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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm sick and bored of every day. I've never been in love and I'm turning 22.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm sick and bored of every day. I've never been in love and I'm turning 22. I'm sick of going to lectures, studying, and then coming home. Every day, nothing happens. I don't meet new people because I'm too big of a loser to go out socializing. I'm always awkward and out ... (426 words)

Is it strange that me and my fiance don't shower together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My Cousin stayed the weekend with me and my Fiance recently and we had got done making Dinner and he went to take a Shower and my Cousin says 'your not gonna take a shower with him' and i say No 'Why and she says have you ever showered together, i said No and so she can't ... (103 words)

Brother/sister sexual activivty???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was on this website earlier looking at the question do girls masturbate as much as boys/ was just curious but I stumbled on a story where a boy masturbated with his sister so I googled that and found a bunch of stories where brothers and sisters explore sex, or sex related ... (70 words)

Where's this relationship going?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Where's this relationship going? I met a guy from a post I made on a listing site. Basically I wanted to go out/hang with someone. He seems decent and respectable. I dont know him well, he could be a total creep honestly (glass half full). But he has presented himself well ... (493 words)

Jealous and obsessed with weddings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm turning into this obsessively jealous (of other's engagements and weddings) kind of person since I got married recently after dating for 8 years, 5 of which we cohabitated. Everything seemed situational.If it weren't for my expensive meds and medical condition, or the fact... (374 words)

Can anyone help with some sites for me to share with my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hii i kind of put myself in trouble :S basically, my bessie freinds all know that i am bi, they are fine with it and i told them that im going out with a girl called robyn (what a daft name) thing is im not going out with a girl because i only recently found i was bi ... (207 words)

Infatuation with my driving instructor!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello people, I'm in a predicament. I found a similar one on the website about someone being 'infatuated with their driving instructor' - well i'm in that situation too. I'm 18 and been having driving lessons since July I think. My instructor is kind and friendly and I didn't ... (305 words)

I swallowed his cum but it burned my throat. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, the other day my boyfriend and I were having sex and he came inside of me, (Didn't use a condom-I'm on the shot.) and it burned really bad after. Then, I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob and I swallowed and it burned my throat (its the first time I've ever swallowed it.) ... (89 words)

I can't cum with a condom on! Heeeelp!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I can't cum with a condom on! i'm and 18 year old male and can't cum even after one hour of shagging... What could be the reason of this, illness, masturbation, condoms..? Will ultra thin condoms help me cum faster? Hit me with all you got! ... (50 words)

What do I tell her when I ask her out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Simple question. Do I tell her exactly how I feel, or do I just ask her out? Or both? Thank you.... (21 words)

Is he giving me a hidden message/hint or is what he's saying legitimate?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Been seeing a married man for the past 10 mths. He has broken up with me three times (he rekindles us each time after a few weeks). He’s stuck on the theory that it’s unfair and selfish of him to expect me to wait around for him when he’s home with his family instead of having ... (382 words)

Online dating help...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is my first time trying out online dating and I'm kind of lost about what to do. I've talked to a few girls over the past couple months on one of those online dating websites but nothing really ever came out of it before. So now I've been talking to someone that I met ... (120 words)

Acne and Pubic Hair Problems! Solutions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i am 17 and i have red spots all over my face, neck and a few on the top of my back. I have used clearasil but that hasn't worked at all. i have used oxy which hasn't worked and i am currently using a supermarkets own which definately doesn't work. i have tri... (271 words)

I could really do with some advice on what her reactions mean, if anything, and what the best way to proceed is for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a college student who has come from the UK to America, and I just don't know what to do romantically. I am rather anhedonic, so I have difficulty just relaxing and having fun with women. I'm not good at all at social banter or small talk. There is one girl I really li... (299 words)

He's not picking up my calls or replying to any of my texts... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Me and my bf argued and had a fight 2 days ago because of him avoiding me often. Now he is not picking up my calls and not replying back to any of my texts. What should i do now. Please someone help me.... (48 words)

How to get closure from a sociopath ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been driven to the point of almost insanity because my ex could not be honest. I later found out he was extremely sociopathic, was a pathological liar, and that every time I had an instinct that he was not telling me the truth about something I was always right. He lied ... (1269 words)

