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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I stay for the sake of the children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years and we have 2 beautiful children together. We are supposed to be living together but he's never here. He doesn't have a job but he goes out in the morning (sometimes leaving at half 9) and returnes late at night (the latest ... (403 words)

Tired of the games in this LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - how can i fix my relationship? i am in a LDR with a guy and he flirts a lot. i am tired of it and i am tempted to cheat to get rid of him. we love each other but i am tired of games. please help me do what is best for me... (54 words)

My mother said she didn't approve of my friends but hasn't explained why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a lot of different groups of friends. But, there's one group (my boy and his family) that my mom doesn't really like, because of where they come from and the things shes heard them say (which is really no different from any other obscene stuff you'd hear any teenagers ... (218 words)

Should I message her again now that her account is reactivated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - On an online dating site I messaged a girl a few months ago, she never replied and then de-activated her account. Her account is now active again. Should I message her again or just leave it alone? My gut says leave it alone but I don't know.... (50 words)

How can I get her to trust guys again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I moved back here a couple months ago, and was able to meet my best friend's girlfriend. She was nice, funny, and incredibly cute. Right as she and my best friend were starting to get serious, he broke her heart by dumping her. She cried a lot and I was there to comfort her, ... (95 words)

Has this worked for you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If you love something set it free if it comes back its yours if not it was never meant to be! Is there any truth in this? Will my Scorpian man come back? ... (39 words)

My boyfriend want's to go on a sexual fast!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I ask any question here is my back story: I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a year and a half since he ch... (267 words)

Can someone explain to me why guys would literally have sex with anyone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [MOD NOTE] 2 questions combined. can some guys (girls welcome too of course) explain to me how is it that alot of guys would literately have sex with any one. alot of guys can literately be walked up to, and if us girls wanted to, we could have sex with them. as i am a girl, i ... (240 words)

We love each other but he won't commit!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a boy during the summer of 2009 and there was an immediate attraction that was not something I usually feel with anyone. But he has some sort of obsession with girls.. for instance, he'll go places just to meet them and then see if he can take them home and have sex with ... (463 words)

We split up for 4 hours and he's already emailing girls for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have had alot of breakups. usually he leaves me, and we only stay broke up for a day or so, yea i know..immmature of us. anyways, yesterday we had another fight and i broke up with him for a short 4 hours. i took my stuff with me. i came back because i ... (250 words)

I slept with my dad's best friend!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

26 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - okay so my dads best friend is 8 years younger than my dad so he is 30. any ways he lives with us in our house with me and my dad . my dad is divorced because my mum is a alcoholic. anyways i came back from school on wednesday and i had stayed behind i got home about 5 30 pm an... (285 words)

I had a lovely dream but what does it mean?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Last night I had an amazing dream, I was almost crying when I woke up and realised it was just a dream because it was so realistic but at the same time it was just lovely. Basically me and a guy, and the rest of the class obviously, were outside the food tech building and he ... (318 words)

Was he joking about liking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) age 30-35 - this morning this boy i really like text me say i really like you alot but i didn't txt back straight away because my phone was in my pocket it was about 30 minutes after he sent it when i saw it i was about to text him back saying i really like you too but before i sent it i ... (82 words)

Am I being a bad boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have this question people. Last night me and my "temporary" ex (temporary because she asked for a temporary break up). Now anyways, we were texting and I asked her why she broke up with me. She told me because I lied to her, and the points she listed were, that I did... (621 words)

Should I fight for a LDR or be single at uni?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, Okay, so the situation I'm in. I'm in a relationship with a gorgeous, successful 25 year old man who lives back home in London. He's perfect for me and I can see us making a life for eachother, we have the same goals and ideals. He makes me really, very happy. T... (538 words)

Is he cheating in our LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend and I have been exclusively dating in a long distance relationship for the past four months. We've been close friends for the past 10 years. Since the drive is only two hours, we've been able to see each other most of the time every other weekend. The weekends are ... (231 words)

Is it true that honesty in a relationship is the only way to experience true love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - People lie everyday believing that sometimes lies are necessary to protect someone's feelings. But do lies lead to an emotional disconnection with the person being lied to? Are lies barriers to true intimacy and growth within a relationship; even when the person being lied to ... (85 words)

There's always someone out there who is better looking, more intelligent, etc.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel very inadequate. My boyfriend is attracted to another girl. She's more intelligent than me, more beautiful (her face is better looking than mine), more physically fit, and more socially skilled. I don't know what to do about it. I'm definitely not as "good" as this girl, ... (136 words)

