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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I heal my relationship with my mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, During my life as a kid, me and my mother haven`t gotten along. I have been yelled at daily, told Im a bitch, and just to move out. Lately it has gotten worse, my friends say even mother/daughter relationships are like this, But the more she puts me down the more... (88 words)

Why do I seem to attract players and man whores?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I have been noticing I attract players and man whores. Sure I admit it, I have large breasts, curves, and I'm (unfortunatly) very skinny. I don't want to be this way, I eat like a cow yet, I never gain a pound. I'm extremely quiet and shy, and I am a ... (143 words)

Is he just trying to passify me until the divorce is over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay I am recently separated with 2 kids. My husband told me he was not happy and he was talking to a co-worker. he told me nothing would ever happen they are co-workers and friends. I found text messages saying things like "All i need to see is your smile" so i kicked him ... (216 words)

She won't climax

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Why does my girlfriend push me away when I go down on her and she's about to cum?... (18 words)

Erection problem... Is it all in my head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Straight to the point I can't keep it up during sex with my girlfriend. I think it started when I found out her ex was massive and it put sooo much pressure on me I nearly ended it. I then fell in love with her she's smart and sexy and loves me more than anyone EVA has. I don't ... (94 words)

How can I ask her out on a date if we only text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl, "Michelle" back at the beginning of the semester and we met through a mutual friend. She and I have recently began texting... a lot. Everyday for a decent amount of time.. 1, 2, one time 4 hours straight. She and I talk about anything and everything. I try ... (251 words)

Why is my boyfriend so insensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My long distance boyfriend is being really unsupportive atthe moment. My mother is ill and I have to look after her most of the time. She's been ill since I was born and I find it really difficult cleaning up after her when she's ill. I lose alot of sleep because I have to get ... (154 words)

How can I love a guy that makes me feel like utter rubbish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sigh, I'm reposting because APPARENTLY my question wasn't suitable for publication. I guess it wasn't... being a private conversation. What the hell: It's almost 11pm, and I have just finished talking to a guy I think I'm in love with. But how can I love a guy that makes m... (215 words)

I gave him 15 years and he moved on in a week... I'm DEVASTATED!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband left 2 weeks ago. I told him I didn't think there was anything he could do to fix the marriage and it was over. The next day he packed and left. 2 weeks in and I know I made the WRONG decision. I want him to come home more than anything and show him how much I ... (328 words)

Gay Intervention for a "straight" friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so this is a strange situation I'm gonna explain to you guys and I'm not too sure myself on the right path to take with it but you guys have given me great feedback before so I'd like to know your opinions on what I should do next... First off some background (and ... (1324 words)

I was warned, but I had sex with him 4 times anyway!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help! I slept with my coworker/ friend's son. She invited me to move with her and warned me about her son. But we kept making passes at each other. The other night, we were talking and he started kissing me. The next thing i knew, we were having sex! We had sex 4 times ... (68 words)

I go out of my way for him, but what does he do for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We have lived together almost the entire time. Although I am almost 30 years old, I had never been in a serious relationship before. He is the first guy I have ever loved. We have had our rocky times but always seem ... (461 words)

What should a guy's confidence be based on if it's confidence itself that actually matters?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Good looking women go with rich, famous, and good looking men, right? To me, there appears to be a hierarchy of men because of this. The less rich, manly, and successful, the less attractive you are to women (let's just use the 'best looking women' as they would be the least ... (226 words)

Is he just trying to charm my pants off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel like this?? what is wrong with me:(? ive been seeing this guy..hes soo sweet,, hes like the first guy..that's actually treated me right..hes soo sweet and he says he loves me dearly..(he hasn't changed after we had sex..hes still the same sweet guy) but i h... (180 words)

How do I get rid of my husband's new "friend"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

Should I bring up my sexual past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am not a virgin anymore. I have been with one guy only, and now i have a new boyfriend. He abviously knows i have had sex before. but im not sure if it bothers him or not ? should i ask him ? or should i just not say anything ?... (52 words)

