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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Insecure about my LDR!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi to you all! This is my first time in this website but I would like very much to receive your suggestions. I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years and we have our weeding booked for 9.7.2011. Because of his work and my ... (272 words)

Lost without my lover but I can't leave my partner.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - So confused who or if im in love I had an affair with a girl 14 years yonger than me yet we think the same and act the same. we have been on and of for over 2 years. We both love cuddles and sex is great we are so hooked up. I have tried ending it with my lover and ... (350 words)

Is it bad that 3 years later my feelings for him have changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i was wondering if it was bad to not feel the same way about the person you are with after 3 years? i mean i love my boyfriend with everything i have but i don't think it's the same kind of love that i had when we were first together. We used to do everything together and ... (122 words)

Why did my teacher seem so nervous around me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well right now I feel very confused. I had this teacher last year and we, well we had a normal student-teacher relationship. I saw her as only a teacher. Well this year everything completely changed even though she isn't my teacher anymore I see her everywhere and often. When ... (306 words)

He tells me I'm running from a relationship yet we have been dating for the past month and a half!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am more of the type of person to go from one guy to another and just have fun. Recently though I met this guy and he is really sweet and everything but I just am not used to steady relationships. He tells me I am running from a damn relationship but we have been dating for ... (107 words)

He dumped me but is trying to talk to me under a false screen name?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok my ex boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago im deeply inlove with this guy and hes acted like it didnt bother him 2 weeks after the break up i star gettin private calls back to back nonstop (i know its him) so one day on aim i get a im from a screen name saying this ... (160 words)

He inquired about me, does that mean he's interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy in my class who I think is really, really cute. I have thought this from day 1 (When the year started). Now, I don't have the best self esteem so I didn't even bother talking to him or anything as I didn't think I had a chance in hell with him. However, he... (128 words)

After being caught, how often do married men go back to their affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - how often do men go back to the woman they have had an affair with? After 17 years of marriage my husband had an affair with a colleague. He is a director of a company and it would be difficult to just leave, so still sees her at work. He swears to me nothing will ever happen, ... (65 words)

The ex or my new girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so about 3 months ago me and my girlfriend of 6 months broke up. She said she wanted to be free cuz she has been held down by her parents for so long. Sh is 21 and so am I.so it took a while but we stopped seeing each other and tlking cuz I was getting a little obbsesive. So ... (330 words)

Why am I feeling so sad about this amazing holiday?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I know this is going to sound a bit silly or immature, but.. I'm leaving my partner next week to go to new Zealand for 3 weeks. This has been booked for just over a year and we got together just under a year ago, unfortunately due to his line of work he has been unab... (135 words)

He keeps my belongings and owes me money but says he still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im just curious as to what others think about this type of behaviour from men, and if my own conclusions are wrong. When I broke up with my boyfriend he told me he loved me and always will, that he will leave the door to his heart open for me and hopes that I will change my ... (637 words)

We're more like room mates than husband and wife...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My huusband and I have been married for 16 years. We've had a lot of ups and downs. September 4th was the last time we split up but we've always got back together. This time we said that was it! He moved out, got his own place, then wanted me to move in there with him. I ... (142 words)

I know about one child out of wedlock but my husband may have another??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband have been married for 2 years. When we got married i knew he had a son. When he finally started getting his visitaion he was all excited and i was too because he finally gets to be part of his sons life. he goes down the park one day a week for 2 hours and ... (209 words)

Can fibroids on my uterus affect future pregnancies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - just left the doctors office and I found out that I have fibroids on my uterus. My question how can this affect future pregnancies? Im twentynine and want morw kids later... (31 words)

I was trying to give him $ and he held my hand for a bit, I believe this is flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. Ok doke, here goes. Quick question. How do you know if someone is flirting? There is a man I know, that I see very often when I am working. I see him about three times a day, twice a week. I have known him for three years. At first I didn't see him that often... (306 words)

On my father's dating profile he said he was married but with no children!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I HATE my dad. (and i understand the concept of hate being a particularly strong word) He emotionally abuses everyone in the family. Behind closed doors he makes us all think that we're useless but when we're in public he acts like he's the world's perfect dad. My mum would ... (140 words)

Unspoken love for the past 6 years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have never done anything like this before but I really need some advice. The situation is that I have fallen in love with my best friend but I can’t seem to get over it. We have always liked each other but never really said anything. Though we have been friends for... (452 words)

How do I tell my teacher I have depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - um...hi guys, i am 14, and lately ive been feeling really down. not just down, but extreamly sad. i cry all the time. i cry in class, i cry at home and i even cry my self to sleep. i was looking through this book one day, and i came across an article about depression. i read t... (203 words)

Love and duty.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm in need of a lot of advice. I believe my situation is largely my own fault, but the biggest point is that I need to figure out what to do. I'd grown up religious and then in young adulthood grown out of it, was living for each day, when after rougher periods ... (1239 words)