By not talking everyday will we grow apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - boyfriend and i took a break, we broke up finally and its been 5 months i hadnt contacted him all thoguh iw anted to he wanted space bc i went crazy. anyway he hooked upw ith some girl and for 2 months has been contacting me we ifnally met our connection is undeniable, no ... (285 words)

She gave me her number, what's the next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have started a course a couple of weeks ago and there is a girl on it who I really like. I want to ask her out but I'm shy to do that so what I did was I talked to her during the breaks on the course to get to know her and see what we have in common and she seems really nice ... (169 words)

Do I come between him and his girlfriend, or do I keep it to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I got chatting to this boy online a few months back we got really close and we met up a few times. I wanted to go out with him until he said that he had met this girl out downtown, he's now still in a relationship with her. I saw him today and got talking then we've been ... (268 words)

Do I piece my family back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all I just need a second opinion on this burning situation that has been going on for a little over a month now. I have been broken up for a little over a month with my ex-girlfriend. It has been difficult to say the least but, I am pulling through day by day. We both hav... (976 words)

I don't like the idea of anal sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to try anal sex, but i just don't like the idea of it. Is it uncomfortable, or anything? Or should i just not bother trying it :/... (30 words)

Sex problems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have some sex problems... Ever since I started masturbating when I was 16, I've always jacked off very fast and gone until I cum (which is about 1-2 minutes) and then I stop, causing me to go down/limp. This has come back to bite me because I can only have sex with... (234 words)

I can't drive yet and he doesn't have his license, so how do we see each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. We live about 20 minutes apart. We live in the same district, but different towns. Lately, our arguments have mainly been about seeing each other. Unfortunately, i can't drive yet, and he doesn't have his license. He only needs two more ... (156 words)

Our kiss led to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and i ended up kissing a few months ago...It was his b'day and he'd been teasing me for just one kiss so we went ahead and snogged away to glory. May i add that this kiss was totally amazing? The moment his lips touched mine...i felt like i was drinking nectar.... (417 words)

In love with my ex's brother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I know many people posted about this, But I feel like I really need some help. This is a tough situation, and I dont know what to do. I had a 3 years relation ship with my ex, we lived together for 2 years. I know his family, I actually love them. they were always n... (562 words)

My boyfriend refuses to let his ex-wife move out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating a guy who's recently divorced. He still lives with his ex and has no plans for her to move out because he cannot afford the mortgage on his own. I'm not an option at the moment for various reasons and he refuses to sell the house at no profit. They have a super ... (132 words)

When will this stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Was with my ex for five years, don't fancy him and don't think I love him anymore. Although, he is still always on my mind. We've been apart four months. When will I be able to switch off from all this? I know in my heart that I don't feel the same. Not that he was a bad person ... (78 words)

How to ask out your older friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a really good friend and she is 4 years older. We both really like each other although we haven't told each other directly. I'm 90% sure that she likes me and I definitely like her. I just don't know how to tell her or ask her out. Please help me out here! I can't ... (84 words)

We have this secret relationship she won't bring out into the open!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and girlfriend been dating for almost 4 years now. I live on my own, she lives with parents. For first year it was great, we got on so well, you couldn’t keep us apart, we were so happy. Then she left me when I was accused of stealing from work because she worked at same ... (521 words)

I just can't get you out of my head.

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have split up more or less 1 year 1/2 ago, but I still do love him. I have to see him every day because we go to the same school, we have friends in common too...I spend more or less all my time with him. He loves an another girl (my ex bestfriend -.-'), so it's ... (112 words)

The Atlantic Ocean is the only thing keeping us apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to have strong feelings for someone you've only met once? I'm in a tough situation and need your advice. I went to Vegas about a month ago now and on the last night there I met guy. We hit it off right away and was head over heels for each other like with a blink ... (195 words)

At what point do you throw in the towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What would you suggest in this situation: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. We are both deeply unsatisfied with the relationship but have seem to have trouble letting go. According to him, the biggest problems are the lack of sex and our arguments. He sa... (235 words)

Should I have stopped hanging out with my friends to make her happy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So me and my girlfriend just broke up because I keep going to hang out with my friends at least once or twice on the weekends. Should I have just stoped hanging out with my friends to make her happy?... (40 words)

