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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Expoding pain everytime I try to put anything in,down there

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I Dont know what to do. This is my problem..I cant use a tampon or have sex. Im 19 years old me and my boyfriend for 15 moths in counting are both very ready. But it hurts way to bad, and not the ordinary "pinch" then goes away pain,it the "oh my god stop dont ever touch me ... (170 words)

My boyfriend says there is something like weird about me physically.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says there is something like weird about me like physically. But idk if he is being serious and it is really starting to like freak me out. Because i do have quite a low self esteem when it come to people making fun of my body. And i can't get it out of my head. ... (73 words)

I feel lost. It feels like my boyfriend does not love and appreciate me anymore

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel lost. It feels like my boyfriend does not love and appreciate me anymore. We've been together 3 years. It just seems he's more excited by talking to his friends than me. We'e doing long distance for a few weeks now because I am student. But when we talk it feels like its ... (839 words)

How do I ask my girlfriend to send me nude pics?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while and I really like her and she really likes me, but how do I ask her to send me nude pictures of herself or should I even ask at all thanx in advance.... (45 words)

He has different fantasy's and I have always been one to help those turn into reality. Let me say he is FREAKY!!!!

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here goes. It might be a log one, bear with me it's the first time that I have ever said the whole story. I'm a married 29 year old mother of 3. My husband of 7 years, has always had an erection issues. I thought it was me, but I figured out it's not. He has different fa... (655 words)

Why is he doing this to me? He told me he'd never cheat on her

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4 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm pretty confused and fed up right now. I liked this guy for quite a while, we've even slept together in the past but that turned out to be a complete disaster as, yes you guessed it, he didn't want the same thing i did. So, i stopped sleeping with him. He wanted to stay f... (218 words)

Why does she always ask what I'm up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex gets in touch with me via msn every few months. This time she asked me if I thought anti-depressants worked, because her doctor had given her them and she knew I take/took them when we went together. In addition to this, she always asks what I'm up to, who I'm hanging ... (164 words)

Tampon advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, sometimes when i insert tampons it goes in but then takes a weird turn.. it feels like its going the completely wrong way.. i dont know if this is normal or not.. please help? :S... (36 words)

I want him to be a part of our sons life more than anything but it feels like he is only interested now because he knows that I'm in a new relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last October I found out I was pregnant with my now ex boyfriends baby. I was unsure about the pregnancy given that I had only just turned 18, however he convinced me that everything would be okay and we were already living together so it would be perfect. Which is was and I ... (405 words)

His ex wife.. She is manic depressed who is manipulative and selfish

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5051 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a man in my life whom I adore that I have been given a second chance with. We split up years ago with the same issue again. His ex wife.. She is manic depressed who is manipulative and selfish and unable to work or function because of "Her disease" which may I add is ... (271 words)

Am I crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Am i crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends. she told me before that she doesnt want guy friends but she recently decided that she wants to start haging out with guys. she thinks i dont trust her but i do. We've been together 5 years why now? i just dont under ... (70 words)

Hey, I'd love some advice, especially from guys out there, about whether it's good to play a little hard to get?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love some advice, especially from guys out there, about whether it's good to play a little hard to get or not. I've been with my new bf 2 1/2 months. We both work shifts, so don't get to see each other too much. I really like him. He says he feels he is falling for ... (205 words)

I have huge trust issues

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have huge trust issues. i have been with my boyfriend for a year and half now. since i was in a car accident i have been staying with my mother and its about an hour from his home. i have been with my mom here for nearly three months and he has only came and seen me once. i ... (253 words)

Can you be celibate when you have already lost your virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - can you be celibate when you have already lost your virginity?... (11 words)

Should I give it a little more time to see what he's thinking or should I make some kind of move to let him know how I feel.

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm recently divorced after a miserable 15 year marriage. I never cheated on my husband, but I never loved him so I've been 'emotionally divorced' for years and ready to move on with my life! I recently connected w/ an old friend. We've chatted online, have been texting and ... (242 words)

I hate my brother. Hes disgusting, arrogant and stupid.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate my brother (16). Hes disgusting, arrogant and stupid. He curses at our sister (4) and calls her a bastard and he hits her all the time, makes her cry, calls her ugly, stupid and everything. He thinks hes gonna be a rapper. Hes a damn bully. Hes choked me before in a ... (210 words)

I trust her 100% and she trusts me 10%

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl but I can’t seem to get to really know her. I have been with this girl for 5 months and getting any kind of personal information is like the most impossible thing I have ever done in my whole life. I just feel like I’ve told her everything about me but I know ... (258 words)

He kissed me at work!