Why do guys act so cold when a relationship ends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were together for a long time and are both in our thirties. I had no idea he was unhappy until one day we had an argument and I came home and all his stuff was gone... he told me when he broke up with me that he loved me more than he ever loved anyone...wtf? ... (249 words)

I can't live without her but..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I meet this girl about 2yrs ago on line. So we hit it off talking to each other every day. When I have meet her she had a 8 yr ralationship with a guy before me that she loved a lot. Then we starting talking more clicking with each other more and more every time we talked. So ... (367 words)

I think there is something wrong with my labia!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all xx well i was just wondering...my inner vaginal lips are disproportionate, one is much larger than the other. just wondering if anyone else has this problem and does it affect sex? Thanks xx... (35 words)

Boyfriend goes clubbing with his bros while I stay at home.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it ok for your boyfriend to go to the clubs with his friends without you? I trust him and I didn't care untill one of my friends was like I shouldn't let him? I don't know what to do? ... (42 words)

Can he wait or does he want more now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married-15 years and the guy has Been married 10. We have begun a very strange relationship and I need some help figuring it out. First, I am not going to leave my family but I do think of the man as someone that I would want to grow old with versus my current husband. It ... (292 words)

2 girls traveled to see me, who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23 year old boy from Berlin. I dated this girl from United States when i was like 18, she was actually my first love. It went actually pretty well until the time came when she had to return back to her country and we got separated. I missed her like for long time. We ... (390 words)

Wife wants more sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - In a long term marriage and find that husband's sex drive is declining while mine is escalating. I masturbate more frequently then we have sex. Is there anything I can do about this? Wish we had both felt like this when we were in our 20s and 30s!! ... (48 words)

We don't want to go all the way, so what else is there besides plain old oral sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf's birthday is coming up and i want to do something special for him... Both of us are virgins...we both agreed to wait for the wedding night; however i wanna get a bit dirty with him without ...u know...losing my virginity...so what can i do apart from plain old oral s... (55 words)

Great gift ideas for $25 and under?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im 13, and my boyfriend is 13. weve been going out for almost 2 months. Ya we love eachother, but were not like oooh all mushy. I have no idea what to get him for christmas! please help! he likes quadding, candy, and mint chocolate chip gum:) lol i can only spend a ... (71 words)

Maybe I'll love him some day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Forgetting an ex is never easy, especially for me, especially if you have to see your ex every day at school because you're in the same class. I'm 16 and I have to spend with my ex two other years, and I feel I can't actually move on from him. But a week ago I met this guy, a ... (173 words)

How do I get the courage to ask her out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm sure you get this one a lot. But I can't find any good answers on the internet. Theres a girl called (randomly thinks of name) Ellie. I've had a crush on her for a while now. I can talk to her, and she's great, not like other girls giving one word answers, she act... (220 words)

How can I get my professor to know I'm still interested in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted a while ago about a situation involving a professor who was interested in me last fall but I think I inadvertently gave him the idea that I wasn't interested. I am in his class again and at first he was treating me badly. He seems to be a little nicer now but I'm ... (190 words)

Why does he always tell me there's someone else when we fight?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Am i insecure when me and my boyfriend get into a argument he saids he got somebody else thats better than me he dont want me he dont want to sleep with me im a turn off he just living with me cause i let him. am i wrong for being insecure? Then when he cools off he says he ... (84 words)

One week she's ogling over rings the next week she's moving out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK here goes Me n my girlfriend unexpentedly split four weeks ago, she just started crying and said she could not go on like this and left before i had time to even let it sink in. She moved all her stuff out the next day while i was at work and when i came home it looked l... (259 words)

How can I control his temper?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend of over a year very much. Theres just one thing: he can get a temper sometimes. Heres the thing, when he is stressed, I back off and let him sort it out and focus on things to try to help us relax. When im stressed or having the odd bad day, its like he... (166 words)

I don't want to make him feel like he has to stay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My sort of ex-fiance, my first love, and I are very.. i need help. Not long after I gave him my virginity, 6days after to be exact, he asked me for a break. About a couple weeks after that, I learned I may be pregnant, and I talked to him about it because he and I are close ... (179 words)

If I have a go at this course a third time, will it look bad on my transcript?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone .. i'm 19 attending a community college for a 2nd yr now and i'm studying to be a physical therapist and for now i'm doing my basics but .. i'm having a hard time with anatomy and physiology.. i failed the 1st time i took the course with a D because i was ... (164 words)

Continue on the path to being single, or pick between these two guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm sort of feeling a bit stuck and would appreciate any thoughts. For the past few months, I've been sort of seeing someone. We've texted alot, hung out with friends and more alone time. And a few weeks ago, we spent the night together for the first time. But the problem ... (268 words)