I HATE my body... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate my body, it's horrible and one sight of myself can make me deppressed. I have a boyfriend and i'm scared to sleep with him because i don't want him to see my body. I weigh 10 stone and my stomach is much bigger where as my legs are thin. I have massive breasts and psor... (131 words)

I'm becoming a wreck... I don't know what's going on any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 10 months now, long distance, im planning on seeing him in decemeber, we use to talk on the phone for hours at a time, now it comes down to him on the computer on the site imvu talking to like girl after girl, i just feel like im not good ... (204 words)

I was wondering, does she like me or is she avoiding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this girl in school that I like. She is in one of my classes, which is the last period of the day. I think she knows that I like her. We were talking to each via Messages in the Inbox on Facebook one day and she changed her profile picture. I told her that she looked ... (322 words)

2 years together... how do I move on? I'm heartbroken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How Do i Move On from my Ex Girlfriend? -we dated for two years and in early september she left to college. we didnt break up but at the same time we didnt say it was over. its been two months since i seen her. and now she barely talks to me, she doesnt text, she doesnt pick ... (317 words)

I Can't let my escort/girlfriend go...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I don't know where or how to start. I am so emotionally messed up. I'm 40 years old and I met this girl who is an escort and fell in love with her. The first time I slept with her I knew nothing about her life of prostitution. She was a 27 year old lap dancer and she gave me ... (459 words)

My married lover wants me AND her husband! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i am sumit and I would like to ask a question. I am a 26 year old man, unmarried but I have a married girlfriend and I can't live without her, thing is she doesn't want to leave her husband OR also me. what do I do? Please tell me urgently...... (54 words)

Is his twin stopping him from pursuing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've heard many times over that if a man likes a woman, nothing will stop him. However, I am wondering if in the case of twins this might be different? Things have been rocky with this guy I speak of on and off, but he gives me the feeling that he cares about me but his... (99 words)

I just feel so fed up. I just want to deal with these feelings in the right manner.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 20 years old and I feel Frustrated. My parents are constantly after me to do 'better' in the university. They say they'll be there for me if I DONT manage to do well, but I know what I will face, if I don't do well. I haven't yet dated a guy, properly. I've h... (258 words)

What to do about my so called friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up, now one of my best friends is dating him, at first i said no big deal but now i really care sumthing can up between the two of them and he told me he was using her to get over me. I geuss he still loves me and cares about me so what do i do about my so ... (69 words)

So should I tell her and end the friendship. Or just suck it up and see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. So I met this guy online about 3.5 years ago. Both of our profiles said looking for a serious relationship. We corresponded via email for a couple of months and then dated for about 4 months. I am a single mom and at the time I worked 2 jobs. One of which was very ... (1080 words)

Mature enough to have sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - am 15 and ready to have sex but everyone thinks am too young, i look at porn but it doesnt resolve my cravings, im very mature, i do everything on my on, i really really want have sex because im ready! ive always be over sexual and am on birth control, i even have thoughts of ... (91 words)

Why do guys seem to lose interest for no apparent reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm wondering why guys just sometimes seem to lose interest for no apparent reason? I have been out on four dates with a guy I rally liked and everything seemed perfect. He was making lots of effort by taking me out to dinner and cooking for me. We went for a romantic walk on ... (127 words)

Long distance relationship at 14???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, theres this guy and we are really close friends but I know that we both want to take it abit further. Thr problem is, he lives over 3 hours away by car, and we only get to see each other at weekends in the summer as we met each other at a club where we both windsurf. ... (296 words)

Do guys like aloof girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i need some major guy advice (but girls feel free to give ur thoughts) I have noticed a major pattern if im friends with a guy and i dont pay him much attention then he likes me and if i like a guy then he doesnt like me so does that mean guys like aloof girls... jw NEED ... (61 words)

In love with BOTH my exes... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like a total emotional wreck. I have two exes, one that I love and the other I really like. I know in the end if I still feel this way about both I'll eventually have to choose. It may sound selfish but I don't want to, I'm young, single and beautiful and I think I ... (526 words)

How do I help war affected victims?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (?) age - hi there, i want to help out the victims who have been affected by war, i've been reading the genocide which occurred against the Tamil people in Sri lanka, the conditions of tamil people are worst at the moment, i want to help them. How do i do that? ... (49 words)