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was having a bad day, new job new city, overworked/stressed, very sad missing my sister, my little brother, etc., When all of a sudden my guy friend/co-worker (whom until this moment seemed oblivious to my emotional hang-ups) pulled me into a corner cupped my face and lightly ... (188 words)

I love her so much but sometimes I think about her getting hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about three or four monthes now, I love her to death, I'm in love with her, she's the most amazing person I've ever met, and we live about 4 1/2 hours away from each other, and I recently told her all the things in my past, which ... (196 words)

I kissed someone else.. I just wanted to be loved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a party saturday with my theatre group, I havn't seen my boyfriend in a few weeks- well I have but we havn't been intimate in ages. At the party I stayed over and one of my guy friends started kissing me.. and I just couldn't stop myself. I don't think I like him, but ... (176 words)

I love him so much, I can't live without him! Am I clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in total love with my boyfriend, he is perfect in everyway for me and obviusly were going to have some fights, of course its natutal, but we alwasy fight over stupid things, and i think its because of me, we only ever really fight over the phone or over the internet, we ... (317 words)

I made the mistake of hooking up with this guy that I've been dating for three weeks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I made the mistake of hooking up with this guy that I've been dating for three weeks last weekend. We had been seeing each other 2-3 times per week (so it was plenty of dates) and he seemed nice, respectful and interested. I thought it would be okay to engage physically with ... (232 words)

I am average. I have brown hair, brown skin, average figure, average everything. I am a wallflower.

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am average. I have brown hair, brown skin, average figure, average everything. I am a wallflower. I will never invoke intese passion in men- the two long term relationships that I have had were due to the guys loving my PERSONALITY. They would tell me how much they loved ... (166 words)

Prostitute girlfriend crazy emotional situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - This is a crazy trip and one which I have ridden probably for too long but here goes: I met this girl in a lap dancing club and had a VIP with her and could not keep my hands off her. She eventually at the end of the night broke the house rules and gave me her number...yip... (1102 words)

Why is he doing all this, does he still want to be together and doesn't have the guts to talk or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age - My Ex boyfriend was very possessive and wanted me to spend every available time I had with him. I liked going out once in awhile with my girlfriends and he hated it and made sarcastic comments. He now is dating someone else and still comes where I go and watches me and comes ... (103 words)

I am married and very unhappy,I constantly think of leaving my husband but never have the courage to so

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4 November 2010 (F)

age - I am married and very unhappy,I constantly think of leaving my husband but never has the courage to so.We are 10years together and no kids. About six weeks ago I met a man online,he says he is divorce but we have not met yet in person. After few e mails,he asked for my number ... (185 words)

Lately I've been feeling really sad and lonely and it's not my personality at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

- DearCupid. i know this is relationship advice but i don't know who else to ask. Lately i've been feeling really sad and lonely and it's not my personality at all. i keep getting stressy and my friends; having low self esteem, being extremely lazy and not doing homework e... (487 words)

I'm a sophomore in college, and I've been having some trouble with my roommate this year

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a sophomore in college, and I've been having some trouble with my roommate this year in terms of having guys stay over. Unfortunately, this has also begun to cross some moral boundaries as well. Upon several occasions this semester, I have entered my room only to fin... (413 words)

Do you like it when a girl shaves, goes natural or trims?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question for the guys- Do you like it when a girl shaves, goes natural or trims? I'm really curious because my boyfriend gets upset if I say I want to shave, so I just trim to keep clean but I'd like to know opinions of other guys.... (50 words)

A lot of virginity questions here are answered with "great he/she decided to wait for the right moment" and similar things like that. But do people really think that way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A lot of virginity questions here are answered with "great he/she decided to wait for the right moment" and similar things like that. But do people really think that way? The reason I'm asking is because I'm a 23 y/o girl and a virgin. Some bad stuff in my past has made me... (298 words)

His feelings for his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - its all about his feeling for his ex who he knew her since they both were so young, but she died, and that was like six years ago, since then he's tried to find her in someone else, lied himself its her, but he couldn't lie til end, so i say he never has had real love ever ... (196 words)

How do we make this work?

