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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:i have known my boyfriend for 5 or more years but we just recently sarted dating and just found out he cheated on me but i anm in love with another man that doesnt want a relationship. i love my boyfriendbut what do i do.
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (21 November 2010):
get rid of both of them and find someone who appreciates you
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Don't date either one. There's too many other great men in the world!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): you break up with both of them.
Then you do some serious thinking about why you would even contemplate accepting second best?
Surely you deserve better happiness than
(a) a man you can never trust
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(b) a man who does not love you and does not want a relationship.
Do all you can to be kinder to you. Pamper you. Take yourself off to some nice events. Get your hair done. But never think No man is worse than any man who does not love you nor any man who will not be faithful to you, nor a man who is still married, nor a man already in a relationship, nor any man who will lie to you, abuse you, or not care about you.
You deserve so much better than all that rubbish.
Write down the qualities and character of what would represent your Ideal Man.
Keep your eyes out for a man who is unattached AND matches your Ideal Man.
There are millions of unattached decent available men in the world. Widen your horizons.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 November 2010):
 There's a much more obvious option, and that's to drop both of them and find someone else entirely. That way, you're not deciding between a rock and a hard place. Those two people you're talking about aren't the only two guys left in the world you know!
Especially drop your cheater boyfriend. You do not what that in your life!
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reader, White Knight +, writes (21 November 2010):
Well the boyfirend either out up with it or get out
(it will only get worse whether now or latter)
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accept it there penaly of fish in sea dont look too hard and you will find another willing and faithfull realtionship
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