My girlfriend still shares a bed with her ex! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Well I got a problem. My girlfriend and I live miles away from each other. I live alone, and she lives with her 5 bestfriends. 3 of them are guys, one of them is her ex. I'm a really jealous kind of guy, and she knows that. I really dont like it when she keeps on telling me ... (132 words)

He wants another chance but I am scared that history will repeat itself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i had a boyfriend whom i dated for two years and we broke up twice and heard he even has this new girl but now he keeps calling asking for another chance, still have feelings for him but i am scared he will repeat the same mistake, what do i do?... (51 words)

Gift ideas for our first Christmas together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi.. im 15 my boyfriend is 17 and i want to get him something for our 1st christmas together but i have no clue what to get him... what do i get him? ...(background) hes emo but not... if that makes sense... we are hiding from my mom... ... (48 words)

Frustrated! I work full time, he works part time and does nothing while home!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - In need of some help guys and girls! Probably an easy answer for a lot of you, but try and put yourself in my situatin! I am happy with my boyfriend, love him to bits. Only one problem i have.... We are living together in a flat, at the moment we are able to afford the ... (370 words)

He doesn't give me as much attention as I need!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so, me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and almost 2 months.. and im a real romantic i like to have that special attention where it could be a note just saying "i love you" i like to be showed how much you are and lately.. I dont even know i feel like ... (210 words)

Is there anything I can do to help her without causing more trouble for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m posting because I’m concerned about my girlfriend. Its regarding her family and how they treat her. From what she’s telling me, it seems that she doesn’t feel like one of the family because they either put her down, put her in bad moods or argue with her, when all sh... (327 words)

How can I get my eyes to look normal again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello guys , i just want to have different advices and opinions about my situation, my eyes gone really deep in my face , you could see the dark circle around my eyes though , but it also got really deep to the point that i can actually see it when i smile its like having ... (111 words)

Do men look at other women when the relationship isn't at its best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think men will "look" at other girls more when their own relationship is lacking? Also, are you more attracted to other people (and would be tempted to dump the old partner and get a new one) under the same circumstances? (i.e. when your own relationship is ... (52 words)

Is this just the dry tampons or have I got an infection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi (: ill get straight to the point. im 16 and ive had my period since i was 12. i jus finished it for this month fully yesterday. i use tampons the whole time, but the last 2 days the tampon was pretty dry when i took them out and the ends were frayed a lot. like when you ... (189 words)

Husband got girl pregnant twice!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What would u do if your husband had 1 baby while yall was not together and you let him come back home and you find out he got another one on the way by the same girl... (37 words)

Needing advice after a nasty break-up.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, I am a 21 year old male and need some relationship/life advice. Here's the situation, just two weeks ago my girlfriend left me after being with me for 1 year, this has been my longest relationship. I'm torn, I need advice to put myself at ease because I feel l... (712 words)

Met someone else on holiday, and now I don't love my boyfriend as much anymore even though I cut off contact with the other guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. I went on holiday and met this other boy and when i got back of holiday we were texting and he told me he liked me and i liked him too! So i stopped texting him because of my boyfriend and now i dont love him as much as i did ... (90 words)

How do you talk to someone who becomes aggressive and intimidating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How can you talk to someone who doesnt listen to your points and becomes intimidating and aggressive. The problem i have is that my partner of 8 yrs and i have recently split up this was due to a combination of things. He moved out 6 mts ago and went to live with his mum, he ... (206 words)

She makes me feel like I am going crazy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i ahve been in a relationship with a girl for 2 years now. it is my first relationship with a girl. i have sacrificed alot since ive been with her. for the past year she has taken me through a lot. where do i start. we dont live together but most of the time we are together, ... (197 words)

Still deeply in love with the man I met abroad, but still have very strong feelings for my husband....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am happily married but went abroad alone and fell in love with a single man. He started everything and i fell so deeply for him, now he called it off without any valid reason. I feel like a bitch...please help. I am still deeply in love with him and ironically what i feel for ... (61 words)

Does he love me or is it the sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2272 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i have been friends with this guy for 5 years. now he wants to take it to the next level. we have kissed once but we never actually started dating as yet. he met my parents but i have not met his as yet and he is dying for me to meet. i spoke to them once and t... (172 words)

How do I stop this crush I have? I've already got a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I have a crush on my friend and I have a girlfriend, how do I kill my crush on her? =(.... (23 words)