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am asking for help on how to make my relationship work. I have a girlfriend for more than 6 years already and we had a son at an early age. So after graduating, we decided to prioritize our own careers and were very distant from each other. I am a nurse and she works at an ... (964 words)

We can't be a couple, but I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - A year ago I met a man online (I'm a 40 yr old female. He's about a dozen years younger than me and still lives at home, but that is because he suffers from social anxiety. Anyway, we talked online for a few months and we really clicked, then I went to meet him in person. We ... (228 words)

I'm trying my hardest to make things okay again, but I don't know the next step.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I suppose this is a longer story, but I'll try and keep things concise. I would just post the question straight up, but without proper insight on what has happened, the advice I get may not be what I'm looking for :) So here it goes: My girlfriend and I have been dating for ... (1407 words)

He's seeing someone 2 weeks later!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my b/f one month ago due his really bad temper. He has never hit me, but will break and throw things when he gets mad. Sometimes over trivial things. I knew it was best for me to leave him, which of course he threw a fit when I did. My question is this..seems ... (168 words)

I'm 27, he's 60

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello!my love life is so complicated..im 27 and my bf is 60yrs.old really a big gap but i dont understand why i trullly love him,we have a child just turn 3month and im wondering if he trully loves me becoz it seems we dont make love at all,he dont share his story about his ... (94 words)

I need help, I have just found out that my boyfriend of nearly 2 years has another girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help, I have just found out that my boyfriend of nearly 2 years has another girlfriend, he is the navy and away a lot, i thought things were great with us but he has been seeing her for 5 years so you could say that i am the bit in the side, I never had a clue he is ... (296 words)

Is it okay or even beneficial to flirt within a male-female friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, I have another question. I have a friend who is female who I have a bit of a crush on. There are problems with the relationship as I stated in my other question which I recently posted. But throughout our friendship, I want to set boundaries. If it was a friendship then ... (219 words)

After living together for 3 years he's going back to marry his cousin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 40yr old lady, my partner is 28yrs old he is kurdish from Iraq. We have been together for 4yrs and living together as a couple for 3yrs. Last week i came home from work and he told me he was going back to kurdistan to marry his cousin who was married before but her ... (82 words)

Does he fancy me? I hope not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my guy friends fancies a girl, and, as usual, me and loads of the other girls have been trying to get him to tell us who. One of his friends has been joking that it's certain girls who we know it wouldn't be, or at least presume he wouldn't fancy. And one of the girls, ... (219 words)

All I have ever wanted is a true friend, one that doesn't back stab you and is loyal

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - All I have ever wanted is a true friend, one that doesn't back stab you and is loyal, never happened yet and I have become quite cynical now and I find it hard to get close to people. I recently got close to a guy who knew I was shy and lacked confidence and he was everything ... (194 words)

Help! I've just been told that I am amazingly stubborn

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I've just been told that I am amazingly stubborn and will fight my corner if I see someone I don't like or have had a big argument with. I know what they mean by this I do get very protective of myself when I see one of my ex's who I had a very big argument with. I ... (202 words)

How important are blow jobs in a relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Gentlemen, Guys, thank you for your time. Thesis research your age/months-years in relationship, please. On a scale of 1 to 10 how important are blowjobs in a serious relationship? Is it preferred to regular sex? Do you consider it an act of love and respect? Or a more ... (77 words)

Guys, would this put you off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Question mainly for the guys but general opinion as well. If a girl who has never had a boyfriend and is in her late 20's, very quiet and shy, just goes to work and it easy going and doesn't have any real friends like from school or work would that put you off asking her o... (59 words)

I want to leave him but physically cant bring myself to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im sort of in a relationship with someone. We have been like this for 10 months now. He's lovely and I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. But he does have his moment where he turns and just doesn't talk to me, blanks me and does all the of the stuff I really ... (126 words)

