since I was in 2nd grade. His parents are close to my entire family so we see each other on weekends.Every since I can remember I have always liked him on and off for 7 years. He is a very sweet and a nice guy, he is perfect for me. Him and I dated for 3 months until I broke it off because we were constantly busy and we didn't want to tell our parents about us dating because it would be awkward. In addition I barely talk or text him since a half a year ago ( after our breakup), so him and I have grown distant. Also, we go to different high schools. I wouldn't mind texting him, but I don't want to sound annoying or be annoying to him. Ever since then I still continue to like him more and more. The point I am trying to make is do I tell him that I still like him a lot or do I just keep my love for him a secret? Also, do I love him? Because I never stop thinking of him and I always go back to the moments I had with him. Btw we are both 15 years old and have matured a lot.If I do tell him I really like him/love him, when do I tell him and how do I tell him? And if he doesnt like me back, what do I say back to him?
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (22 November 2010):
 A poem might be overkill. Just text him and see if he responds...if he does, it starts a conversation which may lead to things. If not, it's best to think about moving on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): "Hey ____...This may be a bit awkward, but i just figured i'd tell you that i still like/have feelings for you, and i really want to try a relationship again...Will you go out with me?" -Bad response- "No" "...Well, atleast i tried, just know that ill (probably) never drop my feelings for you." -Good response- "Yes, ofcourse!" "Great! Lets not be so held back about it this time, lets just be ourselves around eachother, and if it doesnt work out, 'then we'll go back to being distant' (say it jokingly)" Hope this helps :) ~*_Jesse Reed, 14, The Fit Musical Nerd_*~
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 It has already been 6 months. If you suddenly text him again he would wonder what makes it different this time that it would work. I don't think you love him. You kept your dreams alive even though you didn't know what to do with him. This brief relationship didn't run its course, had nowhere to go, and was cut short because of fear of the unknown. You can try telling him you are still thinking about him. You don't have to think of anything overly romantic and dramatic as long as you deliver the message clearly that you still want to be with him, and that this time you would not let anything come between you. There are only two possibilities: he's still interested or he moved on and wants to date other girls. You would never know by not talking to him. If he says he doesn't like you back, then say at least you tried. You still cherish the moments you had with each other.
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