It feels like no matter what I do, I cant make my mom happy! Surely aged 20 I am allowed some freedom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having issues with my mom. When I was younger, I was in a serious long distance relationship which in turn made me a hermit almost all throughout high school. Eventually, I moved to be with him and I was still a hermit due to the fact that I had almost no friends and ... (362 words)

Not sure what to make of this and what to say back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm off to visit two of my friends for the weekend who ive known for a very long time... there both gay and together. My boyfriend of 9 months has never met them so doesnt know them, hes off doing biking anyway this weekend so wouldnt have come down. Anyway he doesnt seem to ... (117 words)

How do I get more out of my girlfriend when she is not keen?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year guy my girlfriend and I have sex on average 12 times a week but its just not enough so I end up masterbating 6 times a day.is this normal and how do I get more out of her when she is not keen?... (47 words)

Should I tell him I miss him even though I was the one to break it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So one of my good friends asked me out about 2 months ago. I was so excited, and we went out, had a great time, and started dating for a few weeks. During this time i was pretty stressed out from a multitude of things, didn't have much time for him and had some things to sort ... (215 words)

Meeting my online man in 2 weeks, how do I explain these concerns of mine to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I have never been in a real relationship before. I dated lots of guys when I was younger, I am now 29. I usually refuse for friends and family to set me up. I truly believed that I would meet the right person myself. Anyway, I recently joined an online marital w... (217 words)

We have an open relationship, but how do I go about explaining to him that I'm not comfortable with this one girl?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and I have been together for three and a half years, and have been living together for one and a half of those years. We've recently both been feeling quite trapped (he more so than I, admittedly), so we've decided to try out an open relationship in order to try and ... (521 words)

Am I being selfish for not wanting to go round to his mother's house once he moves out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for two years and a year ago he had to move back in with his mum due to financial difficulty (he's 39 and his mum's 55). it has been a year from hell! when i first met her i was going round for dinner with him twice a week and when he moved in i ... (666 words)

My 25 year old wife hates sex... why????

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been married over a year and it gets worse everyday. I'm 24 and she is 25. For the first year she never liked sex. Now she won't let me touch her, kiss her, hug her, and she is mean. During sex, she rushes me, tells me to hurry, won't look at me, and is ... (135 words)

My feelings are becoming cold for my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 16 and i've been in a relationship for a year,i have sort of coldness in my feelings toward him because i'm a romantic girl, and he's not that good at flirting, and our phone calls are becoming less and less because of his study and some parents' issues, i used to cry w... (148 words)

Girlfriend and I fighting because I used to be involved with guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I've a girlfriend and we've been together for almost 5 months now. Recently, we fight alot. Thats because she cant stop talking about my past. I used to date guys and even done 'it' with them. But like I said, thats my past and I promised my girlfriend that I will change. ... (163 words)

Seeking advice. She got pregnant, we're not together, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some perspective on pregnancy towards what I should do. I was dating a woman for a few months, we were practicing safe sex, but a couple of times we didn't. She got pregnant, and decided to keep it. We broke up around the same time. That was 4 months ago. So now, h... (535 words)

I want my ex to get over me, should I tell her about my new girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that I love and she love me but she doesn't tell me and she put more into this other chap when I chased her and decided to be with him.I know she loves me because everytime I have better days with another girl and am happy again she shows up and strings me ... (100 words)

6 times a day, is this enough?

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26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I know its not bad to wack off I do it atleast 6 times a day when is enough?... (20 words)

My girlfriend keeps a sweater from a guy who tried to kiss her, is this a problem?

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26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - if my girlfriend is keeping a sweater from a guy who tried to kiss her and brought a lot of drama for her? To cut the story short, there was a guy who tried to kiss her and people accused her of cheating on me and it was stressing her out and giving her a hard time but it ... (279 words)

How do I make the first move and get him to really want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here is the problem my "Friend" always wants me to make the first move but i have problems cause i get shy. When I finially do start I start, then i have the major delema my "Friend" knows how to pleasure me just right he know where to go what to do and how long to do it. ... (147 words)

He's a good man but has commitment issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend broke up with me on Nov.19. He said our relationship was not what he wanted and that he really does'nt know what he wants. He is 49 years old and never been married. The longest relationship was 3 years. The love this man very much, so I went over to his house so ... (150 words)

Allergic to cat hair but not dog hair?