He's in love with my best friend, but still wants to date me..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and this guy who wants to date me is 17. I admit I do like him a little. But he also admits he loves my bestfriend, and she loves him back. But, she is with a guy, who the love eachother. I don't wanna date him, cause he's in love with my bestfriend, and I don't need ... (266 words)

Should I wait, hopeful... or just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Currently I am in a great dilemma. I met this girl in a social networking site. I am an artist and she is too. She lives in Europe and me in Canada. At first I saw her work in net and I was really really moved to see her paintings. I felt a strange connection. Then I ... (980 words)

Do guys accept small breasted girls?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a very petite girl with small breasts size cup A. My boyfriend told me he love me for who I am and always kiss and fondle with my small breasts but I feel so sad for him as I think that he loves bigger breasts. I start to feel ashame of myself as I don't know if it is... (76 words)

Nightclub questions for the ladies.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I've just signed up here so this is my very first post. Probably wont be my last though! :o). I'm curious for the female perspective on this, but i'd welcome feedback from anyone. I'm 32 and been been single for 2 years now, so I do what most singles do and ge... (307 words)

Should my g/f wearing a ex's jacket bother me this much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Should my g/f wearing a ex's jacket bother me this much? I asked my g/f to drop something off at my place while she was running around and she hops out and is wearing a old b/f's biker jacket when I asked her why she says cause she only has 3 other jackets and that she wont wea... (78 words)

Healthy breakfast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (?) age - what are some of the healthy breakfasts? i want to improve my health and activities so i have decided to rely on healthy food. i would like to know what are some of healthier breakfasts, lunch and dinners. ... (38 words)

Why do I feel so guilty about watching porn by myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I both watch porn but I prefer to watch it seperately as i feel uncomfortable watching it with my partner and i like to be soley with him when we are together. i know he would like to watch it together but he doesnt press me to watch it with him and seems quite ... (127 words)

Why can women leave me and move on so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Were do I start? My ex of 6 years finally got tired of me and left me. She has another man in her life now, I see them together on facebook. We have a little girl together only 2 years old, she already has the new guy around my little girl. Our relationship was full of ... (531 words)

Chemistry and clicking...does it go both ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! I am single and have been dating a lot this past year. Last week I had an amazing first date with this guy. Going into the night, I knew we had a bunch of interests in common, but I tend not to have high expectations with blind dates. For once, I was comp... (155 words)

He wasn't the one for me, yet I was so into him - why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's a description of this guy I dated 2 month and who just ended it with me: - he's 33, smart, well-travelled, athletic and very attractive - he's had many gfs but has never lived with one - his ideal Friday and Saturday nights are going to bars and getting drunk with f... (176 words)

Am I supposed to use back up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi so im on loesrtin 24 and i just started my fourth pack as normal. am i protected during the first 7 days of the new pack...? i took every pill of the previous month on time and got a normal period. i'm unsure if im supposed to use back up during the brown pills and during ... (65 words)

Will she change her mind and want me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey everyone , do you really think my gf will change her mind? we were in a long distance relationship . and she jst broke up with me , lately it was really bad , we actually broke up sp many times lately but got bk together but this time it seems to be serious though!!... (246 words)

What's the perfect gift for a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you think is the 'perfect gift' for a guy from his girlfriend ?... (15 words)

I moved int with my boyfriend without my mom knowing and shes not happy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been in a long distance relationship for 5 years,we seen each other last year.On oct 11,2010,i moved out of my moms house,without letting her know where i was going.I went to my bf house and stayed for 3 weeks,and my mom called the police and they found ... (135 words)

Do you think we should have sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - First, please don't answer "Save yourself for marriage," because that's clearly not going to happen in our modern day and age. Secondly, please don't tell me that I'm an idiot who is going to get pregnant. Now. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 11 month... (151 words)

The Center of Her World

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Here is my question, plain and simple. How should a guy approach his girlfriend when she thinks that he is the center of their world? When I began dating my girlfriend, the center of her life was diverse and balanced. She took time to be with friends, to hang out with fa... (152 words)