I feel like his ex wife is lurking around the corner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are in a complicated situation. He is much older than I am and is technically married as in separated. The other day we were joking about stuff when his ex came up and I said I hated how I felt she was always just lurking in the corner stopping me from ... (125 words)

I'm scared to smooch my closest friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay so I love this boy well I think that I do i'm not so sure anymore. I want to kiss him so freaking bad but every time I look into his eyes, I link"Dont do it ,he is one of your closest friends" WHAT DO I DO? At the same time something is telling me to do it because I know ... (127 words)

I think I want more sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have had sex once only. and i want to be with him again. but i dont know how to tell him.... (25 words)

I pushed my ex into a relationship with me, again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just pressured my ex (two years, lived together for one year) back into a relationship with me. We broke up two months ago because I got into a stupid fight with his friend. I immediately realized we were broken up for the wrong reason, so I wanted to get back together... (456 words)

He's sweet, charming, but constantly brings up sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently got talking to this guy and he seems sweet and genuine but very forward. He regularly brings up the conversation of sex even tho we havent met yet. I am still a virgin and know that he isnt. Im worried that he is only interested in sex even though he says he ... (60 words)

Best friend vs. Lover

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 45 and newly divorced. i ran into my first crush at asge 13 5 months ago and we have been seeing each other ever since. in the start he talk me he had a place 6hr away and he lived with his bestfriend that is a girl. didnt think too much about until i found out that ... (349 words)

This guy is zoning in on my boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night me and my boyfriend got into a really big argument. It started about this guy who fancy’s my boyfriend and saying stuff like ‘hey u sexy thing’ … I got a little annoyed as obviously I didn’t want other people talking to him like that and I wouldn’t of minded if it ... (221 words)

How do I cut to the chase and ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get a guy to ask me out? I think one of my friends told him I like him . I just found out that someone did tell but I didn`t think he liked me back and one of my friends told him that I didn`t like him but I think he thinks I like him and it's awkward!!! We aren't ... (96 words)

My 15 year old niece is pregnant, her mother does not know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Reader I have a huge problem, my 15 year old niece has just told me she is 1mth 4days pregnant. My sister does not know, my niece told me she wants to keep the baby, i have tried to persuade her to tell her mother first. i have also advise her she will firstly need... (155 words)

Wanted: New breasts!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have ugly breasts. They're small for my body (I have huge hips) and they have big areolas. I also don't like their shape much, it's a very common shape but it's not round and nice. If they were rounder and had small areolas I wouldn't mind the size, but I just got plain ugly ... (285 words)

How do I say goodbye...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - well im going through very tough times i have been with this girl for about 6 years, long distance and together we were engaged for about 2 years but she broke off the engagement due to her not trusting me and a couple of lies that i said many years ago. Its been 5 months s... (216 words)

How to enforce a legal matter filed in USA in the Netherlands? Child Support

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I enforce a legal matter filled in USA in the Netherlands? Child Support Matter? My boyfriend and I (EX Boyfriend NOW) were having a relationship for more than 10 months. I am from Miami and he is currently here in a J1 Visa, what it means that he has to go back to Ho... (163 words)

My heart wants to stay with him, my head doesn't know...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago. we'd been together 10 months and it had been quite a rocky relationship, very intense, moved very fast and although the good times were amazing, the bad times were too difficult. he suffered from retrograde jelousy and it took over our... (603 words)

Need a few suggestions for a gift to my boyfriend, please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to get my bf a gift for his bday nd for the up coming holiday...I need help...... (19 words)

Why does she and is she acting so strange toward my boyfriends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a complicated relationship that seems to be jeopardising my relationship with my best friend. I’m 34 and in a relationship with a man 10 years younger than me. However, he is the best friend of the son of my friend. My friend encouraged us to get together when she ... (494 words)

Could someone please explain his actions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Please can you help me decipher what is going on in this man's head and where did it all go wrong? Sorry, if it's long but I need to document all the facts. A year ago I meet a man through a mutual friend. He adds me on Facebook and sends me a message asking if he can buy me... (728 words)