Do you have to have sex to be lovers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Why must you have to have sex to be someone's lover? Don't you just need to be in love with your partner to be lovers?... (25 words)

Long lost love child.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - when my husbands father passed I found out he had a 19 yr old daughter. I have two small children with him, and my parents and my whole family think these are his first kids. Whats worse is being around his family after the fact. Nobody has said anything about her and it is ... (66 words)

I still love her even after all the awful things she's said.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had an affair with a woman back at the beginning of summer. I know, it's wrong and I regret it. But that's not really what my question is about. After she broke up with her girlfriend, we continued seeing each other. We had some of the best times together. I loved spending... (183 words)

Is she testing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. Wondering if you can help me on something that confused me as hell. The other day me and a few friends from work met up and went to a restaurant. While there I caught sight of one really sexy woman. She was a waitress at the restaurant we was at. I couldn't keep my ... (394 words)

Confused wife.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband for almost 3 years and we have an 8 months old baby and we are expecting our second. We are also building a new home while taking care of our business. With this being said my husband is now saying that he is unhappy but can't tell me ... (111 words)

Why do women get freaky on guys they don't love, but not with guys they do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I found out in cleaning out some old files on a unused computer that my GF had a much wilder and mind blowing sex life with her ex before me than she previously described. This mate was mainly a fuck buddy, but they were friends for a few years before that. What bugs me, is ... (242 words)

Is there any hope she'll come back to me of is it just a dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all. Having some trouble at the moment. Me and this girl had been together for 7 months, I had felt something I'd never felt before. She ended it in August and the reasons I got didn't feel very legitimate and still don't. I feel like I haven't done anything wrong and I've ... (349 words)

We've already played out his fantasy but he wants another threesome!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants to have a threesome with another girl.The thing is we have already done this once . I like girls too but i hated seeing him penetrate this other woman. He says if I dont want to , theres no fun in it for him, but I worry he isnt truly satisfied with me. For... (91 words)

I want his eyes on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I am a Freshman, 14, and loving it. Coming with the fabulous dramatic age of 14, comes boys. Boys, boys, boys. Can't get enough of them. I'm not the sl**ty type. I don't "date around", i don't do what other teenage girls do. I want a real relationship, a dynamic one like ... (229 words)

Sweet dreams are made of these..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I normally don't dream anything normal. But this black and white one was very close to real.br / I have been crushing on a beautiful person who helps me unconditionally when I ask for it. Yes, he does go the extra mile for me during my stressful times. One day I had dreamt t... (239 words)

Should I ask him out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been dating (not bf/gf just dating) for 7 months now (yeah..i know) and everything is good..we normally spend Fridays together hang out, movies, bowling..whatever! Recently like within the past 2 weeks he's been acting a bit different especially when it comes to me ... (216 words)

I saw something I shouldn't have seen!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw my mate's boyfriend, kissing another one of my friends in the park the other day. They both saw me but carried on anyway, a few hours later they knocked on my door and begged me not to tell my mate. I'm confused, as i don't want to be the girl to break up a relationshi... (80 words)

After flirting with my TA, do you think he's aware that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, so I want to follow up my previous post regarding me and my teacher. Actually yesterday, me and my teacher met a social networking event and we exchanged a few conversations together which was nice. Then I introduced my friend to him, later my friend started talking ... (360 words)

My online friend wants more than a friendship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy on the internet for over a year and recently we decided to meet up. I thought it would just be as two mates going out but he ended up telling me he loved me and i kissed him. We've been together for 3 months now, and I've met up with him 12 times ... (151 words)

He's not allowed to date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to go out with this guy but his parents are so strict they don't even allow him to have a gf. He wants to go out with me too and its upsetting him just to tell me he is only friends with me. I know he wants more and so do I..so I am doing the just 'friends' thing with ... (281 words)

I can forgive her but I don't want to touch her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age - Wife had an affair and she sounds very genuine that she is sorry, I can get over it but what i cant get over is He ejaculated in her and now I dont want to even touch her because I feel that her body has absorbed his fluids and he is always with her.Do I have a legitimate ... (91 words)

After ending a two year relationship she's with another guy in less than a week!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - After breaking up with me last Thursday, she's already posting pictures online of her with another guy. How do I get over this? This past week has been tough on me, but I've been able to move on fairly well through the support of my friends and family, but after seeing thi... (152 words)

Should I let my ex know I want him to feature more in our daughter's life?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a love child with a married man and she is now 2 years old. It was a mistake but shes here to stay and is a lovely kid. He has never met her but we live quite close and she will go to the same school as his 4 year old. He has seen us in town but will avoid coming too ... (186 words)

Am I involved in some kind of affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I may be involved in an online affair. He is 40, I am 18. We have been talking for over a year now on the internet. Our conversations were strictly about things other than sex in the beginning, but now they are mainly about sex. When we began talking, he wasn't married, ... (116 words)