Is it common to make sounds during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts, Its not so much a problem I have just a query and am looking for some different prospectives. I have recently started dating a guy, hes really nice and we get on so well. Hes quite shy and softly spoken but when it comes to sex he makes one hell of a nois... (147 words)

Why do I always get bored one year into a relationship? I love my boyfriend, but I am getting bored with him as well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I don't know what's wrong with me. I've only ever had two genuine, long-term relationships and have only had sex with these said people. The problem is, is that it seems like after I hit the one year mark, I just get totally ... bored of the relationship. ... (422 words)

He asked me to hug him like I mean it. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - iv'e been talking to this guy for 5 months now who just got out of a relationship and he comes over everyday and just lastnite he hugged me and told me to hug him like i mean it. i don't know if he's into me or is just being friendly ? (help would be nice) =/... (56 words)

I judge my friend and her lack of morals. Does that make me a jerk?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I know a girl who I became friends with. She works as a model and is staying here on a visa. I am in graphics and I made her a Web site for free as a favor. In the course of this Web site, I found out she has a past--and a present, too. About 3 years ago, she made a couple of... (430 words)

He can't go one day without wanting sex from me, is my boyfriend of one year using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend always talks about sex and always wants it.. we cant even be alone without having sex for a day! we have been together for a little over a year. is he just with me for sex? i asked him and he said no and gave me reasons why he is not... but it feels like he is... ... (111 words)

Why do people have sex outside of marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm15, and I'm so sick of hearing about people my age losing their virginity!!! I mean, what happened to losing it on your wedding night?? I just want to know why people have decided that it's soooo important to have sex in a relationship? I don't hate my friends, I just ... (78 words)

He is abusive and neglectful, skips work and is attached to his computer. What kind of man is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with a man for close to 3 years after his divorce in 2008. He started to become violent but yet abusive in his own way towards me. I ignored all signs and continue the relationship. We moved in together and I began to see he was attached to his computer. Datings ... (278 words)

Friends with benefits?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Alfredo has been one of my very good friends for a long time. But as you know female-male friendships are a lil hard keep. Eventually it happened, we had a lil too much to drink and we had sex... then it happened again.. and again.. We became sort of casual sex partners... (208 words)

Will I ever love again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy for six years. He was my first real relationship, I guess you could say my first love. We got engaged and had plans to get marriied. After we got engaged we started having a lot of problems. I loved him and he loved me though he wasnt very good at showing it. Afte... (241 words)

I just want to be with him! Is there any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Theres this guy I've been working with. He said to me that he really likes me but because he has a boyfriend and we work together, nothing will happen between us and we would just be friends. I absalutley love this guy. Everything about him is perfect for me. I c... (298 words)

If I meet up with my male friend (who I have no feelings for), will my boyfriend think it is ok to start meeting up with his ex's again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically. My boyfriend ruined my trust at the 1 year barrier as he had coffee with an ex without telling me, after about of month of telling me he didn't want to see her again, and me crying because he'd be texting her ALL the time. We had a big row and he's stopped contact ... (169 words)

I don't want to mess up my first ever date!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, this is going to sound sad but i've been asked out to go to the cinema with this guy from college. I know him, but we only speak online so it's kind of awkward. I'm 16 and it's like my first ever date if thats what this is. I'm seriously freaking out i don't know how to ... (108 words)

Does every relationship go through a little rough patch?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does every relationship go through a little rough patch? Things were going great till like a couple days ago now things are just on the verge of being okay. We have been in a relationship for almost a year but have been friends for two years. I just want things to go back how ... (150 words)

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Im a chinese divorced woman met this Englishman 18 years older than me. I love him and try my best to learn English. We've been together for 2 years but we dont live together. My english improves a lot but there is still misunderstanding sometimes. He's got no patient when ... (136 words)

Why am I watching my ex girlfriend whenever I see her out and about, even though I have a new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age - I just broke-up with my girlfriend of 6 months. I felt she wanted to spend time with her girlfriends and not me. I did get mad when she went out with her girlfriends. My Ex-wife left me for another man and I might just be too controlling of my girlfriends. I see her out, but ... (98 words)