I don't want to face the embarrassment of change

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm really confused with how i feel, i used to really like this guy but he wasn't interested and now times have changed he really is, and i do like him it's just that i don't want to face all the embarrassment of change. i have never had a boyfriend before so i don't really ... (99 words)

My ex attacked me in front of our baby. Do I go to the police?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

- My ex, who I have a 6 month old son with, attacked me the other nite, not majorly just pulled my hair and threw me out of a door, in front of my son. Now my mum has gone mad saying I need to report him to the police. He has never been violent to me before. He didnt hurt me but ... (176 words)

Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant. I was on the depo shot for six months and once i was off i had heavy bleeding for a month none stop. Finally i my period regularize and my period stopped 5 days later. I had unprotected sex ... (174 words)

Too shy to talk to him... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I like this guy... He's in band. I have no idea where to even start with him. Normally I go for the jocks and stuff and I know how to get pretty much any guy from that click. Now I'm not one of those girls that care about that stuff but this guy is just so different!! ... (166 words)

My dad blames me for everything, I've had enough!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

- Im sick and tired of my dad blaming me for everything. Im one of 3 daughters (the middle child) and every time me and one of my sisters have an argument no matter who started it I get the blame and 'banned' from his house. Last month, my older sister and me were arguing. She ... (143 words)

Do I keep trying with my marriage... or do I give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and a month ago I was gonna get a divorce but we talked let our feelings out he promised to change and so did I. We were doing good but yesterday we had an argument but instead of being a simple argument he exploded telling me I've haven't changed and throwing ... (211 words)

We have nothing to say to each other anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for 11 months. we used to talk for hours about everything, laughing and smiling, but now we just have nothing to say. we don't make each other laugh or smile as much, and we've talked about it, but we don't want to break up because we ... (167 words)

Her boobs are amazing!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am an arab man (but also a christian). the rules and traditions in my country told men to treat women except their wives as sisters (with no sexual feelings) and told women not to wear sexy clothes. of course man and woman can do whatever they want but when they have sex... (1188 words)

How do I move on when I have to see him daily at work? It hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating him for four months, problem is his ex is always around, they do things together that sometimes i feel left out. He told me not to worry abt it coz she s just a friend, i get so jealous, so angry and i cry so hard..its like im not good enough for him at the ... (122 words)

How do I approach my boyfriend about these butt comments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were watching tv, and there was a shot of a girl with a big butt bending over. And he makes the comment "she ain't got any kind of panties on". Now in the past I have gotten upset at him oogling over YouTube videos of girls shaking their asses, and other ... (84 words)

Did anyone know immediately "Thats the girl I'm going to marry!"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Helloooo... Just a bit curious is all :) Haven't got a girlfriend, haven't for some time, still I'm quite happy where I stand. Yet a few joke that I'm more likely to marry then anyone else due to my understanding of girls... Lol. Did anyone know instantly in the... (81 words)

Over protective mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start off by saying I love my mother but she can be a bit overbearing and over protective. I am 21 years old and she treats me like i am 17 or 18 years old again. It seems like as I got older the worse she's gotten. I don't want to end up being that person who is 30 and ... (194 words)

Friendship... or more???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

- Hi, Is it possible for a man to show a genuine interest in a woman's hobbies/interests (by asking her about them frequently) and talk about his family with her but not be 'attracted' to her. Can men that do these things still just be friends with a woman? I'm asking beca... (271 words)

How do I get my husband back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get my husband back? My husband and I have been married for almost 13 years. The marriage has had some pretty rough moments and I screwed up big time on 2 occassions by putting my friends first. I thought I wanted out, but I DON'T! He moved out two weeks ago, ... (174 words)

Student falls for the teacher.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Guys please help me. I'm a 14 year old student and i fell in love with my 28 year old teacher. I don't have to elaborate the love I feel for him right? I'm still in love with him. Every time I see him, i get tongue-tied. I know I can only fantasize our relationship. Can yo... (96 words)

Confused between 2 guys and wondering what people will think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am confuse and in love with 2 guys.... how do i choose? I am 21 and have been with my bf who is 25 for 18months and i think i have feelings for a 31 year old and i dont know who to choose? I started dating the 31 year old for 6 months then left him for my bf who i am not s... (100 words)