What can I do to stop crying so much all the time??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i really cry so much and i really want to no how to stop it, i alwasy cry about stupid things and i sometimes cry on the phone to my boyfriend about things, i think this puts pressure on him and upsets him. of course it does right? Please help me! ... (56 words)

I seem to want more than she does in a relationship, any suggestions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a male, and i have been seeing this beautiful, great women for about a year. Our relationship has been purely sexual since I first started seeing her which has been fine by me. I see her about once or twice a week, and she is just an amazing lover. After making love, we ... (311 words)

My gf did something that affects my health, should I continue in this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have a serious problem with relationship... quick background: i started dated my gf in oct 2009.. everything was perfect she told me how much she likes me and wants to spend more time and she called me every day etc etc.. i fall for it and i fall for her h... (691 words)

He used me, hurt me, left me but I still care, how do I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid I know this is long, please please please read it through. I am basically from India and got separated from my husband since he treated me so badly. i got into a relationship with a guy in office, we were friends for sometime and then started dating. He is yo... (384 words)

Do women like to view men's physical sexuality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - did women like to see men sex?... (7 words)

Should I wait for him to ask me to get married??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone! well im 18 years old (19 in dec) i've beeen with my bf since i was 14 years old we have a 2 year old daughter! well we love eachother alot! and i mean alot! we cant be without eachother for so long we tell each other everything! there's nothing i don't tell him! ... (181 words)

My boyfriend kissed another girl, now I want to hurt him, am I wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice regarding my boyfriend we have been together for a year and half and i still cannot get over him wanting to kiss another girl when we was together for a few months he has changed so much and loves me but i still want to hurt him so badly for him wanting to kiss ... (124 words)

Is this normal, not to be able to climax this way?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - does anyone out there have any trouble reaching orgasm's ??? I don't understand why I have this problem..My boyfriend will go down on me and it feels good but i rarely reach orgasm this way or any way..I think my urges and sensitivity in that area is not what it should be..Just ... (55 words)

He is confusing me and I want to understand??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, We liked each other. Went out, but not serious, for a few months. Chemistry was unbelievable. Never broke up but he pulled away. As we are not based on the same town I haven't seen him in two months. I really like him. Very much. When he stepped back I explained him h... (175 words)

Should I be bold and just tell him I like him or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy at my school. He's in the grade above me.I'm 17.We have mutual friends so whenever he greets them he greets me too. He always looks right at me when he says hi(not sure if that's a good sign or nothing). But we've never really had a proper conversation. ... (224 words)

Please give me a few suggestions as to how I get over this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of four months and I broke up last night. He is 17 and I just turned 16. We fought a lot, and now I need help on getting over him. He said that he wasn't happy, and left me. He has made a lot of mistakes in the relationship, including talking about me behind ... (266 words)

I have a strong urge to urinate when being stimulated by hand, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do I always feel like urinating when my boyfriend fingered me? Is it orgasm?... (15 words)

Am I wrong for not wanting to speak to my family ever again??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a very complicated situation that has been around for many years. It is a long story but I will keep it as short as possible. Please, I really need advice so badly with this before it ruins my life even more. My father was an extremely violent abusive alcoholic and my... (781 words)

I use him for a mental image during masturbation

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) age 41-50 - How can I stop masterbating to the images/thoughts of my ex? We broke up for a reason. But somehow I can't seem to stop thinking about him. I need to totally get over him. Please help!... (37 words)

At 5'6'' weighing 100 pounds, is my friend anorexic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hii Aunties and Uncles, basically, I have a pen pal who lives several hundred miles north from me and she recently had surgery and lost a lot of weight. In her last letter to me she said she weighs 100lbs (7stone 2lbs) and she's 5foot 6.5 inches. Is this very underweight?? ... (100 words)

Presumably perfect boyfriend cheated, now I'm lost at what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone My relationship dilemma is a common one to ask here but seeing as Im now in the situation myself Im finding it really difficult to give myself advice on this matter, my previous relationship (2 years) was one full of lies and cheating (on his part) and becaus... (1037 words)