Christmas gift for my older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well I'm usually really good at picking out Christmas gifts for people but I can not figure out what to get my boyfriend. Any ideas would be appreciated. He's 38 by the way. Thank you. :)... (37 words)

I hate being like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Since i was born I've been surrounded by mostly women. My dad was around but he was absolutely useless that my mum just kicked him out when i was about 10. He didn't run away with another woman, he was kicked out. That's how pathetic he was. Anyway when i was about 8 or 9, i ... (446 words)

Stay friends with my ex or let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I honestly have very little options, I can stay friends with my ex or just let her go. I care for my ex to the worlds end. I know that and I have always had that feeling for her even before we dated and I was actually interested in other girls. I am a carring person and I know ... (547 words)

Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if its normal to have to spread your labia before intercourse? Sometimes if I am not very moist I will have to seperate my labia for my boyfriend and I to have intercourse. I would appreciate any answers. Thankyou!... (43 words)

Can the guilt of lying actually get worse with time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Can the guilt of lying actually get worse with time? I'm trying to convince a friend that lying to his partner about something he knows (or he strongly believes) would make her reconsider wanting to be with him, will only get more difficult for him with time. To me it sounds l... (269 words)

Am I the only woman who doesn't want children or the perfect "white picket fence" life?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

17 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm 23 now and even since i can remember i've never been interested in having children, i mean, at all. Sometimes it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me. Whenever i've been around friends or family and they're all fussing over one of their babies i'm just not ... (127 words)

How can I know if he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - For quite some time I have failed to find someone to love. Being 27 and gay in a country where homosexuality is regarded as a deadly sin, I could hardly find a way to find someone to fall in love with. Eventually, 5 months earlier, I did. He is 17, and he is someone who is, to ... (394 words)

He says he didnt cheat, it was just flirting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a single mom, I'm 23 and I've been dating this guy that I've known (not intimately) for 2 years. We've been dating for a month. He said that he loved me first and he's told my daughter that he loves her. I believe that he's truly genuine and that he does love us. He works ... (240 words)

Is this a reaction to my birth control?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, not a sex question, cause i am a virgin...but, i started to take birth control a few days ago, and my vagina has been...well...itchy? then this morning i took a look (which is very awkward for me) and noticed that the entrance is white...like the skin. :( I'm going to my ... (72 words)

How do I become more comfortable meeting and talking to women? I'm sure once I can manage this I will finally get a girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is going to sound like a really stupid question but I'll ask it anyway. I'm a 22 almost 23 year old guy, getting ready to finish school in a few months, but I've never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl, etc. I would consider myself a fairly good looking guy (I'm not the ... (233 words)

This female friend of his is sticking her nose in where its not wanted! What can we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months now. When we met for the first time, he was with a friend who was a girl, and she had made a comment to him that "he was going to marry me someday". Anyway, as much as that was a cute comment, I see this girl sticking her nose ... (431 words)

Do single men really think all women want to trap them with a baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok, so about 6 weeks ago I fooled around with a guy 10 years younger than me. It was just for fun and we did not have sex. I just needed a little something to make me feel alive since my life has been chaos and tragedy since March (husband killed himself and mother died ... (277 words)

Is it possible for a woman to think a guy is very attractive yet not be sexually attracted to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing my girfriend for a little over a year. (I'm 46 and she's 34) The sex was great at first, and she couldn't keep her hands off me. But, she's gradually lost interest over the past 3-4 months, and does't want to do much of anything except cuddle (she loves ... (440 words)

Is it a turn off to see the guy you fancy chewing tobacco?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just some quick question for the girls. If you saw a guy that you found attractive would it turn you off if you saw him chewing tobacco? If he asked you out would you say no or see him differently because of this? And yes i am fully aware of the consequenses of dipping so no ... (148 words)

I love her a lot and want to get back with her. Please help!

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with this girl for 2 years and 4 months. We've had a good relationship and loved each other a lot. Everything was going fine and all of a sudden she stopped calling me as much and when i call she wouldn't talk the same and would hang up after 5 to 10 minutes into ... (219 words)

Should I put up with my feelings or get out of the marriage?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my husband for many years but graduallyI've got less and less attracted to him physically. I haven't actually fancied him for ages and now I don't feel right when he touches me, I just tense up.We have kids so I'm having real trouble deciding if I should put up ... (89 words)

Should I wish him happy birthday? I don't want him to think I'm rude if I dont, but then again I don't want him to think we can be friends either!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all now I really need your help. My ex's birthday is in a week's time and I don't know if I should wish him a Happy Birthday or not. I was planning to maybe send him a Facebook message and wish him. We broke up around 10 months ago, but we had remained in contact for 5 mo... (296 words)