I'm confused over the crush on my friends sister..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi,i'm 30 years of age and really feel confused about a friends sister whose been flirting on and off with me.On a couple of occassions she's kissed me (not the opposite way around). Even at parties other people ask if we're together because we seem to get along so well.But ... (183 words)

Yikes!!! Boy trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just met this guy at a friends party and we got chatting, we hit off straight away and I knew as soon as I saw him he looked like my next boyfriend! So we were gonna swap numbers but never got round to it. My friend gave me his number and he seemed ok with it, so now ... (180 words)

Girlfriend likes to abuse me and then says "Grow up and take it like a man"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

7 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - my gf says she likes to put me through pain and likes to give me hard times. my gf likes to punch me hard aswell as nipple twist and pinching. she also likes to strike at my emotions and i'm a very sensitive and she knows it but all she tells me to do is grow up and be a man. ... (64 words)

How do I be confident around girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I've been waiting for soo long, everyone tells me to wait, the right girl will come. That was almost three or four years ago. I'm sick and tired of this. Some advice on how to be confident around girls would be appreciated. THanks!... (53 words)

Does that just happen in porno movies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think it is really Possible to Cum while a guy is Fucking you from the back?? Because it always feels like its gonna cum squirting out but its either he dont do it long enough or that just happens in Porno movies.... (44 words)

Is she still my friend or what?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I made a whole new set of friends who I met through a couple of my college friends..amongst them was one girl,lets call her "Miss.X", with who I clicked really really well..we were chummy with each other right from the day we met first.I really liked her and used to ... (643 words)

Does he only think of himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I have a male "friend" although i think he's a bit of a jerk. Recently someone sent him a message saying something like: HI *GUYS NAME* HOW ARE YOU? HOW IS *GIRLFRIENDS NAME* he replied "heya, yeah i'm good thanks" never mentioned his girlfriend. If you read that would you t... (61 words)

Should I break up with him because I'm not supposed to have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - last time i had a boyfriend my mum was really disappointed and was upset because it was going against our culture, i have another boyfriend i think his the one, i love him to bits and i dont want to break up with him but i also dont want to upset my mum, should i break up... (67 words)

I'm afraid I'll end up in love with him and he'll start going out with his ex again

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I recently started liking a guy from work. He became my friend and we talked and hang out together outside from work. He just got out of a bad relationship turns out his girlfriend cheated on him with his best friend and they all work at the same place. ... (192 words)

I love him...He loves her

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I love him! But he loves her... How do I let him know my feelings without being rejected? I am a sophomore in high school and there is this senior boy I have fallen head over heels for! I met senior boy last year during cross country last year. It wasn't a love at first ... (514 words)

Please help me. My life has become a battle of obsession and survival

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello all i am sorry its bit long but pleaseeee read this for god heaven's sake..i am going through a lot of heartache at present. my LDR ex girlfriend(18) left me a year ago and i am still pining over the loss.sometimes i think she was young to understand what she is doin... (916 words)

Why isn't she talking to me?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm joining the army to be a medic But it not that easy well it's never easy I'm not talking about training and studying it's a friend My friend she's beautiful she a good person and a good friend, but she isn't talking to me it's been a month, I told her I'm joining the ... (128 words)

Is she using me? What should I do?

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7 November 2010 (?) age - My girl friend and i have been dating for a while now,. i want to know if my girl friend is using me, she's not very supportive when it comes to money. she wouldn't spend a penny of her. She knows i don't have a job, and i'm focusing on school more these days but she still ... (265 words)

How can I save money!

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7 November 2010 (?) age - Hi i'm a college student, currently not working. i'm a bad spender when it comes to money, it's like having water in pocket. i need help with saving money, can someone pls give me some ideas on how to save money... (41 words)

I really don't want to hurt this man but I don't think I can be with him my whole life

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so conflicted right now. Sorry if this gets long - I am 27 in a relationship with someone who is 48. We met because we have a mutual sexual fetish that while completely normal and not one of those weird ones, is a little uncommon. I have always been very mature for... (671 words)

Ex sent me an email, what am I supposed to make of it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy ! My relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years ended about a month ago. It really meant alot to me. But we thought that was the best for us. We haven't spoken to each toher since then but today he sent me this mail. I don't know what to reply or what to say to him. I don't ... (187 words)

BJ with or without a tongue piercing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

7 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How does a blow job feel with a tongue stud compared to one without? I've never had one with, but I am very turned on by a pierced tongue. I'll never get to experience a BJ with one, but was just wondering. ... (45 words)

In love with bandmate who is dating my other bandmate now

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm in this band for about a month now and I've grown very fond of my bandmates, especially our female lead guitarist. Just yesterday I found out that my friend who is the rhythm guitarist asked her out and now they are dating. It pisses me off because he's one of my best ... (128 words)

I don't know how to get a boyfriend!