Boyfriend made me throw up from his comments

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

- After a comment my boyfriend made about my weight I started to throw up food after eating it I know I shouldn't I know it can cause a lot of health issues but if I don't do it ill sit their biting my nails feeling really anxious until I do it. I want to see help before it goes ... (96 words)

I know I'm not getting coal for Christmas, is it a ring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has recently told me he's already bought my xmas gift. This would be our first Christmas together and we've been together about 7 or so months. He even showed what he got me to my family to see if I'd like it. He doesn't understand how impatient I am, and my ... (170 words)

He wants me to go on top but I don't know how!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time the other day, i was a virgin but he wasnt. He said next time we have sex he wants me to be on top of him but i dont know how to, i really want to do this for him. Need advice on how i do this for him, what sort of things sho... (76 words)

Is confidence really important to guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, just a quick question, is confidence really important to guys? Cause i've heard that guys are more attracted to confident girls, but im really shy and I haven't had a boyfriend in ages. How can i be more confident around guys? And is confidence more important than looks ... (64 words)

We have been married for 14 years but now she needs some space, I am lost without her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am lost without her, My wife and i have been married 14 years and we have 3 beautiful daughters. 2 of which were hers from a previous marriage. When we were married the girls were 3 and 4. We married and have spent many great years together. 4 months ago our 12 year old ... (199 words)

She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?... (40 words)

My boyfriend dumped me out of blue.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf broke up with me yesterday said he does not want to get attached to me and like to start dating other girls. i am feeling very depressed, couldnt concentrate on anything. I called him twice and he swiched off his phone. please someone help me. I loved him so muc... (99 words)

Is my boyfriend trying to get me pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I got the birth control shot and the doc told me I had 2 wait a wk. My bf was happy cause we agreed we didn't want any accidents especially when Im younger than him (not ready) and he said he doesnt want kids. I told him, you cant cum inside me. But then we did it and he ... (105 words)

Am I still loved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - my best friend and i have known each other for 3 yrs. we loved each other. but recently moved to florida with my and sister. since i've moved back me her havent communicated. does she still love or has she moved on???... (42 words)

My online love now calls me her brother!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My Relationship has drowned so badly.. I'm heart-broken.. Well..I loved a girl online in a social networking site for two months..I'm 19 and she is 3 years younger than me.We showed up each other and we liked each other too.But all of a sudden she added me to her Siblings lis... (182 words)

I feel that my eldest daughter doesn't appreciate anything that I do for her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm hoping to get some advice regarding my daughter. She is 22 and since age 16 has gone straight from one boyfriend to another, usually unemployed guys who don't treat her well. Last year I told her that her latest BF couldn't live here but could visit so she left home, ... (434 words)

Feeling rubbish in my early stages of pregnancy! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice. Ok, I am only in early pregnancy (7 weeks) but I feel crappy EVERYDAY! I've been exercising and taking my prenatal vitamins and everything but I just feel awful! I have been trying not to complain to much to my fiance, I know he wouldn't mind but I feel like I'm ... (74 words)

Is there a reason a man would start to dress up , when he really had not before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This may seem like a silly question.so here it is : I have known this guy for three years we dated before , it ended because of schedule conflicts , basically we never had time to see each other our lives were very hetic, fast forward and we now have time. Anyways that is ... (228 words)

I am finding it hard to cope with my boyfriend being away so much, how can I change things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I change things? My boyfriend is in the military and sometimes needs to go away for operations for weeks at a time. It's always been like this since we met 8months ago. There seems to be a pattern that for 2-3weeks we see each other once a week as he lives on base an ... (203 words)

Is it a real possibility that someone has set up a fake facebook account under my name and is messaging my ex? I'm sure there must be a reason why she hasn't called!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello all my LDR ex gf broke up with me a year ago. i havent heard a squeak from her since then and wish to get closure at least once in life. i am getting crazy thoughts regarding why havent she contacted as we were so close once upon a time.i know this sounds stupid but i ge... (258 words)