Why would a person say "If I was not with my current boyfriend, I would have this other guy instead"?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Its just a simple question, why would a person say "If I was not with my current boyfriend, I would have this other guy instead"? What does this show? Should I warn the boyfriend? This guy is my friend and I over heard this from a friend and worries me. If you have some ideal ... (60 words)

Need advice on intimacy and getting pregnant, please help!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been trying for a while now to get pregnant, but it just hasn't happened yet, I was just wondering what is the best tips for being intimate? Can you please help us, we want a family but it hasn't happened yet, and just hoping that there is nothing wrong ... (82 words)

Is it wrong for me to not make up with him and to let him and his mum get on with it?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a partner of 7yrs with 2 children,we broke up recently and he moved out and went back home to live with his mum, he is 41.He eventually came back and decided he wanted to make up, he then tells me he has decided to go on night shift and continue to live at home with his ... (330 words)

I want to have closure to my relationship with this girl, but I don't know what to say to her!

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl I was with for a long time is moving very far away very soon. She has been with this other guy for over a year now, he is a total scumbag. She and I recently got into a fight, she deleted me on facebook, won't let me in her house, etc. I said and did some things that ... (137 words)

Will my second pap smear hurt as much as the first?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for about 2 years now and I had my very first pap smear last year. Well, it's almost time to get my second one and let me tell you, it was very horrible when I got my first one done. I cried because it hurt so bad and I was ... (119 words)

My ex barged in on my date, and now he doesn't want to get involved with me! Do I try and win him back or let him go?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It's a long story, so i'll try my best to cut it down for you! (Thank you for reading!) I was in a relationship for 9 years (since i was 16) with someone i thought was my soulmate. I admit, it was on and off for the most part as he cheated on me, and constantly decided we shoul... (508 words)

Our relationship has reached the point where nothing is happening and its a bit boring, I want to take it to the next level but he doesn't see the point!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 3 1/2 years and have been living together for 2 1/2. We get on like a house on fire we are a good team we make each other laugh basically we just get on with it. I want to get married one day but he thinks whats the point we both know we love ... (257 words)

He has broken up with me 15 times in the last 2 years!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 22 years old and my boyfriend is 25, iv'e been with him for about 2 years there's something really wrong with him. in the past 2 years he's broke up with me about 15 times and his exuse is im scared of getting hurt... i keep telling him im not going to do anything to hurt ... (162 words)

Do I owe my ex another chance like my family thinks I do, or do I follow my heart?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So my situation is this, I have been living in my parent's house with my boyfriend for five years. When my mother let him come to live at my house he and I were just friends, and had met online. He is from 3,000 miles away, and all of his family is back at his home state. ... (710 words)

I don't feel I should have to ask for oral sex, especially when I give him oral 2-3 times a week!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost one year and I give him oral 2-3 times per week without him asking but he has only given to me maybe once a month or less. I don't feel like I should have to ask-am I doing something wrong?... (48 words)

How do I tell my mum I am dating a man 35 years older than me?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for over a year with a man who is 35 years older than me. We have a special connection and love spending time together although it tends to be once a week as we both have very busy demanding jobs. I am 24 years old and he has 3 children who know ... (131 words)

She gets mad at me when I tell the truth so I have to lie just for us to stay together!

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17 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i really need help! recently me and my gf had a fight and she said i cheated on her when i never did. she believes all the lies she says to herself i had a female friend whom i'd talk to quite often but feelings were only mutual. my gf told me if i loved her i'd stop talking to ... (229 words)

No physical relationship - what to do?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is emotionally dead towards me. We have been married for 9 years and have a four year old child. We used to be very affectionate together, but now our sex life is non existent, she won't hug or hold me and we never kiss. If I try to, I am pushed away or an excuse is ... (342 words)

I think my now ex-boyfriend has pawned my only valuable item! What should I do?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi you've seen my last question about the guy i need to dump. the title: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-tried-dumping-him-twice-but-he-doesnt.html you need to see what happened cause at the end i have another question. sorry its a bit long. anyways heres what hap... (320 words)

He is still technically married, he lives with his 'wife' and we work with her too! Is it just his papers preventing us from being together officially?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 21 and Joe is 28. we've been dating for like a year and a half, hes a cook at a restaurant,im a waitress.he's mexican. i dont know exactly when he came to america, but he is still technically married. heres the nasty part: we work with his wife.I heard from her talking to ... (485 words)

I finally started to feel secure in our relationship, but then he called me his ex's name this morning!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months, and we live together. This morning when I woke up, I complained of a headache. He said 'Oh, poor Becky-wecky'. Becky is not my name. It's the name of his ex-girlfriend. They dated for five years, but broke it off thr... (552 words)

Did I do something wrong by dancing with his friend?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i got into a huge fight couple days ago. he was at a night club with his best friend,i went there look for him.and he introduced me to some of the girls he just met which i was totall ok about it. then all the sudden he said he has to go talk to those girls and ... (259 words)

I was the other woman but I ended it, now I feel so lost....