I feel like if I don’t give him what he wants sexually, he wont treat me right

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 6 years now, since we were 16. We have always has a good relationship but we have some major issues. I love him so much and will never give up on him. He has anger issues and trust issues. I admit that I did do something to lose his trust 6 years ... (1603 words)

How can I make him see that being together again is the right choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and my ex is 19. We dated for a year and three months and our relationship was near perfect. We fought a few times, just as any two people in a relationship would. We said that we loved each other for almost the whole time, and with time we meant it more and more. About ... (248 words)

How can I control the thoughts that pop into my head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - this is more of a pshycology question, why do random thoughts pop into my head??? and why can't I control my own mind?? some thoughts pop into my head, and they're thoughts I'd never think of otherwise, because one is of my amazing girlfriend getting hurt because the tv show I ... (141 words)

When you go out with someone, do you have to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know, the question sounds silly. I was just wondering, when you 'get together' with someone does it always have to get physical? I don't mind kissing and stuff but it seems that there's a lot of pressure for teenagers to have sex as soon as there in a relationship, and ... (96 words)

He cheated, now I am falling for someone else and have no idea what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, this is probably going to sound like I'm a complete bitch, but I do have a conscience and I do feel bad about what I'm doing here. I'm 26 and have been with my bf for 2 years. He cheated on me a year ago, and has been flirting online with other girls up until a couple m... (388 words)

Am I the only girl in the world who has taken their partner back after he cheated and had a baby with someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - has anybody else taken there partner back after they have cheated and had a baby with somebody else?i feel im the only one in the word?... (26 words)

Good age to get married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what age would be a good age to get married?... (10 words)

He called me fat!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years gone by I started liking him ... (300 words)

How come I feel like something’s wrong and he’s being really distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right now I’m in a 3 month relationship and everything is working out for the most part. He just got his license and is looking for a job. I have had both things for a while and started new job. Anyways our relationship started out great, we texed all day every day and were ... (270 words)

Watery bath???

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it do if you inject water in your ass? Can it be harmful?... (15 words)

We don't speak the same language!

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with a chinese girl and I believe she loves me also. She doesn't speak English. I don't speak chinese. We can only communicate through email, mobile and friends (interpreters). What should I do?... (41 words)

Struggling to cope with the distance.....

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i cannt cope with distance releationship and now im making the wrong decisions. cant stop thinking that he is cheating on me too.... (23 words)

Is this just my negativity from being cheated on in the past? Is this a normal rate relationships go at? Or is he playing me?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All I am 29 and have been seeing a 20 year old man for 3 months. The problem is when we are together he is so lovely, and tells me how much he likes me and I am amazing etc. However, although he texts me every day the relationship just seems to be going nowhere. In hi... (182 words)

End relationship or keep trying?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age - I am late 40's and have been involved with a man for 4 years...a comitted relationship, but we are not engaged and do not live together. We each have 2 children...older teenagers. The beginning of our relationship was great, expected to marry this man and blend families. During ... (417 words)

What should I do now? I'm reluctant to text or call again and I really am not into mind games....

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy on a night out last Saturday, my friends informed me that he kept 'checking me out' i'd just arrived at the pub as he had with his friends. He then came upto me knelt down besides me in front of my friends and told me that he liked me, i spent the rest of the ... (258 words)

I think I am not "in love" with my boyfriend of 8 years anymore, and now an old crush is back on the scene I don't know what to do!

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship which I been in for 8 years, I love him but not sure if I'm in love with him. I have recently been in contact with a old crush and the past 2 weeks we got close, my heart telling me to be with him but I don't know please help ... (56 words)

I thought frogs were supposed to turn into princes, not the other way around!

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a really big headache literally today because of a man I thought I knew but he turned out to be someone totally different and a liar. I have been dating someone for some months now - he gets on great with my child and some weekends we get together as 2 families with hi... (946 words)

Torn between the ex I love who I have 2 children with, and the woman who loves me and is pregnant with my child....