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hello i am a 15 year old sophmore. the last time i had a boyfriend was in 7th grade. i feel so left out all my friends have had their first kiss had a ton a boyfriends while im just alone and dont have anyone special. and i am starting to lose hope that i will be like the movie ... (236 words)

Is she just staying with me for stability?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, me and my fiance or whatever you would call it, have been together about 3 years. In the last year, shit has turned fucked up excuse my language. The first 2 years was perfect, i just got layed off of my carpentry job when the economy took a shit and it looked like i ... (777 words)

Do I have a high tolerance for pain and just don't like sweet romantic stuff?

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not quite sure how to put this, so I'm gonna do my best. From the beginning. When I was younger, I used to have a lot of fun with my friends. We'd play and talk and have all sorts of adventures together. One such game we used to play involved tying each other up, in what ... (276 words)

How can I drop this college course without serious problems?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a college related issue and ive had good experience with aunts giving good responses, so ill ask here. I took an Art History 100 course this semester. Everything was going great up until the first of two exams in this class. All of the 10 question tests, leading up to ... (847 words)

Is my wife a lesbian?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age - my wife of 30th years did have a lesbian,love relationship, with woman, five years ago, when i found out, i was devastated, the woman,live across the st.before,me and my wife did have a great sex life, after, the lesbian affiar she hates, oral sex, i bolive that she is a ... (69 words)

I've lost my girlfriend's trust because of lies

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7 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i've lost my gf's trust because of lies i have said but some of the things i said to her were the truth and she believed to lie because of an coincidental thing said what happened between me and her and somehow her ex said that something with some details and one of my gf's ... (283 words)

My 10 year old doesn't want to meet her long lost father!

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my daughter when I was 15 years old. I'm now 25 and she is a beautiful ten year old who is now in the sixth grade (she skipped a grade because she's a smart cookie!). Her father, unfortunately, decided not to be part of her life (or mine, for that matter) and move... (349 words)

I want to hurt women the way my ex hurt me!

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm not proud of what I'm about to say because I know it is wrong and can never be justified so that's why I'm wanting your reinforcemt.I was played like a fiddle by my girlfriend and when all my strings popped she tossed me in the ally with the water rats so now all that ... (113 words)

Should I stay with my muslim boyfriend?

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this muslim boy for almost a year now, and everything's going amazingly. I'm not one to say I've fallen in love with just anybody, I take that very seriously, so I wouldn't necessarily say that I'm madly in love, but I definitely think this could be the ... (289 words)

Husband has me under lock and key I'm not happy but worry about our son

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband and i dated for about 2 years , found out we were pregnant, got married when i was 5 months pregnant had a beautiful boy,about 10 months after we had our boy we separated for about 7 or 8 months and durring that time i started to see someone else it was one of our ... (400 words)

Betrayed!

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had dated for a little over a year, and we were originally matched together by a mutual friend from high school. This mutual friend was an former ex of my boyfriend's. Now I knew at the beginning that my boyfriend and his former ex had remained "really close" ... (625 words)

Broken hearted, he's become a player, how can I get him to fall in love with me?

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is the thing: i like this guy a lot. he has a broken heart and he's become a player, even his friends are worried about him because he's not like that. i have a broken heart too, but i solved it from a different approach: faith, so i'm good now. so when we talk we hit it ... (273 words)

I don't know what I am!