He is struggling to keep an erection and now we havent had sex for 2 months, my confidence is at an all time low!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, sex was fine at first however he started having trouble keeping an erection during sex after 3 months. However, foreplay is not a problem. I confronted him about the erection problem and he brushed it aside. We haven'... (153 words)

My boyfriend has broken my trust....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I am hurting at the moment. My boyfriend has broken my trust and has done the worst thing anyone could ever do to me. I though he was a good guy. I told him about my past sexual abuse by father and he told his family about it. I can belive he did. he told me that ... (144 words)

Is it ok for me to feel like this, or am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all, english is not my first language, so sorry for any mistakes I could make. I started grad school in September of last year. Almost one year ago, one of my classmates and I started to spend a lot of time together outside school. We never formally dated, but we be... (722 words)

22 year old lesbian in love with 40 year old married straight woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So here goes,im a 22 yr. old lesbian,crushing (in love) with the mother of a former student who attends the daycare which i worked at. She is 40 yrs. old ,married, and straight (as far as i know). We've gone out outside of a school function. She's amazing, and beautiful. Im ... (170 words)

What do I say if my husband-to-be asks about my vagina being loose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i m 26yr old getting married soon.. how do i answer my husband if he ask abt my vagina being loose.. i love him a lot pls help.... (28 words)

Help! The love of my life is joining the army!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a huge dilemma which is driving me mad. My boyfriend who I have known for 5 years but have been going out with for 1 has decided to join the army to train as an officer. We have quite a complicated relationship because when we got together he was training to ... (695 words)

How do I get him out of my head once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am writing this post to ask for advice/help. I feel like theres so much going on in my life I don't even know what to-do. I was with a guy for a year and a half roughly. The relationship was fantastic at the start then everything went downhill, we argued, he made dating p... (476 words)

Is it normal to hurt after he went down on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night my Fiance went down on me.. It felt Good but he didnt do it long enough.. i think he sucked my clit a little too hard because it was a little sore afterwards for awhile, my Q is 'is that Normal that my Clit Hurt after he is finished going down on me maybe because he ... (76 words)

Girlfriend said she was pregnant but she lied

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf is giving me hrt attack, she said she is pregnant just bcos the condom broke when we were havin sex. But after 3 weeks i found out she was lieyin. What should i do? Is it a sign that she wants to break up? And should i leave her ... (55 words)

How can I help myself move on from a heartbreak?

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell in love for the first time with a girl which i actually fell in love at first sight. she eventually became my girlfriend and we had our ups and downs in our relationship. but i always forgive her no matter what. She was my first love of my life and i did a lot of ... (458 words)

My fiance's girlfriend told me he doesn't love me even though he was the one to propose, how do I find out who is telling the truth here?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have got engaged since 6 years back..and i love him crazily.he have got a lot of girlfriends, he talks with them, he calls them and he flirts with them on facebook.it hurts me.and also there is a girl who flirts with him.and 2 months back this girl she came and told me you ... (196 words)

I just don't know what to do or how to feel............

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I will attempt to make this as short as possible, but I'd really appreciate advice on this.. I will go into detail so those who do reply can have a better grasp on the situation and the people involved. I apologise in advance in regards to the probble length of this. But I ... (1172 words)

Scared to lose a good thing for prince charming

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am smart, extremely attractive (I may even be an actress or model) very good hearted, honest person. I have been dating my current boyfriend for over 2 years. I for the most part have never even looked at another man in that time. I am funny and a romantic. ... (1002 words)

How long should I wait until I let him get under the shirt? I want him to respect me!

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im new to dating - been seeing this guy for a bit over a month (we met online, im 21 hes 22). Im a virgin and am waiting to be in love, and also generally inexperienced with intimacy. on our fourth date we had our first kiss and make out session; our fifth there was a bit more ... (141 words)

I think I screw with guys head's way too much! Help!