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I was in a 4 year relationship with who i thought was the one... Im a recovering addict and upon finding this relationship i became co dependent in it, the addict history is important because i stopped going to meetings, which means i stopped being grounded and lost my ... (562 words)

I had a relationship with a guy who had been with his girlfriend for 4 years and now I'm pregnant he wants me to have an abortion, what should I do?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im been since this guy for 8 months and im totally in love with him, theres a connection there big time and always have a fairly good sex life, but hes in a reltionship for the past 4y ears and admits he does love her and now ive found out im 2 months pregnant he wants me to ... (97 words)

How could a man be like this?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why would a guy not be interested in women until he was in his late 20s,never settles down,but had a bit of a relationship with someone years ago,keeps going round another womens house for sex now and again,when he finds out shes pregnant he wants to push her down the ... (138 words)

Why did a good girl allow sex so easily?

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this lovely 20 year old girl through her sister, a co-worker. I took her out to the movies just once, and then did not see her for a month. We kept in touch. When we met again we went to a secluded place where we talked about her dreams and stuff. I did not try to kiss ... (253 words)

I want to say something really nice to him before we have sex for the first time, but I struggle to express myself! Help!

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya me and my bf have been going out about a year and a half now and were plannning on having our first time together soon. I wanted to say something really nice before he enters me as he is really romantic and emotional. I thought I could say something like "I really like you ... (107 words)

I know he is busy but I am fed up of being the only one putting in any effort into this relationship!

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 20 and been dating a guy who's 35 for over a year now, though its a distance relationship. We still get to see each other as often as possible, he sends me ticket and I fly over to him. We are so much in love, and he treats me so nicely when ever I'm physically there ... (418 words)

Whats going on in his head?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help im seeing this guy that i thought i liked untill he gave me mixed signals...one day hes showing affection towards me and always looks at me when talking and then the next day he has no interest in me only glances when i ask a question...am i confused or did he lose ... (56 words)

He has the final say about everything in our marriage, and I cant even get him to talk about our problems!

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4 November 2010 (F)

age - i have been married to my husband for 27 years. ever since we married he has the say in our marraige, i was married for ten years before we had our son he never helps me around the house he works hard and is a good provider. we have not had a phisycial realationship for 8 years ... (149 words)

How do I get out of this slump without letting it have an effect on my relationship as well?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just been made redundant from my job and I'm gutted to say the least. I love my work, I love the girls I work with and more than anything I'm worried about money and how I'm going to aupport my family. I do have a partner who works but even though I don't make a huge ... (422 words)

In love with 2 totally different women

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m in love for two difficult women and I don’t know what to do: The French woman – She is 10 years older than me. I had a one year relationship with her, but she was breaking up all the time, so many times I never know when is the last one and I cannot be sure of what she... (222 words)

How do I convince her we should get back together?

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone , i really need everyones advices, my ldr girlfriend suddenly broke up with me claiming that she doesnt want a relationship anymore, she said its not coz of the relationship it self, its coz of her , but i dont get how she could just feel like this suddenly... (138 words)

My boyfriend has been a major ass to me recently and I want to break up with him, but I'm scared I might be pregnant!

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey!So I'm a 14 year old girl that just recently lost her virginity. Since then I have had sex with my boyfriend quite a few times. But now I'm starting to become scared. All the times we have had sex we have never used a condom. I've researched a lot about teen pregnancy and ... (121 words)

I can't put up with this abuse any more...

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well me and my baby's dad been together for 5 years, and a little after a year he started throwing things at me, yelling at me, now its kicking me, socking me in the side of my head and at times he does it in front of our kids and he only does it if i prove him wrong and he ... (160 words)

My BF wants space even though we are already in long distance relationship

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there!!i need an advice regarding this problem of mine....You see i'm already 30 years old, just now i experienced my first boyfriend.Through online networking sites.We been communicating through phones, emails and been chatting for almost nine months.We developed some ... (400 words)

What is going one with my best guy friend and I?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He and I have been best friends for about 4 years. At the beginning of our relationship as friends he had a crush on me but I didn't see him like ( he liked me for about 6 months I believe but then he got over that and dated a friend of mine) that till this year. Over the ... (678 words)

Online guy won't talk to me when he's at home. Why is that?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy through a dating site and we have been chatting online for about 3 months now. We chat almost everyday. He always leaves me offline messages like, 'Hi, beautiful. How's ur day? I miss u.' We see each other on cam often. He says he wants a serious relationship ... (217 words)

Should I stop being so affectionate and see if b/f gets the hint?