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I am 1OO% virgin. Just fyi... Now, my issue is that I'm not sure if I am 1OO% heterosexual. It's not even an issue really because I'd be totally fine with me someday hooking up with a girl. I don't see myself marrying one. I can see myself kissing one and touching one but ... (384 words)

Friend has boyfriend but was kissing me in secret and then started acting all weird to me

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl and over the last year or so I've realised that I'm bisexual. I'm really happy with my sexuality, although it's diffuclt to deal with sometimes, but it's pretty obvious to all my friends and we can joke about it. But I was really scared about coming ... (754 words)

I'm a tomboy but realized how much appearance can influence someone's impression of you!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, first of all I would like to thank each and everyone of you in advance for your help. Second, I apologize for my grammar as english is not my native language. Well, here it goes. I've always been the "tomboy" I wouldn't take it to the extreme but I've never cared fo... (377 words)

I told my crush I like her and she freaked out and blocked me!

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old guy (22 soon) and I was friends with this girl who was 16. You can read all about how we met here from another relationship forum: "All righty, I am 21 year old guy who is friends with a 16 year old girl. I met her at the Harry Potter 6 premiere in NYC ... (1052 words)

How do you fix a problem when your partner doesn't think anything is wrong?

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't even know where to start. I feel kind of odd that I am filling this out since this isn't something I normally would do but I just don't know what else to do. My husband and I have been married three years and been together almost 6. For a while now I have felt that t... (308 words)

Has anyone ever been in an out of balance relationship?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Basically, I'm sick of feeling like crap about myself. I have been with my girlfriend for approximately six months. We have been taking things very slow. We haven't slept together, our affection is limited to quick hugs and pretty much closed lipped pecks for kisses at the ... (571 words)

Could my sister in law like me?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age - myh sil looks at me now and then, and gives me the impression she likes me. when i dont go to her house to visit, she asks my wife, her sister, why i didnt go.she acts diffrently with me when no one is around than when familyh is around. could she like me in any way? just ... (58 words)

He doesn't want to have sex!

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What should i do to have sex with my boyfrined but he doesn't want to?... (15 words)

Can you get free text messages from spy wear?

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7 November 2010 (F) age 36-40 - i know alot of people dont agree to this, because relationships should have trust, but im hoping to get answers anyway.. my boyfriend cheated on me once not too long ago. i have a very hard time trusting him now because he didnt come clean on his own, i had to find out from his ... (143 words)

I'm attracted to her but she has a boyfriend, do I keep my feelings quiet?

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always felt attracted towards women, but have not actually come out to say I am a lesbien. I am still confused by it all but there is one person in my life that I can not help my feelings towards. My sister in law has three sisters and I feel extremly attracted to one of ... (183 words)

How can a girl's breasts grow bigger without pills?

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7 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - my gf has big boobs ( which i like alot!!!) and she says she wants them to get them to a bigger size and i'm for it but how can they grow naturally without taking said pills or exercise devices that claim to increase breast size ... (46 words)

How do I make him feel special?

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I can't describe how I feel for him . he makes me happy , I get weak-kneed whenever he's around , and I just want to stay with him forever . I want to give him a blowjob or handjob , butt I know he hasn't gone through puberty yet and I'm just so confused . please help ! my ... (91 words)

How do I stop this urge for a boyfriend?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - This question has most probably been asked a million times and ive looked through them but they dont have the answersi need so i'm asking you this, What should i do to stop this urge for a boyfriend? Okay i.m gay and have known this for a long time and its been bringing me... (326 words)

I think his feelings for me are gone

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months and within that time we've had a lot of ups and downs. Our most recent issue is that i'm pregnant and idk if it is because of hormones or what but o feel that his feelings are gone. He still tells me he loves me and writes me ... (103 words)

I cannot have a woman - how I can get rid of my feelings for women?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 36 old guy who never had a girlfriend,has never been friend of a woman and of course never had sex. I understood long time ago that it's impossible for me to have a woman(unless I don't look for the ugliest) and that no woman will never like me,let alone fall in love wit... (136 words)

My pms is ruining my relationship

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My pms is ruining my relationship. Men, what can we women do to make it easier on you? We do not realize we are mean, and rude and irrational until after the fact. Help me because I am ruining my relationship and I do not think he can take much more. Thank you for your help!... (59 words)

My g/f's mom won't let us be together

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7 November 2010 (?) age 30-35 - my gf mom's will never let me be with her daughter. my gf says its impossible to talk to her as an adult (my gf is 18) to get her mom to change her mind. what can i do i tried talking to her but her mom always tries to block me from the conversation i am willing to have with ... (124 words)

Three guys and I don't know which one to date!