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26 November 2010 (F) - i have bad allergies when it comes to cats..it will affect my breathing for atleast a day and a half. Alot of people i know have them so it was hard to avoid. I have a poodle which doesn't shed and have no allergies at all. My brother and his family have two cats and a d... (256 words)

Some pleasure with him would be nice!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm sixteen, and have been dating this guy for four years now. We've had sex tons of times, I lost my virginity when I was fourteen. We've both been through some rough times, and we've both slept with other people. But here's my problem. I've never had an orgasm with a ... (164 words)

What do you get a picky 16 year old boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so i've been dating my boyfriend for nine months. he is sixteen. i have no idea what to get him for christmas. he doesn't like sports. he doesn't like video games. he is picky with his clothes. he is into music. he tells me he doesn't want anything, all he wants for ... (83 words)

Doctor's professional life is spilling over into her personal life! what do I do?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age - I have a dilemna: Three months ago I began seeing a psychiatrist due to depression behind a breakup...My pschiatrist is a well-known in the state with which I reside...In addition to being a Psychiatrist, she's an adjunct professor for an ivy league medical school, a well-known ... (207 words)

Does he love me, or is he unattached, just being polite until he moves to another woman?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of nearly two years, *Tom, is a creative personally that functions within logic. He is friendly to everyone. He has manners, is attentive to my needs in his presence, and strives to please me in bed. We treat each with respect and trust, and to outside eyes, we ... (399 words)

Husband doesn't want children and I think I might be pregnant!

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been happily married for 5 years, I'm a teacher and he works as a Physical Trainer for pediatrics hospital, as you can imagine we are both great with kids ... My husband said he doesn't want any children, which is heartbreaking :'( , myself on the ot... (130 words)

I think my aunt's sister likes me

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26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Happy Thanksgiving to everybody so, I have a question. I think my aunt's (married into the family)sister likes me or at least is into me. Ok, so one time it was just me and her talking and she said randomly I really like sex and sometimes I wake up and I dont know where im at. ... (122 words)

Boyfriend said it wasn't him on facebook

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend of 5 months and I love him soo much. We're both 17 and he is my first boyfriend ever. Yesterday I logged in his facebook account (we both have each other's password) and saw a conversation of him with this other girl from school in his inbox. When i ... (351 words)

What should I do with my life now?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem: I am so confused!I came from a bad "church" or cult, whatever you wanna call it. I had my family there, the people I loved, my best friends, a tanning room with a tanning booth, horses, games, a hair salon, a workout place, a person to budget my money and do ... (1534 words)

Problems staying hard

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26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Here goes... Im 18 years old with a girlfriend who i really do love. Whenever we are gonna have sex we both know it because its only when she is at my house. My problem is I always lose my erection when we are about to do it. I will be laying next to her as hard as a rock, ... (91 words)

The Young'n who cant stay out of the club.....

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26 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok...first...this isnt my first rodeo....im 32 and have been in several long term serious relationships....I have made TONS of mistakes, and have done bad things to good women....all that being said, I found somebody who i fell completely in love with, and have effortlessly ... (544 words)

I like one of my best friend's guys!

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like the guy who sits in front of me but his girlfriends is one of my friends. I don't want to tell her in case she get mad and thinks that I am trying to steal him from her. I really like him and wished he would even like me a little bit because i really like him!!! ... (87 words)

The first time you think you love your best friend

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26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have known this girl for a little while and we have been best friends for a little while. Everyone makes jokes about how where a couple or were siblings because we’re with each other so much. I never considered the fact that I might like her until today because it’s one ... (249 words)

Afraid of ruining everything I have now all on one overwhelming feeling for my EX. Help?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm almost 19. A little over a year ago, my current boyfriend and I had dated for 8 months and broke up when I met my current ex-boyfriend, Steven. Steven was okay, not spectacularly talented or smart like my, at the time ex-boyfriend (and now current boyfriend), Jordan. ... (514 words)

B/f wants a room he can fill with pictures of naked women!

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Girls (or boys can answer too i guess to give your side) How do you feel about the fact your bf/fiance/husband has or wants a room to be his (like a games room) and have it filled with pictures of naked women??? I was just talkin to my bf and he said that he wants a room... (149 words)

How to convince my bf for sex??!!