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My bf and I are going through a "sensitive patch" he has been having issues with work, feeling stagnant in life, and just in general feeling down in life and I have tried my best to support him, but due to his stress he has become very stressed, moody and verbally / emotionally ... (448 words)

He high fived me after sex and now is ignoring me at work

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Met guy really liked him his way younger then me though! We met through work.he liked me for bout 4 weeks, kept catching him major staring. Then I got speaking to him, through msn! I researched through friends who he was, as saw him in the same company as me, though d... (443 words)

Husband says he doesn't have the urge to have sex anymore

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband not even a year we were married in july of this year. when we first got together he would do it with me 3 or 4 times a day now that were married he says he dont feel the urge to have sex anymore we may have sex now 1 every 2 weeks but he says he ... (106 words)

I think I'm wasting both of our time because I love her but am not in love and don't think I ever will be

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Please take a minute and help me try to find an answer to this insanity I feel I am living in. I have been dating a gal for a little over 6 months. She is 28, I will be 32 next month. We had been online friends for nearly 5 years before we started spending time together and ... (698 words)

Why do these thoughts pop in my head about my girlfriend getting hurt?

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4 November 2010 (M)

Is it selfish of me to want more when she says she wants just friendship?Or is she playing games with me?

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, There are two parts to this question, but they are really both of the same question: 1) I have been friends with a girl for about a year. We started off as casual acquaintances, then got closer. She says I am a dear friend to her. She is not dating anyone but made it... (327 words)

I he trying to use me, or do he really want to make our marriage work!

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband separated about two months ago. During that time he's been in a relationship with this young 18 year old. he moved in with her n her brother. He contacted me telling me he want to make our marriage work he said he loved and miss me. He told me he will be home ... (207 words)

What do guys prefer down there?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 2 years prefers larger labias, and luckily for him I have one. But personally, I HATE it. Guys opinions please, what do you prefer, should I be worried about if I ever have to enter another serious realtionship? I worry about what someone else might think :(... (50 words)

Is she interested?

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4 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I can't figure out if the girl I have been dating is interested in me or not. She tells personal things, she really opens up to me, and we have a great time together. We've slept together a few times, but not had sex, I've never made a move, and I told her bluntly that I'm not ... (298 words)

Out of love and feeling depressed

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been a while since I was in a relationship face to face; in the flesh. I'm a strong women and I can take care of myself. And I'm also independent. But now, i've been depress because all around me I see couples, and I've long to be with my future lover. I don't know what to ... (58 words)

What could be the reason for her change of attitude?

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm slightly confused at the moment, i've known this women for 2 years now,the first time we met we hit it of well, not to sound corny but we sensed something in eachothers eyes, she flirted with me by always looking deeply into my eyes, always watching me when drinking water ... (158 words)

How to get back to love making?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've tried everything wearing sexy clothes,sexy talk,cooking dinners, even getting out the tub naked in front of him, still we haven't had sex in months. I talk to him about what he wants me to do but still I get no where. Everything else in our relationship is perfect But how ... (61 words)

Ex and I split up 3 years ago but we still have sex every week even though he's with someone else

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I have been spilt for 3 years +...he has a new gf that they have a child together ....they do not get along that well at all but he won't leave her because of the child, or some other reason. we sleep together every week and the sex is passionate raw hot and ... (247 words)

Its sad that I didn't realize what I had until I lost it

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I am looking for someone to help me out. I am a gay man and I was in a relationship. The guy I was with was a good guy and he did so much for me. We broke up as I was going thru a tough time. I did him wrong in so many ways. I know I loved him when we were together ... (242 words)

Is wrong to have a boyfriend but to practice sex with a friend to get ready for boyfriend?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend now but one of my guy friends wants to be friends with benefits. I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but is it wrong to have a friend with benefits to practice for my boyfriend?... (40 words)

Love him or "in love" with him?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my boyfriend and i been dateing for almost 3 months now. he tells me he loves me, and i tell him i love him back. but im not sure if i really do. i know i like him and i care about him so much, but in love with him no. or am i just confused ? ughh help me please..... (62 words)