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just ended an affair. i dont feel proud of having one. hope you dont judge me for being in one. i was the other woman. their relationship ended not necessarily because he was cheating but because of many other factors. it was just not going to work out. after they broke ... (213 words)

How do I get her to have faith in our relationship?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my girlfriend for over 7 months now. I'm 27 and she's 21. I love her with all of my heart and I can't imagine my future without her anymore. Despite any faults she may have she truly is a good person. However, for the past few weeks she'll sometimes say th... (223 words)

How can I show that I do trust him?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - He thinks I don't trust him, and says a relationship without trust is nothing and so we are over. I'm devastated. I think I do trust him, but have been cautious along the way in case things don't work out. If I have a trust issue, it's not with him personally, it's... (372 words)

His ex is obsessed with him, what can I do?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with this guy for ten years. we broke up then got back together for three years and his ex gf is obssesed with him, posting things on facebook to get me thinking hes still involved with her and tryin to be exactly like me. i had to cut and dye my hair but that didnt ... (106 words)

I have a strange feeling he is not entirely over his ex!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am dating a guy for 7 months now, for about a month we started living together. He says he loves me and really takes care of me. Also he works a lot and whenever he is free he spends his time with me. The problem is, that in spite of all i feel so jealous of his e... (185 words)

I feel like I have been abandoned by my friends and family when I need them most

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17 November 2010 (F)

age - I am feeling so sad and depressed. This has been a bad year with deaths, son being in jail, being sick, getting fired, etc. I feel like I have been abandoned by my friends and family when I need them most. Maybe I feel it was one-sided and everything was great when I am ... (240 words)

I know I should leave him after his affairs and lies, but I don't want my son to come from a broken home

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so as you can see rom my other posts I have had a really hard relationship with my boyfriend from the beginning, I will just give you a brief run down. We met in march 2009, he cheated on me within 2 weeks with his ex, then in july I feel pregnant and miscarried and he l... (430 words)

I feel she has had sex with so many people in the past that she no longer has a sex drive!

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been with this girl on and off for 12 years. We never have been together for 2yrs without breaking up until she got pregnant with my 2 yr old son. She had at least 40+ sex partners before me and during our break ups. She now change her views on being promiscuous and ... (163 words)

He said he really liked me, slept with me and said he would leave his girlfriend for me, but that never happened! Why did he do this?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I travelled to France with a study abroad program this summer. We were all assigned 'buddies' and mine seemed very sweet and helpful. I rarely saw him and eventually found out he had a girlfriend who had the same name as me. I was shocked that he was in a relationship but ... (970 words)

Am I crazy for falling in love with a guy I haven't met in person yet?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16..And I have a boyfriend..But we've never met in person before..only on webcam and phone..And he's halway around the world..Well I guess the question is..Is it weird?Am I crazy for falling in love with a guy I haven't met in person yet?... (43 words)

Should I continue to chase after her? Or let it be and she can chase the guy she likes?

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17 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - we were always together;we take same class, go on breaks together, and eat together at break time... she walks up to me today... she... Deon... me ... ya whats sup she... you know your actually my best friend in this campus... me... really! your also my best fri... (263 words)

Do guys like it when girls get really wet during sex?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. This is my first time on this site, and I can't believe how helpful it has been! My question is: Do guys like it when girls get really wet before/while having sex? I ask this because I tend to get very turned on during sex, and get really wet. I am one of those people ... (225 words)

How do I go about breaking up with my girlfriend?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in need of some advice on how to break up with my gf. We have been together just over two years. I still care about her deeply and have strong feelings for her, but I have lost sight of that spark that kept me so attracted to her.. Might say ive fallen out of love. I have ... (262 words)

He has a tape of him and his ex together, why does he want to keep it? And what is with all the lies?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for 4 months and everything seemed fine. Then (2 months into it) I found out he was watching porn. I have told him about the fact that I have a problem with it. He looked me in the eyes and promised not to look at it again. Few weeks later I caught ... (247 words)

Keeping this secret is tearing me up

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met an old guy friend at a reunion recently. I took along my boyfriend who I love with me. When he was away getting drinks this old friend pulled me aside outside and told me that I was his first love and that he's held a torch for 20 years. He's recently remarried so I was ... (170 words)

I have to choose between the love of my life, or my wife who wont try and work on our marriage and our new baby......