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a ldr relationship.i am committed to my bf since 1year and 4 months. me and my bf are soon going to meet and i want to spend some intimate moments with my bf. i want to have sex with my bf but i dun know how to say. moreover he doesn't seem so interested in sex,maybe ... (153 words)

He doesn't see me as anything other than a friend

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So it's the typical situation of a girl falling in love with a friend. Except he doesn't see her as anything other than a friend. And the biggest problem is that girl is me. I met this guy a few months ago when we started working together, and I immediately thought he was ... (267 words)

Does my bf wants to have sex with someone else in real life but is just controling himself for me?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a committed relationship,since 17months. its a ldr.recently i asked my bf that does he wants to have sex with other girl.he replied that "he only loves me and can't think of other girl.but sex is a different thing.the more you put,the more you will get attracte... (107 words)

I want more but I don't want to risk our friendship

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26 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i asked this girl out about a week ago. She said no but we still talk and hang out and stuff so we're still cool. But i cant get her out of my head. I mean im always thinking about her because i really do love her. I want to try and show her that but im affraid that she ... (108 words)

How do I know if I stand out to him?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I heard has a soft spot for me, and I like him back. Typically he's a pretty big flirt (not a player, just really flirty). Before, he used to flirt with/ cuddle with girls all the time in front of me. Lately, he seems more hesitant about it. We were standing... (133 words)

More potential baby-mama drama!

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm so confused. I have been dating my boyfriend for five years now. When we meet I knew he had a daughter. After the first six months everything was fine and his daughter and I got along great and his "baby mama" and I had figured out boundaries and all that. Well, after ... (294 words)

He doesn't want to commit! Am I being played?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been seeing this man for about six months. We talk every day, texting back and forth constantly and we see each other about 2-3 days out of the week when he drives me to his home (he lives about 70 miles away and I don't drive). I'm a little bit crazy about him, even ... (629 words)

I'm starting to feel like a paranoid psycho!!! Help!

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this is my first time using this and i stumbled on it looking for some answers to how i'v been feeling, to sum it up im currently feeling a bit like that song by katie melua closest thing to crazy!! Basically ive been with my boyfriend for almost four years, we live together ... (407 words)

Is it too soon to start thinking about having a family?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's a pretty new relationship of 5 months. My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, making me 27 and him, 22 years old. I overcame the "he's younger than me...is it okay" phase. however, I'm facing a new dilemma. I'm going to want to start having a family within the next 2-3 ... (154 words)

Help!!! Am I addicted... to sex?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i lost my virginity to a guy i honestly felt great feelings for at the time. we stayed together for 2 and a half years until i decided that something was missing. I broke it off then I found myself starting to like a guy three years older then me, then I totally just ... (130 words)

Is he actually interested... or is he just playing me?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months and a half now... He was always texting me and trying to make plans, even though things were pretty much last minute so I couldn't see him that often. However, I didn't believe it was just for sex because he always remembered ... (387 words)

Muslim accepting me with 2 kids...

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26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My situation is this. I have fell in love with a girl. she is 22 years old, i am 26, she is muslim and i am 'well' Nothing lol. so thats us. Now the problems. Because im not muslim, does this matter? my brother married a muslim girl and he converted to muslim to prove ... (303 words)

I love my husband... but I love this woman too!

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am so confused and unhappy. i am married and i have 2 kids. im am also in love with a female. my husband is really good to me and our children. we have been together since high school but we only been married for 2 years. i left my husband for this girl. i am crazy in love ... (144 words)

She is my everything! How do I win her back?

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26 November 2010 (M)

- hi me and my GF of which i have a child to, have gone on a break. we were together 18 months prior to the break. all 18 of which i feel i have done no wrong apart from the last few weeks where we have been auguing mostly because i instigate them about wanting to know where i ... (176 words)

My clinginess pushed her away...

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26 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my ex left me 2 months ago and it has been heartbreaking. She said that us living too far away from each other led her to believe that us ending up together was very unlikely and that we were headed in different directions in life. But I knew that there were other underlying ... (303 words)

How do I stop her from being such a fool and going back to this abuser who'll obviously hurt her again?

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys... this is a long one but please advise! My 22 year old stepsister got physically abused by her boyfriend yesterday. She's been living with me for 4 months but spend most of those nights sleeping over at his place. She met him 3 months ago. Anyway, he's become je... (598 words)

I lost all my friends because I started seeing him!

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26 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear aunties and uncles, thanks for reading. Just a side-note, i'm not 16-17, i'm 20. Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, and when we got together none of my friends liked him, no particular reason, they just didn't click. And i thought they were being aw... (162 words)