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writes:Hey guys ...um im an 20 year old male, I have never date..but my mind is killing me each day i woke up with the tought of imagining me being in a position that i get cheated on ? i really dont know what to do because its driving me insane ....each time i think about it ..my gut feels strange and then i start going into depression .....i dont know what to do ..should I seek help professionally..I mean this kind of stuff never happened to me before..im just your average Bob who likes to sport , play games , study and stuff..... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): I felt the same way at first :( Which is why I didn't date for 2 years and have trust issues. I'm finally in a relationship but it is LD. I have bad feelings sometimes but like sweet said, I'll deal with it if it happens. Even if we were cheated on in the past, there are people out there like us that are loyal. We have to date some bad ones before we find the good.
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reader, sweetaei  +, writes (22 November 2010):
when i first got married, i felt that same gut feeling for months. it just made me worry and like u said, i felt like i was going insane. i finally just sat in front of a mirror one day, looked in my own eyes, and saw how much i was really worth.
i resolved to just deal with it if it ever happened, instead of worrying myself sick over it.
i sense a little insecurity, b/c u said you were just your average bob. no, you are special in your own unique ways. don't let this get u down, or cause u worry.
good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): Everyone worries about getting cheated on but you can't let that stop you from dating or having a relationship. Sometimes in life you have to take a few risks and getting hurt is a part of life sometimes. Everyone has had their heartbroken at some point but that's just the way life is.
Don't let that fear stop you because you'll regret it later on. Not everybody is a cheat, yes some people do cheat, but that doesn't mean you'll get cheated on. If you did, it's not the end of the world and you'd get over it.
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