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Help. Please help. I am truly desperate and at the end of my sanity. I have been married for 3 years, together with her for a total of 5. I do love my wife as a person. I want to be "in love" with her, but she makes it difficult to do so. I know that my wife loves me in... (1122 words)

I'm falling in love with my gay best friend!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i think i'm falling in love with my best friend. only prblem is hes gay and i'm a straight girl. hes so sweet and we get along really well we're so alike and he says nice things to me and compliments me all the time and hes usually really affectionate. were not afraid to tell ... (323 words)

He cheated but I still think he might be the one

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, so here goes. trying to condense a long story, i dated a guy for five years, engaged for two, and a month before the wedding he decided to tell me he had been cheating on me for two months with a girl he knew from work. obviously my family hated him after this (to... (234 words)

I'm in love with someone a ton older than me who I can hardly see anymore. What do I do?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and I realize that at this age most of us are throwing around the word "love" like nothing and we're highly immature, but I'm willing to bet everything that I am truthfully in love because: I have never been so happy to see someone's smile as I am to see his. I'm ... (486 words)

How to get into his pants without freaking him out?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for six months now and there has been no below the belt action. My boyfriend is very religious and is waiting for marriage to lose his virginity. While I am okay with not having sex with him, I do not plan on saving my virginity like he is ... (100 words)

A past trauma affecting my love life

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had some issues in the past when it comes to sexuality (imposed affection from an older brother). But now that I am 18 and should probably be thinking of romance, I'm finding it almost impossible to execute it. I've been asked out before and gone on numerous dates. ... (125 words)

Can I win her back?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's my problem my ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for a little over 2 months now. And this entire experience has been extremely hard on me, and my feelings for her haven't changed. I still love her just as much the day we ended things, and I thought going NC for a ... (361 words)

How come she doesn't make me feel special anymore?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some serious advice. I'm down in the dumps by my own doing and feel like I can't seem to get going anymore. I treating my ex gf like crap and was such a selfish asshole that I think I have lost her for good. I regret my ignorance. I broke up with her 8 months ago and ... (301 words)

He didn't acknowledge my existence!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend found out that the guy i liked, liked me back.but when i texted him he never texted back and he didnt talk to me when i saw him. im 14 and dont really have lots of experience with guys. what is up with him!?!... (46 words)

Will my heart go on?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey im 22 and broke up wit my ex 2 years ago we were together for 6 years,,for some reason i still cant get her out of my head and still love her,i seem to judge other girls on what she was like and thinbgs never work out..i feel like i can never love again please help...... (57 words)

Long distance is killing me!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a relationship for over 2 years now and i had to move to the states to live. Therefore, i am currently in long distance relationship...its so hard and everything because i was so sprung about my boyfriend when we started dating then after the years pass now i am feel ... (218 words)

From FWBs to relationship to make it or break it!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I'm very confused my boyfriend and I have been together for alil over a year now...We started out as friends then about 2 months after that we were both single so we started to be friends with benefits. It fit us both it was great we were there for each when we needed each ... (602 words)

It feels like a stone in my right arm?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys , i just have a health question , its actually freakin me out lately . i have some kind of a STONE yes it feels like a small stone in my right arm . i can feel it when i touch it but it also appears when i work out and my arm gets tighter , its really a hard st... (120 words)

How am I going to kiss him without him freaking out?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so , my boyfriend , whenever we hugg he like doesn't put his arm around my waist . he just leans into my arm . butt he hates when I try to hugg him , so how am I gonna kiss him without him freaking out ? any tips ? I appreciate you trying .(: Love , -Beckah... (63 words)

Can someone please explain why he keeps on being a jerk but he still keeps on contacting me?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've posted about this situation before but things keep happening and I am at a loss. So to recap, I met this guy on a dating site and we dated 2 months until he ended it with me. Things were really great at the beginning but about a month into it, he told me that he still ... (396 words)

Why does he pretend not to know these women?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When out with my boyfriend (of 7 years) sometimes women come up to talk to him. It has happened probably about 8 times in the past 2-3 years where a woman comes up and is all "Oh hi [his name]! Nice to see you here! How are you?" and very friendly and familiar with him. When ... (358 words)

If I keep talking to him do I still stand a chance?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So right now I'm talking to my ex boyfriend for the very third time since our breakup. Right now he is with another girl and he's talking to me about the good and bad times him and his girl have had together. I was just wanting to know that if I keep talking to my ex do you ... (74 words)

How can I find a man who truly wants to have a family?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my ex husband when I was 16. Back then we both dreamed about having lots of babies when we were older. When we got o older he started to give me excuses why it wasn't the right time yet and even went as far as to tell me that if I were to get pregnant "by accident" he ... (187 words)

Check yes or no..