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having a lot of commitment issues ever since me and my last boyfriend split up last July. I'm not sure if I'm settling for whats available and realizing it after it's too late and I break the poor kid's heart, or if I am just super picky and have an underlying reason ... (386 words)

My lover is threatening to tell my wife everything and have me beaten up if I don't leave my wife for her!

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been having an on off affair for 3 years, and I just don't know what to do, I have a good wife I have been with since I was 17 and 3 beautiful daughters, the woman I am having an affair is loving and the sex is just fantastic.... but everytime I try to end it I'm pulled ... (153 words)

I'm still hurting after he cheated on me 2 years ago, and cant shake the feeling that I am not enough for him. What should I do?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay here goes, i just need some advice thats not so biased...and from people who don't know my soon-to-be or me for that matter..ok so this goes way back to 2008 i just found out my boyfriend had cheated on me. we were in what i would think was a serious relationship.( living ... (467 words)

I married without my father knowing, what should I do?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am 25 years old..i got married last year and my husband as well as his family is really nice.i am all happy n good..i went against my dad and married and he doesnt know yet..he dindt want me to marry him coz he isnt of the same proffession as i am..and didnt even want to ... (136 words)

My brother's friend likes me, what should I do?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - about a week ago i decided to go to a party with a friend. it was a halloween party so everyone had costumes on. when we got there she introduced me to her friend N. she didnt know N and me knew each other. N is my brother's friend. he had gone to my house for a visit with one ... (404 words)

I have a crush on my aunt!

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I have a crush on my aunt(married my uncle non blood relative)it started years ago when I was thirteen and she came down in a robe with no clothes on then the phone ringed while she was changing her clothes she had a bra and underwear on and she basically had her entire ... (338 words)

I think I'm falling for my professor!

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im looking for some real advice not just someone telling me im too young or lecturing me. so first off im 16 but have lived through enough my mentality is more like 25 most people think im 21 even. im in college this year and there's a professor i have who i was attracted to ... (332 words)

Does he like me? How should I react if he does?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I haven't been in a relationship in a long time and I've dated here and there nothing that has ever lasted on I would ever consider serious, recently I started talking to this amazing person from my past, we've know each other since high school days I knew and he even ... (246 words)

How can I make my move when she could be gone the next day?

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - First off, sorry I'm long winded again. From an earlier question, this is the same girl I have known, and has saved my life, yet is so "swamped" and puts her work first before anything. If you wish to look through my first question I ever asked, that make give you more in... (833 words)

How do I get a girl that used to possibly like me to like me again?

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How to get a girl that used to possibly like me to like me again? Hey everyone about 4 years ago i was really close with this girl and she told me she liked me and i really liked her as well. I dont know why it didnt work out but a few months after we were talking and i t... (281 words)

Should I stay with my new boyfriend or go back to my ex?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a few months ago. He's a great person, a great boyfriend, very loving, kind, and fun. However, our sex life was so bad i stopped wanting to have any kind of sex with him. i started to have a physical reaction (an actual pain in my vagina) ... (295 words)

He's not showing much effort, should I ignore him to get his attention?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been getting to know this guy for about 7 months now..were not in a commited relationship, we are just dating. However latley he's has not been calling me as often or showing me the sweet affection I'm use to. I'm big on communication, so I spoke to him a few days ago on ... (228 words)

What do you get a guy that already has so much?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend and I are working on a new relationship with each other. Meaning friends. We care for each other a lot. Maybe in the future we'll be back together. Well in the mean time Christmas is coming up and I'm not sure what to get him. He already has a lot from me. ... (78 words)

I'm straight but attracted to men, why?

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I am confused about some things at this stage and I need some help. I am 22 and I have a mixed feelings about sexual likings. Recently, when I feel hot or in the mood, I am getting thoughts to have sex with men! I have such feeling since last more than a y... (183 words)

Did he mean what he said about going out again?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't understand this guy's behavior at all. It's so contradictory. One minute I think he's into me, and the next minute....not so much. I had a date with him last week which went pretty well IMO. It was a typical first date. Short and sweet. Through out the date he talk... (170 words)

How can I show her that I'll do anything to get her back and that I can work hard to make the relationship work?