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,i started dating this guy, then he lied about his age, and now has decided to live with his childhood sweetheart and his 1 year old kid which he didnt know about this was about 9 months ago, Now There are three guys that like me and want to date me Guy One: sweet and f... (238 words)

I'm ready for my kiss!

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been dating since the 5th of november . I'm ready to kiss him , butt I'm not sure how to . I've never had my first kiss and he's shorter than me , which just adds to the butterflies . I really think I love him . can someone help guide me ? please ?... (60 words)

Penis is too short for sex!

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies, would you seriously consider having an ongoing sexual relationship with a guy whose erect penis isn't long enough to reach the end of your vagina? By 'end', I mean the point at which anything longer would cause a longitudinal stretch. Is something around 4.5" pret... (94 words)

Am I truly in love with her or just feeling rejected?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - How do I know if I am in love with my gf of two years and it didnt hit me until we broke up? We have been dating off and on for two years and when she broke up with me the first time it didnt seem to bother me and i wanted to date others thinking that life was gonna greener on ... (137 words)

I like seeing my friends cleavage!

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I like to see women cleavages so much a friend of mine knew that from other guys then started(as I noticed) to show me he cleavage in different ways ... sometime she bend over in front of me especially when we are alone and in other times she wears lowcut shirts and sits or ... (177 words)

Unfair and stubborn boyfriend

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I love eachother a whole lot, we tell each other that all of the time. But whenever I ask him for something so simple, he won't do it! No matter what! It'll be something like so small just a question like for example I asked him if he talked about me and he ... (120 words)

2 years never use condom, could I make a girl pregnant?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im having almost daily sex for around 2 years already and i never used condoms,but i never get any trouble because i hav never let the sperms go inside(except of few days after her period). is there any possibility if i make her pregnant even widout cum inside ?... (49 words)

My wife thinks I won't protect her and her child

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Myself and wife and her 13 year old daughter from a previous marriage were watching a high school football game last night sounds good right? Well my step daughter who was getting bored with the game and wanted to walk around so my wife said ok to her but she must be able to ... (242 words)

How do you stop thinking about your first girlfriend?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you stop thinking about your first girlfriend? its been almost 6 years now and i still cant stop thinking about her.... (23 words)

His weed habit is a serious issue for us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if anyone reads this stuff. But at least its somewhere to vent. Am I the only person in the world that wants to feel life sober? I know its hard, but its great too, why try to escape it? Together with my kids and his we have 4 and we just had a baby. We've only ... (733 words)

Can I trust her?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly three years and we have a four month child together. She recently told me that she replaced her contraception with sugar pills in order to get herself pregnant without my consent. She used to go to bed early so she could tex... (186 words)

I worry that she will become what I did and get herself into awful situations. How can I help her out?

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi- I'm female from the UK- and I'm in a dilemma. When I was 15,I went through a horrendous phase which involved me doing many things I regret. There is no need to go into detail with what happened, but I went 'off the rails' and got into some very seriously dangerous situ... (593 words)

How can I address the problems in my relationship in the right way, rather than always trying to break off?

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of three years (on and off) told me he can't trust me with his heart. He says my feelings are too "wishy/washy." My feelings always remain the same...I love him, however, I do not know how to handle problems so instead of dealing with it I end the relationship. ... (81 words)

If my quiet social life bothers him so much, why does he still want to be friends with me?

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met him on a dating site and dated him for 2 months. The first month things were going really well and we were spending almost too much time together. The second month is when things started to go downhill especially after telling me he wanted to continue meeting/dating other ... (234 words)

Is she trying to seuce me or is the boob flashing accidental?

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7 November 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - do you think that girls (especially who has big boobs) always know that when they are bending they show their cleavages and what do they expect man feeling about that I have a friend (not a gf) always bends over in front of me and shows her big cleavage is she trying to se... (65 words)

My boyfriend is verbally controlling and abusive. Should I stay or leave?

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7 November 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is 19....4 years older than me. hes such a gentleman bt hes verbally controlling and abusive. weve been engaged for 4 months now and were planning a family. i dnt know if i should stay or go... (39 words)