We've been dating for a year and I'm ready for sex! How do I tell my boyfriend?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I am a virgin 16yr old and really want to have sex with a boy. Right now I really fell in love with one but I dont know how to to tell him that I am ready (we have been dating for 1 year now ) it be great if you could help thanks :) ... (57 words)

My drunken mother says I'm a kid and my feelings don't matter

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay me and my mom don't get along she is always drunk and yelling at me. I try to explain my feelings to her but all she cares about is herself she always says I'm a kid I don't have feelings. I don't live with her. She lies to me and everyone everything I say she says I'm ... (130 words)

What am I going to do? I've been in madly madly love with him for five years!!!?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my twenties and I've been friends with him for over twelve years- and we are closer than close... we do sleepovers, hang out with our friends, travel together and we even lived together briefly for over six months when I didn't have a place. We tell each other ... (342 words)

Before we even started, he was finished!

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well a couple of days ago it was my boyfriend and i first time that we had sex. We had been wanting to do it before but we didnt have a chance to. So everytime we made out i would turn him on. And when we finally had the place to have time together and alone, he got turned on ... (87 words)

Were any of these relationships love?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age - i wanted to no which one of these relationships that i can found out if it;s love or in love with? my first one was when i was young i call him my true love cause even though its has been a few yrs but i still say that i love him we just keep bumping heads but each time that we ... (246 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to give me some space?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - As you read my other post my ex and I are still on a break but I just can't get the past out of my head. i'll know he'll never change although he cries to me and says that's the past, it still hurts me because I put one hundred percent effort in our relationship and now I feel ... (161 words)

She loves me, she hates me, what's the deal?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help. There is a girl I like at my school who likes me and hates me at the same time.She kissed me (witch I loved) and told me she likes me and then next period she tells me she hates me. I want to know what to do. she likes me,she hates me,she likes me,she hates me,she ... (76 words)

I'm worried about my skin color and what guys will think

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a strange question but please take it seriously and not be too patronising because it is a genuine concern of mine. I have only ever been with one guy and we split up a while ago. I have since met another guy who is nice and I feel I may come to the point of sleepin... (295 words)

Kissing in public

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I am 14 and I have a girlfriend, I really want to kiss her properly next time we meet in the city... we will be with friends... can someone advise me on the appropriate steps to kiss her in public? we hold hands in public, by the way she is 15. ANY OTHER ADVISE IS A... (74 words)

Is it true that race plays a factor in the size of a penis?

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4 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - my gf has made comments and jokes before about all black men having large penises i feel very uncomfortable hearing this and yes insecure about my own size but i want to know if it is true or if its just a porn scam or some weird thing like that... (50 words)

My therapist says that my boyfriend should marry me...

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I started seeing a therapist a few weeks ago for weekly sessions because I'm working on my confidence level that's been down because of unemployment. Told the therapist that things are going well, besides the financial side, which is taking it's time and I'm getting ... (188 words)

Husband having texting affair

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm new here. I found out a few weeks ago that my husband is having a texting affair with someone he knew wben he was a teenager. So far I am confident they haven't made it physical. The way I found out was when he accidentally forwarded a conversation to my phone. When I r... (237 words)

What are the rules when taking a relationship break and for how long?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are taking a break. We've been together for 9 months but lately I was getting mad to often because I didn't understand why he was acting the way he was. Although I wasn't screaming at him, I was only talking to him about it. It wasn't until yesterday ... (282 words)

Pain in stomach, Hard times peeing, Sores and Discharge

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone help figure out whats going on? I Have been sexually active for over 4 years and rarely use protection but have been with 24 partners. I have had a burning sensation in the past when peeing and itchy vaginal as well as some swelling after a hard pounding from sex... (140 words)

Why do people have a lack of interest in me?

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4 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. Not really sure how to articulate my problem, but here goes: Basically, I'm 15. I've never had a boyfriend. This doesn't bother me, though; what DOES bother me, however, is what little interest people express towards me (by the way of attraction). It's not like I... (397 words)

Is she confused or just plain upset that I didn't propose to her?

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4 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over five years. Last spring we moved in together, and things seemed fine. Three weeks ago I came home and she told me she wasn't happy and she didn't want to be with me any more, and she said she didn't think we were meant to ... (804 words)