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with a girl for 5 years. Over the last 3 years, I left her for my ex, that I very quickly realized was a big mistake and and that I loved the girl I was originally with and that the only reason I jumped back to my ex was to run from problems that I was having in the ... (767 words)

Why is he suddenly acting shy and depressed?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He's one of the most confident guys I know and he's really popular; he has absolutely no problem striking off a conversation with anyone. We went on a trip together and I think he likes me because I always catch him staring at me and his friend smirks at us whenever we stand ... (213 words)

Is he really busy with his schedule, or is it someone else?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm in LDR. It's been... well, alright. Things were amazing in the beginning, but then things sorta got distance. I mean yeah we still love one another, and care. But we don't talk much anymore. Maybe 3-5 texts a day. Simple boring ones too. I like to know what he's ... (349 words)

My husband keeps lying to me about watching porn! How can I get him to stop?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i have been married for almost 2 years now, but together for almost 6. We also have a duagter. We have always had great sex life, full of adventure. I was up to anything really. Within the past few months though, he has really dropped in interest. I thought ... (226 words)

How can I get over the feelings I have for my uncle?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was eight years old when I first met my Uncle. My heart pounded and I loved him immediatly. I heard rumors that he was only my father's half brother and hope glimmered that he was adopted etc. I felt dirty a lot of times but, he was so amazing, feelings grew anyway. I only ... (206 words)

I keep having dreams about my ex! Should I talk to him and try to get him back?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a couple months ago because my best friend told me he was useing me also another one of my cloesest friends hated him to death and even though she said she didn't wantme to have to choose between my friends and my boyfried i felt i had to and i ... (295 words)

Is my idea to have a holiday decorating contest silly?

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9 November 2010 (F) - I am in my mid twenties. I do not live in a small town but the area I live in does have some historical streets and even their own local paper so there is some community in a sense I really enjoy Christmas and I actually wrote to the paper about having a holiday decorati... (212 words)

Is it true it takes three months for a guy to lose interest in someone?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a curious question but how long does a guy usually give up on a girl? Like after they have been seeing each other(not relationship) (just talking or maybe a date). And he thinks the girl is not interested....someone told me three months is this true?... (47 words)

How to show interest in someone?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old girl who has never had a boyfirned. Not really even much of a relationship with any guy. All of my friends have had multiple boyfriends and also are not virgins. For the last two guys I've talked to I liked a lot. Things were very good with them, ... (198 words)

Christmas present for my boyfriend?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it's still kind of early but, I'm really looking forward to Christmas and I have money now and I know if I don't start buying now, then I'm going to go broke. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, and I want to get him something special or something really nice ... (149 words)

How can I get him out of my mind?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ive said something on here like twice but i have to say something again. im like in love with this boy and i cant have him. i keep wishing him and his gf broke up! i feel like an obsessed freak! how can i get him out of my mind... (50 words)

Is my boyfriend controlling or am I disrespectful?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Our conversations usually go something like this. Him: Why are you wearing that? Me: I think it looks nice. Don't you? Him: Yeah, I'm sure there's going to be lots of other guys who think it looks nice too. Me: Maybe.? Him: Not maybe, definitely. I don't know why y... (392 words)

I never stopped loving my ex, should I tell him?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex was in jail for a year. I never cheated on him, and never lied. I met someone during that time, and told him I couldn't deal with the jail thing anymore. We ended on bittersweet terms, and lost contact. I kept all his letters/drawings/poems. I never stopped loving h... (196 words)

Going to visit my holiday crush, what if I get there and realise I am not into him?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy while I was abroad and he was the guy that all the girls wanted - girls were literally crowded around him - everyone goes about how he looks so much like Jesse Metcalfe. Now Jesse Metcalfe isn't my "type" at all even though I recognise people may find him ... (484 words)

Vaginal infections are ruining my life, is anyone else going through the same thing?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going to ramble on bit here to fill you in on my history of infections, I'd be ever so greatful of some feedback if anyone has any.. I'm 22 years old, and it all started when I was 19. I got a urine infection and got antibiotics from the doctors. My urine infection ... (729 words)

It feels like our relationship is falling apart!