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There`s this guy that just moved to my school, and we`re friends but the other day his cousin who is also my friend and him were hanging out with me at our table because we had a free day. So they were being weird-os (as usual) and I was bored so I got out a piece of paper and ... (198 words)

Oral sex pointers?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i just started giving blowjobs. Is it a good thing if they can have an orgasm in less than 5 minutes or is that too long? I'm really starting to enjoy doing it so pointers would be appreciated. How do I know if he enjoys them..are there signs? Also, why does a man hold a ... (64 words)

WHy would he make me think he doesn't want to be friends?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy, who used to be my great friend, but now I would just count us as okay friends.. Like, he use to smile at me like everyday in our 6th hour, and he'd always look at me too. In the halls he'd wave and smile/say hi. But now in 6th hour, when we catch ey... (316 words)

How come she keeps bringing up her past crappy relationships?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i have been dating for close to 10 months now, and known each other for about two years. today we got in an arguement while sitting in her car and i swore at her after telling her i never would. now i love her very much and i didnt intentionally swear AT her ... (266 words)

So confused, does she want me or not?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need someone to help me. Sorry to sound desperate but I can't even describe what I'm feeling right now. This girl that I was dating for 2 months broke up with me, but she keeps calling everyday. Everyone tells me to ignore the calls but I can't seem to hit ignore, I ... (267 words)

My ex and my wife.

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - 2001 i got with my wife she had been cheating on me the whole time i got mad and in 2003 got even i know 2 wrongs don't make a right. but I met this girl in 2003 we dated for a week slept togther 2 times she moved in and i was confused and asked her to marry me any way ways we ... (136 words)

I don't think I'm wrong for being with him, am I?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there. I'm in a LDR. I love it a lot. I'm very very happy with what we have together. He's a lovely guy! He makes me so happy and he gets who i am and all the things i do or want to do with my life. I love that about him. But there's on problem. I've lost a few friends ... (238 words)

Did I kill his love for me?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so hopefully you can give me some advice... When me and my boyfriend first got together we were absolutely crazy in love and I honestly still am, i would die for him... Wed known each other a while before and there was a rumor going round about me Which wasn't fully tr... (271 words)

Does anyone have a list of meanings for certain dreams?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - this is prbably going to sound stupid , but does anyone have a list of meanings for dreams ? likeabout someone dying , or me having to hide with one of my friends ... I have had a bunch lately of the same thing . does anyone have anything ? I sometimes even have dreams of thing... (75 words)

Girlfriend of 5 months asked for space!

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl mid june. we were texting and seen each other at a couple parties. towards the end of june we finally got together. we would get together more often soon led to just about every otherday then around mid july we were together just about every day. whether it was ... (1603 words)

Importance of physical attraction for guys?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy off an online dating website (im 21, he 22).. im quite shy and am rather intimidated by him for various reasons, but we;ve been on a few dates anyways.. just wondering whether guys would persue a girl that they're not physically attracted to?... (47 words)

Working with boyfriend & his family became too much..destroyed our relationship

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17 November 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Don't know how to continue in a relationship. Been together over 4 yrs. 2.5 years ago was asked to join his family business to help out. Didn't know how controlling and verbally abusive his parents (the bosses) were. Always shouting and scolding, being conserva... (230 words)

Should I wait for these hard times to wear off?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So for the past year or so, i got the chance to meet a very special guy from our small school that we both went to. He's three years older than I. We began as friends and nurtured that friendship as we talked more and more, realizing the unique and special..and rather ... (388 words)

My boyfriend said we don't click, but it's not over?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My Boyfriend said we dont click, but its not over? I have been dating my bf for the past 4 years. Recently he got an apart and i have been staying once in awhile until recently that i stayed there for about 2 weeks. I went to dinner with him last fri and i felt something w... (304 words)

Should I go to a strip club to lose my virginity?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well first off im an 18 years old and im still a virgin. Everyone say to me that im lucky because I can share that experince with someone I truely care about but im having second thoughts. That maybe I should go to strip club and pay for it. So do you think that I should hold ... (61 words)

It hurts when he cums inside me. What can we do?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 and dating a 56 year old male. He tends to have strong ejaculations to the point that he goes too deep and hard inside of me. Ive told him this is painful. The sex is great up until he ejaculates. I've asked him to pull out, but for some reason he cannot and perfers to ... (114 words)

Web cam adventure is turning into a nightmare! I'm being blackmailed!

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I did some stuff on cam for a guy once, he recorded it. he lives over seas. and now his threatening to send it to all my facebook contacts, his saved them. please dont say i shouldnt have done that, i know that now. but what do i do about it? if i block him and everything... (88 words)

I'm 25 and have never been kissed

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I am a 25 year old female and I have never been kissed. It's not for a lack of trying, as I have put my self out there several times in hopes that when I do the guy will respond positively. Never happens. They always tell me the same thing "you're such a friend, ... (292 words)

To keep her cut out of my life or to go back and mend it?

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17 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - about 9 months ago i decided to cut the girl i loved out of my life completly becuase i couldnt cope with seeing her all the time and knowing that she didnt feel the same way about me. i had hoped that this would help me forget about her and move on and i kinda did, but every ... (132 words)

Should I just throw my feelings out the window?

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17 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - errr, first time using this, but i thought i might as well try ;//-//; Alright, so just to clear this up, yes I am bisexual. So, there's this one girl that I like alot, and I've liked her for almost a year now. I've already told her I liked her (turns out she liked me too!... (271 words)