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend used to get along so perfect i couldn't have asked for more than that. i'm 18 years old and on August 12,2010 i was in a car accident and im having to stay with my mother for a few months and get everything straightened out because shes helping me out. its ... (225 words)

She's my first, but she's had sex with other men before me!

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I am having a difficult time with the fact that my girlfriend has had sexual encounters before. She is the first person I have had sex with and I know that she has had sex other men (not many, just one from a serious relationship and one not). Now, it make me feel "we... (125 words)

He said he liked me, but then started acting differently!

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay me and this highchool football player (Ryan) have been friends since school started. Suddenly we started texting and talking. He eventually confessed to liking me. I obviously like him too, but after a while his mood changed and he acts diffrent with me. I texted him ... (118 words)

How can someone you thought loved you hurt you so bad?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I will do my best to make this short and to the point but if I ramble on to much feel free to stop reading ..lol..but anywho I was with this guy for 2 years and I thought I met the "love of my life" I made this guy my everything. I did whatever I could to make him happy. ... (306 words)

I'm thinking of asking her to the prom before telling her how I feel about her.

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and there is this 14 year old girl I know and like... I know the whole thing about the no sex part, but I like. I'm actually thinking about asking her to my junior prom before I actually tell her how I feel about her. Is this a good idea? ... (59 words)

Is it possible to just be friends after a FWB relationship?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think it is possible for a guy to be capable of being just friends with a girl he's known for more than a year when all they do when they hang out is have sex, kind of like a friends with benefits? Wouldn't it be hard for the guy to be just friends with her or woul... (86 words)

Is this a sign her boyfriend could be abusive, or am I just overreacting?

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9 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend has recently started dating a new guy and he's already pressuring her to have sex. She is coming off of a hard breakup from a few months ago and shes moved on and trying to find a happy relationship again. She told me that it hadn't been two hours since they started ... (102 words)

How should I let him know I like him through text?

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9 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So I've been talking to this guy for about a month through text (because he lives 40 mins away from me) and I kinda like him. I can just tell we would work out, we like all the same music and have all the same views on everything. I wanna tell him that too and I've been a bit ... (107 words)

Seventeen and have wanted a child for years

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17years old, and ive had the weird feeling of wanting a child so bad. this feeling has been with me for about almost three years now. mt boyfriend told me that we cant have a child because we wouldnt be able to raise it, but i want one. i dont know how to get rid of this ... (95 words)

Do you think he really likes me?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this guy in my World Geography class. We sit right next to eachother, and we talk constantly. Our geography teacher is basically a pushover, so we can do almost anything we want in class. Lately, I think he's been flirting with me. Like complimenting me on my hair, and ... (106 words)

Just stay down.

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9 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I've cried more than I have ever cried in my whole life, I've cried so much, that I can't cry anymore. Inside I'm as dead as any corpse. I wanted to love her so much, that everything else lost relevance. She loves another, and I'm left holding the pieces of my heart. People ... (129 words)

Is my Fiancée lying when he tells me 'he doesn't need Porn because he's got me??

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think my Fiance is lieing to me when he tells me 'he dont need Porn because he's got me??... (21 words)

Shower gel or no shower gel?

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is their a Shower Gel or Cream that you can Clean your Vagina with so when he goes down on you..your more irresistible and Tasty??... (25 words)

I know this sounds stupid but I would like to spend the holidays with him, but I can't.

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months. Before we even started dating his sister decided that she didn't like me because I am 10 years younger than him. I have still never met her or any other member of his family. He lives in the apartment in his sister's ... (126 words)

I get myself into some pretty crazy situations.

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9 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically , I'm having sex with a cop. I thought it was going to be a one time thing when we met butt it wasn't, and now I'm head over heals for the guy.... I'm 1, 18 in a month and a half. he thinks I'm 19. I plan to tell him when I do turn 18 butt I'm not sure how to and ... (109 words)